₦airaland Forum

joezy11:
LION, U TOO DEY LIE

Come let me feed you to your 3rd generation who is your mate ...

writeprof:
Please, was it in Nigeria? As at now, friends in Print journalism were getting less than 100k as salaries unless the lucky few who can get adverts..

Nigeria it is! Go beyond print media... Multimedia is the way.. get all the necessary skills. And put your nose down to network.

People in print media seldom grows.

News producers, news correspondents, ability to film, news editing, you can acquire all.


I remember telling a foster daughter how i don't want her to go to a university to read mass communication 2 years ago.

I told her to go to school of journalism she first fumed at it.. but later she was thankful...

You see studying mass communication is a waste of years.. when you can get all the skills and start working asap when you finish NIJ.

How do you compete with a Journalism student or a public relations student... when you are stuck in between as a mass communication student. You will still need to go for either of these courses before you can honestly acquire a skill.

ifiokjohn:
Bro you mean you earned that much in Nigeria?

who pay that much self except abroad

Ehehehehehe...

I can relate to the reality ... most people in print find it difficult to grow... that is why they are in one place for years... "Multimedia" , (getting everything around it) is the way.

You will even be hired as an expat anywhere in the world.

Finally look beyond the locals... go to where you can network with international medias... there are opportunities once in a while.

Kekereekun123:
None. Both are useless degrees these days. Law firm no go pay pass 20k. Journalism na oga nephew from uk and usa get am . Better to go learn make up or tailoring . 5 years plus law school is not worth it

I earned 350k monthly as a journalist far back as 2007/08.

My half earn 1. M monthly far back as 2011 as a journalist.

Depending on what you are seeing...

Vision, enthusiasm and growth is all you need in a career. To make it


The two courses are absolutely great!

Jozzy4:
Your mouth like deceptive. You haven't seen many cases of people who had sex before marriage and still end up with a boring sex life in marriage. Where the woman play along to get the ring , and after marriage start treating him anyhow when it comes to. Sex. Or where a man drink different concoction to last long, but after getting the woman in marriage, chairman change tone to. " I cannot come and kill myself, if it's one minute do, manage am" . U don't know what's called Pretence

Your opinion is very valid... but learn to reply without insult.. behave like you are civilised in public ... even when you are not, it will go along way in fostering harmony.

To the unmarried... Never try this no sex before marriage shit..

I repeat! Never Never try no sex before marriage shit..


It is shit..
Deceptive...
Boring
And it will affect you sex life in the union eventually.

Rapsowdee01:
Nigerian youths are the most jobless and lazy set of people in the world.

This is what excites them instead of them to put their heads together and think of ways to better the nation.

Have you ever been out of Nigeria to see how people mob stars...

You guys just enjoy taking shades at the tag "Nigerian youth" this happen all over the world.

Chai... and I pity iran... they have no strong allies... chai. Anyway the Persians don't go down easily.

It will be difficult for USA to defeat them ....


But sincerely Iran just romancing the python

KingAzubuike:
So because say you dey military con mean say you no fit do side business to make a decent living again... Even your family members .. this is all shade's of gobbledygook

No you can't have side business when you are serving in the military.


No voting
No freedom
No Life


You will live on order... till you are told to go (retirement)

And after retirement... you will still live on order. (Based on appointments)

However, USA is casted for money laundering... how I wish Nigerian Government can focus more on Nigerians Accounts in the Caribbean. This is the new route for money laundering.

She would have long been in my history book... op so for 3 good years you couldn't also hold any girl?


Obviously, the relationship fire will be burning low from your end.. and you may just end it after sex... because you must have lost the whole first "i am in love vibe"


You are wooing this girl for your ego sake (bro code).

My advise.. do everything quickly and move on.

Cheers!

I love what the guy did... this should serve as a lesson to all "cheating fiancee"... you cheat... you go back to your parent house from church on that D Day

Shallow minds everywhere ehehehee. Op you need to stop seeing him.. otherwise you join him.... pray he should leave you. He is around you.

TheFacelessMan:
I was in Borno fighting the ISWAP guys for 5 years 364 days

I guess he has the record then!

What battalion? Which of the barracks ??

Just end the world by yourself lol... they have not even started you say they should stop...

Wait for detty 2020.

A car...!

This is one of the people who bribe their way through school... you can imagine the shallow idea lol

Mr wife beater... well done o.

But on the flip side.. you no get better inlaw o.

Good riddance to bad rubbish jo. ( anyway if she comes back becareful next time)

Be an examplary man and always make her proud.


I don't understand where you guys see all this women that nags o honestly.

If you nag.. you go just kill yourself at the end. If i come back 2am at some point... if you lock the door i will go get hotel.

I remember driving late sometimes.. my wife will call and advise me to get a hotel and sleep instead of driving late.

Tell me .. will cheating be the next thing on my mind?

Person we go cheat go cheat... everyone should respect their adulthood abeg.

Falz is good.. in his own way...

I would have prefer a pure trap... MI and co and not falz.

Timaya nailed it.

Mrpsly247:
The apple does not fall far from the tree

Sometimes... wind and water dey carry apple far from the tree oo..

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If you follow me... recharge card you won't see.. who holds cash these days.... even Atm card i can give out my pin free of charge... when you finish the 20k inside. You go happy naa lol

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Your career should be first no matter what!..

The only thing that keeps marriage is personal growth... if you are not growing you will never be happy.

Note: your hubby's success is more like a compound success.. you will only benifit 1/3 of it. If he is a very nice man.

However your husband should be able to give full support to make your dream a top priorty...

At the end you would have been proud of whom you've become

Advice:

Don't bury yourself under a man's success. You'll end up spoiling your lips (mouth) by taking whatever is thrown at you

DrNueLpureHoney:
If that be the case... FG. And Nigerian Army should do Something about dx matter.......Turkey na Islamic country so dem wan make those hoodlumps islamize dx country but e no Go work for dem

They should also work on the kinda weapons they give to Nigerian soldiers that do battle with dx uncircumcised terrorists wey no go gree make person rest in dx country.

Meanwhile... If you need Pure Original HOney... Call or whatsapp 0"8"0"92"15"19"59 Thank you

Correct that notion... Turkey is just an Islamic country on paper.. it is more of a secular state in reality.

Just like how Nigeria is known to be islamic on paper

SultanOfAbia:
No Wonder, My Turkish Dog Has Been Acting Strange Lately...

So you think this a typical turkish women dressing lol.

Try and pay a visit lol.

SillyeRabbit:
Crappy blogger's talk just to gain traffic. Every Nigerian is a potential fraudster. I can tell you most people who talk down yahoo, deep inside wish they knew how to do it. Hypocrites everywhere.

Correct that notion... not every Nigerian is a potential fraudster... perhaps you should say people in your social Circle.

I have not and will never get involve in anything that will short change anyone.

I came from an average home.. however I see every thing around me as an opportunity to grow even financially. I don't hustle for money. I hustle to solve problems.

So are my friends.

I avoid people like you... who only think about amassing wealth. They are all over in diaspora. However they are many more that are diligent in their careers and businesses.

This is how it should be ... not all those mushroom blocks Dino and other senator elect brag about lol..

They built a public toilet brag and announce they have built a school... they built shop put Yamaha generator and announced they have built a library. Lol

Countless times... hmmm.... sex is no biggie for me.. when you have potential.

However when your unrepentant attitude becomes a threat to me.. then we draw the line. By becoming good friends.

partnerbizn5:
Dick enlargement indeed.

married for 200 years indeed.
mtchew

You really know much abt medicine

Who is this little skallywag on my mention... Don't have problem with me okay... Have problem with the topic. Put your time to advise the writer.. not feeling irk over an opinion that has got nothing to do with the growth of your life okay!

myang500:
The above is not our problem, we have a good sexual life, we are opened about our sexuality, thus making it easier for us to satisfy each other, besides your notion of me getting an enlargment is probably drawn from the fact that she said "your small di8ck" mind you am an average sized dickk guy, the only difference was that she had dated a guy with a plumbing tool for 2 years before we met, so it is always easier for most ladies like that to classify average size dick as small based on what they have been receiving. Infact the text message i saw which she hid between her and her love potion seller states clearly that our sex life is good, but that she just needs something for me to love her more.

Bro take the sex life aside... You need to do something to add to your value... I can tell your wife is fantasizing about some one...

Great you guys joke and all open to one another . But as the saying goes "na from clap we dey take enter dance"

You need to add more to your value to get the respect and total obidence you want from her.

Monitor her on ghost mode. You will discover many things... About her.

It is better to be single than to be in an unhappy marriage...

I laugh at people who says they work things out... There are so many faces to marriage.


But when you are not happy and not considering staying in it because of the child/children. Then it is over. It won't end well if you continue to endure.

And most especially when you now fantasize about another partner to be..


@ OP I can totally relate with your story objectively... I know when you don't love someone.. you don't absolutely.

The only mistake you made was not to have open up to that other lady perhaps after the third sex.

Let me tell you... You are a man.. don't allow society to make decisions for you.. you can decide to marry two wives if your second partner agree. That is why you are not suppose to hide anything. Damn all consequences and stand by your words.

Please stop being sissy... Also move on from here forget about the second lady she is a very jealous lover.. they can be very irrational most times.

Obviously the lady you got married to isn't your wife. Make things right and get your life going in peace.

myang500:
Its actually not what u thought of iyt to be, i have heard so many damning words in the last seven 7 years, words like, am wasting her yansh, that she will give the ass to someone else. My advise to anyone single guy here, marriage is good, but be very patient before u choose a life partner, if u happen to impregnate a lady whom u know u are not compatible with, dont be forced to marry as it falls to my own kinda predicament. I am not the kitchen type, i work and work to pay the bills. now to break it down, i didnt want to type much just to make things known how it is, in a year, if i had spent 5.2 million which covers everything concerning the family, she had only spent maybe like 250k, is that sharing bill? her own definition of sharing bill is just cox we went out just last week, we both shared the bill for food and ish, and takes care of groceries once in a while, left to her she always say shes not suppose to be spending a dime after which i empowered her financially with her businesses...am a correct husband that any correct woman would rush, just a pity i have fallen into a pit that am finding hard to climb due to the love i have for mu children... life is hard with the wrong woman i must say.

She is cheating on you 100%.... As a married man with longer years of experience.... The red flag is you ain't giving your wife a satisfactory sex...


Got get a dick Enlargement... Don't even tell her. Surprise her. Do it fast and win her back.


To her answer about women being the same... That is a big fat lie. Some women will see your average performance she didn't like as a life saver. While some will not. Interms of attitude.. No human is the same. Don't allow her manipulate you.

Learn to also keep quiet after few sentences... Don not argue with her back and fourth... You will lose your respect quickly. Learn to conserve your emotions. Let your look speak more.