Romance › Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 8:41am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 8:11am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 7:47am On Dec 13, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Mynd44: Is there a need to call this "men's corner" or other forms of couch group counselling sessions? Lets just gist and talk.
I mentioned "men's corner" because men are the most likely to rape and more than 90% of rape cases have involved men being the aggressor.
From http://www.dictionary.com/browse/rape,
So basically consent right? But is it all about consent?
Imagine a lady comes to visit you and at 1am, you ask her for sex. She turns you down and you threaten to throw her out knowing well that she has nowhere to go at that time and she is also in danger if she does and because of that, she agrees, is that consent?
Imagine the Manager asking one of the receptionists for sex with the receptionist knowing well that she is at risk of losing her job so she agrees. Is that consent?
Your girl visits you, you make those romantic moves but she was not all for it and says no so you "lockup" two hours later, you take her out, buy her drinks and when you are both home, you have sex with her, she probably even took your shirt off for you but is that consent?
You are a civil servant and someone wants a file submitted but you tell her to come see you in the photocopy room first, she agrees but is that consent?
We as men need to do better. We need to drop the bullshit and rise about it.
A girl is walking down the road and you and your friends turn it into a chance to make unsavory noises cos you think they are compliments…but isnt that harassment?
You have convinced yourself that women say no but mean yes. Bruh, dont play that game……no does not and will not mean yes. Even silence does not mean yes. Because she is wet is not even mean consent. What's the worst that can happen if you dont have sex when turned on?
Can we discuss this more? Lets be better for our women and maybe the world will be a lil bit better why should a lady visit me by 1a.m. if she's not ready for temptation? |
Politics › Re: Buhari Has Not Disappointed — Amaechi by Sunmolar(m): 10:37pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
we non corruptible citizens should focus on Nigerian project rather than playing partision politics which the end result not good for us as a nation. If we have non corruptible aspirants in any of the political parties in Nigeria we can vote for such without been bias to the party he belongs. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Has Not Disappointed — Amaechi by Sunmolar(m): 10:31pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Amaechi should count himself lucky to be part of a government with a stable foundation. Unlike the quick approach, quick fix, quick this, quick that of previous government with weak foundation. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Has Not Disappointed — Amaechi by Sunmolar(m): 10:25pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
NgeneUkwenu: Every Sane Nigerian Knows, things are moving up steadily since 2015...
The worst is already behind us and Nigeria is steadily progressing solidly with good foundation, unlike the kneel jerk approach, some wanted the govt to tow...
Take a look at the following Indices:
Power: No argument, Nigerians have never had it so good since 2011...at least many homes are getting between 15-20 hours of electricity now.
Infrastructure: Since 1999, we never seen the level of constructions going on our roads,Railway and bridges across the country now, every important road is receiving attention, constructions workers are presently in most of our roads....You may not notice because, it takes at least 2 years to deliver a standard road in Nigeria..but i assure before the end of 2018, it will be commissioning galore for infrastructure.
Foreign Reserve: The engine of our economy has grown significantly from mere 23Billion Dollars handed over the Present government to about 40Billion and accounting, this is inspite of the very low crude oil price.
Economy: We were warned in 2014, by the then Minister of Economy, that Nigerian's economy was drifting to recession and we didnt listen..good a thing, the recession came, things became worse, affecting almost the prices of everything...but government under President Buhari confronted head, with sound economic management, and now we are out of recession, and since then the economy has been picking up steadily, leading to massive reduction in prices of goods and services...
Corruption: No matter the flaws in the present effort of the Government, Noddy since the independence has made the kind of effort to fight corruption than Buhari, Billions have been recovered, property confiscated, hundreds in court for trial...and most importantly people are now afraid to deep hands into the government treasury to loot.
Agriculture: even the sworn enemies of Nigeria, have shown appreciation for the effort of this government to diversify the economy through agriculture..resulting to the drastic reduction in importation of par boiled rice to almost 0%, thereby allowing the local farmers to blossom, hence the current flooding of the market with local rice for the first time since 1985, which has crashed the price of rice from the all time high of 25,000 to between 10-12,000 in many markets across the country...
There are a lot the government are doing to reposition the Nigeria, which time will not permit to state here...but like they say, it easier to destroy than to rebuild...and President has started the construction..and by the time he LEAVES IN 2023,...his achievement can only be used as a yardstick to measures the subsequent governments after him. For these facts, you get sense |
Politics › Re: PDP: Jonathan Leads Reconciliation Team, Wike, Secondus Visit George by Sunmolar(m): 8:28am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Always reconciling, when will they get it right? |
Family › Re: 'I Want To Cheat On My Runaway Husband' by Sunmolar(m): 8:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
PrettySleek: God will bless u for this statement, u hv sense. U just spoke my mind If she's not yet married according to you, why divorce?
Because it takes only the married to divorce. |
Family › Re: 'I Want To Cheat On My Runaway Husband' by Sunmolar(m): 8:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
majority opinions will never change the truth. Divorce him before jumping to bed with another player. |
Crime › Re: "I Am Rich With Over $5m, But It’s A Hell On Earth For Me" - Ghanaian Yahoo Boy by Sunmolar(m): 3:59pm On Dec 10, 2017 |
when people suddenly became wealthy and you don't have any sign that it's from God, you need to ask questions. |
Politics › Re: Pension Fraud: EFCC Recovers N2.8b Cash; Magu Opens Up On Assets by Sunmolar(m): 3:31pm On Dec 10, 2017 |
i don't know how much will be given to me to support corrupt individuals. Some people's parents are dying of hunger in the village, but they will be here canvassing support for politicians for zero naira. I pray these destinies shall not be wasted for life. |
Celebrities › Re: Funke Adesiyan's Cleavage-Baring Outfit To Saraki’s Daughter's Wedding by Sunmolar(m): 6:33pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello Unveils His House In Okene, His Hometown (Photos) by Sunmolar(m): 9:36pm On Dec 06, 2017 |
Oh Lord help the people of Kogi state and deliver us from wicked men/,leaders in Jesus name amen. Thanks Lord for answered prayers. |
Politics › Re: Olusola Adeyeye Wants Allowances Of All Politicians Reduced by Sunmolar(m): 2:04pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Nigerians will vote for genuine politicians who will accept reduction in allowances come 2019! |
Politics › Re: You Are Welcome To Graze In Kogi State- Yaya Bello To Fulani Herdsmen by Sunmolar(m): 9:02am On Nov 30, 2017 |
neolboy: source :https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/gov-bello-kicks-grazing-bill/ I have heard you Emperor Yaya Bello. When the problems of killing, maiming, & destruction of farmlands start, my people will not meet with traditional rulers before they react to the situation. Although I'm seeing the handwriting on the wall, maybe those soldiers you've already posted to these peaceful environments will be the ones to protect the herdsmen. Before you we're born, my people have a way of curbing the excesses of your so called herdsmen. We're waiting for you. Thanks for the info. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Life Getting Harder For Nigerians Under Buhari" - Cardinal Okogie by Sunmolar(m): 9:32am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Omooba77: May be you were eating from the crumbles...My take has reduced; fuel price and other basic things like rice, beans and so on increased astronomically.
People cant afford to go to hospitals . Eating two meal per day is becoming a challenge to many families Maybe you're still waiting for a perfect government to make things better for you. Maybe you should ook up to God who created all things to help you. He can do all things. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Life Getting Harder For Nigerians Under Buhari" - Cardinal Okogie by Sunmolar(m): 9:02am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Buharimustgo: You can see nobody like your comment,because it shows your level of educational background  Buharimustgo: You can see nobody like your comment,because it shows your level of educational background truth is a bitter pill people find it hard to swallow |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Life Getting Harder For Nigerians Under Buhari" - Cardinal Okogie by Sunmolar(m): 9:00am On Nov 29, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Ordered AGF Malami To Meet With Me, Ensure My Reinstatement – Maina by Sunmolar(m): 8:39am On Nov 29, 2017 |
kay29000: If people would take time and read this post without bias, they would see why Buhari thought bringing this guy back would be good for Nigeria. But ofcos, most have been blinded by hate. Come on, the guy was out of the country, and he showed a Minister how to stop the looting of 1.5 trillion Naira. He surely is an asset. The gullible kids in the house couldn't decipher this simple fact. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Ordered AGF Malami To Meet With Me, Ensure My Reinstatement – Maina by Sunmolar(m): 8:32am On Nov 29, 2017 |
cyril83: Kid searching for kids like him.... Sorry am not here to trade words but to enlighten dullard like you.
Check the next door kid  cyril83: Kid searching for kids like him.... Sorry am not here to trade words but to enlighten dullard like you.
Check the next door kid |
Politics › Re: Buhari Ordered AGF Malami To Meet With Me, Ensure My Reinstatement – Maina by Sunmolar(m): 8:31am On Nov 29, 2017 |
cyril83: Nigerians are just too gullible and that's why our country would seize to progress. Sometimes I think a lot of people in this forum are ignoramus. they only get 100% in been sarcastic, 100% in romantic stories, 100% in celebrity beefs. pls don't hit me  cyril83: Nigerians are just too gullible and that's why our country would seize to progress. Sometimes I think a lot of people in this forum are ignoramus. they only get 100% in been sarcastic, 100% in romantic stories, 100% in celebrity beefs. pls don't hit me |
Politics › Re: Buhari Ordered AGF Malami To Meet With Me, Ensure My Reinstatement – Maina by Sunmolar(m): 8:27am On Nov 29, 2017 |
some people rushing to make comments without understanding the reality in this exposé. Just become they're looking for loopholes in govt. |
Crime › Re: Photos Of Libya Slave Trade, Torture & Killings Surface (Viewer's Discretion) by Sunmolar(m): 9:03pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
Bibors: Lybians are Africans and they can't even accommodate Africans, Lybians are Muslims and can't even accommodate Muslims. Africa is Africa's greatest problem and not Europeans.
The worst natural disaster is the degraded African mentality. how many Libya citizens do we have in Nigeria? I don't think Nigeria has a strong diplomatic ties/treaties with Libya, otherwise they're making a gross error that can attract the UN. |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Did Not Order Us To Clear Salary Arrears - Governors by Sunmolar(m): 8:54pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: President Buhari Did Not Order Us To Clear Salary Arrears - Governors by Sunmolar(m): 8:50pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Flaunts Sports Cars Worth Millions In Abuja (Photos, Video) by Sunmolar(m): 8:37pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Flaunts Sports Cars Worth Millions In Abuja (Photos, Video) by Sunmolar(m): 8:32pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
Loveth1: Senator Dino Melaye Toy worth $25,000 you can't drive these cars in your constituency area, you will pack the pieces because of bad road. pls don't hit me. |
Politics › Re: Governor Wike Receives Gifts From 54 African Beauty Queens (pics, Video) by Sunmolar(m): 1:27pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
Ovokoo: . when is HANDSOME PRINCE(S) IN AFRICA holding theirs? |
Crime › Re: Fakhriyya Ben-umar, The First Wife Of Bilyamin Bello Who Was Killed By 2nd Wife by Sunmolar(m): 7:58am On Nov 28, 2017 |
sonnie10: The life of second wives. Grab as much as you can from the man, even those things you won't ever need. Hoard them if possible, until you die.
Let them bury you with those things and any one who wants to have them should dig up the grave and have them. i dough my hat for you. 2nd wife = bewithment |
Politics › Re: Rakiya Musa Birnin Tudu Slapped Twice By LG Chairman In Kebbi (photo) by Sunmolar(m): 7:55am On Nov 28, 2017 |
This is what you get when you have almajiris on the streets in the north without proper parental upbringing. And when the almajiris find their way into politics you dare not challenge their authority. i rest my case. |
Travel › Re: Ejike Gift Emeka: 1st Class Graduate Had Accident On His Way To Lagos For NYSC by Sunmolar(m): 10:48pm On Nov 27, 2017 |
spinna: I'm ready to fight with or toast any driver just to make them drive properly in Nigeria, May God heal him when you have a listening driver accident is avoidable. the driver of a bus was over speeding on our way from Lagos three weeks ago. it took prayers & Divine intervention. |