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Truthabulabula:
I don't believe all women are evil.

I got stories to tell too mehn.
I just need the redpill temporary.

Well seem you’re different

Truthabulabula:
Some of all love good girls.

I go with good bad girls.

They run to her DM cause of way she carries herself.
Either as a slut or otherwise.

Her profile screams hoe, I'll definitly believe she is slut.

But that is exactly it,
Check redpill thread
Endless rant about women women women.

Is women the only reason relationship destroy?

What does redpill talk about randy men?
Accountability?
Integrity?
Self worth?
Hygiene?
When it comes to men in relationship

Truthabulabula:
Why I wrote hard to find good woman.
So redpill helps in a way too.

Redpill is rabbit hole.
Once in you get into it you keep digging deep and deep and deep and so it goes.

Since most of its content are about the dark women. and you read them all long. Everything start to turn and look dark and tinted.

Saddestmann:
Thanks I will check it out now

All those while you were kind, were you subconsciously asking for something but you failed to communicate them direct?
Instead you hide them in good ethical attitude?

Haylel:
What do you mean by "talking and those other stuff, I don't quite agree"?

If your mind hasn’t captured a person as a form of mental attraction.
Not connection is formed. It’s like pouring water into a close gallon.
I am sure I would be able to chat with some people so long and still just end it as chat. Done so so many times.
But it seem to be different for some, infact haven’t chatted with them much and the rolla coaster is there.

Saddestmann:
I don’t argue with strangers, You Are Right..

Covert transaction
https://rediscoveryofme.com/ulterior-transactions/

If you care to read

sapphiere:
I know what to say but I won't say it to avoid being bashed.

[s]But I just what to plead with men both young and old to please do other evil to us but stop raping us.
You can beat us if that makes you feel superior to us but please stop raping us.
Honestly I'm really tired of male gender.
What is it with you men and sex? Now raping minors is the trend.
Are you lots on a rape challenge?[/s]

What is the meaning of other things
Even ritual killings

OnionBandit:
Let's start by putting Cameroon pepper round the cap of the dick before slicing it

You nor get work, na this moniker and photo I just dey since morning

Jeon:
Urgemate

lashmate

Jeon:
Or a sexmate

knackmate rather

Haylel:
I understand you, you speak of "attraction" , which is a necessary prerequisite for "emotional connection".
For example, i'm attracted to the 18th century definition of a sexy woman. If you are not exactly like that or anywhere close, nothing you do will make me develop any feelings for you.
Thus, i can say - i'm ATTRACTED to women with beautiful, firm, hand-sized round boobs, flat tommy and shapely ass.
If you fall under this category, I automatically get attracted. But as it stands there, no emotional strings have been struck by having such figure.

I don't get you, please enumerate.

Physical(mind specifically) and emotional attraction are bit complicated than that o. Physical and emotional works hand in hand in a way that is quite complex.

Moreso attraction ain’t based on what we can see majorly, it could be disposition, way a person act, inclination and many many things.

Emotional connection for me I think it has a nature, it grows. Grows from what?
Grow from the first time you got attracted.

I think emotional attraction starts from day one and grow.

Physical attraction of a girl with curves and hips is a bit different, my hormones are the one working. Not my mind

But if my mind see someone for the first time and it hooks I think it starts there and it grows even if the person has not interacted with me so long

Haylel:
Not only 1 or 2 guys are the "club kinda" guys.
Is she going to be emotionally connected to all the "club kinda" guys she meets?
Perhaps, go to a club and get emotionally connected to the boys 'em since they all are clubbers.

Obviously not but what I am saying is that they kinda would have some similarities.

Emotional stuff is complex for people, built of complex mental model but one thing I know is it ain’t random.

Talking and those other stuff I don’t quite agree

TheUndercover:
A generation of baby mamas, sex workers, deranged family lines. The future is really bleak.

See comment wey make sense
you too legit.

But some teenager thinks otherwise

Haylel:
If the person is on your context, will there be a major connection?

Yes and my reason being that people develop emotion for some set of people.
They most time likely have similarity. They aren’t always random.
E.g some girls always develop emotion for club kinda guys
Some develop for introvert kinda guy.
That’s my verdict

Haylel:
Here is part of harddon's reply to me

LTR skill is fairly broad. I was drafting a book and I realized that I can easily pinpoint THIS and THAT (from the broad skillset) to be the main cause for Sexual connection. However, pinpointing for emotional connection is hard.
You see Harddon also said something similar in spirit to "Just keep on with the flow, emotion would naturally gyrate".

Hope you understand the reason for my question now?

Well don’t quite agree with that.
Emotion has levels and context. If a person ain’t on your context there would be a major disconnect.

Saddestmann:
Yes bro I need a lot of that am too nice and caring

Lets be real you’re not really a nice person in the way you think

MarriageIsScam:
Why a second Marriage is not necessary for a man

If you've been married before and it didn't work out, why do you want to tie yourself up in knots and trouble again ??

If it is sex you need, why don't you patiently look for an Ashi who does regular STD tests and visit her whenever the urge comes but make sure you use protection.

An Ashawo is cheaper financially and emotionally than a wife as she will not give you any stress like a wife will, she will satisfy you on the bed like a wife can't and you are not under any obligation to see her a second time and as such you are free from the troubles and drama that a wife gives a man than WILL shorten a mans life.

Reason and ponder on the above especially men who had been married once before.

DON'T DO IT A SECOND TIME. SEX YOU CAN GET WITHOUT MARRYING A WOMAN THAT WILL FRUSTRATE AND SHORTEN YOUR LIFE.

Who would take care of your children?
Who will be their mother?
Who will have your kids?

Answer: Olosho

Haylel:
I NEVER ask, I simply ACT into it. Basically, if she connects, she acts back and the engine is kicked. If she doesn't, I pump buying temperature and act again or simply drop her.
You are at her mercy if you ASK.

I wasn’t asking...
so if you act into it why do then complain of not making emotional connection?

Atonsboy:
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oya Goan retire

Welcome princess.... Lilibet

This one e don dey sound like one betting company name so, trust Naija business men.


When I go dine with kings and queens sef

HARDDON:
This is the only one that caught my fancy and we haven't treated before.

Show skills and sways in her craft. give her constructive critism and how she can better same.
But first, walk through the door effortlessly by becoming her customer, while at it, be funky weird. that is Your LON here. don't chat with her like every regular customer out their. her number would drop without much ado.




how can I brief talk with a girl I met on the road walking and then collect her phone number instantly

how can I make a girl fall in love with me on chat

pls enlighten me

Well it isn’t all about you. Stop thinking this way.
You must play your cards right and she would be willing.

If she is not ready and you play your cards right, it won’t still work.
So the job is not totally on your hand

Jesterinjay:
k. Is it safe to start a convo like : if u like me so much y send ur friend to tell me y nt tell me urself. Ps: its a chat (fb)

don't.
Simple hello is okay

Haylel:
I have blazed through the write-ups of many sages and I have diligently studied the books of many masters. I know not which to blame - my ability to comprehend or the fact that no one has truly demystified the route to the treasure which I seek.
I have blasting openers, skilled in the ways of keeping conversation going and demonstrating value, mastered the craft of humor and the cunny art of flirting, yet CREATING EMOTIONAL CONNECTION IS ROCKET SCIENCE TO ME.

Let me ask
What is your tactics of making your intention known to a lady?

Lagos

StacyO:
Same Red pillars.

Confused lot.

Well it’s a game as they call it.
Emptiness in value.

While spotting out bad trait ain’t easy
But spending more time identifying positive people and spending time with them is more profitable

Bluntguy:
Put am for reverse; her younger sister no like you but na she like you.

Hmmm nice angle.
Just as your moniker

Kolena:
Yes Bro, most especially with Nigerian girls/women.

Abeg rest jare.
Everybody like Bleep.
Stop hiding behind gender.

How many foreign girls have you come across in your life?

Truthabulabula:
To get good women as a man is hard bro.

Plenty bad ones out here.

The bad thing is that most time this guys spend a lot of time seeking out the bad in women.
In other words the bad girl seem to be the attraction.
It’s a twist.
Everyone is running to a bad girl DM
Yet calling her a hoe

Truthabulabula:
Just manipulating women and entitled leeches.
That's it for me.

Other guys possibly heart broken or duped before.

Ok fine. No qualms

Well I think Redpill is still about looking forward, why not look from the top.

Why not spend time seeking quality people and partner and avoid bad ones completely?

Truthabulabula:
Yes.

So yo see
Nothing wrong with the redpill.

All women are the same.

Sounds familiar?

If is about manipulative women then I have no problem with it but it is not maybe your own

SchoolGate:
Fvck the older sister first while you continue to aim for the younger. Who knows the younger might fall for you one day. At this stage it is not important who you like or not (emotional intelligence).
Be friendly with both of them and make moves if the younger later falls, fvck both of them. I and my friends have done it several times.

Good luck.

Is everything about fucking

Daniwes:
I am wondering how to approach it if it ever comes up with the younger... the fact she tried to make a move as well

If you ever make her let you agree you love her... then you have roped yourself.
But if you always play safe, she has nothing to throw on you

Did you ever make such confession?