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Africa making baby steps

Hope our generations make a greater and more powerful impact in the world

Happy birthday to a great man

This man try for us

Imagine he is the president when this endsars started . The protest for no kill anybody

Nigeria politicians should call themselves to order the way they are going would not end well for them an the masses we no want war o


Buhari has made this country difficult for everyone to live in and from the way things are looking it's not going to get easier before 2023 na only God go help us

They are feeling the heat

This administration has made matters worse for Nigerians

The tolerance level is now at maximum people are tired

Buhari dey feel the heat

This administration is sitting on a time bomb

The tolerance level don reach break point

What Igbo are doing now is wise

The presidency cannot pass them by in another 8. Years

Orji Uzor kalu hand dey this thing

The man may be buharis heir

This ASUU strike

Buhari never bulges if ASUU no gree take the ippis this strike will continue till he steps down as president

Very stupid pictures

Thinking will finish some people because of this news

Live your life o

And make the little sacrifice you can make for those around you now before you make am later

there were cult clash and deaths before endsars

Oga rest

E sure for me say dis guys dey use jazz

donestk:
All these talk to her talk to her gang, you think you're in Canada.

This is Africa, you paid through your nose to marry her.

What she deserve is a hot slap and apology.

Jesu !!

Are you joking or serious

This advise is not wrong it's wicked

delishpot:
If you are a kind and understanding husband and she hid this from you it means she is a crazy woman for that moment. On the other hand, some Hitler husband's are not told some things due to the wife or kids already predicting what their answers will be and she knows that if he gives a negative answer she will not be able to defy it so she just goes without telling.
Op, would you have let her go if she had told you about it? Cos some men like to control their wives as if she is an idiot who has no personal feelings and opinion so in that case, she might sieze the opportunity your absence brings and sneak to the burial esp if the relative is special to he heart.
I will not say more until I hear your wife's side of the story.

Good one

jidamsel43:
You don't need to rush to make a hasty decision on this because many 'strange' things happen in a marriage that requires wisdom and patience. I began to realize some things recently when I got married which made me conclude that Marriage is full of strange and peculiar situations. Since my marriage late last year, my tolerance, patience, forbearance have increased. I have been to a point of raising my hand to hit her but I deployed caution and restraint. There is no issue or circumstance in a marriage that surpasses the use of patience and wisdom.

Back to the issue at hand, call your wife and inquire why she decided to embark on the journey without your permission. if she gives you a convincing response, please let it slide down like that. Anybody that tells you to come hard on your wife just wants to destabilize your happy home. If your wife's reason is reasonable to some extent, you have to accept her and just warn her not to take the unilateral decision again.

I have been confronted with issues more serious than this. My wife and I are still together better and stronger. There is no perfect man or woman.

We are just managing ourselves

Oga this your advice get as e be


It's not everything you use kids glove to handle

If what the op is saying is 100% correct then she took a very wrong step

Op no let devil use you scatter your marriage but the same time there should be some level of discipline in a home

All this one na hype

In Erigas voice

Na man dey rule man .so tell me wetin man do man

Most of the comments here are borne out of envy and lacks critical thinking especially from the Yoruba folks which makes me laugh

This is what happens when westerners no wan gree get sense

This one wey go soon collect beating for field

Dey talk about bed

GodWrites:
I'm from Abia, a bu kwa m nwa afo igbo

No be only

The harder you try to prove it shows that you are not ibo

GodWrites:
Never in my life did I imagine that I'll be doing this, I mean, writing about the small dark in Nigeria - Abia State.

This small state, located in the south eastern region of Nigeria is allocated more than 70 billion naira annual, yet still lack back amenities such as electricity, pipe water, i better not talk about the road.

The last time I traveled to Abia, it was during the last Christmas holiday. I needed to visit my siblings, as they were the only relations I have. Also, I wanted to explore.

I enjoyed my trip, but I wouldn't forget how abia state greeted me. When I entered the capital state of Abia State, I was greeted with utter darkness.

The disfigured tower that seems to have seen better days, had something best described as a damaged but flicking light that exposes 'welcome to abia state' sent chills down my spine.

For a moment, it was as if I've entered an alternate dimension, cause even the atmosphere felt strange.

This is the chill you get, when power is being circulated around by corrupt past and present governor.

Okezie Ikpeazu said he was in Bondage, and that was the reason he didn't perform in his first tenure. He has been reelected, but what has he done?

There is no industry, factory, or big business that can employ the youths over there. The only viable job for the youths is timber. If you're lucky to be a sales girl or boy, you wouldn't earn more than #10,000 a month.

Instead of developing abia state, they are looting the allocations, no proper accountability or transparency.

Orji Uzo Kalu who was convicted of looting billions of naira, and even sentenced to serve in years. But look at him, out in months and the populace doesn't know why or want to know.

This state needs saving. It's killing dreams. I couldn't survive two weeks in Umuahia, the capital of Abia state.

I need electricity to work, and they lack it. It's affecting small scale businesses. I made some research and discovered that the expenses on fuel alone runs in millions to keep a standard fast food restaurant running.

You are not Igbo

You wan just cause headache for this thread


I'm not Igbo but I've been to abia it's not as bad as you are trying to make it look
It's certainly not the worst state in Nigeria

When you Don marry pack your wife and children and go and live in yobe maybe that's when you will understand the definition of worse

We warn them dey nor hear

APC failed beyond comprehension and the worst part is that they have refused to admit it

muykem:
I said this after 2019 general election that it will be easier for igbo to get ticket under APC than PDP but our brothers from south east almost cut my head. Note it today if igbo man get APC tickets, he will lose the election to northerner PDP candidate because of their blind hatred toward northerners.

Stop saying gibberish

Because they don't need it

This endsars protest reboot some people brain

Is it just me

But their head Sha

I'm wandering how their children head go be

The level of Poverty in this country is something else

The problem of Africa is education

Check all this countries very well their level of education will be very low

The problem with South is division

Especially between Igbo and Yoruba

African giant by burna boy