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A weak man spotted.

I can swear his wife would never write a line for him on his birthday.

NaijaLandGuy:
Flee fornication
You have a second chance
Please don't waste it
You are of age. You can have a good wife and build a peaceful home.
Frolicking with all these runsgirls will take you no where

Bad advice.
He should not marry.
There is no good wife anywhere and men have nothing to benefit from getting married.

Leepeak:

Don't bring your wife abroad ooo
I nor talk anything ooo
I was talking to a lady today about it
80% of women divorce their husbands if Dem get money I nor need to hear the man part
Forget

Opportunity for 80% of men to marry new wife.
Men should be happy with such opportunity.
New wife wey them dey use threaten their wives at the slightest provocation

okomile:
Good move
I trusted and worked hard when I was young. Paying bills, ensured that we live comfortably

Now, I wish I can turn back the hands of time with hubby behavior. Like I said earlier, I will not leave the marriage but will ensure I live my life comfortably in my own terms.


Marriage for some of us na scam

Ah swear..
Marriage that a lot of us entered just to be called "responsible" by society and bear children... If you like, go and loose guard

kimjessey2019:
If na man receive that money the first thing he would want to do is spoil his wife😂

Because men think they are wise but they are not.
If it's me, my husband won't even know such money exist.
I'm wondering how the man even got to know about it

Druss:
Husband didn't behave well. I would be upset however if my wife came into possession of 35m naira and didn't give me anything from it.

Let her give you, so you can use it to bankroll your side chic(s)

icedfire:
Blaming the victim again? Imagine the thinking of a typical Nigerian youth? This are your so called leaders of tomorrow ? Nigeria is doomed to fail!

Are you surprised?
Man is the prize.
If they don't blame the victim, wetin they gain?

See him head.
This man don pass 45 years

Where are the men who were asking for the guy's version of the story ?

Your alpha male is begging already

sms4sure:
Some parents are the cause of this menace, I'm so sorry to say. No moral teachings, no scolding, no talking to children to know what they're going through, forcing their children to bring money home at tender age etc. Pls, if you can't guide them, don't bring them to this world. Pls don't kill me with this statement, I'm just stating what's in my mind.

Parents especially mothers that are pushing their female children out to go bring money home?

Few days ago, I saw a video on X . A 22 year old lady was in a heated argument with her mother. The woman was making mockery of her and comparing her to her mates who have made it while the lady was telling her mother that she was trying her best and that God's time was the best. Meanwhile, according to the lady, her mother doesn't foot any bill for her , not even feeding.

Imagine an adult man with strong beards.
They will claim they don't need women , they don't need commitment relationships and marriages but at the slightest opportunity, they pounce and feast on the same women(including underaged) they claim to hate.

A man who should be married, with children and maintaining a responsible life with his family.

What a shame!

Edojoma:
Dats wat dey don't know, but ask those guys if dey will marry her now, dey will all say NO

Calm down.
One I. Diot will still marry her.
No be Nigerian man?
You will be shocked.

A very useless and wayward lady.

spencekat:
That is why.Sorry to ask.How is he coping sexually? .

That was a long time ago.we live together now.

spencekat:
How? Distant marriage or what?

Yes..Distant marriage!

idris646:
if your male bestie see this comment ehn

I don't keep friends with men.
Men and women cannot be just friends

Kevineleven:
If you think they don't masturbate once in a while, think again.

If no be marriage,I rather masturbate all my life than allow one preek touch me.

By sex,if you mean being with a man and collecting preek,then I am not a fan of sex.
I stayed for many years without sex when I was single until I got married.
As a married woman, I stayed for 14months without sex.
It is worth noting that in those months/years, I satisfied my urge by self servicing with my fingers.

I don't see what women really enjoy in collecting preek.
It's stressful and can be painful.
And for the singles,it will reduce your worth and self esteem.

From Lesbianism to Fornication

OlaOfLagos:
Your case is different and personally, I don’t see anything wrong in that as long as you got your satisfaction from yourself and not someone lurring you into s€x you’re good to go

You don't have to contact me via email

I'm not a fool

Dtruthspeaker:
Yet na una dey wail dey disgrace unaself say una never marry. Good thing men no go marry you

Una wey dey brag say marriage no dey benefit Una .Why Una still dey marry?
May God punish you if you ever get married and if you are already married, may that marriage frustrate you very well and end your life in a shameful way.
You will never see any good thing having a woman to call your wife.
May nature never be kind to you if you ever pay bride price and marry a woman in this world.

Dtruthspeaker:
You be very bad woman. I pray say any guy wey make mistake look your side go quick quick run for him life

You sound very frustrated.
It's not my fault.
I'm married with 3 children.
I'm not like your sisters that men are using and dumping

OlaOfLagos:
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Lols 😂 that line off me
Most girls that takes too much alcohol are alwys cheap and can easily be lured to s€x.

When I used to drink alcohol, I NEVER drank outside my home.
I could drink to stupor inside my room and self service myself to orgasm.
People could swear I never tasted alcohol all my life. If only they knew!

LUAN1:
if you Read my last post, you fit dump her. It happens to me too, at the end, it ended in tears for me. She finally admitted that she was deceiving me that she is in relationship, she open up to tell me that she is always on call with the guy that's why she can't take my calls, she said that even if they are not talking, but the phone calls must always be connected with the guy. After 11 good months of thinking i was in relationship with her, i plan getting married to her. She finally blocked me every.

You sef be mumu.
How can you even think of marriage?marriage that men don't benefit anything from?
She did well by blocking you

Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .

You are a clingy man.
And clingy men are very unattractive to women of value.
May you find a clingy lady who wants to spend all her time calling and chatting with you.
If you have slept with this girl,which is very likely,yet you are the one seeking attention,then you are a capital SIMP.
The babe sef no rate you.
I can imagine how she frowns and sneers "This nonsense boy" and flings her phone away, when she sees your calls and texts

Goodmarlian:
I am hundred percent sure he is cheating ,you think he is not aware? Don't worry my gender knows how to cope it's in our DNA since birth

Even the one suffocating his wife with calls and texts is also cheating.
Rest!

This husband is a weak man.
I'm sure he burst into tears at some point

He will not divorce this woman.
Instead, he will find a way to swallow it and continue the marriage.
While the woman restrategizes her cheating parole... And maybe gets a new partner.

Weak men dey sha.. Tueh

Fekumzi123:
He died in active service...RIP
Don't talk too much because it can happen to you.
If you kpai on your wife, will she come out and say you died while smashing her? Hell no

The woman will rather say "He slept and didn't wake up".

Nobody will know he died while knacking her

AbosedeFalade:
How's she, at 41, older than Frederick, who's 50?

A 30 year old lady is older than 70 year old man in Nigeria.
That's what they say

WizKid... 36
Jada -42

Make of this whatever you wish

Ginomel:
Your thought determines your world. Your marriage would end if you have in mind it would.

My marriage will end , when and if it will end.

People that live for social media validation.

Shame on her... After idolizing the man on their wedding day, marriage that you don't know how many days it will last.. Mtcheeeeeeew.

No single picture of my husband on any of my social media accounts.

No epistles adoring or celebrating him.

Anyday it ends, everybody goes their way quietly.