Bradford111: Please I need advice on how to go about this she just got admission into the uni the pregnancy is about 2 month old I need help please Nigerians
depends on the course and school. Which school and tribe. Have a suggestion. Did she provide scan
Tell him to read when the body says NO by Gabor Mate. I recieved sense.
Wickedfact: He is beyond foolish. Bros, this guy has debts lined up 6 months in advance. Not for him, not for investments, for family. When he got this new job, his mother decided build a bigger house and build another in the village (father is late). Na this mumu dey foot majority of the bills. As he is, he has uncompleted projects opening mouth to swallow his money. Do you believe that this fool sponsored his gf abroad? Meanwhile, he has a brother who is also doing well. That one doesn't answer them.
MALIGNANTGuest: .......na today Move her to the USA now and see what she is made of & things she will be capable of in weeks. Na so some TIGRESSES bin dey receive me for Airport too. Some dey even carry Nkwo'obi come meet me for Arrival unit.
When dem want marry dem turn into snail, acting patiently and quietly. The moment dem become MRS, dem bkom Tigress to your MaMa and siblings. Drawing the curtains closed against your siblings. Thereafter, dey start sowing seeds of discord swiftly. Many men have bin dia.
My ADVICE IF you want to keep getting those undiluted hugs, please ensure she is domiciled in Nigeria. Don't ever file in documents to relocate her. Even if she wants to cheat, please avail her the opportunities, for that is nothing compared to suicide and mass shooting in diaspora.
I have similar problem, been cautious in talking less, as in compulsive with no gain. Think it childhood trauma.
Jackanda1: Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.
While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.
Examples: 1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.
2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning. I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept.
These are just few examples i can type now, there is more.
I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?
This best advice but when we are in love we are not rational. Let you spouse be herself, you love people with there choices. Read about attachment trauma.
Unrated900: Brother don’t come to Naija yet ooooo Don’t let village people brings you down here fully oooo I have few friends in this situation Immediately they landed to Naija Canada became very tough on them to go back Bro Better chill in Canada And keep ur self busy Las las ur daughter is still going to be yours Let her continue her wayward life style I stopped here
antinarcotics: I am a Nigerian scientist and researcher based in the USA. Recently, I vsited my town in delta state, Nigeria for a research on substance abuse.
What I saw, to say the least is alarming. A whole town in delta state is hooked on a drug called SWINOL.
This drug contains Flunitrazepam, a highly potent and dangerous benzodiazepam, which can be lethal and highly addictive even at a dose low as 1mg. This is very worrisome, as the addicts to SWINOL cuts across all age groups in the town.
I made some background research and findings reveal that the drug is produced by Swiss Pharma Nigeria Limited.
I visited the open drug market in Onitsha, and I got the drug easily. It is virtually sold in all the shops I entered. This is a schedule A controlled substance, the how come it's every where in the open market. I visited the open market in Lagos, it is sold there too freely. Other brands I saw include Rophynol and Hypnox.
We must do something urgently about this life threatening drug called SWINOL. It is killing the youths in my town.
I call on the Federal Government to look into the sales and distribution of SWINOL, HYPNOX AND OTHERS.
Gerrard59: Nigerian students in Ukraine said the same thing on Nairaland and Twitter when the US warned that Putin would soon invade the country and pulled out her officials. The same happened in Afghanistan, where the then Afghan presido said "the Taliban won;t take over the country"
My advice is: always follow the intelligence report of the US esp when it concerns her citizens/embassy officials in other parts of the world. The moment they are pulling out their people, start preparing for the inevitable.
especially within 48hrs. They have concrete Intel. Hope Nigerian forces will request for assistance.
Woman needs respect, man needs power. A woman who needs power will need less ambitious men, a man who won't respect a good woman needs the entitled types. I love my fiance and I respect her, if she does anything like cheating, I will be kind to respect her decision to leave quietly. If she as unrealistic expectations of me, I will not try to convince her otherwise. If am judging her by others too, it unfair. Whoever will cheat will, learn to prepare all negative actions and positive actions in a relationship can happen to you. Mine is know what you can tolerate. We all have friends, relatives and siblings, they are part of the dysfunctional relationships out there. No perfections.
Saintinoo: Good evening nairaland family. I have never been in such a situation where i am afraid to make mistake like this.
I have been with this girl for more than three years, of courses i promised her marriage, but i have been seeing so many red flags which after doing my findings, takes me to her being a narcissit.
My problem with her:
1. She wants to control and dominate 2. She loses control of her words when angry; she talks to anybody in any manner she likes when she is angry 3. When she is wrong, instead of apologising, she rather manipulate you to take the blame (gaslighting) 4. She appears disrespectful at times, you dare not tell her that she is disrespectful, she will bring up manipulation.
Her good side:
1. She is a type of woman you can call good woman, considering the moral decay of our society 2. She is a virgin, even though am not bothered about that 3. She can go any lenght to make sure her man and family is ok 4. She cares about me so well, prays for and check on me very well. 5. She is contented with the little i give, even if i know she nags about it sometimes. 6. She is always ready to help when things goes bad.
This good sides if hers is the reason i have still not kicked her out, but the red flags are so clear and i would not want to over look that.
Pls advice, because i think these behaviour of hers won't go, and if i marry her, i have to live with with.
Sir nobody is complete, my dad married 3, all left including my late mum, na gentleman he be too, it never going to be perfect. Just know what you can't stand at all, because we rarely change as people.
How can you wish Nigeria well and support a man that says "100 bags thousand barrels of oil." Does it make any sense to you?
Just imagine a Tinubu addressing the General Assembly of the United Nations with a 10-15 seconds pause after every incoherent statement. It will be a tragedy!!!! 105,000 barrels of oil
A vote for Peter Obi is also an indirect vote for a Tinubu Presidency, children will not understand this but the sensible ones with get the message.
A vote for Atiku who picked Peter Obi as running mate in 2019 against the will of the South East leaders is a vote for a man who believes in Nigeria.
frowland: You know nothing about building & construction. To run a conduit aircondition alone on that building am seeing up there should cost you nothing less than 200-300million: and that’s just cooling system. You guys are funny. 2Billion is unsurprisingly within the price range.
Emma1Oj: Remove Ambode from your performed list bcus he did notin. Tinubu did better Dan him. Fashola was the main Oracle!!
You will progress in your endeavors. Ambode is like mini tinubu. All the useless local government road he did done spoil finish. No government in lagos has hold local government accountable.
You are just the privilege few. 1% of our population is around 2.6 million, NDIC stated only 2% of 70 million bank account holders have above 500k balance(less than $1,000) we have states with 80% unemployment rate. Your are correct with some of your references too but it hard to admit our people are very poor. Home many industries do we have, those household mention are the kids and wives worth $70k above too. I think that 28 million is wrong because you are using fg deceitful rate instead of black market rate.
zed7: A man's net worth includes his houses, shares, landed properties etc. A person may not have 500k cash in the bank but may be worth a 100m.
In my organisation, the average worker has a house and its worth more than 30m. It may have taken them years to build but its theirs. Their monthly salary may be 200k but they have property worth over 30m over the years.
Go and ask your elderly relatives how they managed to own properties even with their small income and the worth of such properties.
Go online and see the cost of cars recently, it has skyrocketed but people are still buying. Nigerians are not as wretched as being portrayed for you to say 29m naira net worth makes you the 1%. That's an insult to Nigerians.
Sure, they are extremely poor people who earn less than a $1 a day but your data is extremely false.
Quite a lot of them according to there biography still displays some character flaws.
JackDaAlienz: Majority of the names you listed where kids raised without their fathers but by their mothers or aunt. Or extended family which means they were raised by their blood relatives Compared to those who are raised by totally different familes For 1 successful adopted kid There are 1000 more that are not successful
1TripleC: 6-6years no be beans oo...and the girl is just too good.She has been my motivation.with her I became financially independent
. Do your court wedding. Do blood group test too. The babe my mum said I shouldn't marry is married now, my mama Don die now. Ensure she agreed as an adult.
engreddy: This is my experience with Maduka Promise Umeh
15 July, 2022 - 26 July, 2022 I needed a 300w solar panel. I saw his listing on Jiji and contacted him and he said 45k and waybill was going to be 1k. So, I sent him 46k. After about 10 days, the panel arrived. I paid 3k waybill and collected it.
Immediate, I noticed that the panel was not 300w (actually 199w but a sticker was made and papered over the original 199w). Immediately drew his attention to it. I also had to confirmed from my other 300w panels.
28 July 2022 I sent back the panel to him and paid 3k again for another waybill.
4 August, 2022 After much excuses and up and downs, he said he had collected the panel the logistic company. Now, I was expecting a replacement. There was none.
I demanded for a refund and sent him my account details. He promised to. Then he stopped answering my calls or responding to my messages.
After several calls and no answer, I resorted to using other numbers to call him which he would immediate pick. Along the line, he made a statement that the place he bought the panel from, they do not want to give refunds, that he is trying to get them to refund but they do not want to. I told him that I bought the panel from him and not anyone else. He advertised the product not the company, that I sent him money not any company and it is him I am going to hold. He said that he will have to refund the money to me.
17 August, 2022 - 1 September, 2022 After asking me to drop my account details for refunds, then he made excuses of Zenith Bank network problem. I sent him my zenith bank and he promised to send the money. Then he stopped picking my calls.
Then I informed the person who had given me the money for the panel who began speaking with him. As he did with me before, he will say something that he does not intend to do. He said he travel to the village for his gramma burial and will return to Lagos and then return the money (as if staying in his village prevent him from transferring someone's money).
This is just a summary my experience with him. I have bought several things from different people online - Jiji, Nairaland, Facebook, Instagram. I let my guard down, at the least, I should have made a video call and demand to have his Facebook profile before any transaction.
One thing I have noticed about him is that when you speak with him, he will sound nice, reasonable and you would want to give him the benefit of a doubt. But give it sufficient time, you will see his true color. He is a very shifty character.
Buyer's Review on Jiji After my experience on the purchase, I left a review on his page on jiji. He deleted the review so that other buyers will not see it.
If you yourself don't want to be scammed, who will sell panel 300W at that price. Only sticker panel.
Honourable1901: all this fact check people are just dull...the only thing verifiable is the 3rd largest economy..but the rest are just mere political talk and paparazzi..how can you say a verdict is wrong when you can't access the document supporting the claim.. I have read over 30 documents stating lagos was earning 600 to 700 million as IGR in 1999,as well as gazettes from lagos state government.
Anyways they are only telling us what we want to hear,as far as the election is concerned peter obi has told more lies
CaptainZubi: I mean why should you treat a postgraduate student like an undergraduate.
Earlier today a lecturer sent a 40 something year old married man with kids to buy peak milk for him
. A friend boss doing PhD in unilag, this man rolls with governors and director but in his fifties. Lecturer told him to come find thesis script thrice, another told him to pay business class ticket.
Jennygold111: Is it wise to play along with been a Christian as an Atheist? I am finding it difficult to fake, it seems like a major blow to myself to lie to myself.
Adebisi0070: I married this Lady 2years back, we courted for 3 months and then we did our wedding. After our wedding we found out we will be expecting a baby, few months later my wife changed drastically in character, she became abusive & hostile towards me. She insults and hits me. I thought it was pregnancy hormones, i over looked and loved my wife. After delivery she grew worst, she does'nt lack anything from me, i reported to my in-laws, they called their daughter to order yet no change, i reported to my parent, infact she rained insult on me in present of my mum & granmom. Everytin to make peace no way, last month i called my wife inside & asked her why this character? She started cryin & she said "her dad abused & misused her mother, always her mom was going through pains, after all she saw, she vowed she wil not subject to any man'' i cried with her and assured her that am not her father & i wont act as him. My wife changed only 2 weeks & grew worse. Am fade up, i want a DIVORCE. What do i do my fellow N'Ls?
my neighbor suffered postpartum Depression. You guys can see your family doctor for guidance. The lady lock � us all out thrice. Have to encourage the husband to consult a doctor, she is better now and with there second child. All the very best.
mfm04622: Having just 1 gram is a crime! Our laws doesn't distinguish between possession with intent to consume and possession with intent to distribute.
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