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Vincent88:
Hello everyone im new to this forum this is my fidst post.

Please pardon my english it is not fluent because im french speaken but im married to your nigerian sister (my wife).

Im vincent by name 30 years old married for 2 years with no child yet. I come from a family of 3 brothers and im the last born. Our dad passed away 20 years ago so it was our mom took care of us she fought so hard for us to have a better life unfortunatly she also passed away 13 years ago i was only 17 , my senior brother, our first born was married with a son 4 years old at that time, my middle brother was studying at the university and i went to stay with my elder brother.

His wife started seducing me anytime my brother is away in a business trips , she will try all her power but i was rejecting her by reminding her that she is my brother wife i will never deceiving him by sleeping with her and she started maltreating me by no giving me foods and giving me lots of housework to do, i never disrespected her and i will do as she said.

I was scared to tell my brother because he is a short tempered man he had so much love for his wife and he wouldnt even believe me. So she carry on with her mission after 2 years later i was just 19 years old she was 27 i gave in by sleeping with her (worst mistake ever) we started doing it lots of times when my brother is away on business or when the son is at school. She was then pregnant by me i have begged her to abort it but she went ahead with the pregnancy , all my brother knew that he was the father and she had a baby girl who is my carbon copy but people cant see it because they will always says she is looking like me but no one had suspect that she is mine even my brother.

After the baby i could not continue sleeping with her she was angry at me , threatened me that she will send me to prìson but i made my mind no to do it again so after 2 years of supporting her madness i had enough that made me leave the house for goods i went to stay with a friend and i was still in good relationship with my brother even he try to find out what was my reason for leaving the house. Imade up some lies he accepted it.

So he and his wife had 2 more children that makes them four 2 boys and 2 girls but he caught her with another man on their matrimonial bed and he went for DNA for their last child because she is very fair like a mixed race compare to her other siblings who are dark skin and the result come up that he was not the biological father so he divorce her but kept the child because he love the child


After the divorce my brother's life is not the same how it used to be , he is broke and he is a alcoholic and womaniser , i have given him money several times to start business but he still spending the money on women and alcohol. I stop giving him money but i do provide foods and school fees for all 4 children.

My problem is that since i got married my wife had three miscarriages, by 4 months she will loose the pregnancy it really broke her hearts and im in so much pain too but i believed that im being punished for having a child with my ex sister in law and my poor wife is paying for something she never did.

I love her so much and i dont want to loose her . No one else knows about this is only me and ex sister in law who knows about this. I really want to Confess and be free but i dont know how to tell this to my wife and brother . My wife adore my brother's child, they spend holidays in our house and my brother has never question the other 3 DNA because he has a strong believe that they are all his except the youngest girl. My daughter, she is now 10 years .

Please advice me on how to bring this matter to him please no insult i regrets my mistake i sometime wish it was a dream . Sorry for the long post

resurgent4oodua:
Your cousin should under no circumstance marry a muslim no matter how "compatible" they are. Can't your cousin see what muslims are doing worldwide?

If any of my sister brings a muslim home, she will be excommunicated from the family. In fact, there is no single muslim blood in my lineage and I am a yoruba man. The acts of the majority of muslims has tainted that religion.

My verdict? Your cousin should look for a good christian to marry.

#mytwocents.

josielewa:
pls house i need advise about a particular matter...here it goes..
I have a cousin (a female) who is at a crossroad. She has a little problem about getting married. The problem here is that she has already given the family a guys name, but the father said "pastor told him they are not compatible". Since she is from a Christian family, they do pray about such things.

Eight months later, she gave her dad another name and the Dad said they are compatible has being told by that same pastor. The problem now is that the guy is a muslim and my cousin never told her dad that.

Now the same father is saying she can't get married to a moslem has christians always believe that they must not marry unbelievers. Had it been my cousin already told her dad that the guy was a moslem, he wont bother telling the pastor about it.

My cousin is now worried because the pastor said they are compatible but her father is more concerned about the religion. Her father isnt happy with her choice hence might not want to a part of the union. pls she needs advise. She is on nairaland reading your comments. Pls let all be mature in our response. I used a phone in typing all this, so ignore all grammatical blunders... thanks.

mynd44
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winj3:
Hijab is a 6th century backward tradition!
ban it.

Bigsteveg:
I got a mail from them today. How do i reach you. Lets talk pls

Fusion23:
Please do you know any one in Olabisi Onabanjo Uni in house..my wes evaluation as been on hold for over 3 weeks
i guess they havent replied.