₦airaland Forum

amaridigital:
Live and let's live. If those gays have mental health issues it might be because of the public hatred displayed by people like you.
Look, i used to hate those gays and lesbians until one day I asked myself wether they are actually the source of my problems or the problems facing Africa.
We have the least numbers of homosexuals in the world yet we are still the poorest and the most backward.
I told myself what is my business with those who prefers different holes from the ones I'm used to? What's my headache with those tongue specialists? Are they the reasons politicians fu**ked up my continent?
Are those pulpit Yahoo boiz not worse and doing more hard than the homosexuals?
That's the only way I could help my sanity. I shouldn't be a judge of other people's harmless decisions. No one forces me to become homosexual so why should I care?

When I relocated to Europe, my mentality gradually changed about gay people.
They are just so everywhere and seen as normal.
I have adjusted now.
Na home cause all the problems in Nigeria?

epainos:
E don finish patapata na. Namibia. Botswana, Rwanda, Kenya, Ghana, etc be countries una dey recommend for japa say dem get better quality of life than Naija.

E no go better for the all the leaders of Naija from A to Z from 1960 till today. The ones wey don kpai no go sleep well. Na me dey talk am.

I was wowed when I visited Namibia last year.

Men with good intentions hardly pester women who say NO.

Most times men pester women, it's because they want to chop and clean mouth.

Alusiizizi:
Which money do you think that they have?? The only people making money are the ones that actually make the videos, not the actresses, who, if you look into it a bit more are not making much more than food money. The actors(boys) are in even worse situation because they typically don't get paid at all, with the directors reasoning that the sex that they perform is payment enough.

Sex is always a trophy for men.
See someone up there saying he will act for free as long as he gets to knack the babe in the second picture.

bobogogo:
You may not like religion but dont disbelieve the existence of GOD.

That's your business, not mine.
Believe what you wish.. as for me and my household, there is no supernatural being that can protect us from any evil.

Why are you bothered about this?

The 50 year old man is trying to catch them young as advised on this platform.


And yes.. the girl is not your wife.. Not even your fiancée.. Just a girlfriend.. the same thing you have been doing with her is the same thing the man also wants to do with her.

It's up to her to decide what to do with her body.
She is an adult.

See how a man is thinking of getting married.. the same marriage they claim does not benefit them.

While the woman who they say is desperate is not interested in marrying him.

But he is foolishly trying to force himself to be accepted despite obvious red flags

You are not serious.
Na evening newspaper better?

Some of you men are the real architects of your own problem

It has been agreed on social media especially this platform that men should not get married as marriage doesn't benefit men.

I'm surprised there are men who still want to marry.
God forbid oo

seanery:
THE BOYFRIEND GO JUST FAKE TEARS FOR 1WEEK, AND MOUVE ON.

SUCH IS LIFE

Wetin be boyfriend?
Even husband go carry another woman same night.
No time.
Na who die lose

Obinna67:
When I tell people that there is no god anywhere that can save you , they will argue , now she is coming back from church and this happened, government is the god that will save us , if there is security cameras on the street, strict traffic laws and speed limits, this wouldn't have happened, stop going to church or musque thinking that one god in heaven will save you, church, musque and god are all scam.

Indeed , you have said(typed) it all.
I totally agree with you.
Imagine the recklessness of a convoy..
Here in the UK, security cameras on duty 247 all year round

Such incidents hardly occur because there are strict traffic laws, well trained drivers and very stern penalties for breaking the simplest traffic rule... And if unfortunately, it happens, authorities have footage to carry out proper investigation and punish the offender(s).

Every road has a speed limit..they no born the driver that will drive pass that limit for any reason.They will fish you out and punish you immediately.

These people brought Christianity to us but they depend on technology for security while we depend on a supernatural being that doesn't exist.

Last Sept, at about 7pm, I drove out to get to the mall.. I had not even moved for 1 minute, police on patrol stopped me. Happened that I was driving without headlights.
The street lights confused me but that was no excuse.
Immediately, they took the car from me.
The following day, I started receiving mails and letters to that effect.
I was fined heavily and made to undergo psychiatry evaluation before I was allowed to resume driving.
A system that works.
Will I ever forget to put on headlights again? Definitely not!

Meanwhile, the idea of attending church irritates me. I never liked going to church and the moment I left home for university,I stopped.Been more than 15 years.
Religion is a scam.

If she had stayed at home on that particular day and at that time, she wouldn't have been killed by that incident(accident).

Imagine getting killed on her way back from church where she offered prayers for her safety and protection and was deceived to believe there was a supernatural being somewhere who could keep her well,safe and alive.

Yet not even an irking of what was coming , no one could foreseen the danger ahead..not the pastor,the elders,the prophet(ess) ,not even one spirit-filled prayer warrior.

No supernatural being could avert the accident.
She could have just sustained injuries ,the vehicle would have missed her by inches and hit another person..for her to testify how she was saved by a supernatural being..
But hell NO! She died because it was meant to happen and what will be will always be.

Religion is man-made.

Tenrack:
lol. Hand go still touch you. I love your confidence though.

Until then..

Bendeco02:
Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

Money stops nonsense!
In the contract of marriage, there MUST be a victim.
I refuse to be the victim.

OredoPikin2:
Because marriage only favour women.

So why are men getting married and feeling bad if a woman rejects their marriage proposal?

Britishcoins:
Chai, I did not blame that innocent woman, I blamed ojukwu who out of greediness married young lady like her, now ojukwu died too early and her engine room is still steaming and looking for original rubricant..

I am so sure that one self acclaimed city boy is sleeping with her, with a promise of office

But they say younger women are better. A 70 year old man can marry a 20 year old woman or has anything changed?

ajalawole:
Na her husband kpai no be she kpai am, so make una all her to enjoy her life... Dear men take care of yourself oo, if you kpai someone will take you wife go UK dey knack am

Was Bianca supposed to Kpai before Ojukwu?
How would Ojukwu had taken care of himself so that he won't Kpai(before Bianca)?

Rep9jaCom:
A Nigerian lady has gone viral after expressing emotional pain over her dating experiences as a single mother, Rep9ja reports.

In a video shared online, the lady was seen in tears as she lamented how potential partners often turn her down once they learn about her situation.

According to her, the phrase “I can’t date a single mother” has become a recurring response she faces.

Despite the emotional moment, she tried to maintain composure, adding that life must go on.



𝙑𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙀𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙬 👇👇

Lady Breaks Down Over Repeated Rejection As A Single Mother https://t.co/hAR6kJw7I5 pic.twitter.com/Lxy1mYX536

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) March 21, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-breaks-down-over-repeated/

Serves her right.
When some of us advise them to close their legs and stop having sex outside the confines of matrimony, they will say we are old school.

Women decide when and who to have sex with.
Sex cannot happen if a woman says NO.
Even if she was raped, pregnancy can be prevented.
But because of greed for material things,ladies cannot stay celibate.
Many of them are having sex not because they enjoy it but because of what they stand to gain.
Women will continue to be the losers and bear the consequences of premarital sex.

She never start to cry.

Mariangeles:
Naso!

So, you can put your baggage on others, but can handle other's baggage, abi?

Men are very smart people.
Even single fathers demonize single mothers but you will see a lady who has never given birth before accepting to marry a man with baggages.
Women are so foo. Lish.

When I was single, the moment I find out you already have a child, I just ghost.
I ghosted one guy who had a 10 year old son.
He couldn't believe it.

Their mates in Nigeria are proudly participating in a raping festival where they molest ladies and celebrate it

Bendeco02:
Your husband is a weak man. You can't try that with all men.

Or maybe he is even running his package with younger attractive ladies outside and you thought you're starving him sex

If not, he can still send you out and marry younger pretty lady. Which man will go for you if your man send you out? When there are alot of single young ladies everywhere.

Una no dey like use una head. Later you start crying and cursing all men as bad people while you bleeped yourself up.

Send me out of where? My house? Lol.

I don't stop him from sleeping aroud as long as he doesn't do it under my roof.

Them use sex curse men?
Everytime sex.

Even if their wives give them sex everyday,they will still go outside.
Better for me if he is running his package outside because I don't like when he disturbs me for sex.
Sex is not food.

Leilanjleeane:
many single, young chicks are outside, ready to give him for free

Lol.
Who cares?
Only him will deal with his infections

Keepamsafe:
A blind husband is a good husband. Enjoy your beta

Thank you!

Keepamsafe:
When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

Weak man= Peace of Mind.
I'm really lucky, you are right.
It's not easy to be married to a Nigerian man for years and be happy.
Keep shaking your head while I'm enjoying my weak husband whose weakness gives me peace.
We have 3 children.. I have fulfilled my obligation.
Sex is not food

marlow1962:
Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

I'm not holding him, Oga.
He chose to marry me.
If he is suffering, he should be the one to let me go.
A woman cannot keep a man who doesn't want to be stay.

As long as he is going out to get it and not in my house, that's fine.
Good luck to him.

essentialone:
So long as you have no issues if he sleeps with your maid, your neighbour, his workplace colleague, etc. etc, then you are good to go.

Na him Sabi.
I have gotten the most important thing I ever wanted from marriage.

We don't live in Nigeria, between.
Here, sex is not easy to get like in Nigeria because people are not hungry like back home where a man can sleep with a girl because he bought her food.

essentialone:
Ladies choose who to sleep with, but it is men who choose who to marry. Wisdom!

And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

Nnakatsan:
I was talking to a friend recently and she opened up about something that shocked me.

She said her husband had changed… less attention, less affection, always on his phone.

At first, she thought it was just stress. But over time, the distance became obvious.

What struck me was this — nothing “big” had happened.
No fight. No major issue.
Just slow emotional and physical disconnection.

It made me realize something…
Most marriages don’t break suddenly — they fade quietly.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, especially how attraction and effort change after marriage.

For those who are married — what do you think causes this?

Over familiarity and over availability cause it.
Along the line, people become too used to each other and the spark just fizzles out.Its natural.
The partner that doesn't realise this on time and begins to detach suffers it .

If the woman had started paying more attention to herself and children, the husband will be the one to suffer it.

In marriage, there must be a victim.
In everything you do, don't be the victim.

KnowledgePower7:
Abortion is perfectly normal and okay

The problem is that women wait till the baby is 2,3,4 months to abort the baby.
That is too late to abort a baby
Very risky

The best time to abort a baby is as early as 6 weeks to 1 month.
That period the baby is still a tiny fetus
Which can be flushed out easily after taking abortion drugs.

Those that wait till the baby has developed to 3 months then they abort it is very risky.

Do abortion early
Don't wait till it's late to abort a fetus
Go and do ultrasound scan
If baby is from 6 week to 1 month
Then you abort it easily without complication

That is how a girl came to our clinic
We did scan and found out she is 12 weeks pregnant and she was crying asking me where she can abort the baby.

I told her madam, you should have done this scan early at least 1 month after not seeing your period.

But noooooo

They will wait till baby is 3 months and come and be asking stupid question if they should abort? Putting pressure on the doctor and if the doctor do any abortion procedure and it cast. His hospital will be closed down.

So I will say this for all young girls

DO ABORTION IN VERY EARLY STAGES OF PREGNANCY FROM 6 WEEKS

Anything from 3 to 4 month abortion
If you get complication. Its your problem

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria no matter the stage of the pregnancy.

kiddaz:
You can't be this mean in real life... I think you're probably just acting here. Na wah ooh . The thought of your personality off of here makes me cringe. No woman can be this heartless. Just set the poor man free please.

I'm not holding him captive.

If you are too nice to a man,he will despise you and show you pepper.
That's what I know.
Men are not wired to appreciate women who are too good to them and vice versa.
The goal is not to be the victim.

kiddaz:
Haaaa! I remember you now. The one who doesn't even try to make her man feel happy, so you still deny him sex too? God abeg ooh.

If he is not happy, he knows what to do