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In benue also... But it shouldn't be brought up now until you are done with yours

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

Search for his songs on YouTube. No hit song ke...Usher has won many awards. Must you know him?

Iyaebe:
The 1only pets I like are goats and sheep.Handsome man with no hit songs, may God pick his call.Men that loves pets are kindhearted.

I am not a fan of ipob, but if it is not going to be innocent bodies, why are they running away? Kill these ones as they are chasing them. Or they are waiting for God to give go ahead. Ever since endsars days, I no dey trust kaki guys again. What sort of power comes and goes like nigerian nepa? Show us now

Buckeyemedia1:
Tomorrow when the Army displays bodies of these criminals we will hear they are killing innocent unknown gunmen?

Hmmmm.... My friend just called me to inform me... Thanks Blessing... You are the best for a reason ���

OhBritannia:
Now that Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram are down and twitter is experiencing some difficulties.

Please call your friends and family to avoid going out tonight.
Either to birthday parties or any party at all and avoids night clubs tonight for security reasons.

Social media outlets like Instagram and Whatsapp has help in a long way in telling the world where you are right Now and what is happening.

In the event that there is danger, a simple post on your WhatsApp or Instagram story can update your friends and family on where you are and the securities will be alerted immediately.

But now that these social media platforms are down, please stay at home and lock your door, be security alert.

Most especially the ladies that likes clubbing at night.

Please stay at home to avoid rape, robbery and even kidnapping.

You must be stupid for mentioning adeboye here. In 2015,adeboye said he was going for GEJ because can choose GEJ. what the hell are you smoking?

othermen:
The northerners are so sophisticated when it comes to politics. Tinubu, Osinbajo, Saraki, Oshiomole, Rochas, Obasanjo, Adeboye, your ooni and alaafin and all the rest... are just pawns. Even when a southerner emerges as the president, it is only at the pleasure of the north, because they will it.

How can you be safe here? Giving terrorists only 3 local governments is dangerous. Freedom to train others and test their weapons. Do you know some boko boys had their training in Sudan?

Tokskob2008:
This people should be left alone to do whatever they like to do within their country, if they like let them kill evey single citizen in their country na them sabi..

He doesn't have to become a cheat like her... What I did in this situation was to dump my ex. I am into another relationship after one year, she is still pleading but I don't have time for her. She even shamelessly said I can date her alongside but never. I can't be like her

EzegeNdiigbo:
The expo has been written by it self on your instinction


She's obviously DD



Copy her character's and sees if she would change.

A prophet is bathing a man's wife by the stream side here in ibadan as I type. Please, Ayodele, you can have your association. One thing about oyedepo, adeboye and kumuyi is, their doctrine is different. We don't go to mountains for instance but you guys do which is OK for your faith. But as my leaders, I don't want them to associate with people with such beliefs. A redeem member around akobo here in ibadan followed her neighbors to one prophet's mountain and in that vigil ran mad. I know many ministries that started and later have connections with these pastors. Let tb Joshua rest in peace and stop using him to gain popularity. Were you there? Na wao even if you were there no one acknowledged you because I watched the program throughout God help us all

Heyzeezee:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2021/07/11/tb-joshua-pastor-adeboye-oyedepo-kumuyi-caused-hatred-envy-among-church-leaders-primate-ayodele/%3futm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&amp=1

You want to make your pastor a failed man of God out there. He used maturity in the spirit to allow you make your choice. But if this man is truly in the spirit, you can not make him look stupid before the congregation for a long time. There will come a day that the spirit may comfort him. God is a jealous God. I am afraid of humble people like this because their God is dangerously jealous. Be careful madam.

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

These guys are going for Okada business... This is the same way my cousin came from nasarawa to ibadan... The driver told them, he would be be coming on a particular day and they all gathered at kefi. He's been here with me for over a month... He didn't collect any number from them, everyone left to his destination that day... He even told me he won't recognize any of them even if he comes across anyone... Please release them... They don't even know themselves apart from here

OnionBandit:
Even though they have been searched and nothing was incriminating was found on them, I strongly believe these guys have a mission which they have not mentioned. They need to be interrogated the Nigerian police way..what if they are terrorists and the trucks conveying the arms they will bear moved ahead of their trip


Stop confusing yourself. Do you mean you cheered outsiders on while they go on a killing spree in your states? The Igbos were proud of the UGM..don't get tired yet. If any northerner is caught in the East bearing rifles like the UGM, he must be a recruit of Nnamdi Kanu

He's still called a good guy here because he's rich... And again, she would have dumped him without struggling. There are guys out there who gives a lot. Leave us alone oh... Why not tell him talk it over with him?

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

My first love did the same thing to me. I had to let her go. One thing is certain, she can only use you to settle with her guy. She'll never love you. Stop wasting your time my brother. Find someone else and don't tell her that you want out, otherwise, she will deceive your sincere feelings again.

Authentic2008:
Good evening family. I am a young of 28yrs old and a final year student of one of the prestigious university in Nigeria.


A few month back, I met this lady who happens to be a student of this same university. At first we started as friends and during this friendship, I discovered that she has a boyfriend but the relationship wasn't that ok. During our friendship, she told me that, it was this guy that breaks the padlock (u know what I mean). At the long run the guy broke up with her due to mistrust,insecurity and mistreatment. During this period of our friendship, I developed feelings for her cus of her trained personality and religious upbringing. As a very sharp guy, i took my opportunity and talk to her, she agreed and we started dating officially. The relationship was very smooth and we mingled also( Hope u understand).


Suddenly, this same ex of hers calls her and begins to apologise. She agree to his pleas without considering my feelings..To cut it short, they started dating back.


Few days later, she came back and started apologising to me saying that she loves me, she feels free whenever she is with me and that I always makes her to concentrate more on the things of God and mostly the qualities she wants in a man that she finds it in me...


But anytime this guy talk to her and beg her, she will agree and go back to him...

Funny enough I've come to love her deeply. Am really confused and I need ur advise on what to do.

YOUR COMMENTS WILL BE HIGHLY NEEEDED

Like seriously!

dawnomike:
Some bigot posters above me need deliverance...

In nasarawa, kadarko precisely, no one is farming there now... Your crops are for their cattle. My mom's people have been there before my mom was born and she's 67 years now. Her family just ran away from that place two weeks ago. One of my cousins is here with me in ibadan. Stop lying bodejo, no fair vigilante in that state. Stay and fulanis will kill you. Period. Southern Governors should not accept this!

November1857:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/miyetti-allah-leader-to-fulani-herders-dont-obey-open-grazing-ban/

Cry baby... We won

Olam09:
Premier league is a shit.. always ruling every fine goal offside it's obvious they want liverpool to qualify for champions league next season.. but with this draw they ain't going any fuçķing where!

It happened to me also! This week but It was restored after some hours

Gce... First series

hakymbiyiyaho:
I beg, someone should explain what the Private means in this news.

Government schools candidates for gce? U no try reach!

Pidginwhisper:
They’ll pass. Na special centers dem be. Na Government schools candidates i dey pity pass. They weren’t given enough time to prepare

Most peaceful? You are speaking the opposite of you. Here in oyo state, a fulani man just told me to plant only maize on a piece of land in oyo state housing cooperation land here in Ejioku and not plant cassava which is what I needed the most, just because he want to use the place for grazing. When I told the landlord, he just told me the people don't like peace at all. He threatened to graze on it should I go ahead to plant cassava. These people are heartless

Islie:
• Says governor championed propaganda against them

• Claims Miyetti Allah has spent N87m as fine in Benue for open grazing in 3 months




https://www.sunnewsonline.com/miyetti-allah-to-gov-ortom-youre-thorn-in-fulani-flesh/

UnitedWeWin:
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I thought with my NCE I've finally got what I can try my luck in order to end this unemployed life both alas, it isn't connecting. So frustrating

Osagyefo98:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/01/25/breaking-leah-sheribu-gives-birth-baby-boy-boko-haram-commander-after-being-forced?fbclid=IwAR1CHK-KliVY2yXHqf_S--k_NQQbOL3rTCJDR-AkZbfzhBTF9fCRFKdyUJg

I'm shocked. A very bad evening for me!

fergie006:
Very important dear.
I had a sis who was in same position, she had no option but to go back for degree.......God grant you funds and grace OK?

amen thank you

fergie006:
Someone might need this.

like seriously, nothing for NCE? God help me. I need to do my degree

jarawa:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/well-recruit-more-qualified-teachers-buhari.html

good news

I'm interested but how much is the fee?

UDOKABESTLUV:
Hello, My Fellow Nairalander, What Will happen to the person, if he/she fail to pay Loan he/she borrowed From Loan App Company Because Of One Reason Or The Other.
I Need To Hear From You Guys!

please try and be paying small small. May God provides you with the fund

janefblog:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/harmattan-two-friends-suffocate-from-charcoal-smoke-in-jos.html

this is bad. May the lord be with the family. But what type of wood is that? I'm a producer of charcoal due to finding solutions to my broke life, but even the chicken � do not die of charcoal smoke. Though, mine do not have smoke

liltee123:
29-year-old Simon Godwin Idoko, a First Class Graduate of Pure and Applied Chemistry from the Usmanu Danfodiyo University in Sokoto State, has been confirmed dead few days after passing out of the National Youth and Service Corps (NYSC) program.

Simon who wrote JAMB six times before gaining admission for his first degree, served as a graduate assistant at Godfrey Okoye University in Enugu State before his death. A friend of the deceased, Ameh Godwin confirmed the sad incident in a tribute he shared on Facebook.

He wrote;

Ogbee! This sounds unbelievable and heartbreaking. You made us proud by graduating with first class after writing UTME (JAMB) six times, today, you have been snatched by the cold hands of death in a mysterious way.

How do I explain this to those who celebrated your academic feat with me Just three weeks after your NYSC, you went the way of all mortals.

We spoke few days ago and you promised you were going to be fine. What happened? Is this the 'fine' you assured me?

This is sad. Simon Godwin Idoko, please tell my brother, Prince Ameh Jerry, that; this is what the world has been reduced to.

Tell him the fences he left behind have fallen and strangers now pull down our beards.

Tell him we now swim in tears and pains. Tell him our arms have broken and termites have destroyed our homes. What a wicked world.

Ogbe, goodnight.


https://teevibemedia.com/first-class-graduate-who-wrote-jamb-six-times-dies-few-days-after-completing-his-nysc/

it must not be true... I was very happy about his achievements. But this? No way, I won't take it. My God

Muttee:
Stephanie Frappart would become the first woman to officiate a major men’s match organised by UEFA, when she takes charge of the Liverpool v Chelsea Super Cup clash in Istanbul on Aug. 14. Frapper, 35-year-old refereed the recent Women’s World Cup final between the United States and the Netherlands in her native France.

She has previously worked in the men’s League 1 in the country and is in the pool of French referees for the coming season.

“I have said on many occasions that the potential for women’s football has no limits. “I am delighted that Stephanie Frappart has been appointed to officiate at this year’s UEFA Super Cup along with assistant referees, Manuela Nicolosi and Michelle O’Neal,’’ said Aleksander Ceferin, President of the European governing body. UEFA Referee Chief, Roberto Rosetti, said Frappart `fully deserves’ the opportunity of officiating the Super Cup.

https://all-gists..com/2019/08/first-woman-named-as-referee-in-mens-uefa-showpiece.html

weed... No lapses please. YNWA

Chrisbeks:
Why kill himself if he is innocent of the accusations? He should have fought and cleared his name

I'm from benue... You can't fight in that position and win... The best is to flee with ur family. Someone may use that as an excuse to destroy his family. The people who accused him will never forgiving by his children except for christ sake... That's how evil keeps multiplying in such villages. Remain in that village, no matter how long you lived, ur family will face it tomorrow even if it's unjustly. Flee. Such a wrong decision!

gawu1:
Where is cluelessness in what he said? In fact, it is your types he was referring to

what do you mean?