Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

haslaw:



Stop being naïve. Is it possible to be talking everyday and not tell her mother everything that is happening in their house?

Jashub:
OP, I'll advice that you nip this thing in the bud before it becomes something else . And the best way of doing that is to have to a serious discussion with your wife and let her understand your fears and worries over this issue.

Because the way I see it , if your mother-in-law has that sort of authority over your wife, then she'll definitely have greater authority over how your home will be run in future .

oluwabukola855:
I only asked a question sir, and I have been told it's impossible so keep your opinion to yourself.

claseek:
I'm still on the table oh, all the links i have tried to contact says nothing can be done till the strike is called off, even after offering to pay any amount.

How about you?

oluwabukola855:
Hi everyone,
Please is it possible to differ an admission when one gets to the uk and luckily find a job that comes with sponsorship?
Your responses will be appreciated.
Thank you.

zoneros:
My entry date is August 19.
I want to book my flight with Qatar for a day before my entry date(18th August). I will arrive in London on the 20th.
Is this acceptable?

CHIMABLADE:


Thanks dear am really grateful...
On ur own can u suggest schools with moderate finance and fewer clauses..

CHIMABLADE:


Pls help a brother,it's very urgent..

Realshima88:
Good morning everyone,
I want to know if it raises a redflag when your PRINTED bank statement does not carry your middle name and your address on it is incomplete.

ignis:


You can even remove all the money since you've already gotten visa.

Mission have been accomplished.

Ab123455:



E be like you no dey hear word. How many times have you been told it’s a big red flag.

Tosinmichael11:
Please I have been hearing payment of visa and IHS in dollars

The person paying for me in the UK only has pounds in his account... can I pay directly in pounds...

olasanni:
Does the UKVI accept affidavits when it comes to discrepancies in name or date of birth on waec or bsc certificate.
The school i applied to requested for affidavit which I provided.
Just want to know if ukvi accepts affidavit
anyone with such experience

jum33:
Is it compulsory I must physically go to my bank to request for my pof stamped and signed statement of account ? What about if my bank offer online signed and stamped statement that I can easily generate via online platform,it available on gtbank, is it acceptable .

Ourown:
Please what are the documents required for form A? I applied and I received a text message saying my documents are not complete. I attached my degree cert, offer letter, and flywire invoice.

Also, If I am to attach other documents, do I need to cancel and reapply?

Thanks

Vintagee:


Thank you @sunky. Don't mind my wahala.

Vintagee:


Thank you @duchess90. So in the CV I should still indicate that my work stopped in April. I basically worked with the same company all these years. I am just concerned if my being out of work from May would be an issue.

Vintagee:
Hello @duchess and other gurus pls help me here.
For this study gap issue, I have been in employment for over 13 years but stopped working 2 months ago. I have my employment letter and have also gotten reference from my place of work where I resigned 2 months ago. In the reference it was also stated when I left the company. I hope my being out of work for these 3 months would not be an issue .

Musvic:
Please is it possible I indicate that I am not interested in courier service during visa application, so I can pick it up my passport myself
Thanks

adubam:


Thanks.

adubam:
Hello everyone. Can I use Statement of Result to apply for MSC? My certificate is not ready yet and it's over 10 years I passed out from school.

Secondly what's the deadline for January 2023 academic year application.

Thanks.

Shalommy:
That's horn na.. Chaii.. You've received your mark already!

aopecy:
Good day house
Please I need help regarding this, am trying to complete application on Salford university ,so I got to a place I was told to upload a certificate for English language qualifications. So what cert will I provide, am trying to complete an application for master degree
Please help
Thanks

aopecy:
Hello house, please is there anybody going to Salford university or someone who is done with the application process to help me out pls
Urgent response is needed
Thanks

olusholaadedoja:
Hi Family, please I will be traveling on Sunday, can anyone please help me with how to get visitors locator form and how to order for Day 2 PCR test kit. Please. Thank you

kennykale:
This is a story from a group chat narrated by a member of the group about her experience at Manchester Airport

Got to Manchester airport on 12th,and at the point of entry it was fireeeeee with questions from the IO....
Immigration officer:Good Morning
Me:Good Morning
Immigration officer:welcome to Manchester
Me:Thank you
Immigration officer:What are you here for??
Me:To study
Immigration officer:What school??
Me:University of Salford
Immigration officer :Do you have your balance with you??
Me:Yes I do
Immigration officer :Can I take a look at it
Me:I gave her my Bank statement I printed out before leaving Nigeria,mind I didn’t make transactions on the account the whole of December I only made transactions on the account in Nov which I think affected the whole situation and made her question me more,so I’d advice everyone to keep making transactions on his/her till you travel or when you still have your pof in your account..
Immigration officer:Are you sure you still have money in this account
Me:Yes I do....whereas you all know how we run the pof paro
Immigration officer:You only printed for Nov,I need to see for Dec and Jan
Me:in my head I said aha my fathers family finally followed me again ��I started shaking, I sha told her to check the date written on the print out which was 1st of Nov to 28th of dec.
Immigration officer ;said again I’m only seeing for Nov
Me:I just told myself I have to face this,I got more confident in myself and told her I didn’t make transactions in my account the whole of dec but the statement she has with her is from Nov to dec.
Immigration officer:Can you show me on your Bank App
Me:Told her I didn’t register for it
Immigration officer:Can I see your Atm card
Me:I told her I didn’t also register for it that the only proof I have is the bank statement with her
Immigration officer :How do you intend to balance your fee since you can’t access your account??
Me:Told her my mom is also a signatory to my account
Immigration officer :Where will you be staying here in Manchester
Me:With a friend
Immigration officer :How much do you have on you
Me:told her 200pounds
Immigration officer:How would you live on 200pounds since you can’t access your Account
Me:Told her my mom can always send money to me using my friends account
Immigration officer:Asked about my friend,if she working or school,her course etc I can’t remember some
Me:I lied at some points tho
Immigration officer:ask about my course told her
Immigration officer :Asked about the course modules told her
Immigration officer:how much is left to be paid told her
Immigration officer:which of the modules are you doing first told her (thank God I learnt about my modules very well before traveling)
Immigration officer:Will you be writing exams or dissertation??
Me:dissertation
Immigration officer:how many words
Me:I started thinking again that what kind of question is this one again,I just said any rubbish that came out of my mouth broke her 3000words��and smiled at her....na rubbish I talk for here o �����
Immigration officer:when is your first exam
Me:and I’m like wait they sent this woman to me cause wtf are these questions
(I told her ma honestly I can’t answer that cause I haven’t checked my timetable)
Immigration officer:did you send a message to the school telling them you got your visa and you would be coming to Salford
Me:Yes
Immigration officer:can I see the content
Me:I sent via my email
Immigration officer:can I see it
Me:opened my phone,scroll to my email and showed her
Immigration officer:went to check some of my other messages on the mail
Me:was just praying she doesn’t scroll to my bank app cause my own don finish na straight back to Nigeria,while she was checking a call came in she gave me the phone,I declined it and she collected it back,the call came in again she went to put my phone on flight mode and I was like wth,who sent this woman to me??my village people ?
Immigration officer:Take back your phone
Me:Thank you
Immigration officer:collected my file from me
Me:and I was ����

Immigration officer:went through all my documents in the file and saw where I worked with pandora and she asked are you sure you worked with pandora or it’s fake??
Me:I boldly told her yes I worked with them as so so so and so
Immigration officer:wow that’s nice
Immigration officer:saw the deposit payment I made and asked is this the deposit you paid
Me:yes
Immigration officer:how much was the discount given??
Me :3500
She was busy checking all my files and I was just praying to God at this point
Immigration officer:where is your laptop??
Me:Brought it out
And she checked and checked cause I spent more than 30mins with her.....trust me it was like 2hours I got exhausted at some points
She asked questions that I can’t even remember but these are just few of the ones I could remember....so guys be prepared for anything let your yes be yes and let your no be no,don’t contradict yourself when answering them o.....
Immigration officer:She finally stamped me and welcomed me again
Me:but me in my mind after killing me with questions I sha told her thank you and left.

This is my own personal experience and it’s fucking real... @Esther
Is a witness cause she was scared on my behalf and wondered what could have gone wrong.

Raheemot:


Oh,okay. Thank you so much,God bless you