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Ehehehe... i have some intresting experience eheheheh.

So i got this land... dug well .. got granites and few blocks..

Then i barricaded the land with planks.. put some family who uses wood to construct a condo... then i traveled

After 1year + I decided to I came back and called my pastor to come and pray on the land as i wanted to start proper fencing and then build.


On getting to the my land location.. i discovered it had been fenced and gated and locked with a big padlock.

Infact there was an uncompleted story bulding inside...

I was shocked.. my pastor was shocked! Funny the person that sold the land to me died few days to my coming...

Omo na so i start to dey para o... no one send me o.
So i got intouch with the oloriebi And he promised to give me another...

He did as promised, however it was another man's land. I didn't know untill i wanted to start clearing the trees Which i have paid boys to do. I didn't even fret i just drove to the barack got 4 military police pick the oloriebi up and zoom.

I was giving another.. during the fencing they came in Numbers with cain and cutlass... sent every workers on the site away...

Their reason; that i didn't not pay money for Grandchildren funny as i was ready to turn it to war. But unfortunately i sti settle just to let in peace. And i eventually finished on the sight. I contracted one of them to supply me blocks and cement, another sand and iron.

The wild geese

The burning train


Gazab

Dear wife don't embarrass yourself by confronting my side chick oo


I will respect you and still love you like i always do.. side chick won't change anything.

It is my choice and please deal with me instead.. and do it with wisdom.

Signed
By me

Lol.


On a serious note... the wife just subjected herself to defeat by showing her insecurity openly.

Hmm... samething Evans said.. Samething Clifford oji said.. samething Pastor king said..

Funny how this advise comes from their stupid lawyers... how i wish lawyer can also be persecuted after their client is found guilty.


Stupid hungry Nigerian charge and bail lawyers... defending what is not. Not surprise , what they were taught in school was how to make a criminal look innocent...

And bring them back to into the society to hunt their children.

Big lie.... no one argue about your salary mr senator... what about other allowances that runs into 30 to 40 million monthly...

Some people think they can just deceived Nigerians.. forgetting that we are family members to some of them and we know everything.

You just describe my mum... at the same time described my wife...


Sometimes i know i don't know God's worth over the kind of wife he has given to me... she makes my heart humble everytime i look at her meekness. Kilode!!!

Oh lord I have come to also appreciate the typr of a wife you gave me lord. Thank you!

I am not looking forward to counting years with her... inam just looking forward to everday she being by my side.

Why are people clamouring for scrapping SARS...

Does that make the bad men in police force go away?

Operations of SARS is needed in every sovereign states..

You can't do without... okay if they scrap sars and create another name for anti robbery... would it not still be the same people same leadership that will control it.

I think the police force generally needs a reform.. starting from there intakes.

The criteria should be strict and should be based on high level of qualifications.

Step into their compound as a friend and came out with their daughter as a wife....


No hassles... no questions....


Even the ones we did not marry... i am always loved by them...

One of my ex mum attended my wedding.. she loves me too much. I remember how she use to give me and her daughter the living room upstair. and she will by then have sent someone to make food for me.

Sweet woman... my present mum inlaw respect me and she is a shy type too. She can do anything for me. Our conversation doesn't ever end...

First and only son here.... grewup with an unending love from everyone around me including my neighbors...

However, Adulthood was a different ball game... "OYO"

Sometimes i can't remember the last time i spoke to my parents or even sisters

My responsiblity is towards my immediate family... and i owe no one any love or neither do anyone owe me one.


All man for himself.


I have not seen anyone who stereotype me with "the only son thing" perhaps i hardly tell or show it.

I thought I was gentle ... until i read your story... haaaaa!!! Honestly the man would have been in the hospital by now receiving drips and stitches mi o gba dun oo.. Jesus..

Look at me boiling..... already!! Lol.


Oh lord please don't tempt me with this kind of thing o... i will fùck up. Whatttttt!!!

I won't even touch the man... i will make sure boys lie him flat and wipe him in the presence of his wife and kids... in the same compound

This is too flimsy.... he looks at women... he doesn't complement you any more... enh big boobs...

Aunty did you catch your husband cheating

Does your husband abuse you

Abeg rest jare...

Find a way to warm your place back to his heart.. so he can adore you.


Do you think marriage is a bed of roses?? Lol

You are free to walk away... and land your self in another man's fry pan or even fire.

I can't see myself just leaving and staying long outside Nigeria... it will be insane for me really!

I remember after staying a year plus for the first time... there will be noday i won't tune in to Nigeria radio...
I miss the "obey" classic music and the trending ones as it makes me feel very nostalgic.


I forced myself just to come spend 3 months and after i left again i couldn't just stay... the smell of being in Nigeria is everything for me.

vickydevoka:
N wat if they sack u shortly after the wedding

Reason I qouted having 5m as savings... you will be able to go into a small scale venture.. that can still bring 150 monthly as your ROI( minimum of 75 to 100k) with 3m or 3.5m investment. If your are a discipline fellow.

5m minumum... as at now... with a steady income of at least 150 to 200k minimum.


Don't jump into marriage if you don't have a Job... be warned!!!

All correct! Especially number 1 from a typical African girl.

Forget about people shouting "stereotype" there is nothing stereotypical about it...


It is a fact!

Captainrambo2:
If nor be hustle wati person ho dey find fir Muslim country.? Rubbish.

It is a secular country sir... just like Nigeria.

This is very good policy for now and should be move for legislation.

Another food for Nigerian police force lol

Influenza is a normal sickness... abeg. It is due to cold and flushot is taken to prevent it... also it is just like malaria is to Nigerians

You were not old enough for marriage bro!


Because of mycoten You are a freaking child!


What if you catch your wife cheating on you really... you will still bring that your immaturity to this place?


Na wa o.

I use to tell my exes... if you date someone below me... i will laugh you ...

So if you as my ex date this kind of guy... jeezzz... i will cover my eyes for you oo lol

He said the right thing... this is for the wise only!!

Few are wise... many are.... so don't drag with the pigs lest they drag you to the mud

larryking540:
But you and I kw that when you make it obvious that you the father of the bride sponsor the wedding,you will lack respect for the guy ,,,u fit even say make he con wash your motor ,

Don't tell me you can't do that ,money no matter how small it is brings respect

When children grow... allow them to grow properly... everyone deserves some respect, there is a difference between wedding and marriage...

I don't have to interfere in their marriage, but for wedding it not just the husband business .. it is mine business aswell. It is a dream come through day for me... infact in some tribe, the brides family gets the wedding bills...

Especially in yoruba land.

Hmm no future inlaw of mine will stop me from giving my daughter or even my adopted daughters their dream wedding...!

How many industries does akwa ibom owns...

what level is akwa ibom education and research development is, as at present?


How is akwa ibom doing with health care


In general what does akwa ibom hope to achieve with this stadium.. to host world cup?

We should have sense in this country oo

DexterousOne:
Are you trying to say that even females in your family are not honest?

Whatever ever your opinion is.... my take is my take... you don't freaking have to agree... but you can study the ones in your family closely... you will discover my point isn't far fetch! Get it!

No honest girl in Nigeria.... don't delude yourself.... they only know how to manipulate you emotionally.

Fool! He can marry 100 wives he so likes, why dumping one after the other.


See marry as much as you want... there is no rule to how many wives you want to marry but make sure you provide for all of them.

Remember only one court marriage is allowed too.

But traditional rites is unlimited.

Wooow... this man is a workaholic.... a great man indeed.

It will be stupid ... not to be objective... i can totally relate... i tell people to prepare for a dwindling love in couple when kids starts coming...

At child birth most women hormone changes... so as a man you need to work extra hard to get her laid...


Anyway, man... if you have money... get the hell out and get a side chic (reality) .. it only a matter of time i don't even need to say this. (Just follow the rules)


There is a marriage
There is a home
And there is a Sacrifice

How many men will keep the above mentioned

If you can't stay and pretend there is more to marriage than sex.

Let see who fools who. ..
You don't need nairaland on this... you know what to do.

You can't even be my friend sending me "Good PM " not to talk of work for me...


1. Your abbreviation is preposterous....

2. You have implicated yourself by accepting how guilty and sorry you are.

3. Stop crying a river.. freaking move on.

4. Work on yourself even more.

edoairways:
Hmmm! Can a journalist broadcast news on TV?

Yes.. it is part of their job

edoairways:
Is there difference between mass communication and journalism

Big difference... mass communication course is an incomplete course... that talks about little of PR, Journalism, Administration and others.

It is a like a Jack of all trades, masters of none.

However, It shapes you and give you little idea about real
essence in communication