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Celebrities / Re: Bolanle Olukanni On Sammie Okposo: Cheating Pastors Must Step Down From Ministry by Sunsets: 9:32pm On Jan 25, 2022
If this Bolanle"s recommendation becomes a rule, are sure ushers won't take over the pulpit. Even ushers sef, this will go down the order and empty the church.
Anniversary:


https://punchng.com/sammie-okposo-pastors-who-cheat-must-step-down-from-ministry-tv-presenter-bolanle-olukanni/
Politics / Re: Nigerian Lawyers In Canada Stand By Kaycee Madu by Sunsets: 8:00pm On Jan 25, 2022
He messed up and became the attorney general. My main angst with stupid people is that they always have followers.
Anazp:
Any where yeebos go to they must mess up. They dont want them in South Africa and Ghana. Now its Canada cos they always want to act smarter than you
Sports / Re: Incredible Atlanta Mercedes Stadium (photo) by Sunsets: 5:49am On Jan 24, 2022
Nigerian contractors and politicians, and their civil servants collaborators will make this project an abandoned project with 10billion dollars.
orohbiro:
This is beautiful



https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mercedes-Benz_Stadium

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Religion / Re: Prince Dele Banjo's Letter To Kumuyi by Sunsets: 4:39pm On Jan 23, 2022
Was it
Nathaniel Bassey or Natty Dreads?
Don Moen or Don Williams?
Dunsin or Don Jazzy?

Who and who were really invited?
So it all about the songs tempo. The fear of future sin. Or whether the metal was worn as a wrist watch, a nose ring, an anklet or an ear ring.

So this is what they have been calling Antichrist in Deeper Life? No wonder Kumuyi wants to leave a flock fixed, after decades of wrong dogmas, before he exits the stage.

Timfreds:
The OP has a point though.
But I think what Kumuyi is presently trying to do is to remove from the church those man-made religious holiness artificials. To correct this holier-than-thou practices.
And the OP need to understand that the only thing constant in life is change. So Deeper Life will surely change from some of her religious practices, but the truth will continue to abide.

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Religion / Re: Prince Dele Banjo's Letter To Kumuyi by Sunsets: 4:11pm On Jan 23, 2022
This is roundly ridiculous, cavevous, and primitive. No portion of the Bible in this lengthy comic paragraphs. Christians are supposed to be led by the bible and not your dated dogma and irresponsible prejudices. Anyways, the conservatives still have their say.
daughters13:
FROM: A Concerned Deeper Lifer (Prince Dele Banjo)


TO: Pastor W.F. Kumuyi
General Superintendent
Deeper Christian Life Ministry
2-10 Ayodele Oke-Owo Street
Gbagada
Lagos

Dear Sir,

INTRODUCTION OF UNCONVENTIONAL MUSIC AT DEEPER LIFE BIBLE CHURCH

Greetings to you Sir, our dear father in the Lord, may God cover you with the wings of His love.
Proverbs 22:6 states “train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it”.
Since you are our father in the Lord whose role is it to train us, it is only natural for us to kneel at your feet and beg for advice anytime we have a troubling question.

Sir, we humbly come to you at this moment because we have a troubling question. Sir, why are you introducing unconventional music to Deeper Life Bible Church through the invitation of external musicians.
These external musicians that you have invited to Deeper Life include Nathaniel Bassey, Don Moen, Collin McDowell and Paul Baloche.

As our father in the Lord, you ought to defend the introduction of unconventional music to Deeper Life because you did not raise us your Deeper Life children with such music. Instead, you raised us with the hymn book and the choir alone. We request an explanation from you because we strongly believe that the introduction of unconventional music and the invitation of external musicians to Deeper Life could run contrary to the founding principles of Deeper Life Bible Church which implies that we should worship with music in a modest way with our humble choir.

Dear Sir, what happened to our book of hymns and choir? Why do you deem our God given book of hymns and our innocent choir insufficient up to the point where you believe that it is necessary to invite external musicians to come and sing for us at Deeper Life?
Dear Sir, weren’t you the one that raised us with modesty, decent dressing and outward holiness? You were the one that taught us all we know about modesty, decent dressing and outward holiness, so what’s going on sir?

Dear Sir, we realize that Deeper Christian Life Ministry is your church. From a legal perspective, Deeper Christian Life Ministry belongs to you and it is your registered N.G.O. Therefore you have the legal right to change the policies and principles of your church.

However, you should realize that it is the principle that makes the church and a considerable amount of your congregation may have signed up to Deeper Life in the first place because of the founding principles of Deeper Life. You cannot possibly shatter the principles without shattering the church.

Some of us signed up and agreed to be members of Deeper Life Bible church in the first place because we believe that Deeper Life is against worldly music. We signed up to Deeper Life Bible church in the first place because we believe that Deeper Life Bible church is a modesty and outward holiness church. We signed up to Deeper Life Bible church in the first place because of the decent and modest choir who sing from the book of hymns.

We signed up to Deeper Life Bible church in the first place because Deeper Life Bible church distinguished itself from other churches through the practice of modesty, decent dressing, holiness and through the use of gentle music.
If you now decide to introduce unconventional music and you invite these international gospel rock stars, then we the congregation have the right to request an explanation from our dear father in the Lord.

WHAT EVIDENCE DO WE HAVE AGAINST THESE EXTERNAL MUSICIANS THAT YOU ARE INVITING TO DEEPER LIFE?
We have evidence that proves that the external musicians you invited to Deeper Life have in one way or the other contradicted the modesty and holiness principle of Deeper Christian Life Ministry.
The evidence is simply that the band members and backup singers of musicians like Nathaniel Bassey, Don Moen, Collin McDowell, Paul Baloche and the rest do not dress and present themselves according to Deeper Life principles.

The band members and backup singers of these musicians you have invited to Deeper Life do not dress modestly, instead they are with immodest hair, ear rings, dyed hair, blue hair, green hair, gold hair, pink hair, nose rings, lip rings, ripped jeans, tattoos and the rest.
Dear Sir, may I ask you a question? Have you watched all the music videos and stage performances of these musicians that you are inviting to Deeper Life? Have you watched all their music videos and stage performances to verify that they do not contain immodest or anti-Christian messages? We have watched all their videos and we can testify that immodesty is being displayed in some of their music videos and this is why we are against their invitation to Deeper Life.

WHY IS IT DANGEROUS TO INVITE THESE EXTERNAL MUSICIANS TO DEEPER LIFE?
First of all, it is important to note that once you invite these external musicians to Deeper Life, you are putting the Deeper Life seal of approval on the musicians.
By inviting them, you are telling the Deeper Life congregation that these musicians have been screened, verified and approved.
It is dangerous to invite these musicians because innocent Deeper Life members may believe that the immodesty being displayed by the backup singers of these musicians is perfectly okay since after all, pastor Kumuyi who is our father in the Lord has invited them to sing at Deeper Life.
Dear Sir, despite our protest we will like to commend you for your day in, day out preaching of modesty, righteousness and judgment. Despite your elderly age, you still find the strength to go the podium and preach for hours. We thank you for that and we adore you for that. The only issue is these musicians that you are inviting.
By preaching the true gospel on one hand and inviting these Christian rock stars on the other hand, the congregation may not know what is right from what is wrong. And the congregation may go on to copy the immodest acts that are being displayed by the band members of the musicians you have invited.

WHY YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE FOREIGN OR LOCAL MUSICIANS TO DEEPER LIFE AND WHY YOU SHOULD STICK TO THE BOOK OF HYMNS AND YOUR CHOIR.
We strongly believe that you should not invite foreign or local musicians to Deeper Life simply because you cannot determine their true agenda.

THE KATY HUDSON STORY
The American pop singer called Katy Perry used to be a Christian singer called Katy Hudson. Katy Perry formerly called Katy Hudson is a member of the so called LGBT community in America. But prior to coming out as a member of the LGBT community, she used to be a Christian singer and she sang in several churches all over the world. This same Katy Perry who now has a popular song titled “I kissed a girl and I liked it” used to sing hallelujah in her songs, in churches and in Christian concerts all over the world.
Dear Sir, this is exactly why you should not invite these American Christian rock stars or any musician to Deeper Life. For example, what if these musicians that you are inviting to Deeper Life come out as members of the so called LGBT community in the near future? For example, what if Paul Baloche comes out as gay? Where will go sir? Where will you run to sir? Where will you flee to sir? That’s why you should not invite these musicians to your church. That’s why you should stick to the book of hymns and the innocent choir that God has given you.
God gave Adam and Eve fruits to eat from the tree of life and therefore Adam and Eve did not need to eat from the forbidden tree. Similarly, God has given Deeper Life the book of hymns and therefore we don’t need anyone to come and sing for us at Deeper Life.

THE MUSICAL PERFORMANCE OF DUNSIN OYEKAN AT IMPACT
Dear Sir, we were surprised at the nature of the musical performance of Dunsin Oyekan at Impact. Our main concern was the manner in which Dunsin Oyekan was flanked by two earring wearing females whilst he was on stage.

Our humble Deeper Life choir that is made up of those lovely teenagers transmit signals of holiness to the congregation whilst they are performing, don’t they? Yes they do. And that is exactly how a holiness church like Deeper Life should be. The choir should be transmitting signals of holiness to the congregation and we don’t want a situation where it will appear as if the women that are doing the flanking are transmitting signals of lust. Holiness is the only thing we want to transmit in Deeper Life Bible Church.

DID THE CONGREGATION REQUEST FOR THESE MUSICIANS?
If we may ask you some rhetorical questions sir, did the congregation request that you invite these musicians to Deeper Life? They did not, so why are you inviting them Sir?
Did the districts request that you invite these musicians to Deeper Life? They did not, so why are you inviting them Sir?
Did the groups request that you invite these musicians to Deeper Life? They did not, so why are you inviting them Sir?
Everyone in Deeper Life was happy without these musicians, so why are you inviting them Sir?
Throughout the decades of not inviting these musicians to the church, Deeper Life camps, events and retreats have been jam-packed, so what’s the point in inviting these musicians.

For years, tens of Ashok Leyland buses bearing the name of Deeper Christian Life Ministry transported Deeper Lifers from several parts of the country to Gbagada and to the Deeper Life camp. And during this time, Deeper Lifers were loyal to you Sir and never did they request that you invite any foreign or local musician to come and sing for them.
Sir, do you know what it means for thousands of people to jump on your bus like sheep and be transported to your church? It means they love you Sir. The law of Christ demands that you should reward this love that the sheep has shown you with righteousness and not with worldly gold. Sir, reward the love that Deeper Lifers have shown you with the book of hymns and choir alone (righteousness) and not with international Christian rock stars (gold).

DO NOT LOWER YOUR HOLINESS STANDARD IN ORDER TO APPEASE THE SO CALLED YOUTHS
In addition, you need not to lower your standards in order to accommodate the so called young and liberal generation. You need not, because there are already a million and one non-holiness churches that can cater for the so called young and liberal generation. These young and liberal generation that claim that Deeper Life is too strict and these youths that call for you to lower your standards know the truth.
They know that a church should practise modesty and holiness, they just don’t want it. This young and liberal generation knows that Christian men and women should dress modestly, they just don’t want it. This young and liberal generation knows that Christian music should be gentle music, they just don’t want it. Instead, they want a little bit of funkiness and hip hop to be integrated with Christianity. Since this young and liberal generation knows the truth but they don’t want it, then you need not to lower your standards in order to appease them.

DO NOT LOWER YOUR HOLINESS STANDARD IN AN ATTEMPT TO ATTRACT AND CONVERT SINNERS
Some proponents have suggested that Deeper Life should lower its holiness standards in order to attract and save the sinners. Such proponents claim that Deeper Life through its strict doctrines is chasing away sinners instead of welcoming them.

Yes, Christ wants us to welcome and convert sinners and even Christ welcomed and saved the sinners, prostitutes and tax collectors. But Christ told theses sinners to “go and sin no more” after which the sinners repented and laid aside their garments of sin. It was only after the sinners had laid aside their garments of sin did Christ forgive them. Had Mary Magdalene and Matthew the tax collector not laid aside their garments of sin then Christ won’t have taken them.

This implies that Deeper Life should embrace, hug, show love and rub shoulders with sinners during the time its street evangelists are preaching to sinners on the streets. What Deeper Life should not do is to bring in sinners that are still clothed in their garments of sin and immodesty into the church premises for this could contaminate the clean that are in the church.
Sinners must be new in Christ and they should have laid down their garments of sin prior to coming into the church premises. They should have imbibed the culture of modesty and holiness which your street evangelists have taught them. If the sinners that have been preached to are not new in Christ but yet you invite them to your church premises, then both the sinners and the clean in the church will be corrupted.

INVITATION OF NON DEEPER LIFE MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKERS
In addition, we have discovered that some of the motivational speakers that you invite to Deeper Life to minister to the youths or to congregation are not from Deeper Life and they do not present themselves according to Deeper Life principles. For example, some of the speakers you have been inviting to minister to the youths do not normally dress according to Deeper Life standards; instead they normally dress immodestly with lipsticks, earrings, make up and the rest. Dear Sir, Deeper Life is supposed to be a holiness church and therefore you cannot invite just anyone to come and lecture the youths at Deeper Life.

If you want to invite motivational speakers to Deeper Life, then such motivational speakers should be either Deeper Lifers or those that practise modesty and outward holiness. Since we are supposed to be a holiness church, you cannot just walk in to any bank, institution or company and invite a motivational speaker to lecture the youths at Deeper life. Some Deeper Lifers have asked why you invited non Deeper Lifers as guest speakers and you have been questioned in an interview that is available on YouTube.

In the interview, you used the chemistry subject and chemistry teachers as examples to defend the invitation of non Deeper Lifers as guest speakers. You stated that for example, if you want to hire a teacher to teach a child chemistry, you will hire that chemistry teacher based only on the teacher’s ability to teach chemistry.

You therefore implied that it is okay to invite any motivational speaker to Deeper Life irrespective of whether or not such motivational speakers practise modesty and holiness as long as they are highly skilled in their professional fields.
Dear Sir, are you now implying that chemistry (entrepreneurial or motivational advice) is superior to holiness? Are you implying that we should prioritize entrepreneurial or motivational advice over holiness?

The message of Christ which is holiness is the one that should be given priority, therefore the next time you want to bring in motivational speakers to Deeper Life; you can first of all enquire if there are any successful motivational speakers or entrepreneurs from within Deeper Life. I am very sure that you will find successful motivational speakers from within Deeper Life that can lecture the youths.

LET US PRAY
We pray that in the mighty name of Christ that you will not shatter deeper life doctrines and we pray that you will have faith in the founding principles of Deeper Life which is rejecting the world, practising modesty and outward holiness.

We pray that in the mighty name of Christ that you will have faith in the book of hymns that God has given us at Deeper Life. We pray that in the mighty name of Christ that you will have faith in those young trumpeters, keyboardists and choir that God has given us at Deeper Life. In Christ’s name we pray, amen.

Dear Sir, we will like to commend you once again for preaching the truth and for creating perhaps the strongest Christian church in the world. You have created the strongest church not just in Lagos or in Nigeria but in the world. Deeper Life Christian Ministry is the strongest church in the world and as such satan may seek ways to quench the fire in the church but God as well as you and I will not allow them.
You can rest assured that we will ensure that Deeper Life will be a strong church. Even after you are no longer with us, you can rest assured that we will ensure that the high standards of holiness and modesty which you have put in place at Deeper Life will not diminish. We will ensure that your wish of creating righteous people is honored. We will never allow Deeper Life to fall. Thank you Sir, our dear grandfather in the Lord. May God bless you Sir.


Sincerely


Prince Dele Banjo
Prince Dele Banjo is a political activist, anti-indecency campaigner, Christian teacher and the founder of the anti-indecency charity (banthestrip.com)

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6951441/prince-dele-banjo-protests-deeper

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Crime / Re: Identities Of Police Officers Who Extorted ₦22M Worth Of Bitcoin From Lagos Men by Sunsets: 5:11am On Dec 20, 2021
Stop insulting EWU GAMBIA. Ewu Gambia has some respect.
gypsey:
This is the same rubbish we will type for you when nigerian police treat you the same way or even threatens to kill you. Poor man! You think every body is poor like you.. grin asking stupid question. Keep dreaming greatdreamer ewu gambia!
Politics / Re: EndSARS Whitepaper: You Can't Submerge The Truth - Ebun Adegboruwa by Sunsets: 7:48pm On Dec 01, 2021
Even in your attempt to sound smart, you fooled around. Aka enwe
FreeStuffsNG:


I did sir. It's vacuous and evasive. He definitely has case to answer for not being truthful and will eventually face disciplinary committee to defend the unethical conduct he is being alleged of perpetuating by inserting falsehoods into the report. This issue won't end with a white paper.

Conscience is an open wound, only Truth can heal it( Uthman Dan Fodio).

Kudos to the Lagos State Government for the dedication and transparency. This is a classic example of how Government towered over folks like Mr Ebun Adegboruwa in terms of character and truth. It's clear who the liars are.

Now is the time to investigate how those fictitious names and falsehoods got into the Lekkilies EndSars report. Mr Jelili Ownonikoko already reported that it was inserted by Mr Ebun Adegboruwa but we need to find out.

How can an individual who faced a panel to tell the panel members that his brother was not killed at Lekki end up with him and his dead brother both declared killed at Lekki ? shocked
We really need to investigate who compromised or sabotaged the panel's report. LASG, FG, EFCC,ICPC, NA, LAHA and the panel members must unravel this mystery; this is a national embarrassment. It's completely unacceptable.
Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Reconnects With Former UNIPORT School Mates 40 Years Later by Sunsets: 1:23pm On Nov 27, 2021
and he wanted what is at the man's middle, just like they used to do it then, but the man shielded it. What a MIddle School.
Akwamkpuruamu:
Waiting for Buhari to connect with his class mates

Politics / Re: #EndSARS: Act On Judicial Panel Report - US Tells Buhari, Lagos State Government by Sunsets: 8:36pm On Nov 16, 2021
exactly what the devil will type
SonofDevil:
out of the 14 names concocted

2 died before lekki toll gate incident.
(Kayode salami, folorunsho mercy).

3 deceased have no surnames or family names( tola,jide, and wisdom).

Nathaniel Solomon that was declared dead in 2020 granted interview with punch 2 months ago

The end sars panel report is a joke. By the time FG and Lag state finish dissecting the report it will be shredded and thrown into dustbin
Politics / Re: Justice Odili: Malami Accuses Olumide Akpata Of Pursuing Personal Agenda by Sunsets: 8:56am On Nov 15, 2021
He wants to mess with Ada Mbaise.
Penguin2:
Odili no be Onnoghen!

Malami don finally jam the one wey hang am for throat like fish born, come hold am for blokos join.

He will never disturb Justice Odili until she retires.

Anu nile aburo anu oriri!

Onye ala!
Politics / Re: COVID-19: FG Spends ₦104 Billion On Handwashing, Youth Programmes by Sunsets: 6:16am On Nov 15, 2021
Agriculture / Re: The Puff Adder My Workers Killed On My Yam Farm (Pictures) by Sunsets: 6:37pm On Nov 13, 2021
With what?
TheWolfen:
Another banger grin
If this snake doest make it to front page I will eat my head grin
Religion / Re: Obituary Poster Of Pastor Nomthi Odukoya (Photo) by Sunsets: 6:36pm On Nov 13, 2021
See reasoning na.
jesusjnr2020:
Really sad.

I said it before and I'd say it again. This man shouldn't remarry except he gets a very clear go ahead from God.

For his first wife to die, it could be a coincidence but for the second one also, the chances are that there's something no quite right or that God is trying to tell him something.

The ways of God are not as that of men, so let him not rush into marriage but seek the face of God on what next to do before making a decision.

God bless.
Sports / Re: Liberia Vs Nigeria: World Cup Qualifiers - 0 - 2 (Full Time) by Sunsets: 6:09pm On Nov 13, 2021
Where is Belgium?
yinkeys:

I deliberately left out France, Spain, Italy, Germany. Those are the heavyweights of Europe
Health / Re: Nurse Shares Encounter With Patient That Needles Couldn't Penetrate His Skin by Sunsets: 4:57pm On Nov 12, 2021
I guess you paused, he paused.
thesicilian:
I've had similar experiences also. Baba saw me struggling to inject him and took pity on me (according to him) and asked me and the nurse to leave the room for some time. When he called us back in, injecting him including the subsequent procedure went smoothly.

But my question to him was why he would fortify himself against needles and sharp objects (which seemed to work) and still get lacerated by a sharp object during a road traffic accident. No answer.

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Career / Re: In Portugal, It's Now Illegal For Your Boss To Call Outside Work Hours by Sunsets: 10:54pm On Nov 11, 2021
My boss should hear this.
blamingthedevil:
Ever had a persistent boss who won't stop messaging you once you've left work or logged off? In Portugal, that behavior is now illegal.


The country recently introduced a law that bans employers from contacting workers outside of their regular hours by phone, message or email.
"The employer must respect the privacy of the worker," including periods of rest and family time, the new law stipulates. Any violation, it continues, constitutes a "serious" offense and could result in a fine.
A similar rule gave French workers the right to ignore after-hours business emails in 2017.
Portugal's new policy is part of legislation that regulates working from home. Employees now have the right to opt-out of remote work should they so wish — but they can also request the arrangement if it's compatible with their job.
The measure also stipulates that employers are responsible for providing workers with the appropriate tools to do their jobs remotely. They should reimburse workers for any additional expenses, including any increase in bills such as electricity and gas, they might incur while working from home.

The law was passed by the Portuguese parliament last Friday and came into effect the following day.
Portugal has been led by a socialist government for six years, though Prime Minister Antonio Costa could be pushed out of power early next year. The country's president recently called a snap election for late January amid a standoff over the budget.
The capital, Lisbon, has worked hard to appeal to digital nomads who want to take advantage of remote work to temporarily relocate or travel outside their home country.
The practice became more common during the pandemic. Research firm Gartner estimates that remote workers will represent 32% of the global workforce by the end of 2021, compared to 17% in 2019.

https://edition.cnn.com/2021/11/11/success/portugal-employer-contact-law/index.html
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye Snubs Anita Okoye On Her Birthday, Peter Sends His Wishes by Sunsets: 6:41am On Nov 10, 2021
How do you know that he snubbed the wife? Because of Instagram? Shameless Aprokos.
Niece:


lalasticlala
Food / Re: My Brother's Trap Caught 2 Big Antelopes Today (Photos) by Sunsets: 4:24pm On Nov 09, 2021
Your brother is a trapezium .
flyinnizam:
My brother trap caught the bigger one while the smaller one was waiting for it to break free, my brother met both of them and killed them both.
Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Sunsets: 5:27am On Nov 09, 2021
What are you doing with a sex with a girlfriend?
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Couple Wear Isiagu For Their Church Wedding (Photos) by Sunsets: 5:24am On Nov 09, 2021
During traditional wedding it will be light eeeehhh? Shift jooor.
Mercychen:
Abeg, this is too heavy. I can't wear it. I still prefer the conventional wedding dress.

Leave isi agu for traditional marriage.



Family / Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Sunsets: 6:45am On Nov 08, 2021
Apart from other things, I see inheritance war.
MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

*************************************

Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

******************
What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

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Politics / Re: Obiano And His Wife Vote At Eri Primary School Aguleri by Sunsets: 10:27am On Nov 06, 2021
Some corpers get liver i swear. What will make me to be mobilised for this? Let the Nigerian govt use their main paramilitary agencies to do this. So so unsafe for the corps members. May God protect them from this stupidity and save them for their poor parents.
ANSMEDIA:
Aguleri Witnesses Early Voter Turn-Out, As Governor Obiano And Wife Votes

By Ejike Abana (ABS Government House Correspondent)



https://www.facebook.com/200902653400035/posts/2106186786204936/
Politics / Re: Unknown Gunmen Kill Police Officers In Port Harcourt by Sunsets: 11:17am On Nov 03, 2021
This Unmen Knowngun people. We don't want another curfew in Rivers state. Wike no dey waste time.
aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM


https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-unknown-gunmen-kill-police-officers-in-port-harcourt/
Properties / Re: Building Under Construction Collapses In Lekki (Photo) by Sunsets: 4:45pm On Nov 02, 2021
Ignorant comment. We can build bridges on top of sea, talk more of Lekki. Every crust has a solid layer; what you need do is to locate the solid layer and bury your foundation. Piling comes to mind.
doggedfighter:
The season of collapsed buildings.




I heard Lekki soil is soft and not really good for storey buildings.

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Politics / Re: "You Forged Your School Certificate" - Soludo Attacks Ubah During Debate by Sunsets: 6:59am On Nov 02, 2021
Soludo changed the game, men!
FKMagazine:



Soludo did 2 major things while he was serving as CBN governor:
1. He categorises our Banks into mega,(stronger), semi-mega (strong), and micro(semi-stong) respectively.
2. He advised and made compulsory to all banks' chiefs (stakeholders & shareholders) to buy their own land or Property, instead of renting or leasing for business and commercial purposes.
These are his intellectual properties.

He is a pace setter for the banks we have today and for that, he earns my respect as technocrat & business actualizer.

Those two things turned around the banks for good.

Take it or leave it!
Politics / Re: "You Forged Your School Certificate" - Soludo Attacks Ubah During Debate by Sunsets: 6:57am On Nov 02, 2021
They re-enacted Biden-Trump presidential debate. They left policy debate for character assassination.
aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM


https://politicsnigeria.com/your-forged-your-school-certificate-soludo-attacks-andy-uba-during-debate-photos/

Politics / Re: Jeff Bezos Hails President Buhari’s Climate Change Actions by Sunsets: 6:43am On Nov 02, 2021
In all honesty, can Bubu explain climate change? Can he explain that action plan? What is certain is that Jeff is ignorant of what he said.
presidency:
IN GLASGOW, AMERICAN BILLIONAIRE, JEFF BEZOS, HAILS PRESIDENT BUHARI’S CLIMATE CHANGE ACTIONS

American billionaire and founder of Amazon, Jeff Bezos, on Monday in Glasgow, Scotland commended President Muhammadu Buhari's leadership role in restoring degraded lands in the country, describing the commitment to restore 4 million hectares as exemplary.

Bezos joined President Buhari, French President Emmanuel Macron, Prince Charles and the Mauritanian President Mohamed Ould Ghazouani at a COP 26 side event entitled “Accelerating land restoration in Africa, the case of the Great Green Wall (GGW) initiative.”.

Heaping praises on the Nigerian leader at the event co-hosted by the French President, his Mauritanian counterpart and the Prince of Wales, the Amazon founder said:

‘‘We are fortunate to have President Buhari of Nigeria with us today.

‘‘Nigeria plays a critical role in the restoration movement and has pledged to restore 4 million hectares of degraded lands.

‘‘This kind of ambition coming from Africa’s largest economy underscores just how vital this issue is.’’

The Bezos Earth Fund has a 10 billion dollar fund to allocate money to projects fighting climate change.

Nigeria is due to assume the leadership of Conference of Heads of State and Government of the Pan African Agency of the Great Green Wall.

President Buhari had used the occasion of his address to appeal to fellow leaders to continue to make concerted efforts at land restoration.

‘‘I am optimistic that Africa’s ambition of restoring over 100million hectares of degraded landscape for productive agriculture is achievable,’’ he said.

President Buhari also pledged Nigeria’s unalloyed commitment to expanding the achievements of the GGW programme in Africa from the enviable status attained under the leadership of President Mohamed Ould Ghazouani of Mauritania.

‘‘Together we commit to the transformative process of restoring the African degraded landscape and ultimately the continent’s environment,’’ he said.

Garba Shehu
Senior Special Assistant to the President
(Media & Publicity)
November 1, 2021
Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Unveils 2021 Greater Lagos Fiesta, Tasks Lagosians On Suport by Sunsets: 11:10am On Oct 31, 2021
GOLS Sanwo Olu just scored another goal with the youth.
Lanrelagboi:
SANWO-OLU UNVEILS 2021 GREATER LAGOS FIESTA, TASKS CORPORATE ORGANISATIONS, LAGOSIANS FOR SUPPORT

••• Lagos To Have 31 Days of Massive Entertainment Experience - Commissioner



https://oyotoday.com/sanwo-olu-unveils-2021-greater-lagos-fiesta-tasks-corporate-organisations-lagosians-for-support/
Celebrities / Re: Williams Uchemba's Hair Cut By His Wife, Brunella Oscar After He Was Charged £50 by Sunsets: 10:09am On Oct 29, 2021
Marriage is sweet. Hell is a human construct. Everyone in hell created their hell. Leave innocent marriage alone.
KashApp:
Next time, learn how to use the word "some". Some marriage sweet and some na hell on earth.

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Crime / Re: Eze Napoleon Amadi Killed By His Wife Gladys Amadi In Rivers State (Photos) by Sunsets: 5:34pm On Oct 28, 2021
A wife killed her husband full stop. Retire to your cave, please.
Blackfire:
Igbo people eeehhh

grin

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Celebrities / Re: Throwback Photo Of Harry B Anyanwu In North Carolina, USA In 1998 by Sunsets: 5:29pm On Oct 28, 2021
He, sure, has returned the favour.
Blackfire:
I don't know him
Sports / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Expects Twins With His Fiancee, Georgina Rodriguez (Photos) by Sunsets: 5:25pm On Oct 28, 2021
I was reading Georgina Onuoha...lok
onthehill:
Manchester United Football star, Cristiano Ronaldo announced that he is expecting a set of twins with his fiance, Georgina Rodriguez, following Georgina's pregnancy scan result, IgbereTV reports.

Sharing a photo of himself and Georgina together with the scan result, he wrote on Instagram;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CVk29cSI-2E/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This is the 5th and 6th babies for Cristiano and the 2nd and 3rd for Georgina.

It will be Cristiano's second set of twins. He welcomed a twin daughter and son via surrogacy some years back.

https://igberetvnews.com/1404505/cristiano-ronaldo-expects-twins-fiancee-georgina-rodriguez-photos/

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