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Moh247:
Naso.. na why I talk say toasting is outdated

I don't even remember last time I toasted any girl... Normal level if a girl is into you, and her body language dey open to you, you no even need too much talk

You get the point bro

Moh247:
All man with him strategy..

15years now mine hasn't failed me, besides my 3 date strategy na to weed out smellos and parasite, before knacking

If I wanted an hook up or a fling, na club I go take her go, then straight home

So as the O.P dey look for real relationship I gave him modest gentleman strategy

Normally my bro, I dae first confirm if the girl dae feel me first
I no dae like push things unless na just Bleep
All the girls I've ever dated have loved me more than I did them even as I approached first
It's a necessary for me

ccjoe:
what hard way..c'mon not all girls are into that shi!t

I've spent 5years to study in school
..am coming out with a first class... And now I want a great relationship

Is it that easy

Moh247:



Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


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All these just to bag a lady
You guys cease to amaze me
All is game my bro, if you talk well during the first meet, you may not even need another meet before she lands at your home
It's all about knowing the right time to meet a girl, the right mood just by observing her before trying your luck

DoMeGood09:
She’s saying, she’s gonna keep everything off my ex-gf.

That's why I'm saying be careful with women like that
She don backstab her friend sharparly and you wan jump inside ?
Once a back stabber, always a back stabber

Learn or Perish Brother

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

It beats my imagination brother

What is it with you this man?
Is it that you see problem and joyfully jump into it ??
Firstly, why are you with a Single mother?
Are there not beautiful single ladies around you that you can toast and get dating with them?
Secondly, who the hell gave that babe of yours the audacity to ask you for the school fees of the child (child weh no be your own).
Is it that some men give women these power to ask this kind of question??
Thirdly, this rubbish faux about celibacy with some women na lie
If you no dae chop this woman another man dae lick hand dae chop am well, another man sef don tire for am
That woman just dae play you
She wan play like say she dae celibate so you fit see some value in her why she dae beg another man to do whatever he wants with her
Who the hell give her the authority to say no sex till marriage yet she get child for another man and it's not through rape
Lastly, you are a WEAK SIMP of a man for a woman to use you like this

Imagine a single mother giving you rules, even vexing cos say you no provide for another man child

Learn or Perish Brother

Be careful OP before you see something weh pass you

PlayMaker14:
E better make person born THIEF than to born MUMU....



No RIP to waste.

This quote would always be funny to me
E better make person born THIEF than to born MUMU

Sirmuel1:
Temi Otedola is the only good Girl in Nigeria. I am happy for Mr Eazi.

It’s hard to find a rich loyal Girl. She has everything I want in a woman.

As for DJ Cuppy, I wish you well. I can see you have a thing for boxers. I just hope you’re not rushing things because of your younger sister. (Second born are always doing better in most Naija homes… it feels like the first child is always a specimen)

Temi otedola is just a beauty all round
My celebrity crush till Eazi collected her from me

JOACHINpedro:
Omo!
I just had a lil issue with the babe I'm rolling with and from the call, she seemed temperamental.
Seriously, this babe tick all boxes any decent guy could wish for but that temperament issue is giving me concern.
I don't wanna leave her cus I'm her first guy and she is nothing near a liability but pls could temperament be tamed?

It can't be tamed but managed.
I will still advise you leave her before she kills you in your sleep after a fight

Esywrite:
OP you should know your wife better than us. If you're confident about her personality and strongly believe she can't change then there's no need to worry. But if you're unsure of who she is then you already know the answer to your question.

There is no one that can't change, please don't be deluded

teamc:
I'm the sponsor on the application and we applied has a family at 1st (wife studying /myself and our daughter are the dependent)
our immigration consultant call and advise that my wife should apply alone to increase the chances .
I love and I trust her just having a private thought of WHAT IF

You the dependent
Is this playing!?
You are setting yourself up for something you would regret in the future
Firstly, rather you travel than your wife do
Once she gets that qualifications, she would start seeing you as someone who isn't on her level anymore ( there is no love on earth that would stop that from happening)
If your wife no longer look up to you or aspire to attain your heights which you must have attained, I can say for a fact that the marriage is straight on the way to destruction
Now, coming back to sending her abroad while you stay in Nigeria,
Don't you think when she gets over there, she feels she is now on top and do whatever she wants without even you knowing
She wouldn't regard you again and start looking less on you, she starts nagging unnecessarily
Let me tell you what you don't know, if you are traveling abroad with your family it is better for you the man to travel or together with your wife and children than for your wife to travel

To summarize, I will say this ; Most women will definitely do as I have mentioned above because it's in their inate nature to do it and men keep failing in noting this
But there are a few exceptions, Don't pray to be the exception because it definitely may not be you

Messi1:
I've always visited this my uncle at least four times a week. That is where I pass away time. His children all like me and any day I fail to come they must ask me why didn't come. I use the time i spend in his house to teach his children Mathematics and do their home work for them.

Today I was in his house, he stormed out from his room and ask if i don't help my mother at home. He yelled at me and what pain me most is that he said food is costly and they are only managing. He made me feel like i was the one finishing the food in his house. He said I should not be too frequent in his house if at all I must come.

I'm considering severing all ties to this my uncle, will that be right?

Why do you insist on finishing their food and you think the provider will be happy??

Wetin happen hear na see finish which everyone must avoid

Adun27:
We were not married when she cheated

Whatever you tolerate before marriage would only escalate in marriage
E be like una no know street OT about women
I just feel like sending you better voice note on how to go about women so them no go even think to play you for a fool
So you haven't heard of some women that can't even think of cheating on their husbands, it's not fear... It's utmost respect
Once respect is gone in a relationship or marriage, your 2nd half just merely walks over you like you are nothing and that's what is playing in your marriage

Adun27:
The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Man she is cheating, there is no sugarcoating this
Your wife can't deprive you of sex for 3 months and you think she isn't giving someone else
You even said it yourself, that she loves sex so going that long without you drilling her, then it's definitely another person drilling her
It's not rocket science for Gods sake

Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.

I really don't even get why some people stay with unfaithful partner
Is it that they are scared to leave of what?

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Nothing to say much here but you are a Weak Simp of a man because why the hell would your wife cheat on you and you'll forgive her??
Coupled with the fact she initially connived with someone to steal from you

Why the heck is wrong with some men these days

Melezenawii:
NBC Sanctioned AriseTv over Fake News Broadcast

Who be this one weh dae snap him leg join for Sanction picture

Nawttiboi007:
So what’s this low class flaunting all about now?

Post your own my G
Stop hating this man

2elliot:
This one wants more hoes on the street wey go help dey service men. Don't worry guy, hoes are being born every day. There will always be enough for you.

Stop behaving naive guy, come today come tomorrow
The girl is always for the street
You can't take away the street from someone that's for the street.
the earlier the family understands this, the better for them
She must learn from her mistakes before she understands that what her family wants for her is nothing but the best

Rhozabeth:
I quite agree with u. Most of the societal ills actually start from home!

Yeah, also you can't change someone that wants to spoil, the only thing you can try to do is prospone it
Inevitably, they will spoil come now or later

Rhozabeth:
This case is a serious one! I first want to blane everybody in d family for allowing issues to degenrat to this level. The problem did not start today, this is just the aftermath of some not too good decisions you guys have taken concerning her in d past, needless to say that you guys spoilt her in her formative years. Although you didn't mention how old she is.
My take will be that she needs counselling from this moment on! No scolding, no beating, no harsh words but counselling by a qualified counsellor not from you guys, you guys have failed already.
Note that she is already like a stock fish that cannot be bent so u have to apply caution at this moment. I wish you luck with her and i pray she doesn't get into trouble before she realizes she is taking the wrong path!

She will get into trouble before realizing she is taking the wrong path..
It is inevitable for this kind of people

TUANKU:
Involve the Police ASAP don't listen to those people asking to let her be. We all do stupid things when we are young. Go get your sister bro.

She claims she's past age to make decisions for herself.
It's advisable to let her make those decisions because she wouldn't stop being a nuisance if she's locked up... She has to experience what she is so longing for and know what's right thereafter ....
Note this: you can't lock an adult up because you claim they can't make decisions for themselves, they would just grow to hate you the more and that definitely isn't good for the growth of a family

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Leave her the f alone, since she claims she is a big girl now and can make decisions on her own then suffice I say that she should be allowed to make her decisions
You locking her up at that age just develops her to thinking of further ways to deceive you and do what is in her mind... Since she claims to be all Grown up now, allow her leave her life
Shebi na freedom she want, make she get am, by the time life outside shoe her something, she go come calm down and now understand you people wants the best for her.
Note this: YOU CAN'T TAME SOMEONE WHO DON'T WANT TO BE TAMED

This scammers are becoming more deceptive day in, day out
God help our beloved country Nigeria from the shackles of poverty

Nawa o
God help us in this country

FarahAideed:
Source : David Hundeyin

https://mobile.twitter.com/DavidHundeyin/status/1592128872396771330

Such a evil man as Tinubu

People please be wise and vote with your head, your future depends on it... Vote who is competent and not because of tribalism

If you think you won't suffer if you vote wrongly, then your people will suffer or someone close to you will suffer
Imagine a drug lord being Nigerians president, what a catastrophe he will turn this country into

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

She is definitely pretending to be nice
Be wise !!
She's no longer young anymore and she's so happy you are coming for her seeing you are abroad and doing well for yourself also knowing she's way past her prime
Women who are past 30 years do know that age isn't on their side and tend to be nice to men who come around so they can be off the streets and answer the name "Mrs"

My humble advice to you would be find a much younger woman who is still in her prime, submissive and come from good home and wife her
But I wouldn't advise you taking your wife with you outside this country
Most women tend to be meek here but when they go over there, they can overthrow you in your own home and make your life a living hell!!
Most men who do this can attest to it

But also, she could be a good, submissive and lovely lady even when outside this country but
What are the odds??

Dididrumz:
I still dey fear to try this thing.

I hear it's nice, but I'm too selective when it comes to food.

You are totally missing out

VeryWickedGoat:
OP what's the point attaching that image?

I wonder

Dead man walking