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[quote author=Tpayne post=79861453][/quote]sometimes learn how to THINK critically OK? They had and affair or whatever isn't the point now. Why are COZA members and people like you doubting and attacking her story when the PEOPLE SHE CALLED THEIR NAMES ARE SILENT? I checked and they're ALIVE. Why haven't they cleared their names? Heck even say "oh we met the family of Busola to beg about an incident but it wasn't rape"? Do you think they would watch their names and reputation dragged into the mud this way? THINK!

BTW you have no RIGHT to question when a VICTIM is ready to share their story. I was abused many years ago and I opened up to my mother last year. I was even too ashamed to tell my own mother more or less the world. The people close to her already knew about the abuse it's not as if they just found out through this interview. THINK!

I believe Busola a 100% She mentioned the names of his OWN pastors that came to her house to beg when she reported the rape to her family, guess what? NON of them have come out to refute her claims NOT ONE! The way they idolise fatoyinbo if it was a lie pastor wole and pastor flow would have immediately issued a statement denying it, but what do they do? they turn off instagram comments. You see how fast wale jana came out to defend Biodun, if it was a lie they would've done the same thing.

Do you know why I believe her? She mentioned the names of his OWN pastors that have been with him right from the beginning and NON of them have come out to refute her claims NOT ONE! The way they idolise fatoyinbo if it was a lie pastor wole and pastor flow would have immediately issued a statement denying it, but what do they do? they turn off instagram comments. You see how fast wale jana came out to defend Biodun, if it was a lie they would've done the same thing.

lagosman12:
This woman mentioned names of people that came with the pastor to her house to beg her and the brother to forgive him

Call out these people to speak, not one not two, Pastor Wale, Pastor Flo and her brother

All these named pastors cannot speak falsehood against one person

Really so you're now comparing a PASTOR to "UNBELIEVERS" just because you want to defend him? Pastor that is supposed to be a moral and spiritual guide to his flock? A pastor to an emir? What happened to do not be equally yoked together with an unbeliever


Choi! Christianity sha!

Angelfrost:
Okay... So, you caught them in the act? You have the dirty pics? Or maybe a signed confession from the man?.

P.S: If it be true, then he is indeed a statutory rapist, just like the former CBN governor and current Kano Emir, as well as most of our senators, and national leaders from the North...

So it's OK for a married pastor with children to commit adultery? I am happy you're not and can never be her husband. Biodun isn't an embarrassment to his own children given the fact that he has been embroiled in different sex scandals since 2013¿??



And people are liking and hailing you for this crap you wrote?

Egbanyakwu:
Busola or whatever she calls herself should shut up....
She probably wants to blackmail the pastor for monetary gains...why is she making noise now about what she definitely enjoyed while it lasted......she has suddenly realized that she has been used and dumped!!!
If i am the husband, i will send her packing for promiscuity and serial involvement in s.x scandals...she cannot be a trusted wife at all. I am surprised and worried that the husband is following her sheepishly instead of contemplating DNA test to confirm paternity of the children....
She is also an embarrasment to her growing children....

She's worried about busola's children but not biodun's? Nigerian women sha. No wonder Nigeria is a fertile land for rapists. With women like this rapists have no reason to fear.

Of course he's guilty do you hear any of his church members defend their pastor against adultery? Heck they know he's an adulterous man but their problem is Busola tagging it rape and not adultery.

Cc Jesusjnr

Do you know what I find weird? The so called Christians are busy trying so hard to discredit busola's rape, some say she's just a bitter ex and all that but they're not bothered that "a man of god" committed adultery. Yeah adultery! Why don't you try to prove that your pastor never had sex with busola?




WEIRDOS! Oh and BTW it's an organization that was set up to help others in similar situation.

Too many sour grapes on here. BBN is a shitty show says the creator of BBN thread? I beggi! It's not "federal government work" the owners and sponsors want to make profit so what's the problem?

I hope you also SAW that she went for the auditions? It been months now let it go!

vizkiz:
BBNaija is a shiitý program.


Guys, remember I said this?

She mentioned Pastor Wole and Pastor Flo came to beg her family when the rape was uncovered and yet the above mentioned names have not come out to refute the claims what does that tell you? I love the fact that you Christians use your bible and religion to support and cover every manner of evil but come on this isn't about religion now.

You claim you have a daughter blah blah blah blah and you still went ahead to victim shame her? Using Joseph's wife instance what about the millions of men and women that have being found guilty of rape even when their supporters said otherwise? They're so many women and men that would love to come out and face their rapists but topics like this makes it impossible.

Thank you!

salford1:
Point 7. She mentioned Pastor Wole and Pastor Flo's. Their silence are deafening. I guess they don't want to lose their means of livelihood.

Greetings! The number 1 trending issue in Nigeria right now is the alleged rape of Mrs Busola Dakola and Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo. As an atheist or as we are popularly know as "satan" this isn't suppose to concern me after all (na dem dem) but as a human I strongly stand against rape so this concerns me.

First of all what's rape? rape is having sex with someone without consent. So in this case did Busola give consent? She said no she didn't, pastor supporters said yes she did but what does the law say? Under Nigerian law a person under the age of 18 can not give consent to sex. How old was she when pastor Biodun had sexual encounters with her? She was 17! Yes that's right 17! So whether she gave consent or not what does the law say? Busola was RAPED.

I see so many, many comments saying it was consensual and vilifying Busola, and asking her why now and accusing her of fighting the church but none of them is asking the most important question, why is a married pastor with a new born baby cheating on his wife? I abhor cheating and so far none of the Pro biodun foot soldiers have asked that question.


One even made this comment, [we know say pastor biodun own no good but he didn't rape her] hmmmmmm says a lot right? We as a people know that majority of US our first sexual encounter is almost always through rape so why do we act like this is an isolated case?



The big question! Why did she report now! I watched the video heck when I woke up on Friday it was the FIRST thing I saw on my phone. I watched,listened and digested all the information she provided. Busola reported biodun to her family and COZA leadership begged, and her family swept it under the carpet. Here lies the biggest issue in Nigeria. Sweeping things under the carpet, shhhhhhhhhh don't talk so our family wouldn't be mocked, and the victim is left to suffer their pain in silence.

The Bible talked about love for one another and bearing one another's burden and so far it looks like Christians are more on the pastor's side and the usual persecution mentality is now in full force "she wants to bring the church down". I was once a Christian.....i know I know I was never a "true Christian" and all that but I've witnessed first hand what such experience can do to the faith of the victim. Trust me even if she gets justice she would never see the faith the same remember Ese?

This would've being the right time for you Christians to have rallied around Busola listen to her and ask for justice instead of vilifying her and attacking her virtue and her kids. I knew and I expected the backlash but I thought oh since she and her husband are outspoken Christians maybe it would be better. This isn't the first time Biodun has been embroiled in sexual scandal and he isn't the first pastor and he wouldn't be the last. I wish we would be kinder to each other and stop the VICTIM SHAMING! when good people keep quiet even thrives.
#istandwithbisola
#saynotorape
#protectourkids
#jailtimeforrapist.

My brother! My friend just called me now about this issue. Do you know what he said to me? I will never marry a Nigerian woman they are so dumb. How can they be supporting a man so vehemently without even giving the woman a benefit of a doubt, they're the reason why men treat them badly because they've no self worth.


See the way she has been defending him without even thinking, a married woman with 3 kids! Come on!

nanizle:
You witnessed the whole thing right? You are nuts!

So now a happily married mother of 3 with her husband backing her fully is disturbed? You watched the video for 3 mins so you're in no position to give any opinion on this matter OK? Are you a lawyer or a judge? Her family members are still very much alive and they will stand with and for her.

She called names and so far none of them have come out to refute her allegations.

iswallker:
Spongeisback or what the you..

You narrated the incident well..

Were you there...

So since you have all these crappy evidence why not take this matter to court and get justice .

This woman is disturbed..similar to tonto..I watched the interview for 3 mins and she sounded like she was coached..she is not a credible witness - no lawyer will put this one on a stand..

Just go home and forget this agenda you are pursuing.

Actually you are a kid. If biodun didn't rape busola then why did he go to her family house to beg? What you Condone says a lot about who you're.


I know your type and how they end.

Evercurious:
And after reporting she kept having sex with him every now and then.. Are you a KID?

GO SLEEP ABEG

you're so foolish and you are sex obsessed. Nigerian women you guys need to better. Busola was raped twice by her pastor and I've not seen you anywhere condemning him. Even as you claim it was consensual should a married pastor be sleeping with an underage girl?

Myself and other men stand with Busola but you a woman like her is blaming her and you wonder why men treat you all like trash. Whatever biodun did to Busola someone will do it to you and your children.

Evercurious:
And no one was at home? Did he tie her mouth? All the ROUNDS OF SEX after that day nko?

Oga abeg go sleep

Now I know you didn't watch the videos before coming online to rant. He knew her mom travelled and he raped her twice. You sound really LAME because if you have a high IQ you can tell from the way she described the incident that it's something that has been hunting her all her life. Go and watch the video. Go and watch it then come back and say this trash.

Evercurious:
Her pastor just drove to parent's house one beautiful morning , knocked at the door, she opens it and he raped her.. And also kept RAPING her at will every now and then.. HOW LAME THAT SOUNDS

Evercurious:
Pls go read up and understand yourself. You are mixing up things here pls.. Thank you..

Pls go read up the tags for any response I made..

Evercurious:
You should know by now who really is the prostitute.. ITS THE SUPPOSED VICTIM MY DEAR..
SHE IS LOOSE.. VERY LOOSE AT THAT..

GO ASK AROUND

Please make me understand what you meant by this?

if your child reason like you trust me she will be like bread for multiple men.
So now you've agreed that he touched her inappropriately? You're not smart and we know kids get their intelligence from their mothers.

Why are you ignoring the FACT that Busola reported to her family and the COZA pastors went to her house to beg or you didn't watch that part of the video or you choose to ignore it because it wouldn't fit in your Busola is a hoe narrative?

Evercurious:
MY DEAR MY CHILD CANT BE THAT DUMB AND LOOSE TO ALLOW AND MAN TOUCH HER INAPPROPRIATELY WITHOUT REACTING AND REPORTING SUCH ..

GET IT?

But you judged Busola. You called her a prostitute Less than 30 minutes ago or don't you remember?

Evercurious:
My dear whoever wants to tell lies is free to.. I hear from both sides and then use my head and not my heart to judge..

Is that all? Is that all?

Crying4NIGERIA:
shatap

I've been seeing comments all day about Busola "trying to bring the man of god down" why didn't she tell someone earlier and it's obvious so many people didn't watch the complete video or they just choose to be willfully ignorant.

1) Busola was raped when she opened the door for pastor biodun in her own house. Biodun was her family pastor and he knew that her mom had travelled so he went to her house prepared.

2) Busola was 17 and according to Nigerian laws whether she consented or not she was raped.

3) Biodun was a married father and we all know how young ladies and gents go to pastors house to help and it isn't strange that his wife asked busola to come help her and she did.

4) At night biodun asked his wife to let Busola sleep in the guest room and she pleaded with his wife that she wants to sleep in the masters bedroom with her and his wife agreed and biodun later told her "no one rejects me"

5) He insisted on going to drop her off. Another premeditated rape occurred.

6) Busola finally opened up to her elder sister, when her elder sister confronted her with a dream she had. She said in that dream she saw Busola sitting on a couch soaked with blood and crying while biodun laughed. She told her family why had happened.

7) Busola's brother was so enraged that he went with knives to confront biodun and he was stopped by pastors from COZA which she named. They came to her house to beg her family and they forgave him not caring about Busola the victim.

I have no respect for this woman. She knows what her husband does and she's chose to keep quiet. She's an enabler.

And the adulterous pastor isn't loose! Choi Nigerian women! Choi! So because she loose that means she cant be raped. Clap for yourself. I hope a man does to your daughter what biodun did to Busola that morning in HER own house.

Evercurious:
You should know by now who really is the prostitute.. ITS THE SUPPOSED VICTIM MY DEAR..
SHE IS LOOSE.. VERY LOOSE AT THAT..

GO ASK AROUND

You're a sick sick sick Dunkin bastard! Did YOU watch the video? Did you know her brother confronted him with knives when she reported to her family? Did you know they begged her family to let it go? Did you know his top pastors know about this? You're a sick fool. See you twisting the story to suit you. She was wearing her night wear in HER HOUSE! How is that a bad thing? Why blame the victim? People like you're the reason why rapists are growing at an alarming rate in Nigeria.

TruthinAction:
Have you watched the video? The story doesn't add up. No sane man will rape a girl in her family house and at such an hour. And she didn't resist him? Please think well. If he lured her to a hotel and drugged her, then one might be tempted to believe it. Her very testimony is a witness that there was no such thing as rape even if he had anything with her.

Says the mad woman typing in caps. Cheap prostitute looking for nairaland men attention. GTFOH hoe.

Evercurious:
Abeg go sleep. You really need it

You're the sentimental she goat and I hope biodun trains his sons to walk in his steps so they can rape your child maybe then you would know how it feels.

A girl raped by her pastor in her own house which is meant to be her safe place and you make this comment? I hope someone will do to you what biodun did to busola.

Evercurious:
STOP BEING SENTIMENTAL AND I HOPE SHE HAS LEARNT TO TRAIN IP HER GIRL CHILD NEVER TO WALK IN HER FOOTSTEPS

Evercurious:
And she kept getting all the numerous bleeps and you call that RAPE? Guy I m no fool. If you choose to be sentimental, well it's good and fine. But it won't take you no where

She ll only get sympathy or is it empathy and nothing more.

HEAD TO COURT OF YOU HAVE A CASE AND SEE IF THOSE TESTIMONIES CAN GET HER JUSTICE.. COS I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND THE AIM OF ALL THIS HER OUTBURST.. SORRY DO YOU EVEN KNOW?

You're MAD! You don't HAVE an atom of sense. This is the only way to do this. Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby and so many other famous rapists, when a rapist has so much power this is the best way because it makes other women stronger to share their own stories and take him to court but hey you don't know because your just a little girl looking for male attention.

I feel so disgusted talking to you but for the sake of busola and other rape victims I will. She was bloody 17 which according to the law she cannot consent.she was a young girl being manipulated by a man who she respects. And who told you she wouldn't go to court?
I hope you don't have kids. Women like you will turn a blind eyes when your kids are being raped and you blame them afterwards.

We don't need people like you. You're a dingus piece of shît. I know and I've worked with raped victims and seeing you undermine their struggles just to score cheap points hurts my soul. You're lucky you're not next to me.

Evercurious:
Good. And after that incident she kept receiving more sex from him and you call that RAPE? She should take all evidences to court and stop ranting in the.media cos thats no law court.

You're a disgusting pig. The stupid pastor and his band of rape sympathizers went to her house to beg after her brother went to confront the monster with knives.

WTF is wrong with you? See the way you said yes he is adulterous as if it's a normal thing. Till it happens to you then you would know. Rape victims are always shamed into silence. You don't think? Of course you don't because if you did you would know that a mother of three in a happy marriage wouldn't wake up one day and accuse a man of rape if it isn't true.

Evercurious:
I dont think anyone else accused him of RAPE.. yes he is adulterous but she was never RAPED.

She shld hive us another story line to believe cos what she said isnt adding up one bit

You're an IDIOT! Did you watch the videos? Her brother took knives and went to confront the bastard rapist and his pastors begged that it should be settled in house.
They went to her house with the rapist and begged her family in typical Nigerian fashion of thinking about the perpetrator and not the victim. Shut the bloody hell up! Your God couldn't judge the rapist for so many years that's why she had to speak up. You and your type disgust me.
Stop victim shaming.

Auduambless:
Let me break silence and speak...

I am not endorsing evil, rape or misleading by leaders.
But I want to start by asking the said Mrs dakolo's, why she has kept all of this for over 17yrs without telling any body not even her close relatives.
She said that her sister was around. But till date the sister is still silent.

Alot of prophet are passing through criticism and pains of what they know nothing about, recently was btwn apostle Johnson Sulaiman of omega fire ministry and one Stella.

Whether the story is real or fake, only God understand the truth and he is the judge of all. Allow God to judge the situation..

Even prophets in the Bible were wrongly condemned and stoned to death, MOGs should expect more...

Stay strong man of God. Unless let God intervene