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Depending on my mood:

When he makes me laugh: Yoruba Bush Boy

i am just happy: Oga

Other times: Name + Surname

Rarely: My Baby

Flowers as a gift, i dont appreciate it.

But i like those big ones used for decor, so if its the big sized ones for decor, I dont mind but if its all those one- stick something that i see on western movies, seroiusly, i dont appreciate them. Where would i keep it? It would only occupy space and after sometime when i get tired of seeing it, i throw it away.

So what exactly is the use?

Can someone fan me? She betrayed me.

What is the meaning? "Fan"?

I really cant tell you waht you could do but i just cant help wondering how you guys could be dating for 7 years. How old are you Guys? Long dating of courtship is not always the best man. It gives room for a whole lot of distractions.

Equally i dont understand the gal about throwing her SIM away so the Guy cant call her again. There sure are other ways of them contacting each other.

Ask yourself some questions and then trying answering them. Define you relationsip with the Gal before you make your reconcilatory or departure move.

Everyone has a past. I tire for men so what is your problem now? I remember seeing one thread that guys prefer the experienced gals to the inexperienced. So how do you expect her to have gotten that experience if she hadn't dated your friend.

Really i tire for Guys. Accept her as she is. PERIOD.

Guys discuss gals and gals discuss boys.

The differnce is in the depth of the discussion. Girls gist about Guys are hardly intimate but check out guys when they talk about gals. Bedmatics is invoved. That's why they say they kiss and tell. Thier own gist no get limit.

I detest it. Smooth and clean is my deal any day, anytime

The sad thing is that once you get older, these same girls (women) will start looking for you to settle with. This will continue to happen as long as there males and females on this planet.

WORD!!!

I must tell you that there is this thing about the make up of a woman that even the women themselves can not understand. 18-25 yr old gals like men who would roughen them up, HARD or BAD boys, 26 upward when its time for marriage they want that loving nice good man but that is for the wise women though.

So poster keep being nice some gal somewhere is going to come ur way soon.

So where are all them girl and guy fighters? Or is it just in the movies i see them? Nawa O!

Divine healing, Uncle.

@ poster, i love your courage what with the guys we have today. So long as there's something on ground no matter how little, it would definetly grow. Go ahead boy, dont let your folks make your decision, you have your life to live.

You and your gal will grow together, and that makes for more strength and unity.

I think its blue.

Who cares? His supporters(family and friends) i guess cos to the best of my knowledge he has no fans.

As sad as it is to admit, i must agree that you are not wrong. Sometimes, it baffles me when i see the time and cost gals spend on fashion and make-up. it feels like our whole world revolves around fashion.

But i must point out that Guys equally encourage such and that is why, more and more decent gals will keep turning themselves to masqurades with nothing to offer when you come closer.

Please girls let's develop ourselves more by reading more books, listening to the news, reading more papers and listening to intelligent people when they talk.

Lately, i started laying pressure on myself to read papers and listen to the news, initially thought they were boring but then, its a step to learning at least politically and otherwise.

Look good always but be sure to have something to offer to meaninigful discussions. It makes you complete.

When i was in school, i never thought of marriage maybe because i was quite young and marriage seemed so far to me.

I wouldnt condemn you for asking, it depends on your age and your own mentality, you want to settle soon. You are not wrong for asking. It iis mandatory for one to define any relationship one is in especially your type that has gone on for years.

Sweetheart, if he is not ready, you have to move on before it becomes late and you cry "Had i Known"?

@ poster, i understand what you are going thru, you are convinced but still have a little doubt, it's okay. It happens to everyone of us. Don't mind them acting like they have never experienced such before.

Its okay to follow your heart. Everybody would age someday whether she looks older than you or not.

So Bros, if you love her, if she is all you desire in a woman, go for her. Life is to be lived to the fullest. Love is all that matters. It covers alot.

Cheers!!!

Once one, always one. Can't see him making a good partner to a straight Person

I didnt quite get what your thread is about, rather very long and a bit disjointed at least from the first two paras

@ streak, are you just beefing or what

@ poster, i am a graduate and dating a Guy that does not have a degree certificate. Now i will tell you something, certificate does not place food on the table, certificate cnnot take care of you. It is a piece of paper conferred on somebody.

Life is about development. My man reads alot of books and unless i tell you, you wouldn't know he is not a graduate. I would agree that his speech is not that perfect but i help me all the way, i studied languages. I tell you that he is much more knowledgable and focused than some so-called graduates i meet. Education is good but you must not be in a four-walled classroom before you are classified as educated. The Books you read and the association you keep can get you educated but only the wise know this. These would boost his carriage and person.

You have to look at the contents of a container rather than the container itself. The Heart is the thing to consider. Help him out. Encourage him to learn.

Well i believe wisdom comes more with age. At a time i reasoned like your friend. I never believed i could ever date a non-graduate. How now? What happened to all the male graduates? But i am so blessed by the choice i have made.

Be wise!!!

Spoilt please i would be so grateful if you could give me a reliable stockbroker that is quite affordable as in prices.

@ ebo can youpease stop with this your "if they hadn't mentioned catholic here, i wouldn't have said anything"? You dont have to go left cos someother person is going left. Like i said earlier sentiments aside when dealling with a larger front.

If you are saying Anambra is right cos the catholiic church does same, then admit waht you are saying and not telling me you only mentioned it cos somebody else said so.

be your own man. make your decisions and stand by it. The two are different issues.

Now who are you to criticise them? You insult them and you insult their Creator. They did not create themselves.

And dont tell me you are that jobless to be posting this and wanting to thier pics to even compare. That is the height of it. What do you even want to compare the shape of thier noses or the structure of thier teeth?

I worry when i see a thread without a single response, so i decided to post this,

And no, i have not heard anything else apart from the one you just told me.

so where the hell are those masqurady-looking gals i see on streets of Accra, lagos and Abuja?

Or am i to believe that we are all decent gals with little or no make-ups on Nairaland? Na wah Oh!!!

"When i was a child. i thought like a child now i am a man, i should think like a man"

Now i really dont see how the catholic church or anyother is coming into this matter. This is a decision being taken for a state of how many towns and people are here saying if the catholic church condemns it then why shouldn't Anambra?

Whether or not you use it is on a personal note, when taking decision for a large number of people you have to put sentiments aside and do what is in the best interestt of the people.

@ebo, would you rather see your friends and family dying of AIDS? I guess not. Preach abstinence at its best but people should be given an option to still live thier lives as they deem best.

"Life and death i have kept before you but i urge you to choose life that it may be well with you"

Now that would be so  so sad and quite disappointing coming from Obi the man i have proudly supported and respect his vision for his state all along. In every sense of it, it is wrong.

I really do not know why some people have chosen to reamain in the dark and at the end of the day is the government going to take care of those babies produced? or they are going to leave them to start constituting some kind of nuisance loitering around and begging for money. Please they should use thier tongue to count thier teeth.

Not too surprised though this is what we get when they refuse to give opportunity to the younger ones.

Mary kay basic skin care is da bomb. Started using it and everybody says my face is clean and clear. Loving it every minute of the day, Be sure to go for your range. 3 is for Oily skin.

Where then are the fashionables if everybody here is forming stylish? I beleive that every human is a product of the two at one time or the other.

Can i ask a question? Would you rather not wear something you like because it is in vogue? I doubt it.

As for me, i like doing my own thing but if i like something in vogue and it looks good on me, why not, i wear it.

Looking good is all about balancing the two sides. have fun peeps.

Cant say thanks enough to every poster here, sincerely grateful for the concern, God bless.@ Spoilt, reindeer, fsb, amsky, idupaul, naijaking, slavia. I have really learnt enough plenty, so grateful. I got the result and like i said, would get back to the thread to let us know. Nothing was found in the urine. Below is the HVS Mlds Result

Micro: Pus Cells: 1-2phf

Epith Cells: +

Yeast Cells: Numerous

Culture: Yielded heavy growth of Candida Albican after 24 hr incubation


He said i should take it to a Pharmacist for medications. Thanks y'all.

What is it with you guys and church? Mosque nko?