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franchasng:
u are being sentimental about it or feeling like oh, so women have more sense then men, but if that's how u see it, I can't change what nature designed then.

See haven't u ever wondered why almost every girl or lady or woman have more self control towards sex then men Even the local ugly village mgbeke exercises more self control towards sex than the learned, exposed male professor in Harvard or the General Overseer of a very big and popular church or a cleric at a big mosque

It is not entirely men's fault honestly u won't understand. If as a man u enjoy the gift of high self control towards sex to attractive women, then thank your maker and be glad, but don't use it to castigate or judge other men with lesser control towards sex cos u don't know how they have been battling to curb it and don't be surprised to still see them make heaven at the end of the day cos the person that created them know their weakness, and may ignore that aspect of their life if they have other exemplary qualities in life, especially selfless love for all, kindness, giving spirit and more

franchasng:
Bros I am not here to argue with u back and forth, go and study more about animal and human biological science to understand the difference between male and female sexual organs and how they function.

franchasng:
you can say that, I don't know. Both genders are exhibiting their natural trait and behavioral pattern.

Do you watch national geographical channel or animal planet Try and be watching them, they will increase your knowledge about humans and animals.

Humans are animals but of higher caliber

franchasng:
You keep making the same mistake. Do u know that so many married women who lost their husbands to death at say age 40, 45, remain celibate and refuse to marry till they die, now tell me how many married men who loses their wives at even 70yrs of age that will remain celibate and unmarried again till they die

Stop comparing women's sex desire and trait with that of men. Nature made these things this way to control population and for other reasons u and I don't know.

What about animals that only the male ones chase after the female ones for mating, tell me it's because the male animals can't control themselves too

These things are beyond your understanding, they are beyond trying to appear decent and disciplined to win ladies' admiration and accolades, I am telling u natural biological science and trait here

franchasng:
you think I am arguing that women don't cheat Am I a kid to argue that

Women are selective with who they have sex with and will turn down many sex advances from men they consider below their par in terms of economic and social status, except for commercial sex workers who do it for business.

But majority of men if not all men don't care about selection or class or social whatever of a woman, all they need to go down with any woman is sexual appeal and the agreement of the woman and the enabling environment, its not because men are mad or something but its their natural form and trait they are exhibiting.

franchasng:
It takes only the fear of something for a man to remain sexually faithful to one woman; fear of his religious god or doctrines, fear of loosing money, fear of contracting deadly diseases, and fear of loosing his asset as a result of divorce (for married western men living in US, Europe, etc)

franchasng:
stop arguing natural traits and behaviorial patterns

franchasng:
and u think its by coincidence that almost all women have more self control towards sex than men



And it's also coincidence that men have more self control towards material things belonging to women than women have self control towards material and financial things that belongs to men

You need human evolution and biological science and traits more

soulpeppersoup:


Not really.

He may just want to change meal.

soulpeppersoup:
It may not necessarily to sleep with but men don't reject harmless women.

franchasng:
why do you ladies love arguing what you know its true and if I give you a test nor or ask u a simple question, will u answer honestly

Do you know that virtually all happily married or engaged or dating men will and are ready to have sex with a random sexy girl selling akara, even in their car or any little hidden place without much bargain

Now I ask you Mrs I-Too-Know.....can you as a married or engaged lady agree to sleep with a guy that just saw u on the road and maybe seductively touches your bumbum and gives you sign that let u guys go have a quick sex A broke random guy u just saw on the street

But are you aware that most men will respond and agree But ladies will need lots of talking, begging, convincing with both material, emotional, etc appeal....

Men are not wired the same way with ladies sexually.....nature made it that way for a purpose, stop all these equality nonsense, ladies can never be like guys when it comes to sex desire....it won't work....and if one or two ladies have high sex libido and act beyond normal for ladies doesn't mean all ladies act same way.

Ladies attach emotions to sex.....men don't attach emotion to sex most times....they have sex just for fun even without putting their mind to it, go figure out

ecstasy357:
You are a serious case. Why u looking for a fight where there's none?!

All I did was copy and paste. I am not the author. If u want to fight/quarrel with someone, the link is there...pls go and do that there.

Lol... Something is really wrong somewhere

ecstasy357:
Breaking News:

UN publishes 1st quarter Demography Report 2019

There are 7.8Billion people on planet. (earth).
The report shows

Women = 5.6Billion
Men = 2.2Billion

So, they advised women to be careful in showing attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men:

• One billion are married already.
• 130 million are in prison.
• 70 million are mentally ill.

That means that we have just about 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the
1billion:

• 50% are jobless
• 3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests
• 10% are your relatives
• 35% are above 66years

So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash.

For details visit UN demography report

https://www.independent.ng/breaking-un-publishes-1st-quarter-demography-report-2019/

kevin25:
Asking me to go and sell bitter leaf and breadfruit in the market even when am a graduate and my younger sister is there... I went just o to pls her but i gave her serious warning til date we stil keep malice bcoz of dat incidence duo am no longer at home.. She respect my younger sister more than me dat y she can sent me to any erands bcoz i was doing anytn for her she takes me granted... She cant send a girl i senior wit 8 year to market na me she go send..

tydi:
Who do you this thing

Lol... my dear dont waste your time on someone who depends on women for survival, let him be... My joy is everyone has a past, I was jex too stupid to share my past to someone who lacks sense.. He feels he is doing me, lol he is doing himself...

Am happy everyone is seeing how his character is and dat am not jex making tinz up to mar him... He has made it very obvious... obvious enough to even tell d world he smokes weed like their is trophy in it... Yes I did it, in my past when I thought dia was life in it, peer pressure but I grew up long before I became a wife and a mom to shun it and dat makes me strong!

tydi:
You need to keep your mentality at check, you're loosing it

Tochukwu Orafunam tydi is
1: a wife beater
2: an emotional abuser
3: an incorrigible fool
4: proud igbo smoker
5: a tour. Agbero ojoo
6: an illiterate

He's not even remorseful, was even beating his poverty-stricken chest that if Benignasweety leaves that he'll take in another wife. That his son will grow up to be an igbo smoker like him that is in his gene.

Benny nwanne m nwaanyị biko RUN. Love should catch fire.

Wasted sperm, you're misfortune is knocking on your door but you're too deaf to listen.

Efulefu mmou

tydi:
lol.. Madam my son will grow and smoke weed....*reasons*... his grandfather smoked it a lot and still made it in life, his father smokes weed and he is striving to make which he will cus it kips him focused and for his mom. mmmm Smh she smoked it too shamelessly to the extent of taking a picture with it with in her mouth with pant and bra in a bed and a guy ontop of her putting on boxers with his weed too in his mouth, now tell me who do you want my son to be like who bears more shame how will my son feel if he grows up and I show him his mother picture of it... some women and just canker-worm..

you think say to go school der give sense abi.. den you are on a cow dough

tydi:
Facts! Or forever remain dunce

tydi:
Lol.. Who is this one again?

They don send you from the marine kingdom.

Firstly ;you called her my wife
Secondly ; you said my parents house

Thirdly ; your display picture explicitly confirmed how dunce you are.. So Shove

tydi:
Should I be the one teaching them morals, weren't they brought up in a home. Now I see reasons with men that don't want to have a female child

GT07115:
well she is not naive as u think and to put the record straight I am the third guy she will be dating, I can count the number of ladies I have messed up with where, when and how it happened to this very moment , I am not a sex freak I was celibate for good 3 years without a woman no joke. When u talk about older ladies I laugh, older ladies who is either a graduate or self dependent I have come across are not submissive and ready to learn or take advice that will even better their lives, those who are graduate don't want to learn a trade to be self reliant rather they want to do business or secure a job they have no knowledge of. When I approached her I thought she was in her twenties but I was surprised to get the opposite and to me is a perfect age I love, I don't want old cargoes, I want a woman I can look at in 20 years from now I will still have an erection, sex is 80 percent in marriage and anything that will keep that fired burning to me is welcome and age is one of it. So don't take me for a sex starve man or an opportunist, I want her for a wife not sex machine, I am only disturb because humans are unpredictable and I don't have the financial muscles owing to other families responsibility.

Frankiss44:
And how exactly is that advice useless... Most of u lot just underestimate the role of prayers and it is very funny.. 90 percent of martial issues have spiritual undertone, I don't expect you to believe it anyway.. But the institution of marriage is one area the devil will always fight with all his might... But we just focus on the physical forgetting that most battles have spiritual roots

kennygee:
I'm just saying she should give it her best shot, if it still doesn't work, then hope she has a job or business that can sustain her and her child?