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OP women are polygamous in nature, you should be happy that she still comes to your house. Just keep pray one day she will come to her senses. I hope you're clean, your penis is big and you've not added weight oh. Just keep praying and watch war room. Remember if you leave her you may not get any other woman oh. UN statistics says they're more women than men.

Pastor but you lied in the third paragraph. Ese Walters came out boldly to accuse you all you did was stall with your "robust reply".

Biodun fatoyinbo wife is the most complicit "woman" ever! She's a typical Nigerian woman condoning rape and sexual assault on other women in the hands of her husband just because she wants to keep her home. There's no WAY she wouldn't know her husband is a rapist no way! Evil woman.

Albaghadi my favorite Bible teacher. I just love the way he twists and turns the Bible to suit his narrative. Last week the Bible supports marital rape, this week the Bible supports hate. I wonder what drivel he's going to come up with next week.

Will try you.

If I call you a slut will you commit suicide?

Your husband wants you to be 100% dependent on him, my advice? Stand your ground and DON'T give him your account statement no matter what. Such men are very very dangerous.

stephnie44:
tnx a lot.I've done all that he said and I quote u can't have ur own money.whatever u need I will give u.but still not working.I've been managing dis problem over 1 yr now and its not getting any better but keeps getting worst

Oga can you just stop this? Rivers state isn't safe at all.
I know some a mechanic for that matter that was killed In December and his body was ridden with bullets,the car he was driving which wasn't his was taken from him. Rivers State isn't safe. Driving an expensive car can get you kidnapped and even killed. I know this guy.
He was just a young guy hustling and his wife owns a hair salon.

Originalsly:
..... riddled with bullets should tell you something. Yes ... there are envious people.... greedy people..etc.... kidnappers. Kidnapped.... family refused/unable to pay the ransom and they decide to kill him... one bullet..maybe two... but to riddle the body?

Not all victims are innocent. What was he doing in Turkey? Did he rip off someone then jetted? Jealous lover from the underworld? To me...this wasn't a killing... it was an execution.

Lies! Lies! Lies! His wife gave birth months ago. They're just hustlers and his wife owns a hair salon in rumuola. Yes I KNOW him and his brothers.

Japsylee:
Unfortunately this fine boy is dead. The rumour is that Hejis a yahoo boy and actually ate money belonging to some yahoo people in Nigeria. Looks like he collected it from the maga from there and decided to do ' finders keepers '
The wages of sins is death. I'll gotten money can never pay!!! Never!!! So so sad.
His wife just gave birth the same day he was killed

What made him ask for it in the first place?

The reason why black men desire white women is because of the mystery that comes with dating them. We all agree that white women are the most beautiful because their men told YOU so, You would never see a white man insulting or making online rants about their women, are all white women clean? NO! But you would never see white men discussing that on a public forum, black women are golddiggers blah blah blah, its only a black woman that's expected to marry into poverty and they still insulted.how many black men can afford to take their families on holiday within and outside Africa? whenever a black man makes money he gets a white woman as a status symbol but they want a black woman to suffer.

Regina daniels got married to a richer older man and that has been headline news laced with insults but lady Diana's niece is with someone older than her dad also but you don't see other whitemen insulting or calling her a golddigger.


African men do better, you expect African women to respect you why can't you respect them? Go to romance section and see some topics and you would wonder who trained those "men".

The other day one created a topic saying biracial kids are cuter than black kids. It was so sad seeing so many men agreeing to that. Self hate is the worst form of hatred.

Family bond is OVERRATED.

That why this "part of the world" is the way it is. Old men and women mortgaging our future, and we just quietly watch out of "respect".

Obainoneandonly:
in this part of the world you should let go. even if you are sitting and He's standing you are suppose to give him d seat. Dats how I was taught

Hmmmmmmm please so many schools in Nigeria refer to their secondary school section as high school.

No need for plenty talk sha. he was in Austria, read his diaries. He isn't one of my favorite persons but he's not lying about that. Because someone says something out of the norm doesn't make the person a liar, he left Nigeria to hustle at that age may seem strange to you but it isn't for me and a lot of persons.

He's an Igbo guy it's not unheard of, a friend left Nigeria immediately after secondary school to go hustle in South Africa and the last time I heard he was in Sweden.

ornicus:
high school [4 years, us system only] is secondary school?


this is like when someone says he grew up in us but keeps talking about panadol rather than tyenol. or metric units rather than imperial units.
there are some things that are burned into you. according to you this guy went to europe to hustle after secondary school . at the age of 18 or 19


no be today small boys dey form for NL.

there are some things your environment will burn into you. i can see the elibeately vague 'europe/africa' as well. my guy is in birmingham uk. my guy is in europe is the bs people threw about in school when one of their friends dropped out from university. no be today

keep on keep on

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He is not dead.

Briller:
Don't forget she is a Lawyer and knows the implications of stabbing her husband to death. Moreover, the dead don't speak so that's her version. Her husband stabbed himself, as in...

She'll definitely do the time. Too bad for her.

High school is secondary school, he went to Europe to "hustle" but came back, he got admission to a university in Nigeria but he dropped out. I've never seen someone type bullshît as confidently as you just did. Instead of calling his story BS you should've asked questions.

ornicus:
just a fantasy story



high school is in yankee ;

so you are saying you went to high school, then did your bachelors in europe [very very wide range there] , then finished masters in africa [another wide range]

i call BS. just some revenge fantasy on a dad whose wandering dick got pussywhipped into putting a ring on it.

on the chance it is true - no guarantee the same story would not have played out if the dad had stayed with the mum. failure is not explicitly tied to spouses.

Logobenz:
So I stayed with dad in ph and his wife was good to me.she helped a lot with me gaining admission and all.
In fact she treated me like her own son.the person that's was giving me trouble was my dad instead!kept reminding me how much of a failure I was.
So I did not wanna study in ph cos I did not wanna be close to him.

Even when your "perfect father" didn't believe in you she did and this is how you want to pay her back?




"With her kids" I think you meant your Father's kids and your half siblings.

Logobenz:
yeah yeah sure.
But I can't let my blood suffer when I have the means to make things right.
But how do I help bloodline when I do not want others to enjoy my resources?
And I hate the other woman,I really do.
I do not have a problem with her.she can always find a way with her kids

My point is simple. Blame your dad! He opened the door, picked his bag and walked out on his family.
If you're going to paint him as a great guy that was bewitched then you shouldn't blame the witch. If your dad was faithful to your mom, your stepmother wouldn't have entered the picture.

Your father broke up his family, if it wasn't with this woman am 100% sure it would've being with someone else.

Logobenz:
what's your point?

Your father couldn't uphold his vow
Your father left your MOTHER
Your father left his SEVEN KIDS
Your father can't fend for his family
Your father is still as irresponsible as ever
If YOUR father had kept it in his pants knowing fully well that he had a family he wouldn't have wandered into the night so he can play house with another woman.

Don't mind him he's just bitter. Even when the woman was nice to him he saw it as fake, he had an issue with his father that made him leave the house and am not seeing him blaming his father in any way.

baby124:
Your father loves this woman, he did not love your mum. That is why it looks like jazz. Despite the suffering he is still sticking with her, cooking and being the dad he wasn’t to you guys. Just repair the car and register it on Uber so that he can use it to make some money for himself.

There is no need trying to destroy their family because your dad will choose her again and it will hurt you. While you stayed with them, the woman was never vengeful or wicked to you. So just help your dad or leave them alone. Your attempt to destroy their relationship will backfire.

Do what you want to do now and you will see whose care they will be under.buhahahahahahahahhahaaa

Logobenz:
under whose care?

So your dad just up and left in the middle of the night with a bag and you think he wasn't having an affair with the woman? Buhahhahahahhahaha my guy you're soooooooooooooooooooo naive. What Manipulated kwa? Is your dad a child or mentally unstable? He saw a woman that showed him what he wanted and treated him different from your mom and he choose her over his family and you're here blaming the woman. Your dad is pussywipped and believe me even if you do all you're planning he would still bring his wife and kids to come join him.

Logobenz:
My dad never cheated on my mom when he was around.i was there and saw everything.
Somehow I don't cheat on women too so I feel I got the trait from him.
So I know for sure he was manipulated by this woman somehow.
She has even domesticated him.saw dude cooking when I got there.who does this woman think she is?
My mom would go about her business,suffer,stress and still come home and cook for her husband.but this one dey feel say she be king Kong ba?
We go soon find out how powerful she truly is.
If the kids like they can all be dangote,I don't care.
I don't have a problem with them but their mom!
You don't just go grab someone else's property and don't expect a fight.
I MUST DO THIS!

The "man" was the first to bring his own side of the story, he claimed she drugged him and stabbed him. Go and look it up.

Spacewalker:
And how are we sure of this story?


We should hear from the man when he recovers.

Women like to twist stories in their favour so as to get sympathy from the public


This is a fact,women can do anything to look innocent and the whole world will believe them.

Such vile creatures

Of course you wouldn't believe her story even with the bruises you wouldn't after all she's a woman and because of that she's automatically a liar.

Wallade:
Honestly, I don't believe her story.

Metooreal:
Hi,

I tried getting some contacts of good marriage counsellors but unfortunately I do not know of any certified one.

Can anyone help? My parent are no longer together and the children are divided. Pastors have tried and it has failed. I need professional marriage counsellors please. It's shameful to me, my friends and inlaws who know them to be together can't hear they are no more together. All of the children are adults, but I can say we are enemies of ourselves because of the foundation. We can't continue this way, I want peace in my family.

All I need is link to their website and I do a background check on them. Don't drop anyone's phone line as it wi be a total waste of your mb, time and a pure indication you don't read the full text of my message.

I need few meaningful inputs on getting the best marriage counsellors.

Note: preferred age of the counsellor should be between 50 - 60, must be married with his wife, ready to travel down to my parent state of residence. Must own a car with a driver. Respected and vocal.

Thanks

What does the bolded text have to do with this?

Did she lie? Nigerian kids don't have books like this but they have "uncles" and "aunties" defiling them.

ThothHermes:
I know say una go come.

Awon modern people.

Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! The Romans used to organise orgies on the street. Even in Nigeria in the olden days sex parties wasn't unheard of. Social media just made the world smaller and we get to hear of things that normally we would not.


I've never seen anyone anywhere organising orgies in public in this modern time.

bukatyne:
Social Media.

Prior to now, everyone was crazy in their space. Reference Sodom&Gomorrah, Noah's time etc.

The Bible even talked about homosexuality and wild/sin parties.

SM made everyone crazy in public.

With training and prayers, all will be well.

Exactly! Whenever Africans bring up culture and religion just know they're about to infringe on someone's right. If a woman wants to have sex let her have sex, if she doesn't let her don't. No need to shame anyone for their choice after all you won't bear the consequences with them.

ibkayee:
Honestly, I don’t know what respect the author wants women of nowadays to go back to since men did not even see them as 1st class citizens back then.

The eagerness to go back to the ‘good ol days’ is merely to get the control they back, not because they want to go back to a time where they supposedly respected women and apparently didn’t see them as objects.

OP during the days when the skies were blue and our mothers spent times listening to old tales by the fire,partly lit moon and crickets sound their only companion in the summer night. With all their mystique,virginity and kitchen poweress, they were still abused,tongue lashed, cheated on and even replaced by the men who were suppose to love and protect them.

Did you think it's this present generation that men started calling women derogatory names? My neighbor in the early 90's that was her husband's favorite name for her even though she married a virgin, churchgoer, breadwinner and mother of his 5 kids.

Fountainofyouth:
Believe me he has dementia.

Please don't reply him again. Thanks!

Dear mother can you drive your "son" in your "Mercedes" to rumuigbo? He really needs it. This one done pass "one day him go grow up"

The guy is just an idiot. I was going through a thread he created today and I was just wondering how someone could be so proud in his stupidity.

Someone commented that he wanted to go to the University see the reply the fool gave him.

wow bro you've got it covered.
Worry not.the uni is a place where you'll meet lots of girls from different homes and cultures.
Trust me be more focused in getting in there.you'll forget the confusionist in no time
Classier,richer and more sophisticated and mature girls await you there.
No Bleep up or kill yourself over one smallie that can't make up her mind

Fkforyou:
Wow...How can someone spill so much trash like this?

I swear you didn't read the article.

Quick question, the person that wrote this article, what's her husband's name?

He said all the females in his family drive Mercedes including his mom! Buhahajajajajajjajajajajjajaj OMGosh!