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ladiesreject:
I will look at this from another angle

If I were you, I will move out! I will not move out because my friends want me to, I will move out because I need to know what it means to pay my bills.

You're with your family, you will never know what life truly is. You wake up in the morning, water to bath is there, food to eat is there, etc. Tell me, how will you understand responsibility?

You said you still contribute in the upkeep of the house but still.... When you move and start staying alone, you know that your next meal is not guaranteed, your next house rent is also not guaranteed in fact, you need to work harder. A man ought to have such experiences before settling down. How will you get it?

So, you will remain with your parents till when you want to marry? And when is that?

Bros, move out! When you do, know that every dime you spend has good or bad consequences.

Some people are saying what if you move out and then you lose your job? Actually, that's when you get to discover some of your money making abilities. Ok, what if after getting married you lose your job? Will you go back to your father's house? You said business is not your thing, yes, I understand. But like they say, necessity is the mother of invention.
You said you neither drink, smoke, nor womanise. So what is your fear?

Sha, it's your call to make

Nice write up...can't believe that some are advising a grown man to be under the same roof with his parents...how will tat person know what life is ol about...paying bills et el...

Originalsly:
Ehmmm..... I have a side business proposition for you... if you're very lazy... your ROI will be 5% minimum... if you're just ordinary lazy... 20% ROI.... if you will try... 50%... if you will push to get things done...100% minimum... and thus is foolproof business.... 100% legit...are you interested?

@ topic... you're not in a position to move as yet.... bank some more.

You didn't say anything nah...

Swargu:
I didn't bother reading people's comment, some may be right or wrong.

Bro please use 300k rent and furnish your apartment first you won't finish everything at once, you have alot to gain.
1. You can carry babes at will.
2. You will have time to read and learn new things.
3. You will have the mind to try out any small business without people or your parents feeling uncomfortable with it, or telling you can't make it.
4. You will go broke sometimes and learn to save better the next month.
5. You will earn respect automatically from colleagues and family...... And babes lol.
6. You will have time to embark on self discovery quests.
Alot of upsides i can't remember all tho...
Trust me if you invest that money you can't successfully make brain or much profit in the business from the comfort of your parents house.

If you are alone you will become more responsible and you will alot of alone time to think and plan ahead knowing that you have to pay bills monthly.

Well said bro...some will come here to attack you but if you know you know...

chii8:
You're lucky to have them (parent),save for two more years and invest big,in fact buy lunch box,and carry better mumsy delicacy to work, dem go talk,dem go taya

"Lunch box"...lol

[quote author=Katier00 post=80159386]You earn 60k to 80k and you were able to save 400k in less than a year. What's the secret bro? Don't leave your parents house just yet. Save up to 1m and buy a low cost land since you are not good in doing business. When it appreciates a little, sell and buy two more .Stay there sef till you wan marry. Be focus, you are not far from being successful[/quote
Please be my gf nah mbok...

Hullabaloon:
As for expenses, I'm frugal with expenses. I don't drink, don't smoke, ain't a womanizer.

Thanks for your input.

Your own better...

ashewoboy:
some people will storm this thread now. inviting you to do business. don't mind them. don't do any business with anybody here. they are all scammers. I don't know why people are inhumane. somebody comes here with his predicament. your own is how to scam him. don't call anybody.

Person scam you?

dingbang:
they just recruited, it is called consequence management. Most bankers dont plan ahead, they feel they will die on the job, very sad. Every banker should have ten back up plans

Not only bankers...

Destined2lead:
What can one be possibly doing in a bank for 10 years when you are not a manager?

No plan for the future....they were more than comfortable in their position....

ClearFlair:
This is the end-result of PDP’s stealing since 1999. God punish all of them.

Are you OK?

[quote author=Bet9jaVirtual post=80152681]after putting in long hours to work, they just throw you out and pay you peanuts.

That’s why I urge every growing youth out there to learn handwork. Incase, they sack you from work, you can use that to maintain you and your family.[/quote
Recommend one...

odave:
That's why it's better to always collect loan as a bank worker, I'm sure they won't attempt sack during the repayment period. I may be wrong sha. I have a friend there, I don't even know the best advice I can give him.

Nice Congo...

PrettyEneawan:
Wow! You Got It, Are You Akwa Ibomite?

Nop...Igbo but will like to learn the lang,..just wanted to know the meaning of tat word....meanwhile you have not give me tat tip I asked for...lol

PrettyEneawan:
Even If She Can Take Care Of Her Needs That Doesn't Stop You From Buying Those Things That Looks Common In Your Eye For Her. You Said You Can't Buy Sanitry Pad For A Lady But You Can Put Your Third Leg Where That Pad Is Being Used. Those Needs That You Think Is Common "Nsang Ami" We Value Them More Than........

Tell me more....so that I can hold onto this new crush for long...lol...
Nsang Ami?

enemyofprogress:
shebi I told you, you prick is too small for her borehole nau

Improvise den...

enemyofprogress:
Moaning, screaming, shouting, speaking in tongues and giving orders like push it to the right, push it to the left, push harder, don't come yet o during love making, I ate that nonsense die

Seriously? Tat thing de burst adrenaline nah...

Osefonria:
A slut you are. Go out and make your own money so you won't have to lean on guys for money. They don't owe you a thing. Slut....!

Mk she no worry....her kitten go soon sour...

OgogoroFreak:
The habit of not sucking prick

Lol...only?/hope say you de wash plate?

kunleweb:
One is simple. Be teachable, all errors, mistakes, wrong assertions can be fixed if my babe is teachable. So the inability to be taught/receive correction is a massive red flag for moi

One bottle of hero for you...

toks208:
A lady that hasn't slept with too many men before I met her and the one who after meeting me will be sexually faithful to me.

Hmmmm...all the best brother..

PrettyEneawan:
You Must Be A Stingy And Unromantic Type

Do you know him in person?

[quote author=ideatoprince18 post=80139653]Eating like a glutton

Behaves like a lil child the needs petting!!!

Inability to hold a meaningful conversation!!

Having a stupid mindset of equating sex to Money!!!

Not having you're own transport money when coming around!!!

I can forgive cheating once because we all are human beings but when you do it twice then u are gone!!!

inability to spice up sex life!!!


GOSSIP!!!!!!![/quot
Spice up sex life? Elaborate..

jelel6:
Bros, this is the most dreaded trait of a woman I fear the most. I'd prefer a cheating woman than someone who can literally drive me crazy by doing all those things you have said above.

I'll be looking to deliberately provoke any prospective partner just to see how she reacts to disagreement, disapproval, and disappointment.

People can be generally peaceful and nice when things go their way. It's when it goes against them that you discover the REAL PERSONALITY under the hood.

Noted...

Soul47:
"I hate a liar more than I hate a thief
A thief is after my salary
A liar is after my reality"

_50 Cent.

Some deep shit right there...

Mutemenot:
Lol.. zeeworld is the worst.. I had to damage my dstv card to avoid the consequences it may cause in my home .

Tat thing na serious turn off for me...

advocate666:
Even your name shows you don't need to say anything to be hated. Take heart.

Lol....

Amuocha:
APC and their poor performance

Your partner na APC member? I'm lost...

DanXplore:
Imagine you were a very high profile fellow in your state and was invited (with your wife/partner) for an important meeting. While the meeting was going on, your wife/partner was called upon but could not respond immediately because she was dozing zzzzzzz. Embarassing!

I see...

AwkaetitiBabe:
Sleeping in public? Can you shed more light to this comment pls?

The thing weak me....

ladiesreject:
Nah...
It's about something women can't do without.
So I'm learning to live with it.

Gossip, African magic, zee world or low sex drive?

Martinez39:
1) Trying to control me and dictate the relationship. Trying to give yourself that authority, via emotional manipulation, that you are the one that says what goes and what doesn't. Once a girl tries this nonsense, she is out. No time!
2) Poor hygiene.
3) Inability or refusal to be reasonable.
4) Bad attitude.
5) Withholding sex and using it to negotiate. Though I am not a "relationship guy" but if I were, I wouldn't hesitate to throw the bimbo away from my life if she tries this nonsense. Nonsense!

This one wa you de sound like buhari....

Kendumazy:
Mheeen! Everything for this life gets ending. Na only the grace of God no dey end.

Well said bro...tats why I'm not fixated on material things.