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gabbytabby:
The moment you appreciate the dishonesty and dishonourableness that pervades the Nigerian population you will find peace anywhere you find men of purpose in that midst.

Angels do not rule over devils usually.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Whenever I take milk, I tend to fart uncontrollably, like non-stop farting. Imagine you being with someone and the person is farting every three or five minutes. Honestly, this can be so annoying for the fartee and embarrassing for the farter.

The farts is the type that make the "ssshhhhhhhhhhh" sound. And sometimes the fart becomes noisy or vibrates.

Please, what can I do to remedy this? What can I do to stop the fart? It happens whenever I take milk. I take pap alot( infact I prefer pap to tea), and I take the pap with milk because I don't use sugar. Please, is there any alternative? Maybe a better milk that I can use for the pap.

Please, is there any one here who has/is experiencing this?

Or is it because of that particular company's product (milk)?

Has anyone here experienced this?

I would really appreciate your inputs, suggestions/opinions.

Thanks.

dnawah:
one day gbola go send u to a point of no return

tollyboy5:
I've checked first page comment you're the only one with myopic thinking.

Change begins with you.

Bostin:
If truly he'd struggled in the grave to die after he was buried , he won't be in same possible he was buried and the blood stain won't be at the same spot where his head was bend . Atlleast there should be signs of struggles in the coffin when they opened it .

yahoodetector:
Even with the detailed explanation in the article, you are still spewing rubbish! You are really STEWpid.

Ebubu:
Anambra people tribalize against Ebonyi people alot.

If you look for ALL the bad things being done by Igbos in Nigeria including First coup, claiming ownership of Lagos, Lagos is no man’s land, bigotry, superiority complex, looking down on people.

All the bad things attributed to Igbo people are actually meant for Anambra people.

Munzy14:
How did UNIZIK got this bad?

During my days of Undergraduate, Unizik was like a secondary school where teachers and School authorities pay close attention to students.

You dare not dress anyhow as a lady to enter school..Security guys mount for gate full time.

You dare not fight even off campus, 20seconds Anti-cult guys don land to purnish everyone.

How did they allow this Evil eat deep!


As for those theatre Arts people, lol I dont take them seriously back then...

Management and social science ladies back then smh..

Nawa o

Ruke1989:
Why?

Because woman must protect woman no matter how despicable their actions are. OP, your mum is unofficially dead and dad is officially dead. That is what it is. You have no living parents. You have to come to terms with that if not you will continue to suffer trauma in your mum's hands till she dies. Cut off from her. Try more to support your siblings but only in a limited way too because you have to raise your own family with the little resources you gather.

You will never be able to break the circle of poverty and suffering your mum imposed on you if you don't cut off from her.

Speaking from bible, you did not commit any sin if you cut her off. Apostle Paul in the bible said, who no work, should not chop. For the fact that she didn't invest in you, she has no right to reap from you any financial returns, physical or emotional care. Bible also says, God cannot be mocked, what a man sows he must reap. That woman should be made to reap lack of Care and lack of financial aid because that's what she sowed in your life. This is not vengeance but justice. God punishes sin not out of vengeance but to establish justice and fairness. Cutting her off is justice, fairness and respite for you because you need peace in your own life- she is a threat to your peace

You should focus now on breaking the circle of poverty from your own life and investing in your future, get a wife and take care of your own kids asap so that woman doesn't start draining and blackmailing you when you get job.

Who knows, She could even have contributed to your dad's early death with her greedy, selfish, unhelpful, unsupporting and me me only lifestyle. God frowns at her right now. Go ahead and cut her off. Don't let women on this thread or even your mother blackmail you.

Some women generally love eating where they don't sow. Cut off any man or woman from your life who like eating from where they refused to sow out of your life. Such people are parasitic. You have nothing to gain from them except pain

TotoIsGud4boy:
I was a lecturer in a popular federal university back in 2017 before I left Nigeria, most of this things is not the fault of us lecturers... we are innocent but this girls spoiled us... don't blame this on lack of self control because I have self-control...

There's this girl named Anita, her dad owns a big church she doesn't attend lectures or read her books but she's a very bright student... during her 200L her grades became very poor, I was surprised why, I later realised she hangs with some crazy friends and all.. My biggest mistake I made in my life was to ask her why she was performing poorly... she smiled and replied quote on quote: "Sir should I come to your office and tell you why?"

Me being an ignorant fresh graduate lecturer, I told her okay, feel free to come to my office...

She came to my office the following day and you'd be shock what she was putting on.... she wore a mini skirt and a crop top with no bra inside.. you could see her nipples through the crop top..

I still remember our conversation that day.. I'm not a virgin but what this girl did to me as a lecturer scared me for life... I don't know if she used charms or whatnot because her waist beads was showing in her mini skirts.... and she sat on the chair with her legs open showing me her red pants...
that was how this girl raped me in my office and turned me to a sex animal...
the following week she came to my office with 2 of her friends and we had marathon sex... one of them even asked me if I've done 4nal before...

since then till 2019 I was just having sex with students until I repented and traveled abroad... I Thank God for saving me...

UnconventionalT:
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"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"