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RomanceRe: Do Fights Help Or Hurt Relationships? by Stegomiah(op): 4:57pm On Jul 04, 2013
Popowaa: Since we are all different and might have different opinions no matter hw compatible we are we will definitely disagree on sm things but the most important thing to watch what u say no mattr hw angry u are cos it can cause a lot of pain to the other party,but healthy quarrels helps the relationship to grow.
Nice post, but is there anything like a healthy quarrel? If yes, please expantiate and which one is the unhealthy one?
RomanceRe: Do Fights Help Or Hurt Relationships? by Stegomiah(op): 4:53pm On Jul 04, 2013
Mynd_44: Yes it is. Punch her and let her shoot you
Lool, we are in Nigeria not America. Except you are in the force or security related fields, majority are not licensed 2 have/own a gun
FamilyRe: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Stegomiah: 4:49pm On Jul 04, 2013
Space booked!
FamilyRe: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Stegomiah: 4:48pm On Jul 04, 2013
Suicide is not a solution to whatever you are going thru, it ends the possibility of things getting better, it kills the hope for a brighter future/tomorrow.

Another thing is that God gave us life, and taking it away by yourself is a great sin before God, infact suicide is the greatest sin sm1 can commit. Av read some posts about people feeling suicidal here in the family section, and i think these people needs help, and counselling, am using this medium 2 plead on dia bhalf, please do not insult, push, blame..them, they need words of encouragement, motivation and inspiration and i think that is the aim of this thread in the first place, and 4 those having a suicidal tot/feelings pls come out and share with us so we can help, and avoid being lonely cos research has shown that majority of those that commit suicide at one point or the other do isolate themselves 4rm people, pls be free 2 share with us. †нªηкs!
NYSCWoman Crippled By NYSC Camp Commandant by Stegomiah(op): 1:39pm On Jul 04, 2013
Miss Mercy Okpithe joined the Dance Troupe on the Orientation Camp of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Anambra State in November 2012. But four months later she was severely beaten up by the Camp Commandant.

Captain S.O. Beke attacked her about 11:00p.m on Monday, March 18, this year. She allegedly fainted and was rushed to the camp clinic. The following day, she was transferred to the Anambra State University Teaching Hospital, Awka. At the hospital, she was diagnosed with dislocation of coccyx, a small triangular bone at the base of the spinal column.

The hospital further referred her to the National Orthopaedic Hospital, Igbobi, Lagos, for special attention. It was gathered that she might be flown abroad for surgery.

Mercy was visited by the correspondent in her home at Lagos. As she lay down on a couch in their living room, the young lady writhed in pains, even as she struggled to answer the reporter's questions. "When the Batch A corps members were in the Orientation Camp in March, this year, the NYSC officials invited members of the Dance Troupe to the camp to teach the new corps members how to dance. We got to the camp in the evening of Sunday, March 17.

"We were 15 all together: 11 boys and four girls. The girls were not meant to stay together in the same room with the boys. But we had to because there was no vacant room. The following morning, the NYSC State Coordinator gave a directive that a separate room should be given to the girls. But the officials could not find a vacant room for us.

"So, they put us in one of the rooms occupied by some Batch 'A' female corps members. We took two mattresses each to the place. There were no bunks. So, we spread the mattresses on the ground. Thereafter, the other three girls slept but I was still awake. I was listening to music on my phone, using an earpiece.

"Around 11:00p.m., some soldiers came into the room. They were both males and females. I felt it was a normal thing because they did the same thing when I was in the camp for orientation exercise in November 2012. Then, I noticed that a female soldier was arguing with one of my friends, Ifedayo Fakehinde.

"Then, the female soldier forcefully removed one of the mattresses which she slept on. Ifedayo sought to know her offence and the soldier hit her. I quickly rose up and caught her as she was falling. Otherwise, she would have hit her head against the wall. But she sprained her hand.

"The incident caused a scene. Many corps members came out and argued with the soldiers. As this was going on, Ifedayo was crying. We calmed her down. Then, the NYSC Schedule Officer came around. He sought to know what happened. As I was explaining what I knew about the incident to him, I heard the voice of the Camp Commandant telling all the corps members to go inside.

"Before I finished my explanation, the commandant came and pushed me. I sought to know why he pushed me. But he pushed me again. I told him to stop pushing me because he could not push his sister like that. But he continued until he pushed me to the wall. Then, he kicked me from the ground and I hit the ground with my back. I couldn't move. Then, I heard other soldiers saying 'die, die, die' till I passed out."

According to a sourse, the Schedule Officer ran to call the State Coordinator, Mrs. I.B. Ekpe, when the commandant was purportedly beating the corps member.

Mr. Solomon Okpithe, Mercy's father, said an official of the NYSC called him on phone in the afternoon of Tuesday, March 19, telling him that Mercy was involved in an accident and that he should come to Awka immediately.

The official told Mercy's father to come with somebody who would stay in the teaching hospital to take care of Mercy. When he got to the hospital with his wife at about 12:30p.m the following day, they were shocked to hear that she was brutalised by the camp commandant. Okpithe said the first thing that came to his mind was how to save his daughter's life. He sought to see the Chief Medical Director (CMD) of the teaching hospital but could not see him until about 7:00p.m when he came out from the theatre.

"I asked the CMD about my daughter's condition, but he said the hospital could not handle it and he would refer her to Enugu. I told him that I was from Lagos and asked if he could refer her to any hospital in Lagos. Then, he said he would refer her to Igbobi. Immediately, he instructed the doctor that was in charge to write the letter.

"On Thursday morning, we were at Igbobi. The doctors at the hospital tried but the sad thing is that they told us they could not handle it too. They said it's not just an orthopaedic case but something that has to do with the spine. They treated her and asked us to take her home. Then, they gave an appointment," he said.

On the next appointment day, according to Okpithe, the hospital said the first option, which was the treatment by orthopaedic doctors, had failed. "They said they were taking another option now and if it fails, the third option would be a surgery." Okpithe, who has since been responsible for his daughter's hospital bills, disclosed that Mrs. Ekpe promised the family that NYSC would reinburse whatever amount spent on the treatment, adding that Ekpe said she had informed the national secretariat of NYSC in Abuja about the development and had also written a letter to the NYSC in Lagos State about the incident.

"I have received calls from one Mrs. Daniel from the NYSC Office, Lagos, telling me I should accept their sympathy on my daughter. But on the other hand, Mrs Ekpe never stated the cause of the dislocation. I know she's doing that to protect the officer." Okpithe, an engineer, urged the Chief of Army Staff to ensure proper reform of the army, especially those in charge of NYSC.

He also advised the Federal Government to provide necessary items for corps members on the camp. The issue of inadequate mattresses, he said, caused the problem. When contacted on phone to react to the claims, Captain Beke neither confirmed nor denied the incident.
http://sunnewsonline.com/new/cover/no-mercy-for-mercy/

RomanceDo Fights Help Or Hurt Relationships? by Stegomiah(op):
Just as it is stated, i need Nlanders opinions/views...on this issue and how?

I personally believe that there is hardly a relationship without fights/quarrel/silent thing....

My question is does fight helps or hurts and how?

NB: fights as in disagreements, heated arguements, quarrel, silent thing....not physical combat or any form of abusive relationship, †нªηкs!
RomanceRe: Reasons Which May Stop A Guy From Marrying The One He Loves by Stegomiah(op): 11:59am On Jul 04, 2013
Pedro JP: No 7 on point. Once u can do dat i blieve others won't b a problem and moreover she wud maintain her youthfulness and youngness for a long time with smiling. Hmmm!! Wudn't want sthing dat just looking at her face irritates cos i wud want to drill my wife with the urge with which i met her at 20s at her age of 40s
Hmmn, †нªηкs! 4 contributing.
RomanceRe: If You Can Believe This, You Can Believe Anything. by Stegomiah: 5:54pm On Jul 03, 2013
@ op, i think life is all about choices, d choices we make brings about our personality i.e who we really are! It does not matter if u're beautiful/fugly aldo d definition of beauty varies, what matters is our personality weda u or a guy or a lady, people cheat 4 diff reasons best known 2 them but what i do agree with is that beautiful women get more attention...and women are more moved by what they hia and feel, making dem more likely 2 fall 4 d guy giving dem more attention, sweet talking.. Yl dia partners in a LID is only limited 2 communication which at times can be boring.
But the truth is: it all comes down 2 personality and d choices you make!
So, i won't agree with d OP, nd as a person i can't do dat.
RomanceRe: If You Can Believe This, You Can Believe Anything. by Stegomiah: 5:38pm On Jul 03, 2013
ULSHERLAN: And who says you are beautiful undecided
God bless you for this post. When i saw dat thrash spilled by d poster i rushed 2 check her dP 2 see how beautiful she is! But unfortunateley.... Can't imagine a lady deriving pleasure in saying she cheated, even if you did, i think its beta you keep quiet, what value, dignity and sense of humour do you have left? Smh 4 sum ladies
Foreign AffairsRe: Russian $200 Million Rocket Launch Turns To Disaster (VIDEO, PHOTO) by Stegomiah(op): 12:10pm On Jul 03, 2013
Too bad no one has commented so far, tot dis post will garner much views and comments. I'll Brb 2 share my opinion
Foreign AffairsRe: Russian $200 Million Rocket Launch Turns To Disaster (VIDEO, PHOTO) by Stegomiah(op): 6:15am On Jul 03, 2013

Foreign AffairsRussian $200 Million Rocket Launch Turns To Disaster (VIDEO, PHOTO) by Stegomiah(op): 6:10am On Jul 03, 2013
Almaty, Kazakhstan -- A Russian rocket carrying three navigation satellites worth around $200 million crashed shortly after lift-off from the Russian-leased Baikonur launch facility in Kazakhstan on Tuesday after its engines suddenly switched off.

The accident led to a large spill of heptyl, a highly toxic rocket propellant, but there were no reports of casualties or of any immediate threat to nearby settlements.

State-run Rossiya-24 television showed footage of the Proton-M booster rocket veering off course seconds after lift-off. It fell apart in flames in the air and crashed in a ball of fire near the launch pad.

Interfax news agency quoted an unnamed source as saying launch-pad personnel were in bunkers when the rocket lifted off.

Russia's space agency Roscosmos said the accident had been caused by the emergency switch-off of the rocket's engines 17 seconds into the flight.

Russia's state-run RIA news agency said the switch-off could have been caused by a problem with the engine or the guidance system.

The rocket contained 172 metric tons (1 metric ton = 1.1023 tons) of highly toxic heptyl propellant, Kazakh Emergencies Minister Vladimir Bozhko told an emergency government meeting.

Talgat Musabayev, head of Kazakhstan's space agency Kazcosmos, said nitric oxide - a product of burning heptyl - was much less toxic for humans. He said it was raining in the area, so toxic clouds would probably not reach the town of Baikonur some 60 km (38 miles) away.

However, the authorities instructed locals to stay at home and not to open windows, and ordered to close shops and public catering, said Kazakh Interior Minister Kalmukhambet Kasymov.

The estimated loss from the three satellites, meant for Russia's troubled Glonass satellite navigation system, was about $200 million, Rossiya-24 reported.

Russia plans to spend more than 300 billion roubles ($9.1 billion) by 2020 on Glonass, its answer to the U.S. GPS system.

The system, first conceived by the Soviet Union more than 40 years ago, has been plagued by failed launches, including one in 2010 in which three satellites were also lost, and by suspicions of corruption and embezzlement. Its chief designer was dismissed last year during a fraud investigation.

The Proton rocket, known at the time under its UR-500 code, made its first test flights in the mid-1960s.

It was originally designed as an intercontinental ballistic missile to carry a nuclear warhead targeting the Soviet Union's Cold War foe the United States. But it was never deployed as a nuclear weapon.

Several crashes of Proton rockets accompanied by spills of heptyl have led to temporary strains in relations between Russia and Kazakhstan.

Russia is increasing spending on space and plans to send a probe to the moon in 2015, but the pioneering program that put the first man in space in 1961 has been plagued in recent years by setbacks, including botched satellite launches and a failed attempt to send a probe to a moon of Mars.

To watch video go to
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ogUkEpBRNUg&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DogUkEpBRNUg

RomanceRe: The Truth About Dark Skin Women by Stegomiah: 12:02am On Jul 03, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
...chase who?.. sweeery are u drinkin Beer or Palm Wine? angry
Nah! Am taking Alomo bitter. Mtcheww
HealthRe: The Effects Of Cheating Ourselves Of Sleep by Stegomiah: 6:12pm On Jul 02, 2013
Blackteeth: This post should apply to nairaland MODS. They don't sleep at all. If you post nonesense by 2.00AM at night you will still be banned or your post hidden.
Lool, looks like they do shifting
RomanceRe: The Truth About Dark Skin Women by Stegomiah: 12:24am On Jul 02, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
...ermm sweery....I like u as a brother...may i also remind u that MOD OGUGuA is 1000,0000,000,000 preetier than u & she is half cast wit long hair & u are dark skin....I sugest u by more make up & loook sharp!(no oofeinse) angry
Last time i checked, you are still chasing her shadows! Can't you see the bold letters on the wall? I finally give up!
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 12:17am On Jul 02, 2013
[quote author=-Mr Cork-][/quote]Lool, she's very pretty and i am also in ma own little way, comparing yourself with anoda portraits a low self esteem! Anywae, †нªηкs! For ya time, d only tin i lyk about you is au u do crack me up, g2g2bed. Goodmorning! But seriously you need 2 improve ur swagz, dos lines ar old, and stop d repetition!
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 12:13am On Jul 02, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
...sweery..how can i drive a 2010 Raange Rover Sports,metalic black wit alloy wills & i cant chat up a babe.....serrrriously...when was the last time any guy from London toasted u...apart from me?? ..U shuld be grateful for my swaaga...serrriously! angry
Lwkmd! You've bin driving dis particular car for years, just vex show us d pix, with ur alloy metal wheels, airconditioned, tinted glass et.al! Yaba left guyz sef get swaggz pass you
RomanceRe: The Truth About Dark Skin Women by Stegomiah: 12:04am On Jul 02, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
...serrrrious..MOD Ogugua make Nairaland females loook really ugly & slightly fat..4real. ...she is a halfcast babe with looong nice real natural soft sweet loookin hair wink
Scam alert!!! Mod wannabe, don't know you are this desperate
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 12:02am On Jul 02, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
....ermm sweery...may i remind u that the last time u put up yor picture..i counted 72 mosskito bite on yor face....and u still tink u all that?? ..keep dreamin! undecided
Defina8ly not me, nxt time put on a spectacles and try again
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 12:01am On Jul 02, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
..Stegomiah..and may i remind u that ama playa and have nyanshed almost 40babes from Niaraland ..jussw ask Sandboys & the rest...U ever been to London? ..village girl! undecided
Liar! Am very sure in real life, you don't av d confidence to chat up a gal, you living d life you wish you had on NL! Saw u bragging earlier bout sanboy only 4 u 2 be asking if she wore a wig. Stop beating round d bush, just say it, it does not hurt
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 11:43pm On Jul 01, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
...sweery do u realize u also my woman...I suggest u berrra show resspect ...village girl!! angry
Your lines are 2 old and shabby so easy 2 predict what next you gonna type! Stumbled upon a thread in 2011, and i was astonished when i saw your beyansi lines... And i was like so mr.cork does not have anytin new 2 say again, you be oldskul, saw you toasting rokiatu on dat thread 2, all i did was to smh! Am not ya woman, wake-up Man. How ur ghetto area?
RomanceRe: Urgent: How To Deal With An Unrequited Love ? by Stegomiah: 11:35pm On Jul 01, 2013
spikes C: undecided

You mean u haven't been noticing me huh
I do, but not in romance, i think you are more involved in webmasters wateva dis dayz while kabonic don port go literature, dem just dey free mr.cork
RomanceRe: The Truth About Dark Skin Women by Stegomiah: 11:29pm On Jul 01, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
..so her name is Gibrata and she dark skin? angry
Mr cork is same peson as mr.knowitall confirmed
FamilyRe: Things Every Young Person Should Know In This Day And Age by Stegomiah(op): 7:09pm On Jul 01, 2013
Odunharry: nice one op...wish this will get across to many young people especially those in ss3 and jambites..

This is useful....op pls share on fbk page pass across 2 ur friends...

Do i av d permission 2 post some of these?

I was sharing smthing similar wit sm1 sme weeks back..
Permission granted, my goal is for many young people as possible to read this.
FamilyRe: Things Every Young Person Should Know In This Day And Age by Stegomiah(op): 7:06pm On Jul 01, 2013
fubbyy: This is bullshit, how many times are we going to read things like this, whoever that doesn't know all these must be living in pluto, this article is just like teaching adults abc, even the 12 years old here must have red this things over 100 times, why must this same thing keep coming up every now and then?
My dear judging by Nlanders comment, it aint bullshit! Infact you need to digest some of the points listed hia and bury your ego! Be a good boy, kk!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: U Think Ur Cool? Post Ur Pic Here Let's Rate. my pic 1st by Stegomiah: 12:28pm On Jul 01, 2013
Op c'mon you need to re-upload dat pix oo, cos me neva see am, but judging by peoples comment you must be very handsome, who knows ur thread can make FP! Pls repost d pictures, you can post as many as possible!
FamilyRe: Please Post Your Complaints In Here : Please Get It Off Your Chest by Stegomiah: 11:55am On Jul 01, 2013
FamilyThings Every Young Person Should Know In This Day And Age by Stegomiah(op): 11:12am On Jul 01, 2013
I have a lot to say, and I don’t really know where to begin. The age of adolescence is one you will remember forever. You will experience more than you can ever imagine in the next decade or so, both good and bad. People will come, people will go, you will be let down and you will be joyfully surprised. There will be pressure to conform and to follow the trends portrayed in the media. There will be pressure to make decisions and face conflicts. You will learn and you will grow.

It’s important that you stay true to you. Do not allow other people or outside factors to change you. You are uniquely you, and that is exactly why people love to be in your presence. Express your weirdness and do it with pride. Be funny; be silly. You are too young to be so serious. Make new friends; explore new places. Most importantly be yourself, workhard, have a purpose in life, be determined to succeed, have fun, love, and never forget to smile αℓωαчs.... Below are a list of things you should know.

1. Take risks.

It’s the risks you take that will guide you to learning more about yourself and who you want to be. Do not let social pressures turn you into someone you’re not, however. Who cares what other people think? You are your own person, and you will soon learn that the opinions of others do not matter nearly as much as you think they do.

2. There will be great friends, but foes, as well.

There will even be some great friends who turn into foes. Do not let the drama of youth run your life. Be true to your friends, be trustworthy and be honest. You will come across others who might not be your biggest fan for no reason at all. You cannot let these individuals phase you. Disregard the negativity.

3. Be good to others, and others will be good to you.

The same goes for the lovers that will come and go in your life. There will be your first love, followed by a possible broken heart, and then there will be many loves that swoop in to mend that broken heart. You will experience all types of love in this world, along with all different types of lovers that you might never expect.

4. Be a loyal and faithful lover.

Avoid temptations that will quickly turn into regrets. Give yourself the ability to say with confidence that you are and always have been a good girlfriend. To the lovers who break your heart, screw them. Second chances as hard to give as they are to come by, and more often than not, you will be disappointed with yourself for letting the one who hurt you back into your life. Always remember that there will be many loves in your life, and the right one will never let you down.

5. Explore the world!

There is so much opportunity out there. Walk through open doors. If you don’t take advantage of opportunity and dive into risks, you might never discover your true calling. Consider challenges opportunities to build your strength and learn lessons. You will find that when one door closes, another door opens.

6.Life goes on and never stands still.

Expand your horizons. Soak up different pressures! Life is not a bed of roses, face the challenges that comes your way and stand up to it. You may have setbacks, heartbreaks, failures, you may loose someone special to you, but learn to αℓωαчs move on and come out stronger cos life goes on and never stands still, also time waits for no Man.

7. Be appreciative of what you have.

You are so young-minded and naive, it’s almost funny. Do not be ungrateful. You are blessed with the life you have in itself. Appreciate what you are given, and never take it anything for granted. One day, what you once had will no longer be there. Recognize the value in even the littlest things. It’s these things that make for the best memories. Be grateful for your friends, family and support system. The people who are there for you right now will most likely be the people who will be there for you until the end.

8. The changes that you experience will shock you. There will be countless blessings that come unannounced, along with losses that happen all too quickly. While some changes will be the guides to a better future, others will be hard to accept. It’s the good and bad changes that will mold you into the wonderful individual that you are. Welcome the good with open arms, mourn the losses that you cannot prevent and save the ones that you can.

9. You have the power to empower.

Have confidence in yourself. Be a leader and enforce change. Be strong enough to stand up for what you believe in, gain support for a good cause and alter the world as we know it. The world is in your hands — don’t let it drop.

10. Some Battles Have To Be Fought Alone,
Some Paths Have To Be Crossed Alone,

So; Never Be Too Emotionally Attached to Anyone.
You Never Know When You Have To Walk Alone!
FamilyRe: How Long Did You Wait For His Proposal? by Stegomiah: 10:12am On Jul 01, 2013
You must be very happy, 6 years is much, and considering your age, i wonder what you must av bin tru, pressures 4rm friends, families, 4rm desire to desperation... Little wonder you registered and created a thread on d issue to share your joy and as well encourage does in your shoes, we are all happy for you, and we wish you the best in your marital life! Btw am in awe of your faith...
Nairaland GeneralRe: Michelle Obama Officially Joins Instagram by Stegomiah(op): 3:06pm On Jun 28, 2013
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RomanceRe: Reasons Which May Stop A Guy From Marrying The One He Loves by Stegomiah(op): 10:49am On Jun 28, 2013
spikes C: Why do u want to spoil the thread already undecided
I don't think she's trying 2 spoil d thread lyk you said, she's just trying to contribute to it! Btw, tis bin a yl spikes!

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