₦airaland Forum

annita19:
Sir learn to comprehend next time especially with issues at stake because right now you re completely off the ground. .

ThiefOfHearts:
stunna please stop responding to me. I dont have time to try to get your "sentences". Either go back to school or ignore me.

What is your problem sef? Are you crazy? Nothing you've said or should I say struggle to say has been of any worth.  Stick to the topic or stfu. Since when are Igbos are a race anyway? Keep in mind all that I said and stand by is to the my-gnostic Igbo BOYS of Nairaland. Na only racism?  rac-islam nko? All these bloody illiterates on NL throwing the "racism" word without knowing the meaning

Going around harassing the women on the board. Shameless phaggot.

bumba1234:
usually by "custom" an engagemengt ring shd be worth 3ce your monthly salary, thats the tradition,

jay bee:
A man rich enough to buy $9K ring should be man enough to forget about it, but courtesy demands that the woman return the ring since she broke the engagement

ThiefOfHearts:
Rofl.

Do you think the black SAfricans give a damn about the complaints of white peple who go to SA now? After everything they've done in Africa and continue to do, you are crying on their behalf? Are you insane?

Can you name in ANY way how the way whites treat blacks/Africans in general is on par to what we supposedly have done to them? Go ahead, I dare you to name situations where we had dogs unleashed on them, segregation, whippings, degrading those who spoke against any negative actions towards them, go ahead I dare you. The only people who are on par with whites with this BS are the arabs.

The colorless bastards crying about Nigerians laughing at them are still the ones who get paid more for doing nothing while actual educated Nigerians cater to their every need yet you have the audacity to be crying for their "human rights". You can yarn such garbage and still look in the mirror?

all these house niggers in Naija sef. Embarrassing.

We are discussing people being abused in their own country by foreigners and you are singing "but they've been abused too. people laughed at them! It's the same as attacking them with dogs!"

ThiefOfHearts:
Kai was that even English?

every sentence had a different spelling for "Nigerian".

No wonder they have to bring in foreigners 

na only stunna? stunted nko?

ThiefOfHearts:
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Gawd, finally someone who gets it.  

. Delusion of grandeur. They arent doing anything that you dont expect them to do so their BS is irrelevant in this matter.

This s about innocent people who are trying to do honest work for a livng and being treated like slaves

Better bring in Mugabe since you people cant deal with them yourselves

ThiefOfHearts:
Now this I agree with.

What I dont understand is you are hearing stories about how officials destroy the properties and even beat up Nigerians just because the almighty oyibo is walking by and your issue is with hookers?? 

Calculia:
These Nigerian girls are big disgrace to demselves, if u have ever come across dem in any of them hotels with  dirty lebanesse, chinesse or romanian poverty men.

Lets face it, these men are not the cream of the pile to be doing business  in Africa. I really wonder wat type of homes dey come from and the principles dey were thought because it can not all be poverty since some of them are in the university.

very shameful!

ThiefOfHearts:
You people need to stop being daft

There will always be LovePeddlers in any country. Get over it. White men go to Asia all the time for the women yet you dont hear about them using dogs on the employees. Your focus should be on that, what hookers do on their time has NOTHING to do with the matter on hand. Instead of being ashamed of how you';re allowing these albino freaks to be treating you lke slaves, as usual you're trying to blame women.

agitator:
they don't want broke asze nig.gas and later you see them in pentecostal churches praying for one mugu to marry them.

D_BestDoc:
I pity 4 9ja
Looking @ d way some illiterate and foolish 9ja policemen harrass their fellow Nigerians because dey are escorting white lebanese and d likes,u'll weep 4 Nigeria.
Jst a few days ago on my way home from wrk, some useless policemen escorting d so called oyibos Scattered one man's side mirror with dere gun cos dey asked d man 2 give way 2 allow dem pass dere white passengers.Before d man knew what was happening(cos dere was traffic jam),one of d police guys got down and smashed d guy's  side mirror off and got away with it (all 4 an oyibo)
If u hear d siren alone eeh,u will think dey are carrying sth like money
I soory 4 Naija! really really sorry

sledge406:
Yes, blame the lawmakers/men in power long before now who gave these firms the space for all these rubbish to come into play.

My late uncle (was an executive of the company) worked with a construction firm here in Naija and those bloody Lebanese always saw Nigerians as not good and felt wary of their every move (Lebanese who are worse off than Nigerians) and all these complains herein are not far fetched. I remember strolling on site with him and there was a brawl between the site instructor and one of the "labourers". Yea, the Naija guy gave the Lebanist word for word and my Uncle was full of smiles that day to see a labourer stand for his right and place him where he belongs (by the way, he was way above the so called Lebanese).

Most people do not know their self worth which is part reason why shyte is thrown in their faces and they go ahead to lick the shyte. Someone mentioned earlier that he noticed the ill-treatment and resigned. Capish! If you know what you stand for and you're good at what you do, you'd always be sought after.

Libya respects most of her citizens which is why they do not owe the mothersucking IMF and they are still hard to bring down with all international forces. I'm not saying Ghaddhafi is a saint cos he has his down sides but I remember someone making a comment to him that when a company got some massive builing and road projects, he instructed that when they are coming, they bring along their "own workers" as he would not entertain his people used as slave for a lean wage. I bet you, it worked. So, we can outrightly blame the people in government as they do not know what is looming around the corner for them.

God help us all!

kulutempa:
What do you expect when waiters in some Nigerian restaurants and hotels will serve 'Oyinbo' first before they serve their fellow Nigerians.    We treat them like kings in our country and not surprisingly they behave like kings do towards their subjects.

190_@:
Reality and dsense were certainly amongst the 30,000   


especially that d-sense that looks like a startled catfish

Nayah:
Marry the woman you love, no matter her colour

Princek12:
Why don't you marry oyinbo and Naija? That way you can have the best of both worlds. Hopefully you can afford the cost attendant to marrying two women. If not, heart attack or stroke na im go kill you.

Jay_Bozz:
@stunna> from my perspective, i can relatively call u a "white man in black skin", cuz u've clearly naturalised with the whites or better put, "western way of life" cuz blacks too are included in this category. But u are afraid of the very short-comings of their own ways, how ironic! I suggest u marry what your used too so u dont have to deal with surprise packages or blame a 9ja girl for askin u cut off your dreads, cuz to her it may not be her way of life "yet" n will probably never be if she deems it a immature or uncultured manner of look.

Jay_Bozz:
@stunna> from my perspective, i can relatively call u a "white man in black skin", cuz u've clearly naturalised with the whites or better put, "western way of life" cuz blacks too are included in this category. But u are afraid of the very short-comings of their own ways, how ironic! I suggest u marry what your used too so u dont have to deal with surprise packages or blame a 9ja girl for askin u cut off your dreads, cuz to her it may not be her way of life "yet" n will probably never be if she deems it a immature or uncultured manner of look.
Therefore i have to agree with Wislet where she said, "start BEING the kind of person u would like to meet"!!!

ibkaye:
I agree with some things but complaints no. 2, 4, and 5 especially really should not come as a surprise, it's a club, not bible study

ragdollz:
Loses role ko, rejects role ni. So rumor-generators what next? Ramsey Noah to be the next Batman ?!

Beync:
OP, from your thoughts u are more incline to the nature and culture of these wites you hav been with, except u r bein pressurize frm home to come home and marry otherwise u r somewat bias against the home girl dont get me wrong, your analysis seems to be in favor of the wites am not against dat, but u still not convinced they would make a good home hence the thought of going home which u are not conversant with their attitude according to wat u hav heard. like u lay more  emphases on race rather than individaul from how u said black will do this and wite would not do that, u might be right on your own, but for me, the attitude of an individual or a particular race is a product of nature, nurture enviroment and education etc. My point is, having been their, u'v adjusted and cool with wat is aroud u why settle with uncertainty, U may wish to consider wat Texas and Nelson has said cos they made some points.
Let me also tell u about my causin; he travled to England precisely, cos right from  time he has this passion to live over there. He married a wite girl who had two kids for him, It was all roses and successful for some years, they bought houses and all that thou he hasnt done any significant thing home. So do u know wat? On one occation, he had  arguement with the wife which heated so much dat he battered his wife and dat was the end of his success story over their. The wife being a citizen, charged him to the court, after somany charges against him, he was made to loose everything he has laboured for; house, cars and other properties and was even deported jus like dat and ever since i heard the shock from the whole darma is causing him to go gaga. Wat am i tryin to  say? their is drama everywhere less you forget, but it comes in different scenarios. All you need is to look before you leap so u dont fall into the scene.
Pray over everything, there is nothing God cannot do if u sincerely ask according to his will.

677ano:
What about Nigeria the women dont divorce or kill their husbands to inherit their wealth?

@OP save yourself a lot of problems and marry where you are based. If you are more comfortable with white women marry one than go and import a woman from Nigeria to come and give you grief within a few months of marrying one. Put your happiness and peace before skin color or origin.

Wislet:
U're more likely to find a God fearing one. Yes. Not those that outrightly ridicule it. I don't know how u guys look before deciding on dating someone-wat with all de disaster stories. Big behind and all wat not is not wat a good wife entails! U men had beta start seeking God's face and BEING the kind of person u would like to meet. U can't be a player and hope for a miracle.

Donbrig:
I dont know why some people cant just respond maturedly to a simple topic, always using derogatory words. Well, I think the problem has to do with our weird mentality, the mentality has eaten deep inside us. Although many Nigerians abroad have learnt that going home pretending to be what they are not is not the right way to impress people. If we can be our real self whenever we travel to naija, perhaps, our friends and family members might begin to understand that life abroad is not that easy as they have wrongly believed for ages.

Nelton:
This is the way I see it. White or black dosent really matter. However, there are 2 different background and culture in play here. A lot of black/naija brodas don't usually want to marry the white ladies because of the cultural difference. A good naija girl wud be submisive and tolerate all your shortcomings and wud want to stay with u forever, raise up kids and live happily ever. However the white woman might not want to tolerate you or put up with your shortcomings and might want to get out once she feels the marriage is not as she expected. However pls note that a said a good naija girl. Getting a good naija girl now becomes d issue. because if you fall into the hands of the wrong one u will wish you never ever got married. Also there are some white girls that can reall go the whole ten yards with you. Infact they behave like real african ladies and can take anything from u. The only problem however, is that for those of you who wish to come back home someday this may pose a real problem to em because majority of these white women cannot cope with the harsh realities of living in naija and of course we all know why. However if you do no intending relocating back to naija and you can get a nice white lady with some of these attributes listed above then I wud advise that u stick with them. because for real d possibility of finding a good naija girl is remote. Pls don't get me wrong there are very good naija girls, very good ones but because you are not on ground it might be difficult getting a good one. And pls don't marry by post cause u will end up shooting urself on d foot. In all these, the decision lies with U. You know wat u want and what u looking for, take your time to look, let no one pressurize u, its your life and they are not going to live it for u. Look hard u will find wat u need. Cheers.

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