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Kunlegzy85:
Please I need a job in ikorodu I have BSc in accountancy with 4 years experience in storekeeper and 4 years in inventory management please help a brother.
You can reach me on my mail :- Kunlegzy85@gmail.com.

BabsO2:
These PE's are scarily high. Any slippage in anticipated growth due to the so called 5th industrial revolution and there will be major price correction.

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Niok:
For this thieffnubu regime?
If I no fit finish am, I go pour am for polythene bag carry am go house

tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well. Encourage her to change her contraceptives, if she is slightly psychotic it might worse due to hormonal imbalance. The are always in denial too.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.

natedensel:
I lost someone recently and this girl who was an old flame came for the burial, she decided to stay till the next day, she stayed at my place overnight, we stayed up all night talking, catching up and just snuggling on the couch, she's someone I'm very attracted to sexually and physically, there was a time I thought I'd end up with her but it didn't work and we both started dating other people, so I friendzone her like I trust myself that nothing can happen between us even if she's naked, and that's why I didn't tell my girlfriend my old flame was passing the night.

When it's time to sleep she got into her lingerie and hopped on my bed, I got my duvet and spread it on the ground, trust me I'm not simping, she's someone I don't see as a sex object, I respect her and I wouldn't demoralize her for any reason even if she's a stripper, I spread my duvet to sleep on the ground and she had this look of surprise and disappoinment, I didn't care though, she then told me to come to the bed that it's big for three people, I told her goodnight, but she wouldn't sleep, she kept talking to me, asking me questions about my girl, our sex life etc, I told her everything cuz we were that close.

Eventually we all slept and the next morning she started giving me attitude, I won't go into that because it's a long story, I got fed up and asked her what's up, then she told me I am a good guy, and she hate that about me, I was like is that a bad thing? She said most guys would not let her sleep alone last night, that I should have had sex with her, that all the clues were there and I was just not getting it, that she wouldn't be contacting me anymore.

I couldn't say anything because the thought of just having her crossed my mind so many times, what stopped me is the respect I have for her, she's not a cheap slut I can just have sex with but she didn't appreciate my respect, second reason is, I also hold myself in high esteem, playing hard to get is a game two can play afterall we both moved on, third I have a girlfriend for Pete sake, lastly, she fit later say I pressured her into having sex and I have seen what ruin that can do to a man's life, was I wrong to exercise restraint and self control? Now she's hating me so much.

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

nobilie:
After childbirth, sex lose flavour for lots of couples cos the wive's vagina no longer grips after natural birth. Leading to masturbation and adultery. For those who due to the fear of God remain with their spouse, sacrifice all

iwaeda:
#15 trillion to Chagouri, a road they have not started,they already have N3k toll fees in mind.

Putindbutt:
Go to the north, join bandits and go inside the bush, you'd get what you want.

lordnkem000:
Are you sure there are a lot? Because we don't hear their own stories, atleast to reassure people like myself who still find marriage attractive. TikTok, YouTube and co has reduced marriage to shambles. I don't believe it is because we breed weak men these days. We need couples with blissful marriages to speak up

BigDawsNet:
Just imagine saving a 20m in a US bank and u commot face for 34 years...

Now ur $5m will be smiling at u in the US bank with some interest... which may be converted to around eight billion one hundred twenty-six million one hundred fifty thousand naira

Malroux:
Marriage is the biggest achievement for women in this life.

Creamypie:
Is that the wife thats looking like man am seeing there? Or I need wash my eyes with pami

Biodun556:
Naira is bouncing back and everything is being done to fight the artificial spike but if you didn’t ask Buhari to return it to N300 (parallel market) where he met it in 2015 or you didn't ask Obasanjo to return it to N21, if you fear God, you should give Tinubu some breathing space before asking him to make it N780.

Don't die of hypocrisy.

It was N21 in 1999 before Obasanjo was sworn in and Obasanjo left it at N120-N125 in 2007. 104% fall.

In 2009, Yar’adua left it at N145-N171. Official and parallel market respectively
46% fall.

And by the time Jonathan was leaving in 2015, it was N199-N300.
129% fall.

By 2023 when Buhari left, it was N420 at official rate and N780 at parallel market.
480% fall.

Without floating it, it fell by 104% under Obasanjo: 46% under Yar'adua; 129% under Jonathan and 480% under Buhari...without floating it.

By 2027 when Tinubu will finish his term, it will be just and fair to rate his performance. You can go ahead and start to sell Toyota, the truth is what is posted above. Don’t come and be unfortunate by acting as if somebody did any good job with our exchange rate despite the volume of subsidy put into it.

In conclusion, I have seen that President Tinubu is all out to fix that problem once and for all but it will be a long battle. Binance has been deactivated and fined. Illegal BDCs are finding it difficult to operate while over a thousand have been deregistered among other decisive steps and going by the number of BDCs Emefiele registered and a lot of economic criminalities known to us all, one won't be surprised at how it fell by 480% between May 29, 2015 and May 29, 2023 despite its non floatation.

#SWA

Sir Sunday Adewale Adeniran

LoveTalk:
Hello everyone.

Please, I need your advice as I am confused at the moment.

I am to choose between the job of 130k on the mainland or job of 330k on the island. Pls note that I started the 130k few months ago and I spend 600naira daily on transport (about 13k on transport for a month). It is on the mainland and not far from my area. No traffic or whatsoever. My colleagues are amazing people, and the workplace is super convenient. I didn't apply for the job, but the CEO gave it to me when I messaged him that I needed job, so he decided to help me by giving me the job. He is a good man who cares about people. I can say that he motivates me a lot.

I am to start the 330k soon, but it is on the island, and I am to spend about 4k on transportation (about 90k). I will still have the balance of 240k left on me after removing transportation.
I am confused because I don't know how to discuss it with the CEO who assisted me. I am thinking that he will feel bad, and our relationship will be affected. Sincerely, he is a good man, and he motivates me a lot, but the pay is small compared to the new offer I got.
Both jobs are secured and safe.

Please, Advise me.
Which one should I go for and why?
Thank you.

BEANSndPLANTAIN:
I can feed you for 2 years without complaining.
I am telling you there is no innocent rich man in Nigeria and you are arguing. What's your problem. I don't like to bragging

sunnymighty:
Had a similar experience with a driver two weeks ago, not PMT though the driver deliberately avoided the receiver's call and in the end we were made to part with another money before they could release the load to the receiver.

HeatSeeker:
The bitter truth 😔

Stephen2324:
Would you cheat back if your partner cheated?

money121:
“We accidentally had s*x one of the days you went to work” - Lady reacts after being called out by her Ex-Best friend for snatching her boyfriend.



fergie001, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

Tpharell:
UPDC, Conoil and SUNU all on maximum red with full offer despite impressive results. People saw the good results before now and took positions earlier

Truth234:
What Ndubuisi said here is not true.

“That is why foreign investors are not coming for that 45 per cent gain because if you made 45 per cent on equity but lost 50 per cent on currency, with 30 per cent on inflation, you are poorer”, he said

Investors are not coming to Nigeria because of the nation's unpredictable policy changes and dollar illiquidity due to poor economic structure. It is dangerous if policy changes when you are already in, basically uncertainty.

But when it comes to making money. They will make money via arbitrage and several other methods. Nigeria's interest rate is almost 30% in most developed economies it is way lower, borrow money abroad and fix it here then do fx forward contract to lock your fund against inflation and fluctuation in naira value, so you can repatriate.

fergie001:
Tokunbo Wahab
Commissioner for Environment & Water Affairs, Lagos State

Gistwurld:
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My husband is a medical doctor. I have a 22years old sister of mine staying with me cos I don't have a maid. Few days ago. There was no light. I woke up at the middle of the night and my husband was not on bed with me. I was seeing a reflection of light at the parlor and I went to check and noticed the light was coming from my sister's room. do you know what I saw. My husband was seated looking at my sisters vulya. My sister was deeply asleep or will I say forming sleeping, Cos what I don't understand Why
somebody will shine a torch in your vagina and the reflection won't wake u up. She was wearing a nightgown without underwear.
My husband claimed he was only examining the vulya cos my sister complained of having issues there. He
claimed they are not having any sexual intercourse. He even got angry with me for thinking he will do such thing with my sis.
Believing them makes me see my self like a fool. My husband said he's only helping my sister.
So that tomorrow he will write medication for her. That he knows my sister won't be comfortable allowing him to examine her and doctors can't arrive at a diagnosis without examining the patient. Please Kindly share your thoughts on this cos I want to escalate this matter

immortalcrown:
Medical examination indeed.

First, ask your sister if she actually told the "home" doctor that she has a problem around the place. But be gentle and friendly during the conversation. Don't pay attention to her words alone, also observe her facial expression. Update us on your findings so we can properly advise you.

Honestly, I don't trust this doctor in this matter. Doctors don't treat relatives or themselves. Thar doctor is locating ovarian cysts

If you as a married male medical doctor gets such a complaint from any female of any age in your home, inform your wife or even carry her along when going for this kind of medical examination. Don't make a stupid move and expect God to shout from Heaven, "My son is innocent!".