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[quote author=Beautful.B]So are u trying to say dat, guys prefer chubby girls or slim girls?[/quote]To be honest, yes, bt not all. I personally dnt, i prefer slim(blue bird)

kramer: Perfect role models

You call these people perfect role models, chei

*shaking my head*

@ OP, marriage is meant to be enjoyed not to be endured, if you think marrying this guy will bring pains to you for the remaining days of your life, don’t do it. This is marriage we are talking about, someone you will live with for up to 60 yrs. or more, and from what you said, you always quarrel with this guy, it’s a sign of negative things to come, there should be peace around a relationship.

D sage: Sorry dear if this's your true life story. Thank God you've already know what many of you ladies don't know, marry someone who really love you and not the one you'll be trying so hard to gain his attention.

Bt unfotunately, most gals reject people who love them and chase people they THINK they love

chidyhels: get a gal,make her good and she wil become a good gal

Can you make someone gud? Can you change people? Think abt dis

Biim: Good girls are everywhere even in the club. You will find them if you have inner eyes
I don't blame the good girls who play hard to get,that's a defence mechanism. They don't want to be devoured by hungry wolves.

Wishing a gal u met at a club would be a gud gal is like tryin to be a Jumong or Nickolas Cage. Why not do the rit tin instead?

[quote author=Beautful.B]My chubby friend said," most guys prefer chubby gals to slim gals"Propose or oppose d motion »̶-̶̶ †̥ånKz-►.[/quote]Its true bt funny bcs the same guys will complain abt the gals' size later.

Isnt it stupid that u wanted a dim dim gal, then u start tellin her to loose some weights, ask most of those chubby gals(married ones)

My guy, by the time nemesis catches up with you, Oh ma precious sweet Malachi, your lamentation shall make Jeremiah’s sound like a love poem.

I’ve been wondering about what those Aluu students did to deserve that kind of gruesome end. A word is enough for a wise soul

Have u ever thought of the reasons why marriages don’t last anymore? Most married people are unhappy and divorce rate is at an all-time high because priorities had been misplaced. The criteria for the choice of marital partner had been twisted and until we go back to God’s original purpose for marriage, we are going to make the devil achieve more success (in killing, stealing and destroying our joy and peace). Since money, education standard, status, height, genotype became the basis for marriage, it has increasingly become difficult to have a successful marriage. I won’t advice you to marry someone you are not physically attracted to or someone you don’t want, but on what page are you taking your preference from? Lean not on your understanding, Let God guide you.

The right time to rent an apartment is when you are mentally ready, it has nothing to do with age.

Iv seen men in their early 30s, financially comfortable, bt stil live with parents, and iv also seen young men in their early 20s, financially dependent, bt did everytin possible to leave their parents, infact, i hv friends who left their parents around 18, dey jst felt it ws absurd 2 stay wit parents at dat age. So its mental

Wait a minute, what was this abt?

The shirt must have

1) An attached AC
2) A parachute
3) A natural air freshener and perfume
4) A camera
5) A laptop
6) A phone
7) which oda tin sef
facebook, twitter, 2go, badoo, etc

Its madness sha, haba, shirt o

Orikinla: The mistakes most guys make in relationships with girls or women is having high expectations of them.
You want to dictate the characteristics of girls to match your inclinations.
But you are mistaking them, because females are wired differently from males.
They are really what they are, the WEAKER SEX no matter how brilliant or smart they really are or pretend to be.
That is why you can see a brilliant female student who is bluffing you on campus will later be spreading her legs wide apart for the intellectually re-tarded shoemaker on her street.
No. She does not love him.
She is too weak to rebuff him. And most girls prefer what I call "Love Mugu".
They feel intimidated by the Alpha Man.
But they will pretend by bluffing him.
Whenever you find out that a girl or woman is fake, DON'T tell her so.
Don't let her know. JUST PLAY ALONG or what we call PLAY THE FOOL until you are bored and tired of her thing.
Then drop her for a better one and not a lesser one.

There are two versions of "I LOVE YOU".
The real deal and the game.
Once you know she is fake, just turn her into a script and amuse and enjoy the whole adventure.
There are two sides to a coin in every relationship.
Make sure you don't give away the game.
Read the Parable of the Sower by our Messiah Jesus Christ, The 48 Laws of Power and as Sun Tzu said in The Art of War, the best form of defence is formless.
Smiles work wonders in relationships, but your best assets are your brains.
There lies also the most powerful weapon of romance. Your mind.
Humankind is ruled by the mind.

Thats the heart and acts of a palyboy, i wish u the best dude.

deltalife: Please I need to know because I cant remember having toasted any babe for the past 8years yet *****
If you are a guy and you have gone through any kind of stress trying to woo any babe lately, pls let us know?
If you are a Lady and a real guy come across your way with an Interest, Pls how do you react?

Lol

Could you pls break it down, i dnt understand the direction of your post, What are you driving at?

Dnt waste your time with someone who cant accept you the way you are, thats the basis of relationships.

Thats the way God created you, and he created you for himsef, nt for anybody.

It amazes me how people complain abt things they cant create( like my friend talk abt someone nt having a gud set of teeth). Accept yoursef and accept people the way God created them.

@OP, I understand where u are coming from, the fact that u sound this way and care abt gud gals means you are a decent guy. The devil had glorified himsef on earth to the point that you will hardly see people do things right. Guys are having their fun and those bad gals dnt really care, i only pity those decent gals, seriously, some gal dnt deserve to be hurt, iv seen them, they are very few, bt they exist.

Last year, i discovered that, if you want a decent gal, a gud gal, u need to look past beauty and sophistication. The saying that, "the way you dress says a lot abt u" is true. When u see d way most gals dress dis days, u need to ask ursef questions, and dnt be decieved, it says a lot abt them. The funny tin is, every gal wants a God fearing man, even prostitutes.

However, there are places to find gud gals.

To be frank, i dnt like it, i dnt want it and i dnt do it.

Maybe bcs i have 6 sisters, i dnt knw.

I dnt date my friends' sisters and dey dnt come near mine.

Creamish: U have the choice to ignore them. It dosnt change your personality when they walk up to you. U can respond with a greeting or u culd just walk on by with a straight face . . . dosnt change anything. Dont let their issue cause u so much concern that you feel you need help cos it aint worth it.

Im not sure u get it, wat if i were coming wit my dad or mum or pastor? I will i convince them i dnt know dos gals?

driek: Tanks for ur replies....Wen I asked he told me he wanted to kip d relationship private,I asked him for his reasons and he told me bcous of how our skul is nd he does not want all eyes to be on us,I sha told him dat I will be tinking abt it,Am realli confused cous I tink I realli like him

We will be here waiting to hear ur lamentaion.

Den girl wat kind of English is " i sha told him ......."

olatomiwa: Lady, please learn how to write good English. All this shorthand, will spoil your spelling skills. By the way, that guy just wants to f*uck you.

Thank you ma sis, wat kind of English is "Hello evrybodi..!Sori I nid ur opinon on dis issue,Ryt 4rm my year 1......" Wat kind of English is that? "Sorry" has been bastardized by this generation.

As for the question, i will like to know ur age because matured gals know that when a guy dnt wanna make ur relationship known to people, den nothin gud will eva come out of it, only stories that touch.

quality01: I have been dating her for 2yrz plus now. She possess all the qualities I need in a lady,very supportive but my major problem with her is that she is materialistic.All effort to change her proves abortive and her parents already address me as their inlaw same with my parents addressing her as inlaw. Plz NL hw do I change her cause am about to quit if she refuse to change.materialistic lady are never satisfied with what one man can provide that my major believe and I cannot marry such a materialistic lady.Advice plz

Guy, get this simple fact straight, you cant change anybody, infact people dnt change. It only get worse.

If i were you, i will start thinkin of how to put everybody in the know so nobody will be shocked when i share the grace.

And i can assure you that such gals wud have numerous options.

Relationship that would lead to marriage shdnt be endured except you wanna live ur life lik dat and the journey is very far.

I was dating a rude gal last year and i discovered ova time that she wudnt change, in fact she told me that i shdnt make any attempt to change her, thats the way she is, and thats the way she has been living her live, she dosnt see anytin wrong in it, so i shd get used to it. I told mysef i cant cope wit it, marriage is nt to be endured, its to be enjoyed. I backed off straight

There is this ungodly joint at the tail end of my street where men waste their lives and money (pls kindly bear with me, I don’t subscribe to such). Now this is the issue, whenever I’m passing, these stationed call-girls would say funny things to me in a very embarrassing manner. In a low but clear voice, one of them would say a thing like “ guy you no go Bleep today?” In fact, 3 of them might start walking towards me. Whenever this happens, I walk faster to leave their domain. However, this got out of hand yesterday, I was going out as early as 5AM with a friend who came from Jos, and one of those gals said this shambolic thing, oh, precious me! it’s such an unfortunate incidence, it’s not funny at all because up till this very minute I’ve done everything possible to convince my friend that those gals were only calling customers at random but he didn’t believe me, he was just laughing like he had discovered a hidden goldmine. You see, I’m a very decent, focused, hardworking and respected young man and this is a dent on my image. How do you think I can work around this? It’s the only short route to the bus stop and im even considering looking for another accommodation elsewhere.

Have you experienced this before? How did you handled it?

Gals will neva comment on dis, and even if dey do, it will be the some kinda defensive and confusing comments.

Fact is, gals dnt knwo wat dey want, dey dnt know y dey do wateva, dey jst go wit the flow and wia d wind blows, THE TREND.

Its abt the fear of rejection or wantin to increase their chances of acceptance frm odas. Some guys are guity of this too so get used to it.

nne3870: Younger guys don't wanna learn, they just want a slave who would love them more without them reciprocating.
A girl has to be treated like a queen she is and that is how most married men make us feel.

Seriously I have never dated a married man, I feel is wrong and I wouldn't want anybody near my hubby when I get married. just trying to be sarcastic though, but the fact remains that a married man would always mke you want to date them.
Single guys should get a clue from em.

Gal you hv said it all, bt any gal who dates a married man for wateva reason shdnt expect a happy marriage too, as thats the pain she is puttin on the man's wife.

nne3870: Younger guys don't wanna learn, they just want a slave who would love them more without them reciprocating.
A girl has to be treated like a queen she is and that is how most married men make us feel.

Seriously I have never dated a married man, I feel is wrong and I wouldn't want anybody near my hubby when I get married. just trying to be sarcastic though, but the fact remains that a married man would always mke you want to date them.
Single guys should get a clue from em.

Gal you hv said it all, bt any gal who dates a married man for wateva reason shdnt expect a happy marriage too, as thats the pain she is puttin on the man's wife.

InvertedHammer: No girl would want to date a married man.
The ones that do, do it for some reasons..to fill some void that single
guys cannot fill....in this case MONEY.

You will find out that those girls with "ARISTOS" usually have multiple
partners that they harass incessantly for material things. It is called RUNS

For all I know, it is usually a MUTUAL relationship...the girls need MONEY,PHONES, etc
while the men need POON, FUN, less-wrinkled a_ses and for once, some br_easts that
are still pointed as pawpaw. Oh lala

In case u dnt know, U will hardly see a single gal who had nt dated a married man b4. It will shock u wen u get to knw dat dos gals u knw do it.

Whats ur motive for doing it?

Anyone who have sex for money is called a prostitute, and the act is called prostitution

Having observed different homes, considered different factors, iv come to the conclusion that its beta to marry frm your place, its jst safer. Im nt saying inter-tribal marriage is nt good o, bt its jst safer to marry frm ur place

What kinda dumb guy wud ask further question on wat to do in this case?

If ur friend wants a happy married life he shd look elsewhere, thank goodness he hadnt married her yet