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Even the one that drinks tea with God shut down his business center, the key holder of hell is now silent as a mouse

This colonial Vilus Sha!

Corona virus.

They really hate Abba Kyari.

Clown �

I always see people say this on this forum I would love to know who told you that having an abortion damages the womb?!

Do you know the risk involved in having an abortion in a qualified clinic is lesser than caring a baby to term?

Do you know some women's womb get "damaged" even when they carry the baby to term?

Can we stop all this juvenile scare tactics,it doesn't work because if it does more and more young women wouldn't be opt for abortion.

nuele:
In all you do, make sure you don't damage your womb. I strongly advise you inform your sister. Its better you go to the village than damage your womb (possibly permanent)

khalhokage:
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No please edit your comment. That drug causes extremely heavy bleeding and since she's 8 weeks gone it not advisable.

She should tell her mother so they can take her to a gynaecologist.

You need to talk to your mother about this.

You're in SS3 so having a baby isn't really what you want to do now.open up to your family.

Coronavirus and still you're thinking of bringing a child into this world?

Ok, so you lied to her for three years and you expected what? A hug? A kiss?

Nobody likes liars am sure you wouldn't like it being done to you.

Does it really matter now?

Kingpinukecy:
poor dressings �

I will mail you my mother's certificates if you tell me why your mother married a man for money when she knew he was a beast.


Oh and kids gets their intelligence from their moms and since you can't even have a conversation without insults it's easy to see she isn't really a smart person, so I guess I know why she did it.

DenreleDave:
Bitter ko, bitter lemon ni.. Tell. Ur mum to mail me with her certificate jare


No Gender sef... U be man abi woman

Dear women if there's any reason you need so as not to stay in a violent marriage use this guy as a case study.

Your kids will grow up this bitter and stupid


Oh by our comments am sure it easy to know who e dey pain.

DenreleDave:
Pinshure or I dnt bliv it... Oya post na. Shebi ur mum na multiple damn fo*!


Ellalaaaa oju kan. E pain am


Odun Odun ofe ke

Pls show ur mother n tell her to send me her certificate via email

I am quoting you because my mom is a multiple degree holder.





So your mother dated your father and saw his violent nature and still entered the marriage because of money

Your mother's people Sat by and watch their daughter being brutalized because they ate your father's money and so they couldn't say shît.

With everything you've said here whatever she did warranted beating, let's hear from your father's side because we can't judge.

DenreleDave:
Cox u r an idiot, it's normal u talk like one.. I live with them and even though mum too gat her fault but does not warrant beating.

When your mother finally finish her university education, quote mi. But until then, don't quote mi again

Did you seek your mother's consent before telling the world she was a golddigger that got beaten because she couldn't respect her husband?

We need to hear your father's side of the story.


You write really poorly for someone that claims to have had University education.

DenreleDave:
Ur mother no get sense... If she get, u suppose get my point... Let the op sis take her decision..

Its not left for the op to post sumtin abt her sister without her consent...

Yes his sister is the problem like your mother was also the problem but instead of taking the ostrich position your mother took she wants to leave, isn't it a good thing?

Who doesn't want to get rid of their problem?
Oh and the fact that your mother endured being beaten because of money doesn't mean everyone should.

DenreleDave:
Thank you.. SweetCunt97 spongeisback Skmoda360


Learn from the 2nd to the last paragraph.


What if the sister is the problem but u guys are shouting divorce divorce.. What if?

1) If your mother really suffered from domestic violence you would be more sympathetic•

2) You can't insist she knew his violent nature before she married him because you don't know the type of relationship they had.

3) You've already judged OP by saying he ate the man's money and his sister married the man because of his wealth.

4) You want to hear the man's side of the story right? I am sure when your father abuses your mother he puts the blame on her right? Don't you know abusers are liars?

DenreleDave:
No u don't no where I am coming from



I insist, she saw this b4 marriage and she was okay with it...


2ndly, let the op tell us what happened.

3rdly, never judge till u hear the other side



I am ashamed to say this... Spongeisback..... My mum suffers physical abuse too and I felt like killing my dad sumtyms AL bcoxx my mum felt he wasn't responsible enough for us...

But let the OP tell us in full what happened. What if the lady in question is not thinking of divorce but the op is doing this with our her consent


One reason why I still have some resentment against my dad till date even though we are cool.

I know some men are evil and I can't justify their evilness..


But the thing is, let the OP state what happened

Ok first of all your not smart, that's why you expect to be spoon fed everything before you understand because if you really read through my right up you would see that she's divorced but since your IQ is in the negatives you want me to write it in ABCs.

DenreleDave:
Let ur account officer quit... She is independent... You know that b4 she is close to u but do u know the OP or op family in question


Let ur acct officer divorce...

Like I said you're not smart, the OP said he wants to kill his sister, and she wants a divorce which means the sister is suffering from domestic violence. He doesn't have to write it the way I just did for a smart person to understand but hey don't beat yourself up you can spell Oponu.

DenreleDave:
Let ur account officer quit... She is independent... You know that b4 she is close to u but do u know the OP or op family in question


Let ur acct officer divorce...

Seriously the way the "men" on this forum reason I shudder to think what the women in their lives go through.

Most women are even the bread winners and still they get beaten on the regular.
My account officer had to leave the country, guess what when ever she comes back from work her lazy husband that does NOTHING insists on smelling her pants. She was always coming to work with one injury or another. It was the manager of the branch that took it upon herself and she made sure the lady left the marriage.

This was a woman that was single handedly taking care of three kids and her husband.


If I wasn't a Nigerian living in Nigeria I would think Nigerian women are the only problem we have in this country the way some guys here paint them.

SweetCunt97:
So an independent married woman can't suffer abuse? Boy engage me on an intellectual discourse... Wanna know how intelligent you are..

Reason deeply before replying pls... And do so in a civilized manner if u can manage it

Do you know what's funny? Because you just said a whole lot of nonsense!

How did you know the man in question is rich? Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world so pray tell how many Nigerians are rich?!


I asked you a question and you didn't answer, so does being rich give him the right to beat her?

You think it's everything about them that people show when they're dating?! I know someone that her husband has been to rehab 5 times in the space of 3 years and she had no idea he was a drug addict when they were dating.

You want to hear the man's side of the story why he's beating his wife right?

You're the idiót, because if you weren't you wouldn't think about the financial status of the man, because idióts like you believe whenever women complain about their husbands on this forum you assume the women married for money, meanwhile poor men are more violent, all those pictures of women being killed and beaten by their husbands on FP how many of those men are rich?

DenreleDave:
Will u shut up Mr man... Are you telling me that the lady doesn't know this b4 they got married.... Do u av sense at all?

Any attitude or drama happening in That marriage must have happened in their dating years... But the dumb sister didn't do the right thing..

Shebi since money covers attitude, then she is paying for it..


Moreover, OP is on the side of his sister, has anyone come to present how the matter is from the man side...

Don't be a idiat

Dear well meaning Nigerians, please let's join our voices together and educate the uneducated amongst us about this virus.

Now is not the time to blame the government.

I saw this yesterday online and I texted the number to ask them if they've not heard of coronavirus and why they're being disobedient.

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We need each other most now! We should think about the vulnerable ones amongst us at this time.

STOP MASS GATHERING!

Ok let's all agree he has money, does that give him the right to beat her?

So because OP has eaten his money that means he should stand by and do nothing will his sister is being brutalized?

I don't know how most of you think no wonder you money worshipping grubbers see nothing wrong with this

DenreleDave:
Exactly, the sister follow money marry man and now she I suffering... The useless brother that has eaten from the money too now Wana run away... Op, u can't eat ur cake and have it...

I would really love to see this happen, you Christians have been saying this for years now and not once have I seen an inanimate object or a lower class animal give money to any of your pastors.

Doctorflaky:
Keep deceiving yourself.. This will even be the highest giving time. Why do we have online banking? Even if there is no one to give, God will raise stone to give to continue the spreading of the gospel of Jesus.

I hate religion. The fact that scientists are working round the clock to get a cure for this terrible disease and a bunch of rouges would take glory for it pisses me off.

So it’s feminism to tell off a sexual harasser?! Most of you need to re-educate yourselves.

Skyfornia:
Feminist...

MadeInLagos.

Does he know you’re an ex militant?!

I know most of you wouldn’t watch the video before commenting but she confronted the lady because
1) she has been their family friend for 20 years
2) she has also confronted her father
3) she confronted her so she would let her know how much the woman’s actions is hurting her mother,the girl kept calling her Aunty that shows how close she was to their family.

It’s so heartbreaking.

Ok oh! The thread just went from opening account with her maiden name to this:
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lalopeto:
She does not need to pass through the hurdle of BVN anymore because she's got an ID card in my name already, change of name advert and can easily use that to open an account easily in any bank.
Maybe she is planning something underground because the marriage is even full of crisis over the years.
Yes, she got a separate room and no sex for almost 5 years now and yet i am still performing my responsibilities for her, sending her to school, establishing businesses for her and not letting her go hungry, she even fine pass me self, the children are going to the best school around so.... I don't know?

You and your wife are living in the same space for 5 years and no sex?! Why do I find this hard to believe?
Even if it’s true I think the issue of opening her account is minor compared to your current relationship with your wife. why don’t you concentrate on bringing your family closer and your sex life with you wife back on track or better still divorce instead of living under the same roof with someone you don’t trust?

The way most of you use irrelevant things to cause friction in your homes amazes me.

What makes you think your wife is being mischievous because she opened an account in her maiden name which you’re FULLY AWARE of?!

Don’t worry people that will tell you what you want to hear are on their way.

You said my mind, I thought men don’t cheat on Virgins and women that “suffered with them’.



Happy birthday madam, you’re the true definition of a Nigerian virtuous woman.

Vyolet:
Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

OP be happy you’re the one he’s being dependent on and not outsiders. My advice whenever he calls you about things you know he can handle, calmly tell him to handle because you know he will do a good job.

It’s frustrating but don’t push him into sharing with outsiders before they destroy your family.

Meanwhile on nairaland we’re still trying to figure out if it’s right for a man to pack his plate after eating.