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Family / Re: See What A Girl Posted About Sex, Spirituality & Marriage On Facebook by sunnyt1(m): 12:02am On Jun 18, 2015 |
AcesIni: The devil has a way of manipulating people's destiny. Would you rather go about looking for avenues to quench your perverseness? Every living thing who has marriage in mind knows how salient the subject is, even children do, so why provoke lust if you dont intend to defile the bed? The question is, after discussing this then what? Will you leave someone because they have a different sexual drive and orientation from you? Will you not have suceeded in allowing the devil dance Alanta with your joy if you leave a destined spouse? Marriage has lots of components so one part should not be overflogged in the media |
Family / Re: See What A Girl Posted About Sex, Spirituality & Marriage On Facebook by sunnyt1(m): 11:41pm On Jun 17, 2015 |
Honestly, the last generation had failed in its fundermental responsiblilty of transferring basic knowledge to this generation. May God help us |
Romance / Re: Six Reasons Women Like Bad Guys by sunnyt1(m): 7:13pm On Jun 17, 2015 |
BreezyRita: Ive blatantly made my point, the devil has a way of playing his game, just watch out |
Romance / Re: Six Reasons Women Like Bad Guys by sunnyt1(m): 7:46pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
BreezyRita: The only reason SOME girls prefer "bad guys" is the devil is playing LUDO with their lives. It sounds harsh, right? OK, how do you expect a case where u chose a bad thing ahead of the good one. If the devil were not dancing Alanta with ur life, how, in the name of adventure, will you prefer a gentle man to a BAD fellow, thats what they call it BAD guy. Wanting a bad guy is only a honest reflection of who you are. Out of the abundance of the heart . . . . . . . What are the characteristics of a bad guy? He is the direct opposite of a good/ gentle. He takes u for granted, he makes u feel less of a woman, he womanizes without remorse, he is a serial liar, he doesnt respect ur familes and friends. He is a bad person. Something must be fundermentally wrong if your preference goes with a bad person The most unfortunate thing is, most of those gals who prefer bad guys are the same crop of gals who go about saying all men are the same, all men are cheat, all men are evil but the issue is you preferred a cheat ahead of a gentle man The devil has a way of manipulating people's destiny. He has a way of stealing people's happiness and peace. |
Romance / Re: She Stole My DSTV Remote by sunnyt1(m): 7:28am On Jun 14, 2015 |
stupidity: She will be back for the decoder, mark my word. |
Romance / Re: Can You Do This? by sunnyt1(m): 2:48am On Jun 14, 2015 |
Jarizod: A lady will only marry a guy she is 5 to 10 years older only under these 2 conditions 1. If money is involved. Im talking about big money 2. If she is 36+ |
Romance / Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Scared Of Career Women? by sunnyt1(m): 12:39am On Jun 14, 2015 |
2sex: Let me start by saying your level of exposure is inversely proportional to your happiness (i have a concise writeup on this) Career women have the kind of exposure that is not favourable for marriage, whats the point marrying someone who will not give you happiness. Most career women are contentious, and you know what the bible says about a contentious women. Most career women are not submissive, even the so-called christians. Anyone who has to questions the level of submission she should give in the marriage shouldnt call herself a christian. Submission, as well as love, is a commanded requirement for marriage. If you cant give it, pls dont bother yoursef about marriage. Most women career are rude because they have the view that they are equal to men and have been standing shoulder to shoulder with men, they have been in the same academic level as men and probably performed better than some men. So some of them go into marriage with this mindset and display rudeness to their husband, sometime unknowingly but most times they see nothing wrong in contending with the husband. Most men will rather marry a tailor or an uneducated women than marry a career woman. Happiness is the key in marriage and home, its about someone who can provide them besides, education status has nothng to do with marriage. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Questions For Christian From Muslims by sunnyt1(m): 11:13pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
atoleybaba: Do you mean my believe in TRINITY is wrong or is a false believe? May i ask a question pls, where do u worship? |
Religion / Re: Questions For Christian From Muslims by sunnyt1(m): 7:47pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
atoleybaba: I absolutely understand that some faith do not believe in the trinity, and iv even heard some people say "trinity" wasnt mentioned in the bible. Well, i will respectfully chose to think everyone is entitled to his/her desision. |
Religion / Re: Questions For Christian From Muslims by sunnyt1(m): 6:20pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
mannasy: Someone already said you wont understand any explanation, the fact is you cant view Christianity through a pragmatic prism, its more than science or philosophy. But I will try to make you understand anyway 1 Have you ever heard of the trinity, God the father, the son and the holy spirit, call it 3 in 1. Will you understand it if I call it a bundle that has 3 diff components where each segment represents and can replace the other. So Jesus was on earth then God the father was in heaven. Jesus said I and the father are one. 2 When God created the 1st Adam, satan defeated him. Adam was a perfect refined man without blemish but by falling for the devil he contaminated his blood hence the need for a 2nd Adam became necessary. The blood of Jesus, the 2nd Adam, was needed to pay for the sin of mankind and to elevate man from the dungeon which the the 1st Adam had dragged mankind into. 3 God the son, Jesus, came to the earth as a man to live among human and don’t human eat? Where you expecting the kind of Nickolas cage or Jumong kind of superhuman? He is not a magician, Jesus lived as the lowly, dining and wining with people, he even attended a wedding, rode on a donkey and what have you. 4 It’s the trinity. Like I explained above, God the father, the son and the holy spirit is a pack with 3 different components But i think religion shouldnt be percieved with such mindset. Serve your God and love everybody, is there any logic in trying to discredit another man's believe? |
Religion / Re: Happy Sunday: Is Having Sex As Couple Before Going To Church Godly Or Ungodly? by sunnyt1(m): 4:53pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
What makes Sunday different from other days? |
Romance / Choosing A Life Partner by sunnyt1(m): 6:08pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
Searching for a husband/wife has become more frustrating than ever before. Its absolutely unthinkable that our parents who didnt do courtship and in most cases, never met until the issue of marriage creep in lived happily and last much longer than in modern day marriage where couples claimed they must know each other first. Overtime, study has established that our choices of who to marry can be traceable to one of these 3 sources: 1) Logic: by this i mean you following your instinct, using your expiriences or that of others to draw conclusions. You believe 2 + 2 will always give you 4, you have studied that left-handed people are always aggressive, short people are always violent, people from a particular state are always stingy, uneducated people are always stubborn, believing something that happen to one aunty in your church is the benchmark for everybody etc. People have historically chosen their partners based on such deductions which had brought varied results. 2) Emotion: people had based their marital decisions on feelings and attractions, you must have heard of the "love at first sight" mantra, yea, that was what actually promted some union. Im talking about marrying someone because of the butterfly feeling their thought and presence give you. Age and record had shown us that feelings are temporary and fade away with time, emotions are manipulative in nature and having a specific kind of feeling for someone doesnt necessarily means the person will have the same feeling for you, in other word, feelings are not reciprocal. 3) God: there is a different school of thought which holds the view that God is the creator of marriage, the perception states that Adam didnt ask for a wife, it was God who saw that it wasnt good for the man to be alone, hence, to choose a wife, its good to go back to God to give you the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh. A certain rib was taken off Adam, out of which Eve was formed, this school of thought believe that a woman has been attached to each man by God even before both were concieved. Whats your opinion about what the source of a wife/husband should be? |
Romance / Re: 10 Strict Behaviours Ladies Display That Makes Their Future Husbands Run Away by sunnyt1(m): 12:03pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
PMBlackett: Your true colour or ur real nature is the one you display when dealing with the person you dont want. If anything makes you put on a disrespectful or rude behavour, that who you are, and come to think of it, what if that person you claim you dont want is the husband that will bring you evalasting happiness but you chase him away rudely. |
Romance / Re: 10 Strict Behaviours Ladies Display That Makes Their Future Husbands Run Away by sunnyt1(m): 11:38am On Jun 02, 2015 |
Bozzax: By your logic, every marriage is exactly the way God destined it to be. Do you mean there are no wrong marriages? Let me cut it short dude, to fulfil your destiny, pray without season and dont follow trend |
Religion / Re: . by sunnyt1(m): 6:32am On May 19, 2015 |
Mademoiselle24: There is no such thing as "man of your dream", it doesnt exist. Its a media futile propaganda To the post, I think you have answered the question in your write-up. Relationship is not a thing to be tried out when you arent matured for marriage, the 1st 25 years of your life shd be spent working on your future, its not a time to indulge in needless relationships considering what happens in our world today. Marriage shd be the sole aim of relationships, so when u are not really dont do unnecessary corelation Then let God lead you. Dont allow your logic tell you what is right and what isnt. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Is Temporary Separation Allowed In Christian Marriage? by sunnyt1(m): 6:22am On May 19, 2015 |
In an event of domestic or wild violence, partial seperation is logically recommended. Some things are better imagined than experienced, but i am sure if ur husband's daughter(your supposed son-in-law) had given her black eyes, broken nose, twisted wrist severally, you wouldnt see anything wrong in asking her to stay away from his for sometimes to get himself sorted. Considering the number of women that had lost their lives due to physical attack by their violent husband, partial seperation is strongly and logically recommended |
Romance / Re: DOES A Lady's Level Of Education Determines If She Is Going To Be A Good Wife? by sunnyt1(m): 7:15pm On May 08, 2015 |
sweetorgasm: There is this arrogance and pride that comes with education in this part of the world that kills marriage. I was telling a lady yesterday that chances are high of having a successful marriage and happy family with an uneducated lady than with a graduate. The reason is an uneducated lady will most likely reflect those traits that make marriage works, like submission, but discuss the concept of submission with a graduate lady and you will get the idea of what i mean. Most educated ladies expect their male counterparts to think and act like the whites, which has never been a success. Regardless of how educated an African man is, his ego and self-esteem would never be traded for anything. Marriage is about companionship and happiness, so one should get married to anyone who can warmly provide it. Education has never been a factor for having a successful marriage, this is a proven fact. The unfortunate thing is, most people would rather prioritize thier outlook than have a happy and successful marriage. Most graduates would rather get married to a graduate because of how people will view the and remain unhappy for life than marry someone who cant speak good english but would rather make them happy. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Guys So Wicked And Silly by sunnyt1(m): 11:00am On May 03, 2015 |
missclasssy: Would this ever stop? No, I dont think so As long as gals keep choosing guys because of height, financial status, the kind of comfort a guy can provide, the kind of car he drives, education status, eloquence, etc this issue the OP painted will NEVER cease. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by sunnyt1(m): 11:26pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
I think this tread has finally answered why most gals will cross 36 bf dey get married. The other tread that said ladies; why are you single shud be closes pls. The great question is how many men earns more than 50k? How do you marry a lady that has proven to you she wudnt have considered you if u were earning less than 50k? |
Romance / Re: What Is The Reason Why Girls Ingnore Guys? by sunnyt1(m): 10:07am On Mar 19, 2015 |
umukorophillip: The big question is what decent girl agrees to date or marry some random social media guy? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Wants To Have Knowledge Of My Salary by sunnyt1(m): 1:19pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
This gal doesn't love you one bit and the fact that she is attaching this to love means she is a gold digging manipulator. I've dated her type and I can boldly tell you that it will never work. pls discuss this with a very matured man 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Lady Takes Me For Granted by sunnyt1(m): 3:25pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
gentle1010: That's how gals behave when they are double dating, u simply don't know this fact 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by sunnyt1(m): 7:48pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
jadaugo: Permit me to shock you with this fact The only reason an African woman will remain loyal and submissive to you is because of money. The day she becomes independent the man looses his God-given relevance. The day a woman believe she can have and do anything with money on her own she wouldnt see the reason to respect anybody anymore, especially, a man. Doesnt this explain the reason behind the high population of matured single ladies everywhere? |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Cheat? by sunnyt1(m): 11:59am On Mar 08, 2015 |
youmour: Anyone who can think deeply will not cheat. Its one of those things people do to destroy their glorious future. |
Romance / Re: Always Check Your Partner's Phone by sunnyt1(m): 10:47am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Its the trend these days. But this issue didnt start with her, neither will it end with her. Let me give the analysis of how this came from the past generation, our generation only blew it out of proportion. In the past, people experienced heartbreaks, people were jilted months to their wedding after long relationships, and to be frank this affected ladies more, even if it didnt happened to you, it affected someone you knew, maybe one aunty rose or aunty sharon on your street. Hence, in order not to be a victim and to avoid stories that touch, people thought out a solution. The solution was to have the main person you really want to get married to, then to have plan B, plan C and maybe plan D. I can assure you that most people who double date dont even know the reason why they do it, they believe its fun but this is just the reason. Its an unconscious mindset that has become a part of our existence, it came out of guarding against being a victim. Nobody wants to be beaten like a metal. You will hardly see a soul that has just one partner, cheating and double dating is seen as a necessity, as a matter of fact, most parents encourage having these options, in case one fails the other would not. However, having these options create more confusion and distractions than you can ever imagine. Have you ever heard people asked if its possible to love 2 or 3 people at the same time? Ya, thats the kind of confusion it brings with it. This has destroyed many lives and relationships. While some people can cope with a cheating partner, some other people like me cant. Only a cheat should/can logically understand a cheat, i practice honesty and faithfulness to a fault. Iv never cheated on a partner, so how do i understand a cheating gal. It doesnt stop there. Can you see the level of moral decadence and infidelity in marriages? This is how it starts. People go about having 2 to 5 partners believing once they get married they will stop. A cheat will remain a cheat. Cheating is a mindset. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Date OR Marry A Younger Guy? by sunnyt1(m): 4:59pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
@ Poster, I have a word for u. I used to find myself in that triangle of dating older gals bt I rejected it. Nothing is wrong with it elsewhere in other part of the world but in Nigeria and in Africa at large, just don't try it. An African woman is wired in an entirely different way If a Nigerian gal is ahead of you in anything, then u are in trouble. Study matured guys and u will get a clearer picture of this. If a gal is taller than u, u are in trouble, if she is richer than u, it is wahala, talk more of being older. You probably should take a twist in your dating game and don't get caught up in this pathetic web you are staring at. Date younger gals Most gals would tell u, now that u are in your 20s, say u are 23 and she is 27, that over their dead bodies. But in 10 years time when u will be 33 and she 37, she will tell u age is nothing but numbers Guy I will say it again, pray against it now that u still have time. It works only 3% of the time. Don't turn yourself to Jeremiah, you know how much he lamented |
Romance / Re: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by sunnyt1(m): 7:02pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
The only reason most of them are rude is what you peg at Number 2. As soon as a gal starts getting toasters and boyfriend she starts comparing everyone she comes across with those guys. If a gal once dated Tinubu, as far as she is concerned she is a governor If a gal once dated a senator, she sees herself as a senator and compares everyone that crosses her path with a governor and senator If a gal once dated a very tall or rich guy, she wud compare anyone that crosses her path with these guys So na there the wahala come from 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Does One Do With A Stingy Boyfriend? by sunnyt1(m): 6:17pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
nairabetguru: The Greedy and the stingy fellow can never walk together. A greedy person will never be a friend to a stingy person Why do people depend on other people's money to live their lives? Why cant people be responsible for their lives? Iv never bin able to understand what it means to be stingy Iv seen gals who don't depend on guys for anything, and incase you don't you A GAL WHO DOESNT ASK FOR ANYTHING DESERVES EVERYTHING 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by sunnyt1(m): 7:28am On Feb 09, 2015 |
ArslordBaba: Iv read your post and the reasons she gave. Did you forced her into the marriage? Marriage is for people who are ready in every ramfication; emotionally, physically and mentally She is either not ready or was forced into marriage. There are things matured people dont do. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Some Men Do Maltreat Their Wives After Marriage by sunnyt1(m): 7:30pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Teebashy: The 4th line of your post says it all **I always thought they knew her in and out, knew her behaviour before marry her.** I should also think she knew him in and out before marrying him so she should've known he would maltreat her. |
Family / Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by sunnyt1(m): 7:02pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy: This is the major danger of premarital sex. How did u know there is a different experience from the one he is giving you if you were not comparing him with some experiences. Do you know that most of the sexual issues couples are faced with would not exist if singles can stay away from premarital sex, the harm it generates is unquantifiable. It brings with it unquenchable comparison and insatiable sexual hunch. Imagine it, if u are ever gonna have sex with your husband/wife ONLY in your entire life, the experience you will have is what you will ever know. The thought and knowledge that there is a different experience elsewhere is at the heart of most sinful activities, marital fracas and bitterness in marriages. As for the solution out of this issue, he should take agbo jedi jedi very well. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Men Beware,women Always Have A Plan B by sunnyt1(m): 1:31pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Honestly, this is true. I just cant understand why this issue has become more serious than one can imagine. I was discussing this with a group of people yesterday. You will hardly see guys/gals with just one partner and the outcome is what we are seeing in marriages. If you dont want your marriage to be like the general marriage we see everywhere dont do what they do. Anyone who cant stick to one partner cant be faithful in marriage. If you cant be faithful and truthful do you think you deserve a peaceful and successful marriage? |
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