SmartPolician:
Look at the last comment from that Ayomiposi! He says that Frank Edoho is an Igbo man. 🥱

These guys think nothing else apart from Igbo this, Igbo that! How can the druggie command a large number of educated ignoramuses? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

In the South West,if you are not Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani,you are Igbo,to them.

They don't know about Efik/Ibibio,Ijaw,Urhobo,Kalabari/Okrika,Ogoni and other ethnic groups in the South South

Persephone1:
You have a terrible upbringing and you fail to culture yourself to be a better person.

Nl is really an enabler that allows nitwits and uncultured juveniles to display their foolishness at will at the detriment of other users. What was wrong in her comment that prompt such an abusive, ill thought response to her. Oh because she's female you believe you can type anything at her. Such an uncouth young lad you are! I don't even care how old you are offline.

You can do better! Who knows that woman you quote with your nonsense can be as old as one of your aunties or even your mother judging by your comportment!
Tsk! Tsk Tsk! So mannerless! Who raised you?

Wow! Seems you are new to this platform.

I doubt there is any other platform in the world where men insult and degrade women ,they don't even know,like nairaland.

He is just one of them.
You will hardly fine a man type anything nice about women here.

At least,she died a MRS.

A woman being buried and only men surrounding to the place .. Islam!

God1000:
As a young woman, when last did you go to farm?

Lol..I have never been to a farm.
The most I know about farming: the small garden behind our house where my mum planted vegetables whenever she remembered.

My parents were civil servants (an Engineer and A Nurse)

What will I be looking for in a farm?

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Why some of you women decide to complicate your lives amazes me.

What are you doing with a man with all these baggages?

Tueh!

Ebubu:
why does everybody in abia state answer kalu? even this commissioner is kalu likewise the two past governors, and son of ta orji kalu also answers kalu, just why

That one is small.

Abiriba..a village in Abia state..
Everybody answers the same names.
Kalu is also very predominant.

I know 3 cousins who all bear same first names.

Person no well..he wan contest election and bece the number 1 citizen of a state.

achimendy:



On otherwords, You're looking for made men abi, billionaires and millionaires??

Even if he is the richest man in the world, what does he do?

"Entrepreneur" is not an occupation.

It's like me saying "I'm in the medical line" when I should clearly state..I'm a medical doctor.

It's not always about being wealthy.
Some women are interested in knowing the real source of income /occupation of a man

1Sharon:


Sharap there.

Because I don't want a man with an unskilled occupation doesn't automatically mean I want a millionaire. If it's not black that doesn't mean it's white. There are other colours.

Before you start, even your red pill doesn't encourage men to stay basic and average.

Someone would just say.."I'm a business man"... What does that even mean?

Hassanmaye:

Nawoo I thought most women like them because they believe wearing uniform makes you a Man! What I know sha you can't seperate military men with womanizing!

Most women like them.
I don't!

Same way,most women would like a man who is rich but with unknown or questionable source of income.
I don't!

Hassanmaye:

Why? Military

Choice! I never like military men..
I then did my NYSC in the Navy..
That was when I swore by everything that I will never have anything to do with a military man.

Someone has said he doesn't like people in medicine /health.

I am a medical doctor.
I didn't ask him why..
It's his choice.

Same cheating they brag abound even boast that they are polygamous in nature ..
He killed a man becaythe victim was his sister,not some random woman.

Life!

Military and Paramilitary,esp police ,Army,Navy, Air force.

Musician

Actor

Artisans and unskilled labourers

mignone:

So what does the woman get? Was if the woman was d patient one? Weren't they in it together? Even if the inadequacy was with the woman, they're already one in marriage.
In fact, they could have had d "male factor infertility".
Pls when issues arise in marriage,let's not shift blames or praise one over d other.
It's easier to pull through as one.

As a medical doctor who has seen such cases ,I can bet that the reason for this infertility was male factor!

Nigerian society thinks women are the sole reason of infertility..without knowing that male factor infertility is real and a much bigger problem.

Kajaard:
The husband needs to be given the Nobel prize for patience 🤯

Why won't he be patient?
He is the most likely reason for the infertility.
Once a Nigerian man can stay with a Nigerian woman in Nigeria for up to 3 years without a child,it's most likely make factor infertility.

gfelo:
My lady neighbour brought a guy last year November to live with her, introduce him to me as her boyfriend, we were even looking for a way to get this guy a job, but anytime this lady is on night shift the guy brings in another lady, this has becomes often, and it irritate me.

Pls how do I tell the lady what the guy he introduce to me as her boyfriend is doing.

Mind your business.

A lady who brings in a man to live with her is already a condemned and very useless person with no common sense.
Such people don't even listen to words of caution and advice.
Stay on your lane.
She must learn a lesson

UnfairLife7:
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin


This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years

I live with my aunt who's a widow. I saw my aunt stressed out yesterday and worried and i was wondering what could be the problem. She was the one who told me about the woman predicament. My aunt has emptied her little foodstuffs because of this woman and her children. My aunt is just a poor widow who's managing herself and kids but she can't stand the sight of this woman and her children hungry.

My aunt told me the woman's friend advice her to inject the pregnancy through abortion. She's six months gone and according to those her friends even nine months pregnancy can be aborted provided she has the money and her state of mind is willing to not forceful

According to her friends, they felt that's the best decision she could consider due to her condition. She cannot even feed the ones on ground, they are not going to school and she's still carry twin right in her womb. She hasn't gotten any baby things. It was my aunt that took her for antenatal when the pregnancy was in 4 months stage. She has been so confused on what to do. My aunt wasn't in support of it though, same time she doesn't have money to support her and her children.

Nigeria isn't saner climes where government support the less privileges. She will be having 8 children in total if she chose not to abort it. What will become the fate of these innocent children? How will she survive with these children in Nigeria? She fainted yesterday and was rushed to the hospital. It was confirmed that she has been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.

Her family and that of the husband had been so helpful according to her and it has really taken a toll on them. She even lost one of her uncle who has been supportive. This woman is sad, she's broken and shattered into pieces. I'm even scared of her life because she's not getting good medical attention for her condition. She doesn't eat well for herself and the foetus. I'm even bothered about her life, I sincerely hope all what she's going through wouldn't tell on her on the day of delivery.

Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

No advice.

She has chosen her cross..
Let her carry it.

Poor people tend to have many children.
They reproduce carelessly and claim God gave them the children.
I planned myself and have only 3 children(would have been 2,if not that second birth was a set of twins) despite having some financial stability,am I stupid?
Definitely NO!

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

CAPITAL rubbish.

Is marriage by force?

Everybody will not marry.
Everybody will not have biological children.
That's the reality of life.
All these your spiritual jargons don't mean anything

Kajaard:
It has to be an igbo woman. Very wicked women that do harm to their househelps.

I think there should be a law banning Igbo women from having househelps.

Igbo men are usually very stern ,strict and ruthless to their wives..Hence their wives take out their frustration on their maids

gasparpisciotta:
Peace of mind is guaranteed in this relationship.

No fear of cheating

Says who?
He will cheat on her with a BLIND woman.

FT Chelsea 1 Vs 2 C/Palace
Stake your house rent

BigYash:
Cut one of 40million potential winning,most especially when its the last game on the ticket. Alabi investors will understand better.. I don't need to explain much..

1 cut 3800 odds. Sofia pains

1 game cutting a ticket , especially when expected payout is a huge sum

The pain is deep

breakthrough22:
Good evenning ,

I came back home from work this night to find out my wife and my son have packed and abandoned me .

My son is 4 years old and I really don't mean to hurt my wife .

She travelled on the 26th of December to her dad house here in Lagos .I missed her so much and I sent her money to come back last Saturday though she said she will be coming on Sunday only for me to call her between 2pm and 8pm without her picking the call .

The phone rang times without number .I later gave the last try and the no was busy answering other call .She later picked and said there was no light .So,she couldn't charge. I was mad because the excuse was too flimsy .I challenged her to tell her but your phone rang .I was mad and I lost trust in her that moment and flashed back to the excuse that she will not come on Saturday.

Seriously ,I was angry and different thoughts came to my mind like May be she went to see another man .

That hour ,I told her I don't want to see her again .I was angry though .She didn't come on Sunday. She came back very early yesterday which was Monday.

I will not lie ,I have been so angry ,ranting and telling her to go back to her parent house that I don't trust her again.

To my surprise ,I came back tonight and she already packed all her loads ,packed my son things without leaving any thing .Her wardrobe and my son wardrobe have been empty as I am typing .She packed everything .

Seriously ,I am depressed cos I love her .I love my son .I can't even allow him to stay over there to start schooling. Me and my wife have been together since 2013 .We have gone through a lot of difficulties together and now ,things are beginning to look good for us .I am so down right now .I called he dad and her brother .It is like they took that decision together .

I have never beaten her before but I do nag especially when bills are weighing me down .His dad and his brother was just shouting at me .Fear of been a single dad or living alone at this stage of my life will make me a walking ghost and the fact that ,I really love my son too and also my wife too will one day kill me .

Imagine ,that Saturday she changed what she saved my no with and saved with my son name.I attached my call history .Check the image of the missed calls.

Please what do I do?I am devastated .


Some of her chats this night ..

[1/10, 9:35 PM] SWEETHEART: Hv always endure with u even though u did not hv money,but u always rain insult on me everyday .am not coming back I want to work and make my own money,u said u hv never achieved anything good bcoz of me!u said I am your biggest mistake in life and now hv made up my mind with you.you pushed me to the wall!u make me carry luggage in the hot sun and cry ,am tired,I cried and cried and endure all bcoz of love so nao am ready to work and earn good for myself and my son.
[1/10, 9:40 PM] SWEETHEART: U can change ur key am not coming again
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: Am not ,u know is too late for me to come back to .... and u urself know is my biggest fear bcoz I don't like coming here but u make me come back,is too late. Even wen u always tell me to go,I will still wait but u make me come back to my fear It is too late.
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: ...will start school on Monday here and just take responsibility of it, if u don't want to loose ur son too.

Marry a new wife.
Afterall,women are everywhere.

Yeye dey smell

SenatePresdo:
Okafor's law is not constant.

Some people's worse enemy today is their Ex.

Not for men and sex.
They can have sex with their ex who is their worst enemy and move in,only to remember her when there is another opportunity to fvck her .

Freeko4:
Okafor's Law of Congodynamics states that once a Congo has been shined before (C1), it can always be Re-shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly the previous times it was shined (P).
(C1 P = C∞)...

Okafor law
So to all of you dating or planning to marry single and divorced mothers, just know that at sunset, the fowl will always go back home to roost.

but honestly women are created specially to cause emotional crisis in men,I just wonder how God will create such a masterpiece and turn around to install traps and pitfalls in it,I definitely will not blame any man that has emotional issues because of women,that's the way it's meant to be,if you take a good look at a perfectly shaped puffy tits you will agree with me that the creator has more ideas in mind other than for it to be used only for breastfeeding,then what about the ultra soft buttocks,the smooth skins,slender fingers toes,soft voices and the calm facade that hids an ocean of secrets, cunning, emotional traps and manipulative agenda that makes me believe that God created women to be a joy to the smart guys that can find the mumu button and apply mercilessly okafors first law and an emotional hell for those that can't find it.

Same for women with single fathers and divorced men..The men will ALWAYS fvck their exes,given the opportunity

post=119904826:


Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023/01/10/man-accused-of-killing-his-wife-over-bread-reacts-to-allegations/

Serves the woman right.
It wasn't the first time he was beating her.

A man hits you first and you didn't leave
You didn't stay back and feed him slow poison..
Widowhood with children and money is better than living with violent man

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

To be honest,you are a weak man.

A lot of you are on social media insulting single mothers but you still go ahead to impregnate a single mother and intend to marry her.


Truth be told...Most of these young girls who go about having children outside wedlock are not worth it.Many of them are morally bankrupt and sexually promiscuous.

You may not even be the father of the child she is carrying .

A man who is helping a woman is expecting sex in return which he cannot get from his fellow man

The5DME:
It seems lots of folks in Nigeria are getting married for the wrong reasons, hence the plethora of negative complaints about marriage on frontpage. So I ask again, what are the reasons a man/woman of age should get married?

I will speak for myself...
For reproduction without baby mama and daddy drama

Men have started killing their wives over cheap edible commodity.

Bread..
Water..

Kai

MumEmdy:
This so sad, may her soul rest in peace and may God grant the husband and son quick healing, Amen

Lol..Which God?
The one who couldn't prevent the accident or another?