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Romance / Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by sunnyt1(m): 4:08pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
izaray: I hv noticed that the reactions to the post had suddenly become a gender war The female folks have defended what the lady in question said claiming it was a reactive verbal punch that the guy should have taken in good fate. Is it co-incident that most ladies say things they later regret in the heat of an argument? Have you ever seen 2 ladies quarelling? They say things. The bottomline is people should learn to control their utterances especially when angry |
Romance / Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by sunnyt1(m): 3:33pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
eiBADAn: Guy, except you are joking o, if what you said is true, guy you epitomize a 21st century maga Guys like u are the reason some girls take boyfriending as a source of income, do u think she would have used her money for all these? Do u spend that percentage of ur monthly earning on ur future, haba, how could u spend so much on a girl that might even leave u at any time? |
Romance / Re: Minimum Educational Qualification For A Spouse by sunnyt1(m): 8:01pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Educational qualification has nothing to do with marriage. Our generation has lost it entirely |
Romance / Re: Why Are Mad Men So Endowned Down There? by sunnyt1(m): 11:16pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
The OP might sound silly but that thought have crossed my mind too. This thought is only the testament to the fact that you shd appreciate whateva God gave you and dont long for what u dont have 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Pregnant For Another Guy by sunnyt1(m): 1:22pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
This only happens in Nollywood movies |
Family / Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by sunnyt1(m): 9:43am On Feb 19, 2016 |
Bro, i affirm that your wife is neither a bad nor a wrong person, she only has a defiant and variant outlook about life. Dont ever decide on keeping your activities from her as against what others have been advising you. Doing things your wife is against in secret will only aggravate the feud when she finds out and she will one day. The best approach is to work on her mindset, let her know the concept of sowing and reaping, let her know the table might turn one day, let her know the myth of giving and recieving. Let me open your mind to something, Keeping this from her could mean you have the tendency of keeping out deeper secrets, in fact it means there could be other secrets somewhere. Now imagine what this thought in her would do to your marriage. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by sunnyt1(m): 12:11pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
ronald4lif: This is the reasons why a lady/guy shd discuss at length with the partner, you can only know someone you talk with extensively. The opinion above says a lot about this person and the kind of future he wants for himself except its a kind of prank. You wont stick to one partner your entire life and you dont mind if your wife flies around but if you get her, its the end of the marriage and she can do same if its the other way round. Haba |
Family / Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by sunnyt1(m): 11:56am On Feb 18, 2016 |
There is no such thing as a wrong person, she only has a wrong mentality about relationships and interdependability. This is the reason why i take everything a partner tells me seriously, every trait is prerequisie to something serious. When she told u she left her ex because of the number of dependants attached to him what were you thinking sir? It means if this issue with your bro had come up before she married you she would have looked for a BETTER person, and i must tell you, thats what she is thinking right now. Its a reflection of her (and many people) outlook to life and people, she believes everyone should cater for his/herself but life is not that way, one might be on the other end of the table in 5 years. You only need to talk to her gradually and in love, it will shock you to know that women like this will stick with you even if you have nothing, they just dont want anything to interfere with their comfort. Like i said, talk to her so she can understand that there is no greater investment than helping others, not your family members alone. Gradually, she will come to your page 1 Like |
Family / Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by sunnyt1(m): 10:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
FRANKOXY: Are you serious about this opinion? |
Family / Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by sunnyt1(m): 8:33am On Feb 18, 2016 |
The OP is only being sincere and giving tips on how to adapt to the changing time but shud we fold our hands and allow sin and confusion rule our lives? I dont think we shd keep rationalizing and validating our lustful desires The issue we have is this, we expect people to change dramatically or should i call it supernaturally in their later years, which is a pipe dream. That sweet, charming, smart, butterfly-feeling giving, manipulative, lady's boy you came acrosss in the club, on the street, or at a party will not change overnight. These fruits i described above and more characterize a perfect playboy which is the dream of every or most ladies. Someone once said if a lady describes her ideal man, she will have suceeded in painting the most skilled playboy. So maybe you should start by minding what you wish for. Also, iv always opined that anyone who has the nerve to date 2 or more people at the same time have the proclivity of cheating in marriage. If you have this tendency at all, face it and fight it. These are the kind of thing to look out for in a partner, not height and complexion which give no happiness. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Pastor Curses Anybody Who Has Sex On Valentine's Day by sunnyt1(m): 1:38pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Iamsynord: The big question is, what is valentine's day? If it takes the valentine's days to celebrate love or show love to your wife or partner then something is fundermentally wrong. |
Religion / Re: Is It A Sin To Listen To Secular Instrumentals? by sunnyt1(m): 10:11am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Its not a sin in itself but what is the content of the so-called secular music. A christian must do thing that glorify God |
Religion / Re: Does Fasting Really Starts By 12am? by sunnyt1(m): 10:01am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Fasting is a period of seclusion from the normal just to devote your time to God in prayer. You can set your personal time, 12am to 6pm is the time set by someone which your arent obliged to comform to |
Religion / Re: Revelation As Shown By God To A Young Lady, Shalom David - Tattooing Is A SIN by sunnyt1(m): 10:45am On Jan 20, 2016 |
udmbat: Such people do not think about next week talk more of the future generation, they only think of themselves and now, they dont think of their children and grandchildren |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by sunnyt1(m): 11:49pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Dotmax53: I ran into this conclusion a long time ago, the only thing we learn in school is pride. There is this destructive pride that comes with education Why do educated people see people who didnt go to school as less human, like lower animals? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: My Experience At A Church Today Almost Made Me Cry by sunnyt1(m): 4:47pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
fedex01: Did you say our traditional religion was islam? Subuhanalilah! If as a muslim you dont know the history of how Islam came to Nigeria then you know so little. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: My Experience At A Church Today Almost Made Me Cry by sunnyt1(m): 4:40pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Its quite pathetic how christianity and the church is gradually becoming like the other religion where people cant think properly and its an offence to read, understand and act/live out the christlike lifestyle practically described in the Bible. Christian means christ-like, we are meant to act like christ, we should be the bible the world reads and the pastors are saddled with the responsibility of educating and encouraging us to live like christ. Christians should be very well acquainted with the bible which is the universal manual, the bible should be the reference point not what anyother human tells you. Read through the bible to see how the church started and grew, building the church auditoriums isnt given much importance, what was emphasized was giving to the poor, widow and the needy. Today the message is about giving, giving and giving. Pastor hardly talk about hell and paradise, spiritual emphasis, loving everybody etc Christianity is recently about manipulation, Pastors quote "will a man rob God" more than any other part of the bible. If a "Man of God" successfully manipulates you then you have chosen a remain a baby chrsitian which Apostle Paul spoke about. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: Can One Become Rich As A Salary Earner? by sunnyt1(m): 5:34pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
NaijaOptimist: Having read all the analysis and comments, its the right time to chip in somethings. I have known since childhood that earnings doesnt always translate to what we feed on in reality, your salary is not what you really live on. When you divide your salary by 30 days, what you get is outrageously laughable. Many people earn less than 30k per month in Nigeria, divide that by 30 and you get 1k, can you imagine that many working class graduates live on 1k or thereabout every day? Considering the things we do daily, weekly and monthl;, we eat, buy recharge cards, CDs, fuel, data, clothes, etc, can you now see that the reality doesnt correlate with whats on the payslip. What does it really mean to be rich? For a start, being rich means having things in abundance. In this age and time, the chances of getting things in abundance is slim, i am a realist and i dont practice duplicity or narcissism. If you want to chase abundance, you will be practicing covetueousness and discontentment. |
Career / Re: Can One Become Rich As A Salary Earner? by sunnyt1(m): 5:26pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
NaijaOptimist: Having read all the analysis and comments, its the right time to chip in somethings. I have known since childhood that earnings doesnt always translate to what we feed on in reality, your salary is not what you really live on. When you divide your salary by 30 days, what you get is outrageously laughable. Many people earn less than 30k per month in Nigeria, divide that by 30 and you get 1k, can you imagine that many working class graduates live on 1k or thereabout every day? Considering the things we do daily, weekly and monthl;, we eat, buy recharge cards, CDs, fuel, data, clothes, etc, can you now see that the reality doesnt correlate with whats on the payslip. What does it mean to be rich? For a start, being rich means having things in abundance. In this age and time, the chances of getting things in abundance is slim, |
Family / Re: Why Are There Many Pregnant Brides Nowadays? by sunnyt1(m): 5:15pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Gentleveks: Its a perfect testament to the widely discussed moral decadence that has lamentably enveloped our sense of existence as a generation. We live at a time where doing the right thing is seen as sheer blindness to trend and where people go where the wind blows. Because of the delay in childbirth, conception and infertility issue experienced in recent time, people have opted for alternative ways of getting along just to keep up with the flow. What baffles me most is people would rather engage in sinful activities just to increase the world population than be obedient to God. |
Romance / Re: 21 Things You Miss For Not Having Sex Before Marriage. by sunnyt1(m): 6:09pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Yksoul: This is one thing people dont know about premmarital ssex with different partners, the numerous danger far outweights the pleasure |
Romance / Re: He Is Too Shy by sunnyt1(m): 5:44pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Classicman47: You know everything nigga, you are wiser than 57 king Solomons put together Was it not you who wrote "Race to Gboko" |
Romance / Re: He Is Too Shy by sunnyt1(m): 4:11pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
joliyp: I understand u but dont you ever ask a guy out, its unafrican, its unnigerian, its unbiblical, its unreligious, its unwomanlike, its uncultural. Keep your integrity intact, dont trade it for anything, all the money in the world cant purchase it. Some media and trend-engrossed dudes will tell you things have changed, we live in the jet age, its a modern world, dont buy it. A guy who loves you will always find a way to go about it and what is meant for you will not defile logic and norm |
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do You Feel About The Man That Disvirgin You,do You Like Or Hate Him? by sunnyt1(m): 9:24am On Dec 25, 2015 |
DouchessPunkyII: Number 101? Ha Anty Nurse 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do You Feel About The Man That Disvirgin You,do You Like Or Hate Him? by sunnyt1(m): 9:23am On Dec 25, 2015 |
In reality, the probable likeness they have the proclivity of developing is a form of societal allution, its born out of mental disillusionment. It is learnt, its what they met or heard other girls say. It is the norm but its a fictitious attachment. If you are talking about remembering who the 1st person wasyes, even guys dont forget who the 1st girl was, but talking about attachment, its a generational fiction 15 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should He Go Ahead And Marry Her After Seeing This? by sunnyt1(m): 8:05am On Dec 25, 2015 |
For me, deciding against marrying a girl because she is alleged to be dirty is totally lame and unguided, its too secular and detrimental. As a spiritual being, i am sure the choice of who to marry shdnt be logical, let God guide you. Applying logic doesnt work, thinking someone is dirty, short or dark is technical. What someone looks like today has no bearing on they will eventually become. What if it was you who is dirty, do you think you are so perfect that there are no snag that could make a girl turn you down as well? The societal system scripted us to think and act judgementally, hence we naturally reject whatever doesnt comform to certain human standards. In serious relationships and marriages, we must learn to manage weaknessess and differences Bro, i must tell you, going through a family kitchen and taking pictures of their dirtiness then posting it on social media is a deep weakness |
Romance / Re: My Friend's Definition Of WOMAN by sunnyt1(m): 1:24pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
The strangest truth about life is, what you confess is what you possess. Whatever you call a man/woman is what will come your way How do you give a man/woman these kind of definitions and expect a happy marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Dilemma : The One Who Loves Me Or The One I Love? by sunnyt1(m): 5:23pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
thefirstborn: The big question is what excite you in life? Marriage is not about excitement bro, pray for God's direction and dont follow your logic, it has failed everyone 1 Like |
Romance / Re: He Doesn’t Want To Have Sex by sunnyt1(m): 5:07pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
We have lost out sense of morality totally in this generation, so its actually strange and wrong not to fornicate I will rather be called names and please God 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by sunnyt1(m): 2:38pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
marvelck: At what point should the components of relationship start discussing the direction, lifeline and lifespan of a relationship? |
Romance / Re: What Value Does A Stingy Boyfriend Have? by sunnyt1(m): 5:36pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
Who is a stingy person? I have never gotten a reasonable response to this. Well, an intelligent girl will focus more on the frequency of this kind of scenerio you painted. Is it the 1st time you are visiting him? Has he been doing this? Did he entertain you when you visited? Could he have had a rocky path in his past relationships? What does other people say about him? A girl who has intergrity, who is not greedy and who is ready for a serious relationship will consider these questions and more. You dont just jump into conclusion after one visit and label someone as being stingy. An African proverb says a greedy person can never be a friend to a stingy person |
Politics / Re: I Will Drag Dasuki, Dokpesi And Bafarawa To ICC Next Week- Femi Falana by sunnyt1(m): 4:39pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
This is the way the rich live in Nigeria, they enrich themselves at the expense of the poor. A group of people share the money that was meant to alleviate the security issue in the country, risking the lives of millions of people. Its the same thing with power, education, oil, and even sport, could you imagine that the U23 dream team have not been paid their match bonus and are already threatening that they wont play the final match, Oliseh and siasia have not been paid their salary. The rich are the ones ruining the country 2 Likes |
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