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Use your name as it is.
Do not complicate things by changing your name now.
There is nothing special about bearing husband's name right now especially in western countries.
I still bear my maiden name on my official documents including my international passport,certificates,bank accounts and at work.

If he had killed the girl, dumped her body on the road and disappeared, they would have said the girl went for hook up.
It's well with the female gender.

ajalawole:
Hmmm. My cousin did introduction all the way from Kwara to Kano October last year..
January this year, the lady say she isn't doing again. She gets married 3months later after breakup with my cousin.
I don't blame the lady, but most parents. Imaging Kwara to Kano state and her parents shamelessly accept another man from hir within 5month.

Your cousin dull oo.
So he wanted to marry? You men will brag that you have nothing to benefit from getting married, Nigerian women are the worst thing ever yet offline, you are hoping and planning to get married. Instead of waiting for 7 women to rush him and beg him for marriage, he travelled such long distance to find just one wife and still disappointed. Shame!

Jozilinn:
So the okada man that remember seeing her in his house on that day nkor. I believe she went to break up with him and he kpai her.

Do you have to go to someone's house to break up? If you can't do so on phone, why not just ghost the person?

Men dont need to marry.
Just have baby mama and patronise OS.

This one go break the law.
He didn't want to continue keeping baby mama,he decided to wife her.
Na wa oh

Kobicove:
The lady that is doing boyfriend and girlfriend for a whole 7 years is stupid

Stupid is an understatement. I really wonder how they do it.
7 years with my man, we were married for 6 years and we had 3 children.
How a lady can sacrifice 7 years of life being a girlfriend beats me.

AfahaAbia:
I'm a man, but seriously I really feel very sorry for her. You can see from the video that she is really pained and maybe had invested a lot on the said guy.

She is stu.pid if she invested a lot on a boyfriend... And deserved to be played.

No wonder my father is confidently supporting PBAT for second tenure.. Oh! Because he is getting £££ from me steady.
Alright.

So despite forming alpha males and red pillers online, a lot of men have shown some form of empathy on this thread.
They are even encouraging their gender to consider a lady with sickle cell anaemia.
Truly,Y'all don't know what HbSS is, for real.
No wonder AS and AS still getting married.
Una well done oh

Ebenezer2021:
I know say pigmania comment don really pepper evening newspapers like you for this forum

Whatever that means...the fact remains he will not see 32 years.

richmanrichard:
10 years from now , you would look older than her .

He will not grow old..

ChisomLexus:
I thought they said this guy was a popular singer, why didn't they take him to a private hospital instead of a government hospital?

Many private hospitals would refer to government (teaching) hospital...
If you bring a "bad" case to my facility, I will refer immediately. I think that was what happened.

FortCavazosKnox:
He’s the last option, like the fall back plan 🤣😂🤣

And he agreed.
It's a man who decides if a wedding holds or not.
The man is a simp

marlow1962:
Of course nothing will happen, that's every man's prayer, but just don't have any asset in your name when deadline with foreign ladies that you use money to get (especially as a black man).

Well team rich foreign girls from wealthy family too

But it's your gender who brag that foreign girls are better than their compatriots.

marlow1962:
Black man will never learn, well thank God for life.

We no wn hear half or property sharing and more than 30k every week for child support o.

Issalie. Nothing will happen
Team foreign girls.

Judolisco:
if hospitals are rejecting you, it means the person is dead.... Had similar experience with my sister

Exactly... Private hospitals wil not accept a brought -in- dead case most times to avoid the responsibility of issuing death certificate especially for someone who had no medical records in the said hospital.

Makes me wonder how many people would have thought "That doctor didn't do anything but sent us to govt hospital" on the many times I rejected such cases without telling them the person is already dead.

3kay945:
Well, his age can be gotten if one check well but for the cause of death? That is Nigeria for you. They see it as invading their privacy.

However, one can deduce due to the information available that the cause of death might have something to do with stress + HBP + Heart attack! I may not be 100% correct though.

You are 99% correct.

sigmax:
Not to mock him ,but people like him also use that word when praising God that some people are sick ,some are dead etc ........but what these religious people failed to understand is that bad things and good things happen to anyone and everyone.

It's not about your faith ,prayer or sins ,it's life .

That useless song " Many are dying, Many are perishing, whatever I am now, it is by your grace".. They will be singing "some are in the hospital, some are in the grave"... As if they are better off.. as hand never touch them

franchasng:
It is late for him to do boi boi for any Igbo business man now because he has passed the age for that.


The igba boi apprenticeship system is like company trainee program, both of them come with an age range/restriction. Once you are above 19yrs, it will be difficult and in fact impossible for you to find any Igbo businessman ready/willing to take you as his nwa boi. The next option for him is "igba oso ahia/ofia" which have no age restriction but requires total humility, smartness, being friendly and jovial too.



And to the original topic, going to higher institution now requires wisdom. You don't just enrol because other of your mates are doing so or because you want to answer graduate. You must be very cautious in selecting course to study. Many courses being studied in Nigerian higher institutions today have become obsolete and needs to be removed from the curriculum and replaced with courses relevant to today's global needs.


For science students, they should consider the below courses:

1.) Nursing science
2.) Radiography
3.) Physiotherapy
4.) Laboratory science is not too bad
5.) Pharmacy is not too bad
6.) Civil Engineering
7.) Welding Technology as a course
8.) Carpentry as a course
9.) Mechatronics & Robotics Engineering
10.) Information Technology with specialization in Cyber Security



Arts students can go for:

1.) English language
2.) Accounting is not too bad
3.) Supply Chain Management & Logistics
4.) Digital Marketing and Artificial Intelligence

I like how you carefully didn't include "Medicine and Surgery" for science students.
If not that I was able to japa ehn, frustration would have killed me in Nigeria.

Your location matters.
That was how I thought studying medicine and practising in Nigeria was a waste of university, until I relocated to UK.

I realised the degree/certificate was not the problem.
I was not under any curse.
My location was the problem

Haydens:
When the kidney fails money must come out.

Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that.. and that's why kidney related deaths are rising .

Their women are known to be very promiscuous. The reason the use "magun" charm is very rampant there.
Not surprising cos as Baba dey cheat, his wife is cheating more.
He may not even be the biological father of some of his children .
Women don't just talk about these things

Haydens:
Dialysis center is the future oil company. Don't sleep on this.

Ajd you think people have money for dialysis

highchief1:
nawa

It's usually very pathetic. Very suddenly death.
People will say he /she was well.

Tcomie47:
Age 40 they will start running around looking for husbands

No be 30 again?
You have increased it to 40.
Why?

highchief1:
my cousin just died at 37.bp he was watching tv with his wife in his palor he’s wife noticed he wasn’t talking she looked at him dude was gone.show me the formulae of life.nonsense.

Ehya.. Uncontrolled hypertension does not forgive young people . Snooze on medications,deadly consequence.

Sonnobax15:
Bro,that's the sad reality. And it's really painful.

Men can avoid that by not getting married as advised on this platform but Una no dey hear.
You brag about how useless marriage is to men on line but offline, you guys are longing for marriage, planning and actually getting married

3kay945:
So, man should not cane again

It is not about controlling his urge, it was probably the enhancer used.
Same death can happend while with his wife.

It wouldn't have happened while with his wife.
1. Married men (his age) rarely have sex with their wives,they prefer sleeping with younger girls outside their marriages.

2. When they manage to touch their wives, it's nothing serious. No attempts to impress her or last longer so they don't take sexual enhancement drugs .

Hassanmaye:
Please help them, love is beyond us 😭

Love is not enough for marriage.
Normally,you have to be extremely sense.less to even marry for love

Efuaye:
I thought medical research had found a permanent solution to sickle cell disease?

Dey play..
The victims here are medical professionals.
Their mother.. a medical doctor.

I advised and even cried to one of my relatives who is AS not to marry AS... Both of them, without any medical knowledge, gave me very stupid excuses and got married.
I no longer pick their calls or allow them contact me for financial assistance.
Their 2 children are SS.

faceland:
Sorry o...

Please don't pay millions in school fees to be a nurse. Another school would accept you.

I know a lady who studied Nursing in Madonna university for 5 years, Internship for 1 year, NYSC for 1 year.
She is earning 80,000 naira a month in a private hospital in Port Harcourt

hahn:
A friend in Canada once told me that a beggar in Canada earns more than a doctor in Nigeria.

Nigeria is royally bleeped.

It's not a lie oh.
A cleaner in this UK on 40hours / week contract has a better quality of life and standard of living than a medical doctor in Nigeria.

Female doctors in UK are getting married to men who do not have such level of formal education...
I have a colleague, she is a surgery resident..soon to be a consultant.. her husband is an ambulance driver...
He earns well.
She earns well.
No bad jobs overseas.
But in Nigeria,this lady would never look the way of even male nurses. Lol