InTheCloudySky: It seems like the type of cheating you're referring to is physical (aka. sexual intercourse). If she could go to the extent of asking you to swear with the Bible because your word wasn't enough for her to believe you, it's only fair that she gives you the same respect by doing the same. I know if someone asks me to do such a thing, they gotta be ready to follow suit, otherwise I would deduce their refusal as hypocritical and that they're not particularly innocent of what they're accusing me of. Sometimes when people cheat or have cheated, they'll accuse their partner of cheating; it's a form of gaslighting. It's something men do but women can also play that game.
Bola146: Swearing with the Bible is totally wrong, let your yes be yes and no be no, what would you do if you see her chatting with men Do unto others as you want others to do unto you if you did acted suspicious, she is not a fool to keep quiet, women are jealous in nature, she wants the best for her family, she is a human being too, you are the head of the family, you should know the best for your family. You trust your wife but you are still doubting or your conscience is questioning you I don't understand? Please settle it amicably and if you are at fault, you know how you settle your fights before, don't let third party come into your home. Some comments here might lead your marriage astray, don't let ego destroy you, confront her and sit her down to apologise and way forward
lol... Would his yes be yes and his no be no if he refused to swear with the Bible?? The wife is cheating cos nothing is stopping her from swearing
adubam: I just want to share this painful and bitter scenario to job seekers out there.
So we posted a job advert and over four hundred applied. Three were selected for interview and only one appeared.
Salary is about 150k for a start.
So this applicant came and did well in both oral and written interview but she was not given the job because of this:
She was given a paper to apply for the job. Excellent write up though but she messed up the whole paper with cancellation and instead of asking for a fresh paper to start over again; she even went ahead and handed over it like that to my boss.
My boss concluded that she was an untidy and scatty fellow.
And that was all.
Please take note of this and try not to make this mistake.
God grant you your desired jobs.
CC: Seun davide470 uboma mukina2 lalatisclacla
op u seff read wet in u write without sentiments and conclude if your boss is right?
BrickDevo: Ali express dollar rate no be the same thing as your bank rate, when you are about to pay, calculate the amount with your bank dollar rate and you know the true cost
I shop on aliexpress and the rate is around 420 or so. Or else aliexpress is charging 100k for shipping....I think jumia is trying to scam off Nigerians. Btwn... The buyer can't buy for 89k as stated costhere is a $100 monthly limit
Cultistupdate: There is a current cult war between the Blàck Axe confraternity and the Eiye confraternity in Lagos state Nigeria. From the findings of this YouTuber who is also a Nairalander here
This cult war started last week. What happened was that one of the cult group shot at one of the member of the other cult group and he didn't die but sustained severe injuries. So this provoked the other cult groups, whoose member was shot
pocohantas: I know someone has to be dropped, but the guy seems bright and is humble.
Am not going to collect your CV.
My boss said the second he spotted it, he stopped reading the essay. I took my time to finish the essay though, the guy is quite bright.
Recent ke? He has been on it.
you know if I'm to be your boss... You would be queried for this!!! Somethings compromise is necessary in life. And we are bond to make mistakes. You boss did wrong!!! He's been judgmental without fair hearing. It's like denying someone a job because of one's religion or tribe. I denied him based on his sentiments for I'm. Even Elon musk, Ronaldo and the likes made grammatical blunders steadily and they are top of their games. It's too light a mistake for such a brutal reward
Jirilistic: Mine is tecno spark 3(1gb ram) I used the phone for almost 2yrs Phone was working smooth but later,e start to show me pepper cus I overload the phone with files. Phone started hanging seriously and sometimes became hot I had to start blowing it with fan (seriously guys when it became hot,I literally had to blow it with fan).battery also degenerated overtime If I on the phone,I gat wait for like 10mins b4 i fit use the keyboard I later sold it early dis year and bought another phone with better ram, processor and battery
infinix hot 8... Phone was working fine... Only for the keyboard to start up 5 minutes after taping it... Very frustrating... Had to upgrade sharply to infinix note 7... That has been a blessing!!!
LordviccoDaGuru: No matter how good u are some fools will still talk bad about you.... So let them keep talking I fucking careless not. So far as say I de receive my monthly salary as a BMC member to the president am okay. Check must of my posts are all on frontpage because am working for him. I don't trend with fools. Just wanted to help few people with my knowledge that's all it's not for everyone. Nonsense.
LordviccoDaGuru: No matter how good u are some fools will still talk bad about you.... So let them keep talking I fucking careless not. So far as say I de receive my monthly salary as a BMC member to the president am okay. Check must of my posts are all on frontpage because am working for him. I don't trend with fools. Just wanted to help few people with my knowledge that's all it's not for everyone. Nonsense.
immortalityk: I opened an account but because I was stupid,I didn't activate it yet and I didn't collect ATM I was still in the process of activating it that this incident happened That's y if u slowly read my post I said my younger brother ran away with my money, over 100k when I transferred the money into his account,because he had ATM Ive always used my younger siblings account Ive used my sister account with lexusgs here on nairaland before So now,I'm in debt of probably more than 500k naira I know how much I begged for my surgery money The money I owe many people and many things like that sha What I know is that I'm not lying I still feel a lot of pain after the surgery I did My left hand is basically somehow useless now as it pains me like hell and I have to use tramadol to numb the pain Basically what im saying is that I can't do much as I'm at home and I'm in debt I can't even use my left hand as a whole because it feels painful Ive now told you my story,if you want to keep mocking me,pls continue In my heart I know I did nothing wrong
hahn: Now imagine you caught a thief, in Nigeria, and for some reason you still allow him to put on his phone, put on his internet and create a thread on nairaland and while you are at it he will be replying to comments on the thread.
In Nigerian o
he's not with the police yet... He was dumped in the community cell... It's possible his phone is still with him
GofuckYourself: I know the feeling , a two time suicide attempt survivor myself
When I was younger I felt overwhelmed with experiences I couldn't explain , everyone telling me I was this and that for seeing things and hearing things no one else could
Life lost meaning at some point I tried end it twice .. this is why I passionately like to work with people who feel overwhelmed
I know that feeling of feeling like it's all too much, you want to tell someone but their unaware and confident tone makes you hold off.. you don't want to seem weak, you are hurting so bad inside. But you don't want then to say "is that why you are sad abeg grow up" words like this or fear of being judged make you withdraw further.
They don't understand what you are feeling , they will think it sounds stupid but I understand you .. Sometimes we can't fight these demons on our own , we need help.
I am here for you
Just send me a DM let us talk .. let us figure this out together..
I have help countless people get through the deepest of depression and I will help you to..
I am just one DM away.. let's discuss whatever it is from a life and spiritual angel
Be strong and talk to me before you give up or if you know someone battling depression don't leave then alone , send them here let me help them
Cheers
suicide is always an option... If one chose to live... One have equal opportunity to choose to die too
Leetika: So I happen to travel to a city . I told one of my old time friends that I will stay with him for a week plus sha trying to save hotel cost.He said he will be travelling to see his fiancé but I can come sha. In my mind I am like ok he will just let me stay for the few days he will not be in. Since I will be leaving next week. Anyways sha he has told me already this evening that he will be travelling tomorrow how I wan take do am, I was shocked, and confused wanted to tell him I will stay until he is back, but I could figure he was trying to tell me I can’t be there, and to keep my lil Ego So I said I will look for hotel. Hoping he will say I can stay but my guy dey even give me hotel options. I buy food to eat as wellI, cos I don’t wanna be a pest. the money I have aint much for hotel for my remaining days in this city but we move sha. Lol just shocked cos I know if he was in my shoes I will tell him to stay until I am back. It’s a 2 bedroom flat so I am not in his space at all. We rented house together in our uni days so na my padi wey i believe suppose reason the matter well. I suppose vex na or it is only normal for me to leave the house?
your guy no try at all....!!!! Let it slide.. But do not forget... Revenge is always an option