₦airaland Forum

Once the pupils are fixed and dilated, it's Goodbye.
All my life as a medical doctor, I have never seen anyone come back to life after being certified clinically dead by a medical doctor.

Children of hatred who were already asking for the head of the doctor(s) who certified him dead, where are you?

I just knew the guy was dead and all the story about his "resurrection " in the mortuary and being taken back to the hospital was just social media paparazzi.

R2bees2:
Haha you really know him, I don't know about the weed part but he did graduated from Uniport. Used to be my neighbour during my stay in Abuja.

I know him very well.
His sister is my good friend.
We lived in the same hostel in UNIPORT and were room mates at some point

Hhh4444:
what if oga like am raw?

Let him raw it outside, not with me.
Days of having unprotected sex are over.
I can never risk it again

As I no carry HIV during my child bearing years, i no fit no catch am again.
No condoms, no show.

But women dey try oh.
How does a man who is not even your husband have access to your money?

Mtcheeeeeeew! Why did CR7 marry this lady?
Disappointment for alpha males.
Brotherhood is not proud of this.
Their example of a wealthy man who prefers to have baby mama and not a wife has reduced by one.
Men don't benefit anything from getting married.
How sad! 😢😂🤣

Robertgreene1:
See him face like Agbero Upper lweka

He dey smoke weed.. from that year in UNIPORT

Gotocourt:
My 35 year babe is saying church or nothing

That's her belief.
And it has nothing to do with age.
I don't believe in anything church and I haven't attended any church for more than 15 years.
I don't have any business with any church,even here in the UK.
My parents, especially my mother,were not happy with our decision not to have a church wedding because they are church people.

My colleague got married in Nigeria 3 weeks ago at 42.
She had traditional and church wedding,both events 1 week apart.

Gotocourt:
That's thoughtful of you . At what age?

Why does it matter?
But I was 28+.

This guy that was always insulting black women on social media.

Same way his fellow country men are screaming #TeamForeignnWomen.

He didn't die well.

Imagine even dating a IndecentStar.. meanwhile, if they manage to see a black woman who likes them enough to open legs for them , they will be s l. Ut shaming and calling her olo sho.


Serves him very right

Threedoorsdown:
A promising young man gone like that. He probably knew she was an only fan model but felt she'd be different to him. Men need to wise up

Leave wh0res for criminals. That's who fits them

As a responsible man, go after an equally responsible lady. Same goes for women

Former Arsenal star,Nicholas Pepe dumped his wife and mother of his children for a IndecentStar.
Black man and pu.. sssy.

Evaress:
I know what it feels like to be depressed but ending it all is not the solution. You only transfer the pain to your loved ones who will keep mourning you

Not everyone has loved ones.
If not for my children, I probably would have ended it .
I'm just hanging on for them

SeeWahala:
AHEM - AHEM! hmmm . . .

But why lie to me like this?

I don't wear wigs.

I used to braid my hair or carry Jerry curled low cuts when I was in Nigeria.
Now in the UK, I am on low cut all the time.
I'm not a fan of wig and I can't understand why women spend so much on the.
Capital Waste!

Confess to your husband and the marriage is over.
Confess to your wife and start eating slow poison over years that will quietly kill you.

Offpoint1:
Why should I tell her that? You've confess to God already... Use the brain he gave you.


Never confess your sins to a human unless you were caught in the act... Don't try it as a man, women lack the ability to forgive... They're master of pretense, you'll be reminded about such issues till eternity.
It's hard for men to forgive, but once they do you'll never ever hear such issue mentioned ever again.

The truth is : Men and women do not forgive cheating.
While men are clear about it, women pretend because of societal expectations. Deep inside, they harbor bitterness and resentment forever. Reason some of them low key can kill their husbands .

Dogalmighty17:
Shift comot from here with your bad character.

Lol.
Why are you triggered?
Did you guys not say Natasha was his peace of mind?🤣😂

I'm surprised at the comments and reactions here.
I thought men said Natasha was Tubaba's peace of mind while Annie was his poison.

They were all supporting and cheering the couple then while throwing jabs and insults at Annie. N
Kasala don burst, they have changed mouth
Natasha has suddenly become everything bad.
Ohhhhhhh!

Cum4me:
Never I'm an Urhobo man and I must marry an Urhobo woman do the normal tradition my Accentors has been doing. I have no business with a white man traditional or any court business.

Lol. The way some of you talk about this "Urhobo man" thing, one would think all Urhobo men are difficult, unexposed, arrogant cavemen.

Meanwhile, my husband is Urhobo and I'm Ibibio, and he is the complete opposite of the negative stereotype social media keeps pushing which sometimes is propagated by Urhobo men themselves.

We dated for EIGHT MONTHS before having our court and traditional weddings. We didn't have a church wedding because neither of us attends church or belongs to any religious denomination and that has worked perfectly for us.
It's been 10 years with 3 children.

cutecommend:
If the lady you want to marry insists that court wedding must be done, will you accept?

God willing and helping, if you meet a good lady (fiancee) that wants court wedding a must, you should do it if God wills.

I did court wedding first.. then traditional wedding 2 weeks later.
I detest church(white) wedding and vowed never to do it.
Good enough, my husband shared same opinion.

There is nothing wrong with court wedding.
It's recognized worldwide.

Samantha125:
That's what most dark skinned Africans would normally say about light skinned women whenever they excel professionally... Always weaponizing their complexion against them, if they're not being accused of sleeping their way to the top, they're labelled township bicycles just to dehumanize and devalue them while expecting them to take all the insults with grace... And these are the same people that'd be crying of racism from other racial groups.

Colorism is honestly an underlying issue in Africa that keeps getting swept under the rug since it doesn't affect the majority.

Not just a colour problem.
In Nigeria, once a woman becomes successful financially and career-wise, men conclude she slept her way to the top, no matter her complexion.
They call it "CLITOcurrency".

edogu:
I guess the Zenith bank manager is empty, right? What kind of fallacy is this? Please change your circles.

The same woman your gender claimed slept her way to the top

Amarabae:
Growing up,I used to think that marital pressure is a feminine thing, like it is something you as a girl growing up in a conservative African home must brace yourself up to face and conquer.
As maturity and exposure beckoned , I discovered that it is not gender based, even young men especially in their 30s also face this "pressure to marry" though subtly to a large extent.
Getting off the phone recently with an old time friend, he told me how the economic situation in Nigeria has been preventing him from settling down admist pressure from family and friends about him getting married; mind you, he is 37!!
What shocked me is that a neighbor of his is even suspecting him to be gay !!!
You should know some amebo Nigerians especially in some busy neighborhood, the lgbt conscientiousness has thrived so high that any young man who is not a womanizer or yet married at some point gets suspected to be one of the rainbow people.
I have to take my time to counsel him because from the voice, I detected a young man slipping into the degenerative arms of depression!!

To all the 30+ bachelors here!
Listen to me.

We live life once!
Don't allow societal pressure to push you into taking a decision you are not prepared for.
Marriage is not a child's play, it involves both emotional, social and financial stability
It is a 50-50 journey with unpredictable outcome
Just focus on building yourself, chasing your dreams and making your a bit financially stable.
I am emphasizing on financial stability because it is extremely important for a marriage to be smooth!
You don't have to be a millionaire to start, NO
But get to a point where you can sustain two people (new wife and potentially a baby) for 30 days
What about the wife? Will she not contribute ? Someone may be tempted to ask!
My dear, yes , a supportive lady ought to support but big brother, You should not take the risk of entering into marriage with a meagre source of income and be hoping on the lady you want to marry to support.
Many went this path and it produced mixed results
Grow your finances
Develop yourself
Take your time, don't make the move out of pressure , It is your life to live and your decision to make.
I have gotten to the point in life even as a lady that I will not live my life according to other people's wishes
If you are not ready, don't enter!
Enter when you are ready .
Love you all plenty
Oriaku cares

Keep playing.
The men have agreed they don't need marriage.
With baby mama and OS, they are okay.
They say they have nothing to benefit from getting married.
And you are here advising them.
Hanty pick me, I see you

Men dey settle down?
Lol
We have all agreed marriage is not men.
With baby mama and OS, men are okay.

She is not serious to end it
She would have gone at night when nobody will see her.
Clout chaser!

streetsoldier1:
if you love your husband you go wet.... obe if my exes confessed that to me that all her previous relationships that she doesnt get wet but mere seeing me gets her wet, she didnt believe she could squirt untill i made it happen..... that experience dey always make her keep in touch but i dont do such shit anymore as i'm not married

Well, I survived on masturbation before I got married. So it's not a problem to me.
I wasn't sleeping around in the name of relationship and packing exes.
I love my husband, no doubt but I get more satisfaction from self servicing.

Sonnobax15:

Both the man and the sister are scallywags . Exported scallywags for that Matter . As a man, imagine escaping all the adversities in Nigeria, only for you to go overseas and let konji process your return visa back to Nigeria within a twinkle of an eye

A man's inability to control his sexxxxual urge will definitely be his greatest undoing in life. Not that I'm in support of cheating cuz I dislike it.

But then again, why'd a sensible man,a Nigeria man stoop so low to the extent of sleeping with his sister in-law to the extent of planting his seed inside her?

They do it all the time.
He wanted to "pepper" his wife but he did it in the wrong location.
If he had done it in Nigeria, his wife would have been begging him while fighting her sister .

Almost 10 years in marriage.
I struggle to get wet for my husband but I drip, become a fountain when I masturbate.

It's just me!

Mrkc:
How long did you date your spouse before getting married

8 months