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tomzman: OP, This is a very serious situation you are in. FIrst of all, the foundation of your marriage is faulty. Just because a pastor prophesied your marriage doesnt mean you guys should not do HIV test before getting married. Well, the deed is done. I would advise you to stay with your husband but you guys should not be intimate without protection for the sake of your own health. Get closer to God and if you are still attending the pastor's church, leave the church and find a better Bible believing church. You and your husband should be more prayerful, with God, all things are possible.

If u advice ptotected intimacy, den wats she doing in d marriage, she said dey have no child yet.

Her name,

im nt d honey, sweety, moonlight type.

Abi wats d point being called honey today and monkey wen dia is a little disagrement?

Use my prefered name and shikena.

ladunsky: and my husband is not suppose to be stingy

@ Ladun, who is a stingy husband?

SpicyMimi:
Well it depends on how they relate, my bf wouldn't give me such an amount after he must ve bought himself something nice, bt 3k its just too much, atleast 1k should be enough. To be sincere #500 no be money

So wen ur guy buys sometin nice u are entitled to a particular amount of money? And wat wil he be paying u for?

SpicyMimi: Its true no one wants a parasite as a wife, also it should be noted that, no girl wants a stingy man as her husband, learn to show signs that u are not d stingo type, if your girl is well brought up she wouldn't accept everything you buy or give her, instead she would advise you save the money, but atleast you mustnt give her the impression that you are stingy by nature.

Pls, who is a stingy person? I seem nt to understand dis tin

Ashmark: For me I don't see anything wrong in buyin things for my GF.Most time when I pass by a supermart I get my GF the soap that she use for her bath and some other things that I know she'll like.Get her nice top,wristwatch and she always appreciate it and am also happy that am able to do those things for her and pray to do bigger once.Though I dont like the idea of a girl thinkin that I have to take care of all her responsibilities.Do I look like your father?...Checkout my blog at www.ashmarkexclusive..com

And pls try stop this and see her reaction, she might leave u for d next rich guy

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.

What kinda life is dat? If u dnt see anytin wrong in dis den u need attention

If i wanna advice u as a fellow christian, i will sound lik, God doesnt support divorce, once u are married thats it, there is no goin bak, u shdnt leave ur husband bcs he is HIV positive(and u are nt), and bcs he has no job, trying times will end one day.

BUT if u were my sister, u jst have to run for ur life(infact u must), d error ws made right frm d start and thank goodness in dis case it can be corrected. The facts are there: u were misled by a prophet,U are still 31, he is HIV +ive, u are nt (is he faithful?), there is no child in the marriage yet, u guys have bin begging to live etc.
Leave dat marriage, d HIV status shd be a major factor.

[quote author=Harvard-Grad]I think its better when the cherry is popped early, babysitting a 27 year old virgin is extremely frustrating. I wan resign abeg.[/quote]Its true o, iv bin tru dis b4 and im goin tru one rit nw (d gal is 30yrs old), kai, its very very very very very frustratin dating a matured virgin, very very very frustrating i say.

Is there a way Okupe can prove this? U dnt jst make controversial comments without basis

There is nothing wrong in waiting for someone u really want for as long as time allows u. We all have different degrees of tollerance, bt if its worth it den u wont mind waiting.
There is actually a gal iv bin asking out since 2010 (and we are stil on it) and there was a gal who said YES afta 6 yrs of sayin NO to me. Waiting is a virtue that shd be learnt, everyone needs it.
I dnt jst go for a gal and wen i do, i do unbelivable tins and waiting for as long as possible is one of them. In as much as she doesnt prove me wrong abt wat i believed of her. Of all things, rudeness is one negative tin i cant cope wit, wen a gal displays it, im off.

she is 1971 while he is 1981 , jst lik mariah Carey and Nick Canon.

Naija police go see dis one abeg, u beta use ur normal seat belt, LASTMA na panasharp o

Then, you are alwaz d 3rd guy dey will eva date. When u ask a gal abt her past relationships, they will alwaz tell u abt their only previous 2 boyfriends.

They are alwaz out of airtime

They are either coming from somewhere or going somewhere ( some unmentionable place)

And they are alwaz either in a relationship, engaged or "why is it hard for people 2 beliv i dnt have anybody", if u get wat i mean.

Then, they are alwaz sorry, lie lie

Must you lie to live ur life? ehn, haba

dederocs: i cant sleep with a married man,no matter how much he has...

Na true o, and u will hardly see a gal who had nt done it b4

6. I don't love u because of your
money.

The most honest

Lil princey: am 19

ok, Pls read ur books.

k2039: [color=crap] [size=13pt]Be honest and dig your grave. Just tell her I love your boobs and butt.[/size][/color]

Haba

Yomii: bro if u used d word damaged his future, u are simply saying dir is no hope for him. Why include him in ur morning prayer's for God to change him.

Unfortunately, dis kind of guys dont listen to advice dey see it as being smart

And u claim u need tru love with d kind of description u gave? i wish u d best dude, bt pls take ur life seriously, 2mr is more important dan 2day.

Yomii: I just wanted to know if this is actually possible because i have had series of stories most especially from the people who actually met a lady on 2go. A colleague of mine was a kind of lamenting that he has slept with atleast 15 gals he met on 2go on their first date. Do you really think this is possible?

Tell dat colleague of urs dat 2mr is more important than today bt unfortunately he has damaged his future and dat of his unborn children, in short, hw had dug his own grave, God be wit him till we meet again at the feet of christ.

fubbyy: I'm in kumasi for 6days now,can't just believe that its true that ghanian girls are better than naija girls in all angle

A ghanian girl no send your pocket o as long as she likes you,she makes the first move, she calls more than you call, she's takes you out on a daily basis,that's what am seeing here o

These girls are down to earth, wife materials indeed, anyway let me see how this will end, I still have 4 days here

Its so pathetic that u didnt ask ursef where she might hv gotten the money u claimed she spends on u frm,

So wen a gal makes the 1st move and spends on u, its make her a wife material? Chei

This is not pluto, its planet Earth.

Let me look for a business centre so i can spiral bind my report, d list is actually more than 10 pages.

Grendel: Hello guys,
Please I need a solid advice on this issue, I'm dating one lady right now that keeps on telling me everyday she loves me not because of money but just because she feel good and secure whenever she is with me.
She likes looking me in the eyes
She likes holden my arms .....
The funniest thing is that she like me more when am angry.
Please what should I do?
Note: I love her too but I need freedom

How old is she? How old are u? And whats ur finacial status? If she is a young damsel, den she means it, she really loves u like mad pending d time she will learn d trade from friends, aunties, nollywood, novels, and trend. Then she go tear eye and know that "romance and finance are identical twins".

Bt if she is a matured gal (25+), d fact dat she is even sayin " i love you nt bcs of ur money" means money is the major motivating factor, so guy, have it at d back of ur mind dat money stuff will soon dominate d relationship, just like oda relationships.

Have u eva heard of d 3rd testament? "No fun without fund". Get used to it. In the world of love, money is the air to breathe

Its one of two things, u can ansa d question honestly or as a player.

To ansa it in honesty, tell her wat u like specifically abt her, bt it will be funny dat u meet a gal and within 5mins u
are already sayin funny stuff, im talkin abt responsible gals, u will be viewed as a nut. So d best tin is take ur time to find out wat u really like abt her.

Then as a player, u need to learn d trade, there are tins gals lik hearing, so learn and mater dem.

Bt its beta to be a responsible man. Go wit d 1st option.

Lil princey: Am a young guy, very attractive atleast and they is this girl actually she's older than me that has been admiring me for some time now but she hasn't let the cat out of the bag yet by telling me anyting, but she told me she liked my looks and appearance and am a very shy type but i like her despite the age difference so am thinking of approaching her and telling her my mind what do u think guys?

May i know your age pls?

Report the issue to your bank as soon as possible, or u can also confirm frm any banker around you for the best way to go abt it.

ok

“This year they’ve been ordinary. Even though they’re second in the league, they haven’t been up to their own standards and weren’t very good in Europe. I’ve got a funny feeling that even if City go on and win the FA Cup that Mancini will still be off.”

This is wat i hate hearing from man city faithfuls, pls wats ur standard? So bcs u spent a lot of money u neva worked for, won d FA cup, Premier league and d charity shield, u now belong to the man utd/liverpool class, dats funny and rude, in case u dnt know, history makes clubs and u dnt have it, so spend more money, win more trophies ova a period of time and u can start talkin abt high standard.

Really funny