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I am in the same boat and it's not that easy, companionship can be a blessing and a curse, we can actually put ourselves out there more, it's a choice and mind thing. We can be friends tho, I don't bite

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

Make una mercy for Vhee I read every comment on this post and even though I laughed my hearts out, my heart still went out to the attacker, and then the defenders have no chill o, dem, J fear Nigerians.

Small thing una don vex, Lol

If Sultans Wife was your blood sister, let someone say what that fool said to your face, and tell me your reaction. It's that simple.

Eastlink:
Forget the message, dude was on my cracking a joke to calm too much emotions.

I pity you, be like say you no get work, your mates are out there making legit money and cashing out living a better life, you are here doing Nairaland Police, I no blame you, Na Buhari wey use poverty scatter your life I blame. Mumu

NLPoliceWoman:
Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

It's like you think everything is a joke, fool. I don't know if you still have a mother, is that how they shined her Congo when your father died. Idiot.

NwaAmaikpe:





Na so e dey start.

He should take it easy o, that's how from trying to comfort, my elder brother impregnated my late cousin's wife.

Experience has shown that nobody has a wetter kpekus than a woman in mourning because of the overflow of tears in their heart which eventually drains downward into their kpekus.

I like the way you think, Lol. Nothing must really surprise us. Cheers Man.

advanceDNA:
You die becos of a woman’s action...??
Nigga pleeeeeease...are you that weak or just interested in dying...

I’m always prepared for the worst case scenario...nothing can hit me by surprise..
My imagination is so wild I have a protocol for alien invasion or zombie apocalypse....

Nonsense as usual, suffer no dey tire you abi? All this grammar untop Naija wey don cast, SMH.
The day you realise politics and politicians have destroyed your present and future then maybe just then, you might be salvaged and rescued.
Until then, it's better to just STFU and not comment at all. [quote author= post=103607099]A better Nigeria is all we want,
Not all these political shenanigans.

Nigeria is blessed with incredibly rich diversity: of people, of cultures, of religions, of mineral resources, oil, and gas, amazingly rich biodiversity, that should make us the envy of the world. We are blessed with abundantly diverse agro-ecologies that should also make us a land of bountiful harvests with capacity to feed Africa.

We are a religious nation, so we should understand that God loves diversity. The diversity of rich and brilliant colours that we see in our forests, oceans, seas, and in flora and fauna, reflect the beauty of the Creator. Therefore, our diversity is not our problem.

Diversity is our strength. But when mismanaged, diversity becomes divergence. Rather than unite, we become splintered, with each entity believing that, somehow, it is better without the other. We must manage diversity for collective good.

Nigeria must start managing its diversity for prosperity. We must drive for national cohesion, not ethnic nationalities. We must address the fundamental reasons for agitations, by listening, understanding, removing prejudices and allowing for open, national dialogues, without preconditions, but with one goal: build one cohesive, united, fair, just and equitable nation for all, not for a few or for any section of the nation or religion.

Nigerians deserve wealth, not poverty. For all the abundant wealth of natural resources, Nigeria’s poverty situation is unacceptable. Today, sadly, there are way too many poor people in Nigeria.
The Government is implementing bold social programmess to reduce the number of poor, through interventionist programmes, but the fact of the matter is poverty is not just about money[/quote]

It's an unfortunate situation, cultism in secondary schools, that shows how rotten the system is, our leaders have failed miserably.

I agree with all these your points, but the fastest way to break up is just doing mistake and going broke, either your fault or not, it is the fastest way to heartbreak.

When there is money, all those compatibility and the remaining grammer you dey talk na wash.

Money has been known to do wonders, in anything you do, focus on that and the rest will flow, especially pussy.

I totally agree on this, families are struggling and suffering, while Buhari and his minions are grappling with how to establish a home for cows, banning twitter, and making Kanu the most pressing issue that ever beguiled Nigeria.

Nothing is working in Nigeria, and yet some very wise fools will come here defending rubbish.

Anybody that will bring Ipob, Afonja sentiments to talk nonsense, Na Ogun go kiss una. Politicians, Leaders, even us self, we f*ucked up big time.

The poverty plenty, but I hope we will get sense last last, because it dosent look like we ever will. The poverty tool has worked over the years, it will be time for the 1k and rice or indomie sell your vote madness to occur and there and then our nation will be sold for pennies, I hope we have learnt, I pray so.

So sad, what could really have happened, wahala dey o, Chai

PDP- Dead on Departure. APC- Dead on Arrival

This are the type of people we have as leaders, just look at the critical national issues they are trashing out.

Seun, I have been withholding some thunder for a while now, let's dash some people some na

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The North is United on so many fronts, even if we rarely see results and most of the choices no dey make sense, walahi.

The southerners, na their stubbornness and their tendency to be puppets that befalls them.

Nigeria is fast becoming a state that disregards human rights, what am I even saying, This is Nigeria.

Celebrate and enjoy your life, na only once, do what you gat to do.

I like the man, but when he was president, Nigeria didnt benefit much and has never benefitted from the USA, if you know, you know. No hope lost!!!

Very soon it will be North Korea, naija people self....

Toothless Bulldog, always trying to talk but we never hear anything, this leaders have failed woefully and will have their maker to account to.

This is barbaric and totally unacceptable, his own flesh and blood, common how psycho and mental can some people be, Omo I just tire for this country, one day cannot pass without bad news, Chai. Any which way we continue to enjoy life.

I wish her family all the support they need, may God heal their home. Amen.

I think those are signs of a very active mind and it can be a special tool too, depends on how you use it. I know because my head works that way too.

Palmerbarry:
I've always wanted to ask the above question. I am a very quiet person, an introvert, but in my head, I talk every seconds like a real talkative. From reasoning to prediction to past events, it keeps rotating.

Does this happen to you too, or its just me.
If it's just me, how bad is it to my health?

Please I need answers

Almost 50k

Vicotex:
In Nigeria everyone is a hypocrite,give someone like Mr. Macaroni, Deji Adeyanju or Aisha yesufu power and watch them turn into something else.

No matter the amount of "buhari must go" chants the protesters make, you and I know that buhari will never leave.

Break the country jor

Weaklings everywhere, we must find ways to distrust and speak against tyrannical and corrupt leaders both future and present.

I am a Yoruba Man, and I am tell you, all what you just wrote is the reason why our leaders treat us like animals, a lot of Nigerian Youths lack the mental capability to think or reason in an intelligent way. Continue drinking your gari and think Buhari us your Savior. When you clock 50 and you never achieve anything, your eye go clear.

triple996:
Good
Children of hate and frustration will come and call it fake news. They live a miserable life and only come to nairaland to pour their frustration . Always celebrating d dearth of their own country men and soldiers protecting them(can u imagine).
They are very sad that d June 12 protest did not turn bloody like end sarz.
They are also very angry that peace is gradually retuning to imo.
It sucks to b an ipob sympathizers
Meanwhile somewhere aba...

[quote author= post=102634312]God bless our darling Daddy President Muhammadu Buhari and his amiable Vice president Prof Yemi Osinbajo.[/quote]Craze dey worry you, get the F*ck Off.

NgwalandAba:
I don't blame yorubas that voted against this pig.. I'm taking about the brainless ones shouting sai baba yesterday.

Okay, Lol I don't even know where to place myself because I am against all politicians, I totally don't regard any of them. They have failed us massively.

NgwalandAba:
Bloody illiterate with accent of a dog can't comprehend.. I blame yorubas for voting this pig.. they are suffering it not Us..

This is one of the reasons why these politicians keep having the upper hand, see how you started to push the blame on Yoruba. I swear we are not ready to be liberated yet. I would not judge with just the thoughts of just a few people like you.

Shut the Bleep up, when will you ever have sense, and say what is truly sane. By the day I am concerned about your thought process. Keep on asslicking, gaining nothing in return. Nonsense [quote author= post=102527708]Twitter made a statement in which they said they don't know President Buhari and which country he runs.

When you're blinded by hate and self imposed narrow mindedness, you will applaud someone who is clearly insulting you.
Most Nigerians who are sympathetic with Twitter today don't know how much of an insult this comment is to even them.
They see Buhari as the target here but there are two elements in this insult.
Twitter says they don't know President Buhari.
But they didn't stop there.
They also added that they don't know the country he is leading. In other words they don't know Nigeria.

Twitter is brazenly saying they don't know Africas most populous nation and the country with the highest concentration of black people in the world. Twitter is brazenly saying they don't know a country where over 11 billion dollars of their revenue comes from with over 40 million subscribers.


Some years ago Pastor Chris Oyakhilome chose to use twitter to communicate some prayer information to Christ Embassy members worldwide.
Within few weeks Pastor Chris broke the records of having the most amount of followers within such a short period.

In their arrogance, Twitter called Pastor Chris' twitter account to question and described the followership as bogus.

Simply put, Twitter believed that nobody from a place like Nigeria had enough clout to garner such followership within such a short time - a feat that no Hollywood star was able to achieve -.

Pastor Chris wasn't prepared for their drama, he pulled out of twitter and challenged his church tech people to design a platform that the church can use. That's what gave birth to Yookos.

Today Yookos is a formidable competitor with Twitter so much so that ex President Barack Obama acknowledged the giant strides made by the platform within such a short time after it was launched.

Eventually twitter confirmed Pastor Chris' account and "apologized" but it was too late.
Pastor Chris had moved his huge followership into Yookos.

Several years later Twitter is saying that they don't know the country that the same Pastor Chris comes from.
That's arrogance taken too far.

Any Nigerian who tolerates this insult is just a self hating sychophant.

Someone says you and your country don't matter and you're jubilating.
Is that not a serious sickness?

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On a lighter note,
*We heard someone telling his landlord that his rent money for the year is trapped in his Twitter account*

*The landlord too is now abusing Buhari

Dem [/b] : AKA [b]DA truth in da building!

Truth is not bitter, just that some people are bitter to the truth.

We Rise![/quote]