5points: If u have bring to Lagos, you would have noticed this.
Some girl's voice are terribly thick you get scared when they greet you.
So guys, how do you respond to the situation?

Another tactless and shambolic display of immaturity and narcissism from a pathetic poster.

Is it there fault that they have thick voices? Did they create themselves?

Did you chose your own sonorous voice? Did you chose your height?

Did you even chose your name?

So why complain about somebody nature?

Sleep ke, well is ur style is low cut no wahala, bt my own hair style requires SPECIAL alacrity.

Before one considers marriage, it is imperative to note this; maturity must be ascertained.

There are 3 forms of maturity and each must be in place before marriage should cross anybody's mind;

1) physical maturity
2) emotional/mental/spiritual maturity
3) financial maturity

Anyone who is not sure abt these stages of maturity shouldnt even consider marriage. Why wud a man who cant pay the bride prize on his own think abt marriage? Take more abt getting a gud shelter, providing gud food for the home etc.

Let me explain what marriage means. You are poing to somebody's house to change the possession of his daughter. From birth, he has bin feeding her, clothing her, giving her some or all of the tins she needs. Asking for her hands in marriage means you are ensuring the man that you are gonna do all those tins and more. So why should you come if you cant even feed her?

For ladies, these 3 stages of maturity apply to you as well, it goes beyond physical maturity alone.

In a nut shell, anyone who is not ready for marriage should wait until he/she is ready.

Im sorry to sound different, i dnt sucsribe to the dream man/woman stuff, its one of those reasons why

1) marriages are failling more than ever; as soon as you discovered the person you got married to is not your dream person, you start looking elsewhere, and the marriage starts getting boring and you obviously would stop giving your all.

2) divorce rate is on the increase; you might start considering divorce when you discover there is someone better than the person you are married to, and this is a prerequisite from the life we live as youths. Some young people had already damaged their marriage even b4 thinking abt it, some, as young as 20. What should a gal who dates married men and has committed several abortions or a guy who dates 4 gals at the same time expect from marriage?

3) marriages are becoming unpeaceful, unhappy, enduring, a movie, less successfull; when you live ur life searching for a prefect person or a person of ur dream, you eventually wudnt find it and will have to settle for sometin close to wat u had pictured in mind or any other available option, such marriage can neva be successful

4) matured unmarried singles; a major reason for matured singles today is that people are searching for the person of their dream. After waiting for eterniy, they discover eventually that such person does not exist. Years are usually spent doing this.

So, you cant choose a life partner by ursef, ur knowledge cant help u, only God can. Why not ask God to perfect his will in ur live instead of following the trend.
Ask yoursef this question, where are dos ur criteria coming from? The picture your painted, where did it come from? Is it not from trend, jealousy, lust, movies, peer opinions, fashion and what have you.
Dont allow people's opinion rule ur world, God created u and he had some things in mind when he was forming you.
The reason why people are struggling with their marriages is because they dnt allow God have his way, they dnt listen to God anymore, they listen to peers opinion and views.

Honorable Oritsejafor, i will advice you dnt say any other thing, Jona go collect that private jet o. we all knew where it came from.

DonColz1: Have heard of a married couple who were of the same age, but could not co-operate with each other, because they feel like since they are agemate, then no one can give orders to the other. The husband is 30 yrs old and the wife is 30 yrs old, so since the husband is not older that the wife, he can't control his wife.
So does age really matters in marriage?

Let me ask Ifa

Nehemiah459: I have read many authors claiming that they have died, went/saw heaven and rose again.
I also found out that they all give different testimonies about heaven.

I want to ask if they truly went to heaven?
If Yes, does it mean there are are different heavens which they pay visit to? or is it just their imaginations?

Its illogical for me to believe such people. Would they all agree to tell us the description of what they saw so we can compare. I believe in the reality of heaven and the finality of hell, but for someone to tell me he has seen heaven and hell, sounds like you telling me you saw the garden of Eden, where? It sounds tom tom to me. The bible says on the last day God will judge mankind, some will go to heaven and some will be condemed to hell according to their deeds. There is no judgement yet, meaning nobody has been condemed to hell, so why would someone come up with some crappy story that he saw people in hell. Haba.

Bible is not like Quran, its there for all of us to decipher.

One day, gals will walk down the street NAK*ED

I am a christian but i see no reason why one wont consider the right and peace of other people present in the bus, why not apply a one-on-one method, its more effective. If muslims are doing same in the North, christians wud find it very difficult to live there. I grew up in the North and i think each human should be respected.

We are all in the about the state and size of confusion the federal Govt is rooted in.

Of all the blatant problems the country is experiencing; refineries are not working, ASUU shame, power issues, infrastructural under-development, bad leadership, corruption cancer, constitusional inbalances among other issues, the FG sees regulating the use of social media as the immediate thing to tackle.

Its a shame.

i used to think what Nigeria needs is prayer, now i think otherwise.

I have a candid question

Is there any living Nigerian without an MTN line?

So y say funny tin abt MTN?

Anyway, MTN means Mobile telephone Network

I have issues with dudes believing everyone had their kind of background and everyone must bow to their class of ideology. We all had different upbringing, fact. Some parents gave up everything to ensure their children stand on their foot, some mothers sold the air they breath so a particular child can become someone in life which should ease some burdens. Now tell me, why should such children grow up and think they have their own life to live, dude can you hear me? Your mum gave up her convinience, so u owe her all your comfort, at least for somtime.

Haa, i came in a bit too late.

Wud u all be patient to read out my experience with Nigerian gals? Kai, no it wont work.

I saw hell without the fire. The point is if u wanna be a gentle man and God fearing most of them will take u 4 a ride.

They are gonna say u are 2 dull, not matured, 2 serious, 2 primitive and all that jazz.

But i have told mysef that nothing will change my beliv abt pleasing God and acting in the best possible way. No gal will bend me to her

sophisticative lifestyle, being wild and rude will only extend ur stay in ur father's house.

Young man, its nt by force, roll off, look elsewhere

Wat is he saying abt it?

If he doesnt wanna meet ur parents, den its as clear as day.

I have tired

I wonder why people do this, u are nt the only one dear, bt try to work on it. Wateva u do now has a bearing on how tins will be wen u are married. Care abt ur future.

My own na beans o, as a kid if u give me Rice and Beans, i can spend my entire life picking out the beans, bt now, most times i eat Beans, egg and water 3 times a day.

What is light?

U started the joke

ok

Rei Mann!E:
My gurlfriend over 2years is asking for a break up and I dunno what to do... Should I give-in to the request or hold-on to my love for her.

Advice please?

Guy, when ur gf is asking for sure den u are girlfriendless.

I dnt know ur age bt if u are matured enuf and u are lookin at someone to settle down wit den look elsewhere, ok.

Na worm joor

The time for courtship is not a time for seeing the movies, going to the beach, going to clubs and parties, or jumping from one eatery to the other, its not a time for evaluating sex-ual compartibility lik trend, people and d media has made us belive. its a time to know ur partner to manage differences and weaknesses, its a time to prepare for marriage and getting God's direction and approval over the marriage.
Bt unfortunately, how many people do dis, young people are sold to fantasy, enjoyment and pleasure, we are obviously seeing the fruits all around us, divorce, disharmony, lack of peace is all u see in families.

Meanwhile, Its neva too late to get back on track, seek God and u shall find him

repogirl:

girl, u r so on point, gone are d days when girls were forming faithful and true. You should never get urself out of the dating pool until u have been proposed to. Its not cheating o, its having options .

never put ur eggs in a basket when there are so many other correct baskets out there.

I have bin waiting for someone to come up wit this, so finally, here u are.

The major reason for infidelity (and lack of peace, success, harmony) in marriages is this tin u jst mentioned.

Most of us act this "dnt put all ur eggs in one basket" script while still single wit d mindset that if A dos not wok B or C wud. And we tink we can stop it wen we finally settle down, bt do people stop it? You will understand wat i mean if u look around you, married people are so involved in extra-marital affiars that its now a norm.

Bottom line is, when it comes to the choice of who to marry, u cant do it on ur own, u cant depend on ur intelligence, u need GOD. The fact that u are considering more than one person (many options) means GOD is not in it. You are meant to prayerfully go to GOD to give you the bone of ur bone and the flesh of ur flesh.

Trust in the LORD wit all ur heart, lean not on ur own understanding.

prince_onx:
The one covered in blue?

Rara, the one covered in snow

tpacalipse: It is even better to remain single.

Guy, never allow ursef to be pushed to that corner. He who finds a wife finds a gud tin and obtain favour frm God

ginuwine: I am a young man of marriageable age, i have 2 ladies whom i think the world of. The first is older but not older than me & a working class, whom i think would make a good companion & partner. the other is a student, but much younger.
i like love them both. i am just confused because my parents have asked me to introduce the woman of my choice to them. what do i do? i need advice. please.

This is one of those things youths do these days which has very negative effects on the peace, fruitfullness and success of their marriages. Whatever you do as a single individual is prerequisite to what will transpire in marriage.

How could you date two people at the same time and even claim you love them both? Dnt you think thats a way of rehearsing promiscuity?

Yes, thats the trend these days bt so is divorce and unhappy marriages. If u tink u will stop it when u get married, i can boldly tell you that was wat oda people tot when they were single and if u look around, u will see the high rate of infidelity in married people.

This is the way it starts. You cant choose a life partner on your own, you need GOD, your wisdom and feelings cant help you, only GOD can.

Guy, the future is more important than now, pray very well, pray abt ur future, this is not somtin to joke about

The funny tin is even if u have a job, gals will still measure the level of convinience u can afford, thats d major reason y dos rich guys play gals off

Im coming, let me think 1st