Gadafii:
But she knew what he was doing before agreeing to marrying him, and that’s how he makes his money and earn a living honorably, so why is she changing tone now

But make isreal sef wise up and upgrade himself, if he wise and smart he should have owned some business and ventures that will make him steady money with Davido influence and connections, without having to demean himself most times ass licking the guy

I saw a video of where Imade was asking his dad why he never sack isreal, you needed to hear the weak response he gave something like “your papa na good man, if he sack me where I go see food chop”😂😂

See your useless moniker "Gaddafi", you'll be spreading wrong information 🙄

Babssoo:
You met him working for his boss, I know how women are she would have talk him down at some point. Why not establish yourself and let him do what he wants to do, Abi hunger dey your house make you talk. A responsible man should know that he need a backup plan, no be you wey come yesterday go come dey pressurise him. He no go go better for anybody wey abuse me .

You dae talk true big man

Na this kind topic I go pass well for ...but that lecturer na craze person o🤔...why asking ones preferred sex style...him wan know how he go use follow the babes for class like that

Kobicove:
Wareva!

Is this what I should be bothering my head about?

Yes o, is she not your sister?

Veenbanks:
One needs to make that extra income to curb the craziness going on in this country if not, it can make a sane person to go haywire.

To make that extra income, check my signature below, and you will indeed love what I do, and you will be glad you did join.

Have a blessed day!

You wan scam alaye? Nawa o

No recommend any Trade bullsh*t to me

Gabreil2121:

How can I increase it?

Surgery, kegel and Yoga exercises

Gabreil2121:


But I fvck girls real good

Increase your length regardless since you dae feel say 5'9 inches no work for you

Veenbanks:
Mine is G.

Let's have it.

Me just want to dae make more money for this difficult country

Animegirl:
only broke men will get triggered

Preferences and attractions vary from person to person, and it is important to respect individual choices and preferences when it comes to romantic or partner preferences. If a woman's preference is to be with a rich man, it is her personal choice, and as long as it is consensual and based on mutual respect, there is no inherent "badness" in that preference.

In fact, many men who are not financially stable often desire a partner who is attractive, intelligent, and independent. However, due to their financial limitations, they may end up marrying someone who doesn't meet their preferred criteria or "spec". Ironically, if they had the financial means, most of them wont marry the women they are with now.

If women prefer wealthy men, let them do so. There is no obligation to marry someone who lacks financial stability. Nobody enjoys suffering, and it's understandable that individuals prioritize financial security in their relationships.

If you prefer virgins as wives, why can't we choose to marry rich men or state that rich men are our preference?

Now, many of you men might argue that if we continue with such preferences, we will become "evening newspaper", why should it concern you? Now that the country has become more challenging than before, I am certain that there will be an increase in the number of single men as they seek to escape from their responsibilities.

Las Las, many of you will marry at the age of 40 and seek relationships with younger women whom you can control and manipulate.

I fear the potential actions of financially unstable men more than those of wealthy men, as many financially unstable men develop an inferiority complex when their wives begin earning more than them. This is when they start demanding respect, analyzing their wives' tone of voice, and exhibiting controlling behavior.

Funny how most of you tend to blame their parents for bringing you into poverty, and you often don't want your sisters or daughters to marry financially unstable men. However, you still criticize and judge women for their preferences. This wickedness nah!

Please, let us breath. Is not by force to marry or date a broke guy.

Fair enough, so why do you guys get pissed when we go for more than one woman abi is it only you that want our money
You clearly said it here, most women want a rich man so be very accommodating when you are with a rich one because we definitely have atleast 5 side chicks..
Woman can be so funny and contradicting ehn, there is a popular saying women go by that broke men deserve no pussy but you now want to keep a rich man all to yourself??
O wrong nau

And about the marriage at 40 for some men, wetin consign you with wetin man wan do, whether him manipulate younger lady or not, e consign your papa
Just dae pray say your "rich" husband no go carry infection dae give you for house werey

Nonsense and ingredients

taylor89:
Is it a taboo for women to make it in your family?

I wonder... No mind the werey

Yes, go for penis enlargement if not women will keep leaving you

Kingsley34:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rcs2Invd4E4

Victor Hugo Sosa, mayor of San Pedro Huamelula, a town of Indigenous Chontal people in the Tehuantepec isthmus of Mexico, took as his betrothed a reptile named Alicia Adriana, re-enacting an ancestral ritual.

The reptile is a caiman, an alligator-like marsh dweller endemic to Mexico and Central America.Sosa swore to be true to what local lore calls “the princess girl.”

“I accept responsibility because we love each other. That is what is important. You can’t have a marriage without love… I yield to marriage with the princess girl,” Sosa said during the ritual.

Marriage between a man and a female caiman has happened here for 230 years to commemorate the day when two Indigenous groups came to peace — with a marriage.

Tradition has it that frictions were overcome when a Chontal king, embodied these days by the mayor, wedded a princess girl of the Huave Indigenous group, represented by the female alligator.

The Huave live along coastal Oaxaca state, not far from this inland town.

The wedding allows the sides to “link with what is the emblem of Mother Earth, asking the all-powerful for rain, the germination of the seed, all those things that are peace and harmony for the Chontal man,” explains Jaime Zarate, chronicler of San Pedro Huamelula.
Before the wedding ceremony, the reptile is taken house to house so that inhabitants can take her in their arms and dance. The alligator wears a green skirt, a colorful hand-embroidered tunic and a headdress of ribbons and sequins.

The creature’s snout is bound shut to avoid any pre-marital mishaps.

Later, she is put in a white bride’s costume and taken to town hall for the blessed event.

As you love am, kukuma put your divk for the crocodile mouth na make we see if it love you 🤔

4KNGOATS:

mumu na you tribe u dey cause no b me

You no get sense you this small boy

Afamed:






The mediocrity you celebrated few weeks

She's not different from her Patron who came distance 3rd in an election but wants to take the position of Mr President

Shut the hell up!!!
What have your so called president done so far rather than suffer the masses?
Best believe me, tinubu regime won't favour you or your family
Nonsense fellow

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men can’t go a day without doing something barbaric and heartless. Are you men cursed

Same treatment should be given to the man, he should be caged like an animal that he is and should be starved for 10 years. Nonsense men!!

Only Nigerian men would rape their wife/girlfriend/daughters

Only Nigerian men would murder their wife/girlfriend/daughter

Only Nigerian men would cheat on their wife/girlfriend

Only Nigerian men would starve their wife/girlfriend/daughter to the point of death

Honestly, Nigerian men make me sick!!!

Why don't you move to another country side men if you're tired of Nigerian men, as if women don't do the most... Trying to generalize like it's the norm
This Jenny no get sense ehn, I wonder who born this werey

mushroomFarm:

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I might have made a few mistakes in the past (not sex related) but ever since I met my first and only girlfriend (we are together for two years now) all I want is to keep loving her and being a good guy to her. It's not exactly hard...when you love someone, you respect them and respect gives you so much self control because you only see the best of the world in the eyes of the woman you love.
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Yes many men as promiscuous by nature. As someone in the medical field I can argue on and on about the biology and anatomy and physiology and psychology behind this... At the same time we can chose what we want to be, we can chose to be responsible and good expecially when the right, loving woman comes along.
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I will always always be loyal to my GF. She is my world.

If you don't cheat on her, she'll cheat on you or you all will cheat on each other
There's no escaping it....
It's a sad world out there

labake1:
Omo! we never finish Banky W saga, Davido own dey happen.


I never wanted to say anything about it but I feel for Chioma. With the fact that she lost her son, she is losing everywhere. Other baby mamas are not saying anything because they already have a tie with Davido (las las, the 30GB go reach their side). I just hope she gets pregnant and give birth soon so that she will have something. I still support Hakim's ex wife for demanding such amount of money and properties from him because you can't cheat on me and go free. I must be compensated


As a woman, once you accept that men are naturally promiscuous, you will have peace of mind.

My advice for women is that before you get married, have a life. With this, you won't be bothered if your man is acting disgraceful.

Men, what do you want?
Men, is true that you have a community diiçk?

What exactly do you mean by the bolded??
Compensated for being In a relationship with a man when it's not marriage 😂
Funny that you'll definitely meet men weh no even reach cos men weh get must definitely cheat and look out for better women

VTJN:
I understand the angle you're coming from. If I'm trying to give statistics of any subject matter be it marriage, education, career, health et al. I do that mainly because the poor takes the chunks of our population. Annie Idibia marriage is a prayer point to lots of average Nigerian women marriage. Yes i understand Annie isn't happy in her marriage but trust me you wouldn't compare Annie marriage to that of these average women. Trust me, if Annie chose to leave her marriage today, she can never leave empty handed. Lots of these women had been sent out by their husband with nothing to show for it. They left empty handed. Have you ever wondered the cry for women empowerment by government, NGOs, private individuals, philanthropist et al. The major reason behind that was mainly how men treat these women in marriage and possibly send them packing with nothing afterwards. Comparing Annie marriage to that of an average Nigerian women marriage is like comparing day and night. It's incomparable. Yes i know some few rich women stay put in marriage despite the up and down. Yes i know a single lady or single guy will obviously long for marriage no matter what. It could be at their 40s, 50s or whataview. One would always long for something good one doesn't have. Marriage is a beautiful institutions having it with the right person. A barren couple would crave for having kids. A couple having all girl child will obviously long to have a boy child, vice versa. Nonetheless, a single woman wouldn't feel jealous or long to have a marriage where the man treat his wife like a piece of shit. She wouldn't long for such. She can chose to have kids without marriage, and the kids can live a responsible lifestyle without having a father figure in their life.

Men cheat in marriage than women. An average Nigerian woman had been made to believe that she's responsible to build her home. She had been indoctrinated to believe that men are polygamous by nature. She had been nurtured to believe that men being the head of the house can do anything that pleases them. Reason why it's easier for these men to asked for full time house wife. I know some women do cheat in marriage but I'm certain men cheat more. Men are more jealous than women but tend to hide it unlike women. Women can stay without sex for months and years but it's quite difficult for Men. Most of these average Nigerian married women will be fairing fine as a single mothers than being married. Marriage has caged lots of them seriously. Some men would even cheat and still put it to the woman's face telling her she can do nothing. That is the level some of these women had gone all in the name of marriage.

FINANCE, STIGMA & CULTURE. These are the 3 major reason most of these women still remain in their marriage. Only few had the courage to leave no matter the circumstances. My mother for instance never hawked in her life when she was single, but she hawked in marriage alongside her children just to survive. That's how marriage has dragged some of these women backwards. Only few were lucky. My cousin is married with 3 kids but she's more of a single mother. Her hubby had abandoned her for another woman. I can't even mention that of my neighbourhood. I am a Man but i am fully in support of women marrying ready made guy. They didn't chose their father right? But they have every right to chose their husbands. Their mothers, grand mothers, great grand mothers, cousins, friends just name it, had chosen love over every other thing but had nothing to show for it subsequently. Apparently, it's penny wise pound foolish following same route.

Same Nigerian men will be like an angel out of the shore of Nigeria. I understand our system somewhat give them that leverage here. I believe we can do better.

In as much as you made some salient points, I'm gonna address the above bolded.

Firstly, most Nigerian men are hardcore simps reason why most ladies worldwide would want and prefer a Nigerian man because the bare minimum which they get from their men counterparts in their country is annuled to what they do get from our men who try to win a girls heart through reckless spending.

Secondly, in our growth as humans whether male or female, there is a peak point where we do get all sorts of attraction and validation from the opposite sex... Ladies own come at their younger age (18 - 26years) while men when they are older (30+ years). Now most ladies use their peak years to do whatever they like, sleep with who they want, be looking for "babygirl" treatment, gets random money from men just for being a woman, rejects good guys because they tend to want a bad guy... When they gradually get older, they now tend to want to settle and want a "good man" because then their choices is limited... Men would not want them much at that age as they would want a much younger woman and the cycle goes on and on.
Now on the men's part, they accept all forms of rejections as a growing man looking to build things for himself, then when things starts falling in place, he gets women Attraction (both the young and the ones who wants to settle and make him a family man due to not much age at her side )... He goes out to work, gets compliments, seductive looks etc... Now, if it's a man that got many rejection when growing, do you think he wouldn't likely succumb to those? The key is not rubbing it on your wife's face which most men do which I don't support one bit.... Most men would always cheat because to them it's just about releasing and letting go but it can never be the same for a woman because with women cheating already there's an emotional connection and Okafor's law still going to play out eventually...reason most men don't forgive a cheating partner is due to this sacred nature a woman's body has always posed to be which didn't start today but the days of our ancestors and men would never want to share that with any man..
Now on another bolded, no woman would want to have a marriage where the man treats them as trash, that's right but I do believe in our day and age most people don't know the requisite to keep a marriage and family running...it definitely isn't a bed of roses and you wouldn't be happy always which the media may try to portray...it's just you understanding your roles as man and your wife as a woman and playing those roles for the betterment of the family.
Coming back to cheating again, most men can play their roles effectively even though still cheating (not recommending) but not the same as women, if a woman cheats and is still cheating on you in marriage, your life is at risk because she may see you as someone hindering her from being with this fantasy of a man outside and once that steps in, only a matter of time before something bad do happen
Don't get it wrong brother, Women do cheat more than men both at younger age and when they do reach their thirties, it's just that they are very good at hiding it because In our society today a promiscuous woman is not regarded while a promiscuous man is praised.

There is no perfect marriage and no one should wish for one because it doesn't exist.
If a man takes care of his family promptly (both security wise, financially and in the grooming of the kids), I don't see why the woman should leave him if only his problem is cheating because if that happens she would tend to end up with divorcees and irresponsible men who just wants their turns with her on bed and in turn she becomes so miserable and filled with regrets meanwhile the man can go ahead and marry a virgin... I didn't make this rules, it has been so since the dawn of time and we can only but take necessary correction and adjust accordingly

I end with this A boy becomes a man when he sees his mother the same way his father sees her, as a matter of fact he has always seen his father the same way his mother sees him

VTJN:
one will always long for what he/she doesn't have. Be it marriage or whataview. Don't you think women preferring to stay put in marriage miserably was what their parents, society and African culture sold to them? Don't think these women stay put because they are happy or prefer being referred to as Mrs somebody than having their freedom. These women don't have financial backing hence, they stay put. A woman who can survive solely on her own wouldn't take half of what these women had taken all in the name of marriage. An educated woman know and understand her children could become anything in life as a single parents. The last time i checked, most of the inmates in our correctional centres across the nation aren't raised from a single mother.

My mother for instance will be better as a single mother than what marriage has turned her to today all in the name of Mrs somebody. Even she herself said it. Although marriage favour some women greatly. I know a lady from a poor home. She's educated and well mannered. Marriage took her from one remote village in Lagos to Canada. She has 3 beautiful Canadian kids now and live happily with her husband. She's one of the few ones marriage really favour

I personally know lots of women are miserable in their marriage and they are willing to leave but nothing as back up. I have them in my neighbourhood. Imagine these women are doing fine or has siblings doing pretty fine, some would have left long ago

At bolded, it applies to both gender. A successful man without a woman wouldn't be respected in the society likewise woman. It's just a cultural thing in Africa. We place so much emphasis on marriage and child bearing.


In summary, married men cheat more in marriage than married women and still get away with it. Why? Because we're Africa. These set of Men wouldn't try such once they leave the shore of Nigeria.

Fair points you did make but I'm going to make mention of a few things I feel you didn't say right

Firstly, Married men don't cheat as much as married women...it's just that we do get tend to get caught more easier than a woman and also coupled with the fact that most women know cheating is a deal breaker for most men (if women cheat in marriage, then they do know that it's only a matter of time before they get to leave the marriage or suffer silently)

Secondly, now for the financial backing, I do know some women do stay because of that but what about those that have these but still stay put... Take fore instance Annie idibia... She's not poor...she can afford basic amenities and more but why didn't she leave?
Whether you like it or not, we do uphold out family values in this part of the country which is very essential and most women like the idea of marriage even without knowing what it all entails

At your bolded, a successful man without a woman is still respected regardless whether in Africa or any continent in the world...what only changes is when you are vying for a reputable position in which you want to show the world or make the world perceive that idea of family values instilled in you through your spouse.

Now, a successful single 40+ woman is not the same as a successful single 40+ man, even though their realities may seem different but the consequences is quite different from the woman to the man
And I'll end with this, the reason you think most marriages are not lasting is due to the fact that people react to positive quite different from they do negative; reason Good marriages do have bad Pr and Bad marriages have Good Pr
Even to some point where Good marriage gets good Pr people always tend to wish that the marriage not last so you see how so bad, a good marriage now seem like
Crazy times indeed

VTJN:
Lol

An average Nigerian married women are miserable. Take a research on average married women with a promise to give them a backup, 80% are willing to leave their marriage. They aren't happy in their marriage if you care to know. They stay put because of finance, societal and their kids. Marital status doesn't determine happiness, misery, sad or whataview. You can be single and be happy. You can be married and be sad and miserable

An average Nigerian married women go through alot in the name of marriage

I feel you, your words still don't negate what I did say initially

A big chunk of women who are unmarried and past 40 are so miserable.... there's a sense of belonging, self worth and family values that comes with having a family as a woman...they may tend to be happy but majority are not.
I get your drift about married and unhappy which there is also inevitably but the same thing that keeps a married woman going in a marriage is almost the same thing an unmarried 40+ woman long for....let's be frank, there's no perfect marriage and those women in marriage who are hanging by a thread would prefer to keep being in marriage than to come out of it.... simply put, companion is something every woman long for together with security and even the richest woman in the world still want someone they can come back to after work.

Notice also why if a woman want to run for a high position like presidency , it's always imperative to show the idea of your husband backing you even though they may be chaos in the home...have you seen under any Democratic government whereby a female president gets sworn in without having a man by her side that she can tell the world is her spouse?
Lol

mariahAngel:


If I want to form, I'll go for the neck, but if I don't send, I'll go for the fatty chicken tail.

There's nothing like chicken tail o...it's called chicken bumbum

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If I want to form, I'll go for the neck, but if I don't send, I'll go for the fatty chicken tail.



There's nothing like chicken tail....it's called chicken bumbum

Absuchat:

Some people aren't meant to be rich on earth. How can you see $76 million and na only $4million you fit move? Idiots everywhere

Na abokis you feel say go move everything?
The scavengers sef no get car so how you fit move everything without someone knowing

Hope say you also know $1 million is 800 million naira currently
Enough to set someone up for life

Candidlady:
Keep looking for people that will pray for you to know if your marriage will work or not


Naija people sef

No mind the werey, him never ready to marry be that

mbaise1000:
In the present day nigeria, the best way to woo the opposite sex especially women is first never say the truth to them, tell them that tinubu is your mother's junior brother, that bill gate is your uncle, that you are traveling to the us to collect your inheritance, that mm airport in Lagos belongs to you, that Atlantic ocean belongs to you, sharp sharp, you have your way, many of them will actually believe you

No be lie my brother

Meerahbel:


I think the society we are in especially Nigeria affects mind set alot, not every woman wants to GET married, not every woman wants to STAY married, some just wants to taste and leave, people do what society wants so that they wont be tagged different names, personally I'm indifferent about marriage, only advantage is to have a stable and safe fvck mate, have kids legally et al.

The only thing most women want in life, is mental peace, happiness, and enjoy their life without anyone restricting them cool why get married when you will be subjected to pains, commitments, emotional trauma, e.t.c

The more independent you become, the lesser you see the need for Marriage. When you live by your own terms, pay your own bills, have a regular Bleep, attention and care from opposite sex, You are most likely to loose interest in marriage.

Hey! Are we all getting married to the same individual?

There is something called companion...you can't buy that anywhere with your money

Statistics also showed that wealthy women above 40 yrs who are unmarried are mostly miserable...they then tend to buy companion from younger boys (because most older men wouldn't even look at them twice) who just use them for financial stability and run whenever they are tired

Jennyclay:
Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!

But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long

Just avoid them! Shikena!!

This girl you never change
You still dae do like mad woman 😂😂

Kriss216:
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How person go born pikin come name am "Clearcut"

What inspired that name?

I tire o🤣🤣🤣

jaybenugo:


https://igberetvnews.com/1442676/court-remands-29-year-old-man-sexually-penetrating-9-year-old-boy-lagos/

It must be a Yoruba guy
These afonjas ehn😠
SMH!!!

PlayerMeji:
So make we make am president becos of that?

Yeye...

Seun, come and help them put it on front page...la igbo apologist..

This boy you no well o

Corn247:
He should just be working in airport.

I know it must be this foolish "mooh247"
Just empty head with no reasoning

It was all caused because Tinubu became president elect😠😠😠