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PrinceNEMEREM:
GREAT ADVICE.
YOU SUPPOSE TRY DEY ADVICE PRESIDENT TINUBU TOO.

😝 If them give me appointment, you sure say I no go start dey behave like Bwala and Onanuga?

Aringon:
Bro, who never sinned should cast a stone. Lots of folks here will tell you to cancel.the wedding but let me tell you, she might have been wronged by lying she's a virgin but in the other way becomes the best woman or wife you could ever wished

A Virgin doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.

That's the bottom line

Every mallam with his kettle. OP is free to do with her what he pleases. I personally won't marry her.

If she lies about virginity because she's ashamed, will she lie about paternity of the children? Lie about a health emergency? Lie about her finance? Lie about a neighbor? Lie about my siblings?

Everyone has their own threshold of the kind of falsehood they can allow. I trust easily, never forgive a trust that's broken.

Na bootcamp una dey call am now?
Abi the meaning of bootcamp don change ni

Ishilove:
When she talk this one??

😁😁

ChizzyBuna:
Na 2k Aboki ring I go buy for her
No time to waste time

Gbam, abeg run am. So that my babe no go laff my 5k own.

QuantAnalyst:
2023 post, whats going on here

The mods are on a front page spree 😝😝

OP, after saying a lot, you ended up saying nothing of actionable use for the people in Nigeria context wey nor get money to buy diamond; price range, recommended vendors, tips to measuring ring size, etc.

Na 5k ring me wan buy sha.

Queen Elizabeth once said:
"On a norms, werey dey disguise"

richforever123:
Justice Ajumogobia’s daughter who was killed in Lagos was killed by staff gotten from Staff agency, so it is not by that one

Well, true.
May God continue to protect us.

Emdee590:
Well said @ the later part
But the problem be say these agencies charge too much.
Imagine charging me 50,000 staff sourcing. Employees weh their take home is not up to that amount

I understand it's quite expensive, but atleast you're paying for the due diligence in getting you a staff wey nor be wereh in disguise.

While we don't know how he got the services of the driver, but atleast, the agency has a reputation at stake and are potentially liable legally for a staff they assign....if said staff does something bad.

No fee is too big for getting good hands that you'll literally put your life in.

Paige001:
What is you people’s problem with feminist? Feminism is not a crime someone can be a feminist and still respect and submit to her husband, Chimamanda for example is a feminist but she stills respect her husband, Beyoncé too and the list goes on.

The Broke Feminist are loudest. And they give the "movement" a bad name that people now associate with feminism.

I say Capital Punishment!
By the same tool they committed the crime.

The should be equally bludgeon with a pestle - SLOWLY AND PAINFULLY - the pronouncement of justice should be swift in sending them to their place in Hell. Rubbish!

Please, always seek for domestic staff through reputable agencies... People that actually do background checks on the staff they assign and could potentially do staff rotation for you if you want.

fyneboi79:
Even if he was /or is smashing Franks wife,she's an adult and decided against her good consience to condesend to adultery. So make una leave Chike,bodi go tell the woman las las when Chike moves her eyes go clear say she collect ice cream abandon champagne

The adult should seek a divorce if they want to condescend to adultery. Even adults are bound by rules, all adults that break the sanctity of marriage - male or female, they're lesser than worthlessness and there's no "excusing it".

From her statements, you can easily tell than she's a very low IQ person - it's hard for who nor get brain to comprehend that you can't be entitled to another person's money.

I'm curious how you got to have the contact of such an uncouth person though.

SAMBARRY:
yes.absolutely yes.wjat is good for the goose Is good for the gandee.you can't be training and policing girls dressing and leave the boys untrained ,senseless and mannerless.thats why we are seeing am increase in nuisance value by young boys all over the place

k.

There's alot of Single, Divorced, even Widowed older women for anyone who loves them old.

But I hope by old you don't include married women. Because if the "rumours" of the Edoho Saga is true, then na all the oh_gu_n wey don ever exist naim go keeee you, keeee your music carrer, and then the fiery wrath of ha_ma_dioha go rhhhoast you for including people's wives in your dillydallies.

Otherwise, enjoy.

That mom fit naim dem dey call boyfriend jeans now. It's the equivalent of blackberry for some girls.

Amotolongbo:
You went to stay with the husband to your younger sister for 4months? 😳

Hehe.... It's weird ba. But person dey pray make e nor see situation wey go make am humble and eat the humble pie.

Personally, I wouldn't sha... I have all sisters (4) and one thing I've promised myself... Never give them (in-laws) an opportunity to see me finish.... No matter how things bad.... Staying with them, even over a weekend amaweh 4 months is an entry into that see finish.

Sonnobax15:

You get pastor as an in-law, you come dey complain of lies


Person wey dey tell expensive lies to e congregation just to put food on his table?

Well,if you're surprised,I'm not,.

Hehe... You nor dey lai lai disappoint. 🤣🤣

Dear mods,
Please note that na God go punish any vhastarhd that puts this rubbish anywhere outside of Nairaland's trash can.

The OP should also be served a 3 year ban.

Good...
Confirm the rot in our correction system na - Warder wey risk him job collect money from your hand, you don wan expose am 🤣.

That's all coping mechanism.
You used ignorance do something, and you learned the hard way.

If na so VIP treatment sweet for jail, how have you not been spending vacation there.

DeltaBachelor:
Chai ! Such is life. It would have been better for this same woman not to attend at all. However, Karma is real o. Make the groom nor forget say “ What goes around, comes around “

OP's story get K-leg, for her to be there in this drama story, and she didn't cause any problem is because their split was amicable...

...things happen to relationship that can make it split, and it's not always problem. Sometimes it's opportunities, growth or moving in different direction in life, even after being together for a while.

brain54:
Na story you dey find...


xxxxxxx

Gbam... Tales by moonlight.

ugodson:
My emergency fund as at last year July is 1.2 million since then no matter the situation salary will take care of it. My brother in law works for one of the top 3 banks in Nigeria and he put it into investment which he told me I can terminate at anytime I still have interest running on it. So it doesn't need to be 400k it can be 100k you just put aside but still hustling.

During the saving of the 1.2 I did not club, did do small chops like shawarma ice cream cos I have a sweet tooth,but after getting the money I can do that now. Like I said you can start small 50-100k and build it.good luck

Thank you Chief. All the best

killsmith:
How we deceive ourselves.

Where are the legacies of people that died thousands of years ago?

500 years time both your legacies and your children and grand children will be swept away and all will be forgotten.

Your children and their children will also bring forth their own and build on the Good or Bad Legacy you lay down.

What OP said is valid, just that it's not a good time to say it. Let the Dead Rest in Peace.

We are all offsprings of people who decided and had the opportunity/means to procreate and continue the lineage.

richmond500:
u should know sarcasm when u see one, the fact that I used #lick tongue should tell u already.

U don't run start to talk about web application

Leave sarcasm e. Bring your emergency fund make I help you run emergency web app. 😝

Btw, try learn wetin be sarcasm.

Wainey:
Are u indirectly telling me I am not serious with my life?

Mynd44 Dominique and fergie001 ona deh serious?

The guy don finally get one small work wey dey pay am, him con open thread dey say we nor serious.

OP come make I build web application for you make you take dey monitor your emergency fund 🥹

marcusverum:
...

Find women with values, hardworking women raised in solid homes who respect themselves. Women who are not selling their bodies and are not party regulars.

The kind of woman you want exists. But first you must become the man she is also looking for.

First Quoted Paragraph Above:

That's just it!!! A woman who respects HERSELF. What most men don't realize is that if you're looking for a woman to do life with, to with one who has self-worth - someone who has faced life, understood it and still didn't bend her standards just to feel among.

You can't try to make a decent woman out of a Street Project who thinks the only thing unique about her is her private parts - that most of them don't even own private rights to again - thanks to social media chraze.

On the Second Paragraph:
Gbam.... You be rubeesh man and you wan attract Queen? Shey you dhey mhard ni. A respectable ans worthy girl is a hard catch - you win her, not woo her, nor be to dey flaunt cash or cars, you gast get qualities wey she dey look for... Qualities she knows she deserves.


Lastly...
Make una try to hold conversation outside I'm horrreeeney with una partners for relationship - don't be with someone that doesn't even exercise their brains with deep conversations, that relationship go bore you to deeeeth.

E be don tey when una do Messi vs Ronaldo dicke measuring contest. Now na to measure their Leagues to justify who sani ball pass.

The Saudi League has bastard money sha.
About gameplay - individual teams in individual matches make a game - the league doesn't decide how beautiful a game turns out on the pitch.

It's NOT completely their fault.

BSc is now a dime a dozen, so most of them do Masters to edge over the competition.

I'd personally spend a year to learn tailoring than do Masters sha - Computer Scientist here.

Put chest o.

As nairaland business men no wan gree build company website for my hand, me go soon join you for farm.

On the topic:
What's the scale of 10acres? Like how many feet by how many feet.

Palm is a bit of a longer stretch, but high return once it starts producing.

I'd recommend sharing the plots you have into 3, 1 third can go for palm plantation, another third can go for cassava, while the last third can go for annual crops - corn, vegetables, that way you can also do land rotation with the slot for casava and corn after harvest.