₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
They want to be fucking around, then start crying when they discover another man is fcking their wives. The one they are sleeping with, no be person babe/wife?

They will cry and divorce more in the coming years. 😂😂😂

New generation women are dealing with
them already.
Them go train another man pikin tire, cry, lament... Divorce, remarry.. rinse and repeat.
They are busy bragging how they are polygamous in nature, sleeping around with numerous women... As if no be another man woman dem dey fvck.
Their healing go long

Gotocourt:
That one dey sha

Women are billing you(outrageously) because you are knacking them(outrageously)

Gotocourt:
A lady comes to visit you, and somehow it is already expected that you’ll give her transport fare, extra money, food, and more before she leaves.

The 2 times I visited my then fiance, he didn't give me transport fare or money.
I drove to and fro..about 2 hours .
He only entertained me with soft drink and some snacks.
That was all.
It depends on what you do /intend to do with the lady when she visits you

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Leave him.
They only make noise and form alpha males online.
Offline, they are mostly weak and seeing shege from women who are not mid

xperiencelove:
Do you have the registry's marriage records for you to know the numbers drops?? I'm telling you authoritatively from my position that marriage records increases every year in registry! What decreases is the number of people that celebrates their wedding elaborately due to many factors including finances. Many bachelors and spinters now go to registry with their parents and siblings and the wedding ends there.
Online: Marriage decreases...
Offline (Reality): Newly married or about to wed house-hunting every minutes.

My cousin is planning a registry marriage for next week.
Just parents and few close family members.
No reception,No paparazzi
Traditional marriage rites have already been performed in her father's sitting room.

That's what they can afford and it's okay.

A lot of men who are obsessed with marrying virgins cannot agree to "No sex " relationships.
The obsession with virginity stems from their reckless sexual history with women, hence become afraid and start hunting for virgins that they will stilld deflower in order to "taste& test" before marrying them.

ikeno:
Actually it's not that she was married in real sense, just got pregnant for the guy and they began cohabitating

Man justifying sleeping with another man's woman.
Finally, na man do man!

Albinoflash:
lucky u,i just got my results this evening that am ss,like how ,when my mom told me she is aa and I had checked mine twice before as aa and I don't even have anything that looks like sickle cell crises all my life,me when no dey even sick at all and I don't ever take drugs or even go to the hospital,how is that even possible at 33

May be Sickle cell disease, not sickle cell anaemia.

There is SC genotype .
Regular tests may interpret it as SS

Albinoflash:
Omo my body dey shake seeing this post after checking my genotype this evening in a small clinic in my street,Omo doctor say i be ss,I first shock like u say,me that my mum is aa and there is no trace of SS in my lineage and am over 33 years and I no even dey gree take drugs nor go hospital , Like tomorrow asap I dey go another lab go check......I did 2 test while going into my nd and hnd and I remembered they where all aa,which one be ss kwa

Do HPLC
This is the test that will really confirm your genotype.
Leave all those roadside labs and their yeye tests

Toktee:
I buried my daughter of 8yrs January 1...... it's been four months now yet my life is not the same again.
I will soon start making videos about the experience of having an SS child.

It's better experienced.
No matter how you advice people, they won't listen
The same way you didn't listen and probably argued about it.
Experience remains the best teacher.

AMI3:
Please can SS person survive. A lady told me that she is SS that why she can't find a suitor.
She is 40 plus.
Can she marry?

I thought that SS doesn't survive?

Some of them live well into adulthood depending on the percentage of fetal Hemoglobin and other factors.
The severity of SS illness varies.
Nigerian men never marry who well, na who sick them go marry?
A woman can marry SS man easily.
Men won't marry SS woman.. it's very difficult

tanigororo:
The Probability of them borning
SS is 25%,
AA 25%,
AS 50%.

No,it doesn't work like that.

EmperorIsaac:
They will soon learn the limitations of "love". I have seen first hand the extreme suffering and pain SS people go through.
There is one in Jos as we speak whose legs are decaying while she's still alive. Her parents have spent and spent and there's nothing left to spend anymore. Everyone has tried...Anytime I remember it I just pray that God shows her mercy.
Please, don't bring SS souls to this world.

They will never listen.

SmartPolician:
Believe it or not, rich people should have nothing with the poor, except the latter working for them or the former occasionally supporting the latter. Poor and rich people should neither marry or be friends.

Because it ended in tears for her.
But women are advised to look beyond a man's social and financial status and even marry struggling men in order to lift them

Diamond098454:
But people are getting married every weekend. A closed friend is in the hospital because a lady he wanted to marry turn him down and you are here writing ✍️long notes

Keep deceiving yourselves in this forum

Online: Nigerian men don't want to marry. Nigerian men are not getting married. Nigerian men have nothing to benefit from getting married. Nigerian men don't need wives.

Offline: Nigerian man are getting married .. Weddings and marriage ceremonies every week(end).Go to the marriage registry,Crowds of couples(men and women),Nigerian men are proposing marriage to women and they feel bad when they are rejected.

I have at least 4 male relatives including my younger brother who are seriously and desperately looking for women to marry...They even ask me to connect them to my friends/colleagues.


But let's believe Men are not getting married here because this is social media.

franchasng:
So our ladies doing well abroad should start helping our guys back home and at the same time help their own life too, it will go a long way in transforming Nigeria for good. When God bless us, it's not meant for you alone or you and your family alone to enjoy, it is meant to also uplift others. This has always been my motto and I can always beat my chest and say I have done well in this aspect and still doing with joy

I thought they say abroad is not good and Nigerians are suffering there. how come you say ladies are doing well abroad? 🤔

franchasng:
He will if the woman is bringing as much goodies as this white lady brought to him, but unfortunately our Nigerian sisters hardly do this; there are plenty of them doing very well financially abroad, single to the core but to go back to Nigeria to marry one struggling young man and help his destiny and also help her own, they will rather die single and lonely abroad and waste that western citizenship and opportunities God gave to them which they ought to use to help other people's lives too, black women are too stingy honestly, I am sorry to say this

Some have done this but the struggling men dump them when they find their feet abroad because the intention from onset was not pure.
Even the black men marrying these older "out-of-shape" white women also have ulterior motives .
It's not out of sincerity

Winnerfx:
You sound so bitter towards women. Why? You don't even sound like a man who would support a lady to uphold her virtue... Rest let real men who know how to protect women talk

Men like him promote sex on first date and patronise pros.titutes .. That's why he is so bitter and obsessed about a woman's body count to the point that it affected his mental health.

So who are the women getting married to every weekend?

What's the significance of a wedding ring?
Mtcheeeeeeew

Humblesam:
I believed when you left, you didn't ask us the amount you had in your possession and besides different strokes for different folks.
What worked for you back then might not work for him right now.
Have a bro who recently did same to same UK but now he's crying and regretting after selling off properties he worked so hard to acquire back then.
Reading motivational lines on Nairaland from even those that haven't even traveled outside Nigeria in their dreams fooled him into taking that regrettable decision that he's yet to recover from.
Europe is not finding it funny this period, it might have worked during yours but let him make findings. Europe is tough right now.

I didn't just wake up and decide to relocate because I had money.No! It took me 4 years of planning which involved writing 3 exams.. 1 in Lagos, 1 in Ghana and 1 in the UK (I visited for 2 weeks) ,returned to Nigeria,got my licence and applied for jobs.
It was not easy but it was worth it.

Relocating overseas is not completely a wrong move..It depends on what one is going to do there.
And Yes! If I hadn't left Nigeria and I have 100million now,I will still sit ,plan ,take the necessary exams ,pass them ,get a job and Japa.
I will not stay in Nigeria for any reason.

Humblesam:
This mentality of most of our people when it comes to "Abroad" dey vex me.
I think Govt should make sure educate and set stringent and very uncomfortable rules and regulations that will help reduce the influxes of our abroad.
How can someone with 30 million naira be thinking like this? Just because you want to be seen as " Onye Abroad" while your mate with such amount of cash are secretly cashing out living big here in Nigeria.
You would end frustrated after squandering that money in Europe and before you know it, we would be reading different embarrassing news about Nigerians continually messing up the name of this country.
Can't you people stay put in your country and save yourselves some dignity, then you can travel out for fun?

If I had not left Nigeria when I did,even if I have 100 million now, I would leave Nigeria.

richgang:
Hello everyone, if you have the opportunity to choose between using 30 Million naira to relocate to UK or to stay back in Nigeria and invest the 30 Million Naira . Which would be your preferred option?

Depends on what you are travelling to do in UK.
If you are relocating on a work visa, excellent.
If on a student visa, 30 million is small.. Be ready to suffer but the end will be worth it.

What a shame to the family of the girl.
Your daughter you sent to school dying in a man's house after sex and pictures all over the internet.
What manner of everlasting pain and disgrace.

Some people no just get luck for the same thing that others do and get away with.

These days, young men use all manner of drugs to knack ladies mercilessly so as to brag about sexual prowess.

drstranged:
Disvirgining a girl shouldn't be a criteria for marriage

But being a virgin should be a criteria for marriage.

Deflowered 2 ladies but he will end up not marrying any of them because of plenty entanglements.

Yet he will still judge women harshly and shame them with body count

Sonnobax15:
Not all me tho,cuz personally, majority of my friends are females and I do get a lot of help of them,and had never for once fantasied going into relationship with them or sleeping with them. So it all depends on the personality of the male werey in question.

It's not nice.
I remember when I relocated newly, I was living alone.
I got the services of a painter , a Nigerian brother.
He did a great job, I was impressed.He was on a student visa and I felt giving him a tip wasn't a bad idea. I also made him lunch.
I had nothing in mind.
After that, I started receiving unnecessary late night messages from him.
And on two occasions, he came to the house at odd hour, claiming he came to greet me.
As how? For what?
Simply because I was kind enough to give him food and tip.
One day, I gave him a piece of mind and told him he should respect my space especially as I am married(though my husband was yet to join me). This guy looked at me and boldy said "It does matter.I am married too. my wife still dey Naija".

Sonnobax15:

She's a good customer and dashing you extra money is her own way of encouraging your hustle. No be everything una suppose to dey look from a relationship point of view.

Men always take kindness, politeness and support from women as invitation for relationship and an opportunity to sleep with her.

No amount of money can make me return to Nigeria.

Well, different strokes for different folks.

I can cook but I do not like to cook often, especially because I'm a busy person.

I do the bulk cooking and store.
My husband helps with prepping day to day meals like boiling rice,spag, heating up soups/stews. He also preps quick meals especially for the kids.

There is no woman who can not cook.
It's actually very easy to cook in recent times.

obiekunie01:
I see all my wife's test results for all her pregnancies. Am I not the one paying for it?
In fact, I go with her in all her doctor's visits thru out all her pregnancies.

I dey inside with her as she dey see her doctor.

Even during delivery, I DEY FOR THE DOOR DEY PEEP IN EVERY 30 MINUTES. IN ALL HER DELIVERIES. AND ONCE I HEAR MY BABY'S CRY, I GO INSIDE sharperly TILL ALL THE CLEANING IS DONE, I HOLD MY BABY. I NO WAN HEAR STORIES THAT TOUCH THE HEART.

If your wife has HIV, you will not see her test results. Lol
So be calming down
Doctor will even tell you to step aside while he or she discusses with your wife , in order to maintain confidentiality.
There are sensitive things you don't discuss in front of a patient's spouse or relatives without the consent of your patient.
I want to ask a woman if she has had an abortion before? I will simply tell her husband to excuse us and he will step out for few minutes. I will get all the information I need and then he can return.