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Putin gast dey gymn mehn... See physique 🙌🏾
The kain vodka wey go follow after that cold dive eh 😝😅

OP. You normal so? Why quoting mods in spam mode

All rice bland normally.
Remove that Avocado, and I'll eat the whole thing 😭

But people really dey wey dey eat food wey comport eself with meat and all these? Or una just dey pack 1week meat put for one plate for the gram.

Faith0:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/01/ndlea-nabs-wanted-drug-kingpin-12-years-after-killing-three-officers/

OP, add comma to separate the words in your signature. You don scatter Seun website for mobile view (horizontal scroll).

ggood:
Akwa ibom own and South east is the worst

Very rubbhesh mindset. They want to look big in the eyes of invited guest.

It makes sense sha, but the woman's face doesn't seem like she's happy.

Banks can be very terrible in how they make next of kin access near impossible. Them go ask you to sign all the things in the world before them release the funds.


I hope the children will make sure the Iye enjoys all that money and leaves this world happy. Not that Iye go dey hungry and not touch luxury, then later them o go buy aeroplane casket and kill 5 cows for burial (a disgusting habit here in the South-South)

It's funny for TikTok people.

But if I was a principal in that school you'll be arrested sha for asking the kids to repeat things that a "inappropriate for their age" while you record - even if you blur their faces.

Then for the parents of the kids, they should be ashamed of themselves, look at kids y'all raised.

Then for the school, what's the qualifications of your teachers, cos a teacher that defaults to recording students and posting on social media is definitely not professional - but of course we know una no dey employ professionals, so that una go fit pay peanuts.

Unbiased comment given.

Orinechi:
That is if your wife allows

1. That's why you should not marry rubbish and call 'it' a wife.
2. That's why a broken home situation is hard as there's no proper father-mother presence from early years.

spiSeyi:
Sexual strength is not about age but diet, peace of mind and regular exercise. my former landlord @ 90+ still dey make OS mourn and cry

You're still young, so the world appears to revolve around your erection.

When you get so wealthy that you can give your kids privilege, also instill in them DISCIPLINE AND SELF-CORRECTING MORAL COMPASS.

PulaPower:
You did not still answer his question..

You can answer hum from experience how you cut off your own ✌🏿

spiSeyi:
You lied.. a lot of guys are now discouraged even the married ones bcs s*x is what 9 out of 10 babes can bring to the table and s*x is no longer a big deal it's everywhere even getting a child doesn't require any form of martial commitment again all thanks to babay mama ideology.

When you're 70yrs old and can't hold an erection beyond first round, you'll understand that marriage was never really about sex.

WizardOfNG:
If it's true, is it not odd than a 28 year old whines and complain so much?

He may just be a grade A brat and maybe one of those nerdy type afraid to be out and mingling since many like him came to Nigeria and had a great time here with some even thinking of relocating.

Our own 70yrs old (in that guy's voice) men and women no dey whine pass this one?

The Dick is never useless.
The Dick is never stupid nor is it foolish.

The bearer of the dick is the custodian of his own uselessness, stupidity and foolishness, but he's always found blaming the glorious gbolaa for his shortcomings 🥺

The people who say "they just want to enjoy" are being dishonest with themselves.

It's mostly because of FINANCE - YOU DON TRY FEED ANOTHER PERSON FOR ONE MONTH BEFORE? Then there's the wedding list and party expenses however small the party.

Majority of others are surrounded with hoeloshoing women and they have developed insecurities about wife-ing a public project.

They abi we 😝

Donlexino:
Guy, you are not making sense at all! didn't you read where he said that he doesn't have a job and he's still struggling to survive?na your eyes the glutton boy go chop?plz op,let the boy remain there with your wicked mum...let she and her husband she rushed to marry another man under a year after the demise of her husband.

You're calling another person's mother wicked mother? Shows your poor home training.

You're forever ignored. 🖕🏾

Shouldn't you guys really look into this ugly trend of houses falling down on y'all?

Business hubs with strong structures are demolished in the name of different things; but bad buildings that should be marked for destruction, una no dey fit inspect and do the needful.

SisterAnn:
This lady says she's not working and you still advice her to take on more responsibility?

Op is an adult. If he knew he can't possibly cater for the younger brother, he won't even consider it.

Give your advice and let him do what's best for him

The unwritten law of the road is that, if you bash someone's car and you're evidently at fault. The person whose car you bash has the right to ask for a complete overhaul of whatever you damaged.

You already did good by going for the cheapest palliative fix. This mind judging you is not real 😅. But if you feel so touched by the guy's story, meet him and refund the 3k.

But don't think if you bash someone's car tomorrow, karma will allow you go without fixing at full cost.

damoobaba:
You still believe in heaven and hell?

You still believe that we evolved from tadpoles?

Tenrack:
Okay na. Open yourself up to your wife. You think say the women of today are the same with our mother's? No sha say dem no warn you. Prioritize yourself and your kid. No prioritize any woman. If you like call me hard man. It's the bitter truth. Only your mum deserves that kind of priority. Your wife no go prioritize you like that.

Every mallam with him kettle boss. 🙏🏾

Tenrack:
you Neva still learn

So because you wan be hard man, you no go take care of the woman wey born your children? You no go equip the woman wey go fit carry the responsibility of making sure your children have the best of life if anything happens to you?

Na una get problem with woman and wives, me no get. E no get who me love reach all the women in my life.
If bad behaviour naim be the learning, i nor wan learn.

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, same thing I said above nah. You would have just focus on mumsie and your siblings forever without thinking about them women. What you just said means, at the end it will still come down to getting a woman

Man gast get woman to start family na; but say hustling just to impress woman or to dey pack woman upandan because of say I wan feel big? I go rather use the money open basketball court for near village market, boss,

Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

Nor be country we dey abeg.
God bear us witness abeg. All Nigerians supposed just get asylum for heaven - make our politicians go pay for our sins in hell.

ReekyMass:
Trust me, I've never seen him as a Step brother. I don't even know the difference between a blood brother and step. We were birthed by same woman, so I don't discriminate. I treat him like my other siblings and I even try to do more for him, so he wouldn't be thinking it's because he's not our blood that's why I don't care about him.
God sees my heart

Then let him come on probation and see how it goes - for you and for him.

Sometime, kids just needs someone to inspire them to be better - alot of factors may have contributed to his behavior at your brother's side when he was there.

May God guide you.

Be sincere, you already know what's best for you. But you want us to support that innate decision.

There's a lot of advantage and disadvantage to allowing him come stay with you. But if you can answer the next question correctly to yourself, then you have your answer.

"If the young boy, spoiled and all that was your brother (same father and mother), will you allow him come stay with you knowing that you're a disciplinarian who wants the best for him".

If the answer is yes, then let him come stay - on probation. Tell your mum you'll watch his attitude for 3months, if he behaves, he stays. If he misbehaves, he goes back to the village.

But make sure you're kind to him, them no dey use wickedness correct stubbornness.

There's a reason why those days, our parents will only take you to school after you turn 5 or even way back, only if you can touch your left ear from across your head with your right hand.

Most kids are late bloomers, in different milestones of childhood. So don't pressure the toddler, let the child be a child. Put the child in social environment even outside school - age mates or other kids.

With time he'll be fine. You can take the child to the paediatrician who can give chexk that he's biologically fine.

If na Nigeria now, she go say "do you know who I am" 😂 You no go comply keh - you're already in violation of whatever code, if you let it go to court, you'll pay dearly.

That's why I weep for the rubbeshness that is our jujuciary system - the court was the power of sanity in civilization, but our own court no dey even bark again.

Richtaiwo:
Care to know the meaning of redomination? Ghana did that not quite long ago. Check that out and know who dey cap rubbish.

Why you leave your analysis of Naira-to dollar? You see now how leaving naira-cedis conversation, go dey analyze dollar wey you no no about be?

Peace ✌🏿

Richtaiwo:
Contrary to the drama he’s trying to stage, nothing, absolutely nothing, is easy anywhere in the world. Life is not a roadside promo where currencies are exchanged with vibes and confidence.

So, since he’s proudly waving that bundle of naira and announcing it equals 800 cedis, perhaps he should also enlighten us, how long did it take him to earn it? Or is he implying that the same sweat that coughs out N800 in Nigeria will magically summon 800 cedis in Ghana?

Yes, a thousand dollars today is roughly N1.5 million. Very impressive. But let’s not insult basic reasoning, is the effort required to earn N1,000 the same effort needed to earn $1,000? Is it equally likely that someone will casually gift you N1,000 the same way an American will casually gift you $1,000? If that were true, birthdays in Lagos would look like Wall Street bonuses.

We constantly hear of people earning $2,500–$3,000 monthly abroad. Fair enough. But has anyone ever heard of someone in US, same job category, same skill level as Nigeria, earning $300,000 monthly in the US? If yes, please provide evidence, not vibes.

Yes, the naira is weak. Nobody is disputing that. But turning every exchange rate comparison into a circus act is unnecessary exaggeration. Currency value is not a comedy skit, and economics is not impressed by social media mockery. Let’s tone down the theatrics and apply a little sense, just a little.

Even in analysis of earning power against purchasing power, the naira is STILL useless. Let's call a spade a spade. Make una no dey formm rubbhesh patriot.

The dollar you're talking about, at an average of $17/hr; that 17dollars can get you a decent lunch or some groceries ( so you can work one 8hr-day and and be able to feed yourself for almost 4 days - in Nigeria, at minimum wage of #70k (#2,500 per day, roughly #300 per hour - #300 can only buy you two coaster biscuits of 4pieces each).

So if you're calculating, be detailed.

rickpat:
Thanks alot,please where can i get groups to join?

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