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Better to say "He left me because I refused to have sex with him" than "after having sex with me, he left me".

The only thing a man can use to "rubbish" a lady is the fact that he fvcked her.

Nothing else.

You are proud to admit that you patronise hook up girls but condemning single mothers.
There is no difference between you and them.
Even your fellow men don't support your promiscuity

Olufemiolaolu:
I was 33 plus she was 32 plus

Husband of evening newspaper

mankan2k7:
I have been married for 15 years and still enjoying it. My wife is a senior Lecturer while I work with a reputable public hospital. I am really enjoying my relationship cause I have achieved alot? If u married wrong, it is not my fault deal with it.

Nyen yen yen yen...
I thought you men say you don't enjoy marriage, you don't benefit anything from it. How come you have been married for 15 years and enjoying it.
You are a liar.

capetownboyz:
how do you feel having four kids with different women and not still feel like you are married ? Cause I feel what makes a marriage is being responsible to yourself,your wife and kids and with this instance you got 4kids in picture .so in some kind way if you are married but act single ..

He should be feeling good.. real G.
"Have baby mamas, don't get married", that's what is advised on social media especially this platform

mankan2k7:
What concern me with your opinion. You may be living in hell, that is your own cup of tea. The shame should be yours

Hahahaha.
People that say the best age for women to marry is 18-23 .. E reach your turn, you marry your senior and you are justifying it.

You go cry tire.

Hassanmaye:
OP I'm relocating because of insecurity, you want bandits to kidnap me

Please relocate from Nigeria, if you can.
Security is a big deal
Constant power supply cannot be overemphasized.

ndidibabe:
You are just starting..i understand the feeling.

That's your business!

bikefab:
Unfortunately some 40 plus guys are still single despite their desires to get married. No thanks to the economic realities in Nigeria

Desire to marry? Marriage that they brag doesn't benefit them? What happened to having baby mamas?

mankan2k7:
We were both 29, but my wife take 4 days senior me. Very loyal woman till today.

For the marriage that men have nothing to benefit from, you married a woman wey senior you
Shameee! 🤣

queenbetsy:
A 30 years old lady is evening newspaper to you? Seriously

Isn't that that name 30+ single women are labelled on this forum? Or are you new here?

theophorus:

No be everybody dey reason like you ooo.
And he clear from this your comment say dem still dey feed you and you have never been in a relationship.

Because if you are mature at all, you will know that before marriage there is some period of friendship_courtship etc...

And please, what's wrong with marrying a 30+ lady?

It's on this forum that I learnt that everything was wrong with marrying a woman who is 30+.
Meanwhile, I'm married with 3 children.
Why you dey vex? I was only wondering why the guy isn't practising what you guys preach on social media

kimjessey2019:
I'm 37, I have seen a wife but economy never let see road. She's 30.

Despite all the warnings, you are considering evening newspaper for marriage.
Lol

theophorus:
30+10months
30+6months

We never still get money but sha, God dey feed Us.

NB: Dont wait for the "cashout" before thinking of marriage, once the Door opens abeg just Marry cos of that Door close it may take time before it will open again.

You married a woman of 30 years, see ya life!

ndidibabe:
Reach old first and lets see if your bone can tolerate the cold....

Lol.. because there are no old people here.
Life expectancy in the UK is way higher than in Nigeria.
There are many old people here and they are way healthier than those in Nigeria.
You need to leave the shit hole ,even if it's just a visit to Europe.. Travelling is part of education.

Arostar2023:
I understand bro. It just that I have spent a long time in Nigeria to call some other place home. But our kids, they deserve better.

For me, home is far from Nigeria.
I am not Bro.. I'm a lady.

Cunha247:
Nigeria seriously need a constitutional reform cos what is all these

Funny enough if the girl open leg for am him go run am oo

This to me is a misplaced priority

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FH4_AAEOF8



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK9BAE67o_A

And that's the reason he stopped her.
To intimidate her hoping she loses guard or just to lust over her

Arostar2023:
Is Nigerian life easier? I have tasted both, and I know the one to chose at any given time. Aside community living , I see no other advantage we have in Nigeria over those in Canada/UK. Although personally, if money dey, na Nigeria I go chose any day. But this one una de kill una self with reckless abandon, I wonder...

Having tasted Nigeria and UK, no amount of money can make me live in Nigeria again.

My children deserve better

After bragging online that marriage doesn't benefit them, marriage is rub.bish,marriage is this and that, kneeling down to propose is haram, etc... This gender still kneel to propose and cry like sore losers if their proposal is rejected.
The ones that are accepted go on to spend their life savings, even borrow to marry .. The same marriage they claim not to like.

Lol

ufotunang:
.. while they were dating..don't they discuss about marriage... from that discussion that is where the guy would had known if the lady is willing to marry him or not....then it will make the guy to propose to her in public or not to do it if he knows the lady is not willing to marry him

Men automatically believe that every lady is desperate for marriage and will accept to marry any man at all, esp at a particular age .. so they don't think of the possibility that a woman can reject marriage proposal.
They say men are the prize, so women are expected to rush them.

pocohantas:
They owe soldier salary for months?
That is totally absurd and wicked.

Can anyone confirm this?

Yes.
They owe soldiers and medical doctors for months . It's a "normal" thing in Nigeria

mycar:
She should not worry, a better job is coming her way

There is no better job anywhere for nurses

Japa is almost impossible except you are from a verrrrrrry wealthy family.

Private hospitals won't employ her to even pay the usual 50k salary.

sonnie10:
I know most places have an agreement signed by new employees about conflict resolution and dispute management. In those agreement, steps to channel grieveness are spelt out. Also, there are often clauses restricting speaking to the press and use of social media to communicate about the work place, Failure to adhere to those rules is ground for disciplinary action up to termination.

They should go back and read the terms of their employment.

That's if they even had employment letters to start with.

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

To the women: When the chips are down, when nothing makes sense. The single most important thing you gain from getting married is having children who call you "mother".
Every other thing doesn't matter.

How come she wanted to save her husband?
They say Nigeria women hate their husbands and rather have them dead.

Strange!

grandstar:
Make the guy retire. He is aging.

Men don't age.
Only women age and grow old

ChizzyBuna:
Them go collect all this money still come tax the living hell out of you when you finally enter

Let them tax.
My life here in the UK is better than it was in Nigeria.

What exactly do women enjoy in sex?

Please don't reach out to her again.
If she tries to communicate, ignore her.
5 years relationship... Some ladies dey try ooh

amaridigital:
Live and let's live. If those gays have mental health issues it might be because of the public hatred displayed by people like you.
Look, i used to hate those gays and lesbians until one day I asked myself wether they are actually the source of my problems or the problems facing Africa.
We have the least numbers of homosexuals in the world yet we are still the poorest and the most backward.
I told myself what is my business with those who prefers different holes from the ones I'm used to? What's my headache with those tongue specialists? Are they the reasons politicians fu**ked up my continent?
Are those pulpit Yahoo boiz not worse and doing more hard than the homosexuals?
That's the only way I could help my sanity. I shouldn't be a judge of other people's harmless decisions. No one forces me to become homosexual so why should I care?

When I relocated to Europe, my mentality gradually changed about gay people.
They are just so everywhere and seen as normal.
I have adjusted now.
Na home cause all the problems in Nigeria?