₦airaland Forum

LordKO:
There is nothing servile/stupid/simp about a man that places his confidence on his wife/companion who has not given him cogent reasons to distrust her prior to meting out a pernicious act, like this one, on him. So, cut the man some slacks unless you are a firsthand witness to him putting up with her untrustworthiness prior to this particular incident, the shame should be on the woman, or the man, if the reverse were to be the case - betray me, shame unto you; outsmart me, shame unto me is my personal philosophy.

women see marriage as a means of survival. Every man needs to be very careful when dealing with them. Don't be selfless.

TMSMedia:
A man was caught having sex with his housemaid while his wife was in the hospital recovering from child birth, IGBERETV reports.

According to a Twitter user, the wife reportedly went into labour on Thursday, April 14, 2022. She gave birth on Friday, April 15, after 27 hours of labour.

On the following day, Saturday, April 16, the husband left his wife at the hospital, explaining he had some business to handle.

On the same day, the newborn baby's godmother, who is also the new mother's neighbour, was sent to the family's house to bring some supplies for the new mum. However, when she got to the house, she found the husband having sex with their housemaid.

Taking to Twitter, the godmother narrated the incident.

Read her tweets below.



https://twitter.com/ifeoluwa_obe/status/1515380323755958283?t=goF8RGfu3jqUz9rcwLMtAg&s=19

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

fake story

Krss216:
E be like say your mama ugly well?
No be your fault.

"wise man" for village, continue...

Krss216:
Sharrap bloody simp,no dey waste time our gals here no dey trip for ugly boys.

and you think Naija girls are beautiful? If you know any lady overseas, ask her "how market?"
Don't be naive!

emekachief:
Good. Women are not human. I hate seeing them around me

I told some serpents in a different thread that even the law can't save them. They thought I was lying.

siofra:
MEN ARE EVIL!!!

look at this serpent

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postmann:
And this was how I found you -- bald and shameless, brawling and drunk on the streets of bitterness.

I've followed your blood trails from yesterday's massacre. And here I found you nursing your wounds. The Predator always look for his prey and happy is he when he finds a weak one -- a weak one in you, BRATISLAVA, the shameless, perpetually angry beldame.

I have the keys to the vault of your miseries; the undertaker with the spells to unleash the ghost of your horrors past. Here's the dam erected against your proud feminist waves. I'm the consequences of your wayward life, wasted away on the altar of forbidden pleasures.

Now your vulva throws up the regurgitation of your whoredom in the form of your milk-like monthly discharge and your mouth spits hate against the object of your misery -- men. But your thighs were yours to either open or close. The blame was yours, owing to your being a woman of easy virtue.

Your chance of settling down slips. Each new day fastens the bolts to your despair and nairaland becomes the vent of that unimaginable frustration. And here you'd find me bringing it all to a quick end.

Living Legend! May your days be long

luminouz:
I laughed reading your responses to these girls.

You have energy oh. I fuqin don't.

I think that appetizer or pantanmi geh actually loves you. Never seen a girl go batshiit nuts abusing you like that. She went through your profile to dig some shiit up. She is struck bad. I laughed my head off when reading her insults.


It's Easter. Sup nigha? Make I come chop?

Happy Easter ma nigha

OvertheTop:
Guy. Don't Believe every story a Woman Tells U....

Even if your Sister was the one that was Guilty in a Quarrel with her Husband,
When she comes to Report to U, She will Make sure she twist the Story.... to Get You Angered and Involved

E.g....Me and my Husband were Quarrelling..... Suddenly He Started Saying: You.... my Brother Does Have any Work....That You are A beggar and a Bastard..... ( she will never mention what the Real Quarrel was About because she knows she is Guilty)

When She Tells You This, The Job is Done.....You will be on Her side 100%

You might even Go Violent for No Reason...And End up in Jail....Due to this Manipulation.

Always Calm down to Cross Check what Ever Story u Hear from them.

They are manipulative in nature. A man should never listen to them. Adam was punished for listening to a woman!

dangoteinlaw:
Salary 70k

naija is rubbish. People earn that in a day over here.

Women need help, not love. They are users!

Soffyh:
Have been running nairaland since 2014 , though they keep banning my previous account upandan, mainly for selling and buying but right now I will begin wifey hunt, love is sweet when you find right one, don't feel shy to reason with me

HRHQUEENPhil's

Soffyh:
Have been running nairaland since 2014 , though they keep banning my previous account upandan, mainly for selling and buying but right now I will begin wifey hunt, love is sweet when you find right one, don't feel shy to reason with me

madamVanessa

posty56:
when we talk now,them go say we hate Nigeria girls,I have said this over and over, that the only reason Nigeria girls are not showing their wh*rish side is because we're in patriarchal system, when we redpillers talk SIMPle men go call us bitter men ,while women go broke shame us , I have no pity for. any man way no one learn,is either you learn the easy way or the hard way

they are worst than Satan overseas. Men avoid them like plague in the West.

Prettygirl200:
Story!!! Las las u will go and Bleep somebody's wife I no just know how una take dey get mind dey Bleep person wife.

and the person wife go get mind open legs!

She's already cheating? How did she get the slot?
If you are close to a model, you'll understand!

Victerica:
Men are more wicked, than women these days!

So women used to be more wicked? Interesting.

Mindlog:
Have you thought of why some men prefer to train a lady through the university/polytechnic instead of going straight to marry ladies who are already graduates and need not spend on their schooling?

my uncles trained their wife's through the university, they were just being supportive. Nothing special.
Note; they were already married.

Before now, Men didn't really bother about the status of women. They could pick a nobody and make her a somebody. They called it love

Decreased sex drive and intimacy tend to be common as people age. Research has shown that sexual intimacy starts to decline as people grow older.

Awon " we still have some good ladies out there". SIMPle men will never learn!
Women are Users!

tonididdy:
My lovely Edo state and this useless Igbo child came to take one of our sons.


Meanwhile kudos to the ever gallant, vigilant vigilante men of EDO. More power to you all.


For the next Igbo miscreant that ones to come to Edo to commit mayhem, may the gods of the OBa of the great Benin empire strike you dead !

can anything good come out of Edo state? The State itself is a coven! Home to ritualists and land of armed robbers!

KingOfAllIgbos:
Chukwuebuka....

Usual suspects.

he grew up in the west.

COPIED.

THE SILENT PAINS OF A HUSBAND
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them, tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

apatheticme:
Of course it is "hear' to stay in your relationships and home since you are always permanently broke and will take out your frustrations on the women around you!

Confused human being!
Nor go face your fake hussling, keep crying in my mentions! Your tears are a delight for my pleasure.

Imagine selling covid-19 certificate for people who actually did not take the vaccine or test as a hussle. Why you nor go dey frustrated?? Now coming here to form obodo oyibo based, guy getat!

Imagine person career! How you nor go dey beat women?? Mumu!

'You hate being controlled, you are a Pisces blah blah blah". You're basically defined by hate!! Everything about you is hate! I hate this, I hate that. Women are not the cause of your frustrations bro!

White man's slave wannabe!!

drop points! I'll respond. Learn from Tonye and Mindlog

Skidee:
The foolish idiots on this platform will believe this nonsense story now.
This one that can't open small small biscuits and sweet shop for himself, is the one that will open pharmacy for somebody.
Ogbeni getat there.

This post reeks of fabricated lies lies. There's no ill thing he pinpointed the girl did to him, hence his abortion episode. Who does abortion in a federal hospital.
Oloriburuku somebody.

people buy medical reports from this hospital's without undergoing any test. What are you saying? This is Nigeria.

sharone21:
Oga, we know u didn't come to give any side of your story but to come spoil market for her so that she will be unmarriageable.

Y can't some people take NO when the other person is tired of their behaviour?

Na was o.

U are still unrepentant and still showing your evil side.

Coming out to denounce the wedding is NOT necessarily to expose your animalistic side but to tell people that she is officially not going to be married to u.

the lady in question brought their dirty linen outside, the guy only joined in the washing. If really the guy was abusing her, why wait for eight years? I know of a lady who dated a guy just to get iPhone from him. Women are users.

Mindlog:
Good you acknowledged you will be facing the consequences of killing her as you would feel emasculated ending the marriage with her so you will prefer murder.

some of these naija women ( if not all) you choose to defend are worst than the Caucasians. You know this.

apatheticme:
Save me from your cowardly ass bah??

Why do you like to just talk offpoint?? Too ashamed to accept the truth??

You go dey alright Las Las!!

you are far from reality. DV is here to stay and there's nothing you can do about it. If Chris brown can abuse Rihanna, then who are you?

Even the law can't save you, no one can.

Mindlog:
I am also in a location even on the receipt of the supermarket where I get my groceries, there is a helpline number to call if you are experiencing domestic violence but you are yet to answer my question of will you beat your Caucasian wife living there with you in the West if you deemed disrespected and provoked?

I'll will not hit her, I'll shoot her and face the consequences. People do it everyday.

One thing I mentioned earlier, if you can't obey the basic laws of marriage, then don't go into marriage.
One Igbo doctor was set ablaze by his ex, the guy died eventually, infact he knew he was going to die because of the degree of burn, another "only fans" Jezebel recently killed her partner.

Its now a matter of kill or get killed. That's the reality, let's forget about all these ideal situation or assumptions and focus on what's happening in our society.

If you check, you will see that majority of husbands die before their wives, what is killing these men?

1+1=2, you cannot add 1and 2 and expect the answer to be 2.
You made mention of the number on your receipt, this shows that even with the laws, DV is still prevalent.

apatheticme:
I just taya for this logical and unemotional guy, honestly!

He's the logical one, yet caps rubbish each time!

I smile when I see your comment.
No one is coming to save you, that's the reality.
You are helpless.

Mindlog:
Since location is a factor, let's assume you as a Nigerian man is married to a Caucasian wife and live in the West in a house you are paying the rent and you feel disrespected by her, will you beat her when she provokes you?

funny you brought this up,Like I said, there are Laws in the WEST but DV is still prevalent.
Kentucky has the highest domestic violence statistics in the United States, with 45.3% of women and 35.5% of men having experienced domestic violence.They even kill themselves.