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justrite7:
Come WhatsApp

yusufmuhd:
inbox me pls through whatsapp

Black019:
I sent you a message in your email. Kindly check

Present to me why you need 100k.

Imogenn:
We are both black and Nigerian

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

bunmiano:
I've been a member of Nairaland since 2012 and I'm very frequent with the business section.

I have a very serious issue that has been a pain on my neck and I will try as much as I can to summarize everything

I sent a sum of N1m to a Uber taxi driver's account number on the 20th October, 2018. This money was a part payment bill for one of my family members who is battling with a life-threatening health issues. That happened about 4 weeks ago.

This is how the whole thing happened

A friend of mine paid me a courtesy visit and when he was about leaving, I used my rider app to request a ride for him and the driver came and took him to his destination. He told my friend the estimated cost of the fare was N4,800 but my friend didn't even bother to check because he felt he probably would not lie about it.

My friend called and told me the fare was N4,800 and I requested for the Uber taxi driver's account number after which I made the payment. The next day (20th October), I needed to make a transaction of N1m to someone for a part payment bill of my family member's treatment oblivious of the fact that I actually made the payment to the Uber taxi driver's account number. This was because I added him in my beneficiary when I wanted to make the payment.

I went to the rider app to get his contact, only for me to realize he actually inflated the fare from N3,400 to N4,800 which I literally paid for. You can see he's not an honest person but I wasn't really bothered about that.

I called and pleaded to him to refund the 1m I sent to his account. At first, he acted as if he didn't receive any money but after series of calls, he later confirmed it. I sent my account details to him and he promised to refund me on Monday as it was weekend.

Monday came and the dude started acting funny. He would pick my calls and remain silent. There were times he gave the phone to a lady to talk to me. Sometimes he yelled at me to stop disturbing him, and a point, he even stopped picking my calls

I mailed Uber and narrated everything that transpired. They responded requesting for evidence to back up my claim which I provided. I took screenshots of the first (inflated fare) and second payment and attached it to my massage. They responded telling me I should exercise patience and that they will look into my issue

It's been 4 weeks now and Uber has been lackadaisical towards this issue. I have messaged them several times and they seem to be less concerned about it.
With the way Uber has been acting towards this issue, one could conclude that they're trying to cover up this guy. Someone that can easily call and resolve this issue.

They have just been acting like they're more concerned about their own pockets than customer's satisfaction. I expect them to have taken up the issue for properly investigation despite providing solid evidence.

Please everyone! I have tried and I'm already fed up. Their customer care is my last resort but they have been nonchalant despite knowing the name, vehicle type, and license plate number of someone working for them. Even the Uber driver in question has failed to refund the money and has been avoiding me.

I went to the bank recently and his account has been frozen but I haven't been able to get my money

This country is just messed up. Even the police aren't helping matters. They are demanding their own share of about 150k

Mods please help my situation by pushing this to the front page

Below are the screenshots of everything

IrokoOluwere:
I wasn’t the one that made the offer .
I was just commenting on it .
3k is the best price for that thing.
Do you know that mtn now charge for transfer of airtime? So let’s say someone that wants to resell buy from you ... and he’s reselling it . Before he finish selling that 3700. I’m sure mtn will already charge him nothing less that 200 naira for the transactions.

Speedyconnect15:
Chat us up below

enoch273:
Hope you won't be sueing zuckerberg for this your mistake ?

IrokoOluwere:
3k is actually a good buy .
If it’s legit . Take it like that

dollyjoy:
Since they won't give me bonus,let me buy it 2k?

luvlyoracle:
lemme give u 3k

Geespot:
Eya so sorry

chidozy15:
I am a seller on fiverr, I will buy your gig and show you a screen shot and you transfer the Naira equivalent to me

chineduho:
I am also available,

calliope:
Is this the best your demented skull could come up it to spike me? Stop being senseless, and get the fvck outta my mentions!

calliope:
Yeah. So natural. I'm queer and proud.

JustAboyy:

smsmoney:
Disgusting

JustAboyy:
Na wa oh.. See as all of una no wan show way. Bros why na

JBoy9:
Pls what has been the result of this tormula on ur birds so far? I'm in PHC too, can I pay a visit to ur farm cuz i'll be needing u and EMMAACHILE's guidance in the next few weeks as I intend to start a 1000-bird farm. I have absolutely zero knowledge tho' apart from d basics I've read here on NL.

Pls help a bro. I recently lost my job in a bank, so I'm starting this with the little savings I have and fanily's contributions. Thanks

maureen44:
Easter symbolizes the renewal of life. I wish you and your family the renewal of life, love, and happiness.