₦airaland Forum

babyosisi:
Sharp girl !!!
You saw fine boy full of the Holy Ghost and named and claimed him
Hahahahaha

Konboko:
It all started just before Christmas last year. My wife had asked me to allow her take our 3 kids home to her mother for the celebrations. This I did not agree to because we did not contemplate it and as such I was not prepared for the financial implications. More so that she has been actively involved in the planning for the season. She told her Mum that I refused her request and calls started coming in. At first my mother in-law tried to convince me but I stood my grounds as I was not prepared for the long trip to Warri from Lagos. I also thought of the financial cost as well as the need to pay their school fees in January. I tried to explain all to no avail. In fact, the more I explained the more she got angry. It got to a point that my mother in-law started saying it is as if I am suspecting her of witchcraft. This she told her other children and that marked the starting point of all the attacks.
She has 3 sons and one sister and brother here in Lagos. She called them all telling them that I called her a witch. This I never thought of not to talk more of saying. The first attack came first weekend of February when her first son came to my house to confront me. Despite all explanations he made sure he did not leave without hitting me. The following weekend he came back with his 2 younger ones to beat me up. They left after only vandalising my 2 cars because I refused to open the door for them. I called the police in But they fled. Now they are threatening to deal with me anywhere we meet.
My Father in-law is late and their uncle in Lagos is even younger than the 2nd of my 3 brother in-laws though he has not really tried to help matters.
I am seriously thinking of sending their daughter back to them if that is what they want as the attacks still continues. Only last week they came to my house in my absence and asked my wife to warn me.
Pls help with advice on way out pllleeeaaassseee!

Ekaka1:
SW and THE NORTH ARE LEADING THIS TREND!

Ilekeh:
Politics of tribalism and backwardness in the SS/SE.




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ifex370:
na to shit am remain

fromnigeria:
Chai!!! Ndigbo being used since the time of Azikiwe.

blackpanda:
When I read some comments am ashamed at the kind of mentality some people have. Many of us have lost all sense of morality and decorum.
Here is a man championing free and fair election. He is the governor of the state, yet didnt ask or compel inec to rig for him.
Nevertheless some delinquents and urchins of undignified ancestry will just start posting nonsense and insulting him.
Elections shld be free and fair. You dont need amaechi to tell u that.

nacosprof:
Ameachi who sold his brother to cattle realer,..1milion votes for wike

domopps:
Even before Saturday general Election it has been Winning galore for APC!

Congratulations to APC!

Sai Baba

Sai Buhari



I have decided to vote for APC all through come this general election

#team change#


Cheeers

alobam1:
Is dis not the Mbadinuju that refused to pay workers salaries for almost a year During he's tenure in 1999 to 2003? The man that PDP even rejected for second term.As in a sitting govornor that he's party refused to give the return ticket..Yet he is now in the camp of the APC shouting change..Imagine. Change indeed.. If I wld vote this Saturday. My vote wld go to neither PDP or APC. I wld ne voting for oluremi sonaiye of kowa party even when I know she might lose.. She is still better than the two mofos..

lordhugo:
Take a coin and name the two sides. One Lordhugo and the other Raayah. Flip the coin. Winner kisses the other. Easy peesy.

slimdiggi:
pls Gej stop reading from paper Everybody that spoke are doing it without paper

atbu1983:
His name is Chief Martin Onovo

adioolayi:
Prof Sonaiya of KOWA party doing fine

pendy79:
For some it is never about competence or ability but his ETHNICITY.

If people within his immediate community cannot feel his presence then I am sorry for all the abuse I've thrown at the president. He wasn't practising NEPOTISM, he just DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO and is grossly INCOMPETENT across the BOARD.

If the YORUBAS ARE COMPLAINING, THE IGBOS ARE, THE HAUSAS ARE, THE IBIBIOS ARE, THE ITSEKIRIS ARE, THE URHOBOS ARE and all other ETHNIC groups are complaining of NEGLECT AND COLLAPSE OR NO GOVERNMENT PRESENCE IN THEIR LOCALITY, then where did he perform since his own OTUOKE community didn't benefit from him?

I need check across the border into Cameroun then maybe he has drunkenly taken all the TRANSFORMATION AGENDA tinz to BAMENDA at least we saw RUEBEN ABATI show some roads in Cameroun as part of GEJ's transformation agenda.

vicmoore:
A design made for a nairalander......mr charles onah......features...
A triplet flat of 2!edroom flat all ensuit with visitors tiolet

garrix8:
Somewhere in Delta State..

Olutola88:
I really don't see anything secretive here. He has given a summary of his journey and he promised to share some helpful hints later.

Even if he doesn't share more, I'm satisfied with all these information. OP has made us realize:

1. At times, you need a big fall to know where you stand:

People that say every cloud as a silver lining do know what they mean. There are times one just needs to fail as failure at times equips one for the ultimate success. Never see a challenge as a stumbling block but a stepping stone

2. Adequate Strategic Planning can change your story:

It's conspicuous that the OP knew what he wanted. 90% of fresh job seekers in Nigeria don't know what they want. But is it totally our fault? Obviously NO! Most of us just apply anywhere, anytime & anyhow simply because the whole system itself is anyhow.

We are not creative with our job search. We don't plan and strategize, we just see openings and dump our CVs. Some of us don't even bother checking out requirements these days. We just throw our CVs everywhere *lol*

OP indirectly said: Proper planning & Right strategies can help

3. If you really want it, Give it your all

Truth be told, most of us are too lazy to do all the OP has done. Connected with about 25 foreign Oil&Gas companies, Updated his Linkedin profile and even paid for a higher package, registered with about 19 outsourcing firms etc. (He has just taught us that we might need to go the extra mile to get our dreams achieved).

4. Don't get a Job, Get a Career

This is another problem Nigerian job seekers have. Most of us (especially fresh graduates) don't mind the job role, all we want is the pay. But how can you blame us when the jobs are so scarce like water in the desert. This has made it very difficult to get choosy ( shebi na when you see 3-4 jobs you go say you wan choose; wen some people no dey even get one offer in 2 years).

Don't work as a marketer for one company for one year and work in Cash & Teller unit of a Bank for another 2 years and later, you work as an analyst in a Laboratory for another 18 months.

If we can build a career, get a kind of job role we will be happy to do for another 20 years. Then getting a bigger & better offer along the line won't be an issue.

I'm sure the OP built a career in a particular
Oil&Gas function, reason why he could get a better job in that line. So, OP taught us another thing


5. “Relevant” Experience matters

Read my lips and pronounce RE LE VANT!

I was discussing with some job applicants for a Contract Cash & Teller position in a Bank. The bank said some successful applicants will work in Cash&Teller while others will work in Customer Service Unit. I argued that the Customer Service Unit is way better than Cash & Teller as I don't see any gain of experience in Cash & Teller. They were against my view, they argued that at least they will have 2 years work experience after working two years in the Teller unit.

I asked them, do you want to apply for another Teller job after the two years? They said NO but they will use the experience to apply for another job. I told them outright that I can never employ you as an experienced hire for any role other than Cash & Teller. (Btw, Cash & Teller should even be for OND holders; I think Nigeria is in a mess)

Companies that ask for relevant work experience know what they need. Most experienced hire vacancies I see always read:

2-3 years experience in Sales
Minimum of 5 years experience in Quality Assurance etc

OP has indirectly taught us that Experience is vitally important in getting bigger & better offers. BUT when you are garnering your experience, make sure it's the RELEVANT one.

...Olutola88 Still searching for a promising career

Cheers

shejane:
We were told to fill dis form on monday for my office which says that FG want to get world bank to give all civil servants loan maximum N3m,

All these na election things and I know the loan will not come before and even after election

How desperate is GEJ

beauty4ashes:
What i did differently in this cycle is that i went again to my gynae for another opening of my cervix cos he said the cervix keeps gettin closed.my tubes used to be blocked but i just commited everyting into God's hands that he should suprise me before the moni for the ivf is complete.
1. The gynae opened my cervix.
2.DH's count was low but he continued taking his supplements.
3.I took forever multi-maca,1daily till i noticed i didnt see Af.
4.Folic Acid.
5.Prayers+faith.
I didnt do anything concerning the blocked tubes because the blocked tubes was the very reason i wanted to do ivf. Our God is still on the throne and we all shall share our own testimonies..sorry for the long post pls.

LadyGuinivere:
$
If you are doing acupuncture. Yes you can. Day before and day of transfer.
If there's any vibrating whatmacaLlit etc abeg stay away. You can do that BEFORE ET . Only!

annibro:
Hello all mamas in the house. Happy new year to all. Congratulations to all bellyful mamas. Congrats Lykmau, may God be praised. God's speed & favor for us all hopefully expecting. I've been away for a while though do pop in to view. Reason becos I've not been able 2 raise enuf funs for the proceedure & dh issues. I decided to hang out at the ttc /politics thread. By the grace of God all is set now. The Dr
decided a long protocol for me. So I need urgent answers;
I ve taken the 1st shot of zoladex to be repeated on 28th day but I was given only folic acid.
1) Can I continue with my prenacare conception?
2) When is the best time to undergo acupunture? Can I do it now?
3)What other supplement can I take in addition for now?

Cc: Ebube, LadyG, Lykmau

speak2emmalex:
I can't wait to dump that yeye ECOWAS/Nigerian passport.

Nigeria is a fraud created by laugard and named by his girlfriend. Little wonder why almost all Nigerian leaders a fraud starts.Corruption will never end until Nigeria disintegrates.

One Nigeria my butt!!
Are we really united even as Igbos? My brother igbo enwe Eze! We will even be worse off as Biafrans as a few cabal from Anambra/Imo/Abia/Enugu etc will hijack leadership and we are back to square one! We are better off as one united Nigeria with its numerous potentials!

God Bless the Republic of Biafra