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As shudren of gwaad, pre-marital s*ex is not gud rara.

Whether on the 1st date or afta 5 yrs, if its b4 wedding, its against God's purpose for s*x and marriage.

hammedkola: I used to wonder how one must prepare for a job interview, and this thought came to me that with the level of civilization, is it good or bad to take iPad or galaxy tab to an interview that worth it?

Bt unfortunately, ur opinion doesnt change logic, its funny that it even crossed ur mind, and it didnt crossed ur mind wat d interviewer or the dudes u might come in contact wit wud feel. Are u tryin to show them that u are on the same page as them or u are some rich guy.
Follow logic man. Could u do a 4+4 of wat dat guy who went for an interview wit his laptop experienced?

I will hv 2 be honest in my analysis, 1st, permit me to blame women on something most of them hv nt been giving attention to. Most ladies (and even men) these days dnt really consider the success (future) of the marriage they are going into, they dnt prepare for marriage. All they do is learn abt fashion and trend then bham! they are 28, the pressures are coming in frm different directions, then they are married. If u can spend 4 yrs in d university learning how to count, manage and balance the account of money you might neva see or handle till death, y den shdnt u spend some years or months of ur live preparing for marriage.
The concept of “love and submission” is a necessary ingredient for a marriage to work (if u wanna struggle with ur marriage, pls argue with God abt it), but ova time it was discovered that love is a biased thing, u can only be sure that u love someone or nt, u can neva beat ur chest abt wat d oda person feels for u, when u commit ursef to a man, u shd submit ur totality, ur everytin, keeping away sometins as described by the poster means u are holding bak, so the question is, y get married to someone u can’t submit to?
I will say it again, feelings (what is generally called love) is not the paramount tin in marriage, there are so many oda things, love is jst one of them, bt media ( the devil) has brought so much confusion to the universe. Its nt as if most of these women didn’t love their husband frm the onset, its not like dey wanted to hide these things from their husbands frm the start, its nt lik dey didn’t want the success of the marriage, bt along the line in the journey of the marriage, most of them discovered these men are nt God fearing (let me out it dis way), so they become less submissive.
The koko is love with ur head nt wit ur heart, and prepare for marriage, don’t just jump into it.

So u really wanna trick men into beliving u have bigger buutt

Adaeze003: marry the one that you love and she should love you as well. Your love should be more tho so that you'll always have a reason to stay married.

Bt unfortunately, it has been discovered that love is a one way thing (though it shd be 2 way), meaning, u are the one who knows that u love someone, u can neva be sure of how much dey love u or hw dey feel abt u.

How else wud u describe cold madnesss?

MissRaissa: Greetings all,

I am new to Nairaland, I just joined today. I've noticed that many Nigerians have very few good things to say about President Jonathan. I understand he has his faults and all, but he's a better leader than most African leaders.

I just don't understand why you HATE him so much. Please help me understand.

In a very clear language, pls kindly ansa dis question, Do u lik Jonathan?

I will say it for the umpteenth time, love with your head not with your heart, a word is enuf for a wise soul

I’ve told myself never 2 pity any gal when she is lamenting bcs everyone shd be able to bear d consequence of his/her decision and gals make appalling decisions to the point of rejecting and maltreating guys who love them and chasing some oda guys dey THINK dey love .
When I tell folks love is not the ultimate in marriage they call me names, now dis is the product of loving with ur heart instead of ur head. The bottom line is, it’s too risky for u 2 marry this guy, in fact u shd be happy dat u haven’t married him yet bcs u dnt know him at all and I wonder wat u were doin for all dos years.
U started dating in 2008, he hasn’t been working since 2006, and not until dis year u never knew he has not bin working, and u wanna marry someone u dnt even know dat kind of info abt. To avoid stories that touch, dnt marry dis guy, he is disaster, if u value God and u beliv he created u for a purpose, dnt do anytin harmful to dat pregnancy. A word is enuf for a wise soul

gentledove: Meeting? i dont think that will work. Maybe i will have to be a little bit disobedient to my husby first and relocate. cant cope anymore. My mum knows abt it all but she kept telling me 'remember the daughter of whom u are. Dont be rude to anyone. God will vindicate u'. oops.

Its obvious that u have a very gud background, pls keep it up, neva be disobedient to you MIL, it lies with u and ur husband. Make him understand hw unbearable it is.

kulyie: you better dont listen to this man if you know what is good for you.all these men have sugar coated mouth and will paint a picture to you that they are different from all the men out there,they are this,they are that,give them time,they will show their usual behaviour just like a leopard cant change its spot

So u move abt with the mentality that all men are cheat? Thats pathetic.

Let me tell u sometin abt me briefly, iv bin a victim of these bad gals and unhealthy/hearthbreaking relationships, iv every reason to hurt gals, iv every reason to sleep around, iv every reason to believe gals are same (wicked and gluttonous) bt i told mysef that in order to have a joyful and peaceful future, i need nt allow wat i experienced have any negative influence on my reality, and thats what iv bin living with.

I dnt see all gals as same, i still beliv I will meet that unique gal, there are good people out there, they exist. God makes all things beautiful in his time, jst that sometims b4 u will meet ur prince/princess, u might need to kiss many frogs

Guy, dnt try it o, i pity u, dem go beat u so tey, u go short

That’s the issue with having feelings for someone who doesn’t want you. The guy says he doesn’t want, na by force?

What makes her think she can’t get someone else like him or better than him? Why push yourself on a man?

Nawa wa for some people o, tell her to look elsewhere, shikena.

The worst thing one wud eva do is to love someone who doesnt love you in return.

What of bank of the north and savanna bank

bin gbagbo: i proposed love to this babe, and she sent me this TXT message:

" i dont want to really love u because i am scared my love for u wont be returned. do u love me or u just want sex? i could offer u the 2nd, but can i trust u for the 1st??" txt back.

Permit me to drop a few points here, you asked for analysis and I’m a graduate of statistics, I’m going to apply the kruskal wallis test analysis here, so read up

1) She wants s*x
2) She doesn’t expect the relationship to lead anywhere, so dude, f*ck on
3) Her love is conditional
4) She is emotionally frustrated
5) She is ready to have s*x with you once you assure ( deceive) her of your love( money)
6) I don’t know her age but she carries the typical mindset of a Nigerian girl ( all a guy wants is s*x), (all there is to a relationship is s*x)
7) Don’t be fooled by the condition she gave, what she actually meant by love is money, kudi
She doesn’t have a reasonable future
9) The only language she understands is s*x, s*x and s*x, hence she wants real s*x, lots of it
10) You should be ready for Marathons of s*x.


Guy, don’t play ludo with your future, look for a serious and responsible gal, and take your life seriously, face your studies and work harder to be a real man, s*x like this will only result in a bleak future, a word is enough for a wise soul.

classiquemama: uhrmmm.. truth is no girl will admit shes got a bad side, all girls will say shes got all the characteristics listed...

anyways, am not perfect... i aint even close to perfection ... but i know, am lagging in some ...

but think about it... even if i have 7 of these, will it stop that negro from cheating on me??

this aint about having all these .... its praying that will all these attributes, will i still be loved and cherished, cause from what i see daily, some guys naturally love them bad girls and they tend to hurt the good girls... though that doesnt mean am a good girl

Why do gals believe cheating is all there is to a man?

Pls kindly listen to gud guys too, dey will tell you pathetic stories abt gals generally

kulyie: i wonder what is wrong with all these men we have outside these days,why are they all so particular about number 6,7,8.something must be fundamentally wrong either with themselves,ego,lack of humility or accepting corrections from the opposite gender

We all know gals will hardly respect or show loyalty without the assurance of financial security frm the guys.

Thats wat experience has shown and the tone of ur msg says alot abt it.

Bt what will you logically do abt it? You wont kill the guy na

What u can do is, gather a few people, put on those beautiful outfits and do the snapping all over again.

Whats ur point pls?

1st to comment

The fact that gals like touchin my soft palms means they like them soft bt men lik the hard as a sign of being tough and strong

The most harmful of them all is No. 3 Nothing. I hate it when a gal respond with "nothing", it kills me

The general belief is that a man shd marry a gal he loves, and that means a lady shd marry a man who loves her ( i think this goes with wat the bible says abt husbands loving their wives ). Bt personally, i will prefer a gal who will love me, though there shd be a level of attraction. Seriously, its tough living with someone who doesnt love you.

No 5, 6, 7, and 8 might be very tough to achieve

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]Op you should try and talk with her. What does she not get in the mariage that she had go looking for it outside? May God help you take a wise decision no matter what happens.[/quote]Do u talk to people to stop being unfaithful? Dats a joke

You dnt need to fine-tune yoursef to anybody's taste, a guy who cant accept u jst d way u are does nt deserve u.

Learn to accept God's divine plan for your life, he made u for his purpose, he had somtins in mind when making u, accpet it, u are fearfully and wonderfully made. Dis idea of big butt or tits is frm d media, dnt allow d media to dictate ur joy and peace.

na true na

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Thats a very lame and shambolic analysis, You know next to nothing abt anytin, resist the roadside reports and save urself frm being a pranker

SLIDE waxie: Av been very lucky wen it comes to the issue of dating. Av alwys been donned with pretty nice, faithful and respective girls. And yet, as much as i treat them right, i dnt biliv in love.
Stop hyping yourself, love doesn't even exist in d first place.
The better u knw, d wiser u behave

Unconditional love exists bro, ur not believing it has nothing to do with its reality

bigfriend: My guy! I used 2 av the same probs like u but the 1st thing i did was delete all my bbm friends and sale off my bb,reduse the number of hours i spend on social medias seek the face of God cos ur in deep into what u realy know nothing about,its spiritual and its only God that has the answer u need

You are on point man, the internet; bb, fb, badoo etc are too harmful to our joy and peace. In most cases, the internet is the root of immoralities.

It’s a general belief that every family has a black sheep, anyone who tampers with the peace of a family is referred to as a black sheep. There is always this one person labeled JUDAS, he/she would always bring unwanted noise, police case, shame, black-listing, etc, to the family, he/she is always on the brink of one mishap or another. Do you believe in the family black sheep? Must every family have at least one black sheep to be complete?

Iv alwaz argued this with people, hw cud u have anytin to do wit a gal u meet in the market, the market has a symbolic meaning in the spiritual world, ask the elders.