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Hello everyone,

please who knows how i can obtain exemption letter from NYSC.

i graduated in 2001 and have not gone for youth service, my first posting was in Zamfara state in 2001. i could not go because of so many reasons, marriage, children and all.

now i am done with raising children, i want to go back to work, i need an exemption letter.

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thanks for your help!

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This is something ooo nairalander beware beware beware . I have check this same car before and the number I called said its in oregun a week later I saw it again and check on it they said its was in abuja now its benin ... Eh na wa oo is it a flying car....moderator Heeeeelllp

the car is in Benin pls. just like the poster said.

dont raise false alarm here and scare pple away. there is no scam.

i saw it last the day they took the car to Benin, it has never been taken to Abuja before.

How Much? put the price here, it will arouse interest

Put the price first< it will arouse interest

Nigerian used more expensive than the brand new

ok naaaaa

1. Tell your partner you love them.
Although it’s true that actions speak louder than words, words often speak more clearly than actions. Take a moment every now and then to verbalize your feelings for your partner. A simple “I love you” or “You mean the world to me” can go a long way towards making your significant other feel wanted, cared for, and secure in your relationship.
2. Show some affection.
Small acts of physical intimacy – the hand on the small of the back as you brush by in the hallway, your arm around their shoulder on the sofa, your hand on their thigh when seated side-by-side, holding hands while walking down the street – give your partner a warm feeling and convey the love and affection you feel for them. The littlest touch can be as important, or even more important, than the longest night of intimate intimacy.
3. Show appreciation for your partner.
Let your partner know on a regular basis what it is that you like most about them – what you admire, what makes you proud, what their strengths are in your eyes. Building a romantic relationship isn’t jsut about the initial bonding – it’s about encouraging and supporting each other’s growth over the course of your lives. Help your partner achieve his or her potential by constantly building them up.
4. Share yourself.
Don’t keep your likes and dislikes, dreams and fears, achievements and mistakes, or anything else to yourself. If it’s important to you, share it with your partner. More than that, be sure to share more with your partner than you do with anyone else. While there is certainly a need for some personal space in even the closest relationship, give as much of yourself and your time as you can bear to your partner.
5. Be there for your partner.
It’s obvious what you need to do when your partner faces a major life challenge like the loss of a job or the death of a loved one. But it’s just as important to be supportive when your partner faces life’s little challenges, too – an argument at work, a rough commute, a misplaced check. Don’t let yourself be a doormat, and definitely don’t stand for physical or verbal abuse, but thicken your skin a little and be the voice of calm and reason when chaos strikes. Listen to what’s bothering them and offer whatever help – even if it’s just sympathy – you can.
6. Give gifts.
Take advantages of opportunities to give material tokens of your love. Just the right book picked up at the bookstore, a special dessert, a piece of jewelry or clothing you noticed at the store – anything small or large that tells them you were thinking of them. Leave a love note for them, or send them an SMS at work to “I love you” – again, the little reminder that they’re always on your mind will help your partner feel better about themselves and secure in your relationship.
7. Respond gracefully to your partner’s demands and shortcomings.
A big killer of relationships is unreasonable expectations. Unless you married a robot, your partner comes pre-loaded with a whole range of human failures and foibles. These are features, not bugs! Learn to recognize and appreciate your partner’s quirks for what they are: an essential part of who they are as people. Since our weaknesses are often at the core of our deepest insecurities, make sure you don’t pick on or otherwise go out of your way to highlight your partner’s flaws.
8. Make "alone time" a priority.
No matter how busy both of your lives are, make sure you commit at least an evening every week or two to be alone together. Have new experiences, share your stories, and just generally enjoy each other’s company.
9. Take nothing for granted.
Cultivate a daily sense of gratitude for your partner and the thousands of little blessings he or she has brought into your life. Remember that, if you’re happy in your relationship, your partner is doing a thousand little things for you every day to make your relationship work (as, hopefully, you are for them). Never take that for granted – a relationship is work of the highest order, and the second you stop it starts to slide away.
10. Strive for equality.
Make sure you follow the Golden Rule in your relationship: do unto your partner as you would have done unto you. Strive for a fair division of household duties and other tasks, and don’t expect or demand special considerations you’d be unwilling to offer in return.

Exactly!

i inherited my hubby's jaloppy but a flying carpert 1993 BMW 325i as my first car.
used it for 2months, the AC got bad, i had to wine down all the time even when it is raining or bear the heat.

i told him am done with the car. dont know where and what he has done with that car now, each time i ask him abt the car, he will say he will tell me when the time is ripe.

he has promised me another one shaa, patiently waiting!

let her take folic acid< 1tblet per day, then Calcium tablet, vit c and Riboflavin, the baby will dis-appear after some time. no side effect, not harsh too.

all the best.

all names are fine shaa.

but the ones i hate: ...rat and ...cat
like: Bisirat & Bisicat
Monsurat & Monsucat


my heart aches for those names wallahi, lol

thanks. Will tell her that. She is rather disenchanted cos her efforts in this direction seemed not have yielded positive results. She called it quits with this kind of efforts esp when the MIL told her she will die a premature death. This is what made our father to wade into this issue. He sees involving himself in marital issue as improper.I inform her all the same. Thanks once more.

tell ur sister to limit the extent of involving u guys especially ur dad! it is very wrong, ur sis MIL will see it as family ganging up against her.

It will take a while. she has to be patient and do all i suggested showing sincerity of purpose.

U are most welcome.

Okay back to business, I'm sorry but short of being stealth with the cooking. . .I don't see what else you can do. It's not like you can beat him or punish him. If I were in your shoes I would use the same actions used to combat the African time problem with this. Lemme explain. . .you know how we, Nigerians, are notoriously late for any event. Something is supposed to start at 4, we get there at 10pm. So now people tell their guests the party starts much earlier than the real start time, calculating that by the time the guests get there, it will be close to the time the party actually starts.

Use the same formula. . .say you buy N3000 meat, put N2000 in the pot of soup. So even if he finishes the meat in the pot before meal time you still have plan B. When it is time to serve the meal. . .you whip out the N1000 and viola. . .everyone has meat and you all live happily ever after. grin grin

Good plan B. noted with thanks.

@ poster:
my nother inlaw is vey mean and hard too. but i conquered all with love, patience and showered her with gifts. i bot her oevr with lillte gesture and treats.
now she call me every time for slight headache and i will tell my hubby to do somethin.

my dear< tell ur sister to try it out< she will be amazed at hw her MIL will reciprocate the love and gesture.
its like magic.

my MIL doesnt visit the other children of hers as much as us, and u know what< i alswyas like her arnd, she pampers my children like anything. and when ashe is coming, i will prepare her favourite meal and then see loads of all the stuff she can get from the village for us including food stuff.


let ur sis try it. dont involve the hubby, let her go out of her way to satisfy her.
ask her what she will like to eat and prepare the food based on the womans choice.
each time she goes to d market, lether get no matter how small, N50 naora worth of stuff she will like, earings, take her to go and have a new hair do even before ur sister changes her own, believe me, she will start to fall in love with u.

when u are abt to go to church, bring out a matching haedtie and tie it for her, then give her a handbag and tell her its "to match".
encourage her to take hot bath and things u know is good for elderly women.

put on TV stations and ask her MIL if she likes those stations, explain to her MIL whats happening on those TV stations,
let her MIL be the one to carry the baby when they are going for immunization, church or little outings.

when ur sis is answering call from ur family, let ur father or other sis greet her MIL through ur sis phone to show her they love her.

i did all those and many more i cant even remember and today if i tell my MIL that i am having headache her battery will run down calling me every minute to check hw i am doing.

we told her we are coming homein August and she has announced it in the whole town...it can only be love my dear
Good Luck.

i would hv preffered a girl first, soon to become ur nanny * smiles*
but Gos gave me first 2boyzzzz
wishes not horses tough!

my husband is fond of taking meat from the pot of soup/stew after everyone had finished eating.

i asked him why he does that he said his moth is feeling somehow

when we were growing up, my mum used to beat our house help for taking meat from the pot, she said its a bad habit. now my hubby is doing the same thin.

The annoying part is that sometimes we may not have surplus meat, we will only hv enof to go round everybody for the meal times, and when he finishes eating the meat in the pot, the real meal time, if there is no meat left to serve the food, he will complain that u are serving food without meat, that it is not proper.

wives in the house, please is anyone feeling or experiencing same thing?

Hubby's in the house, pls what do u guys think i shld do?

pls don't abuse me ohhhhh! i am only saying my mind

can the car go for N500K? Cash ready

please tell everyone that the car air condition needs to be overhauled (fixed)

watch Cheaters on DSTV (e-africa (144) or Zone reality (12...)

there is something like love my dear, i found one and i am so glad i did!

when i was still dating my hubby, his ex was still chasing him, doing all kinds of things to get back his attention, always calling him, when i found out,i confronted him calmly and lovely and kindly, he told me that he was trying to manage it and discharge the girl so that i wont feel bad or embarrassed.

right in front of me, he called the girl and handed over the phone to me and the girl promised never to disturb our lives again, and that was how it ended.

my hubby told me we would hv ended it together if he knew it wld be easier that way.

my dear confront ur man gently and calmly, and sort it out together.

his reactions will convince u if something is fishhy or meattttyyy! Goodluck

because girls assume what does not exist for the guys.

girls fantasize a lot and live in dream world. a girl will consider a guy to be her boyfriend and even starts to behave like the guys future wife, meanwhile for the guy, the girl does not exist. the guys feels FREE and not in a relationship with the girl.

the truth of the matter is that the guy knows u r interested in the material benefits, so as long as u r satisfied with what he offers u r ok. u hv not told us that u love him, u only love the benefits and investments.

i dont see why u shld complain. if what hes offering is not what u want, let him know what u want. i am pretty sure u gave him the impression that u love what hes doing for u, so he's right, u cant judge him.

its up to you to make a decision on what to do.

yeah: in 2006 when my parents arranged family friends marriage stuff for me, i promised them i will come home that day, buh my boyfiend (who is now my husband) took me away and made sure i missed going. they came and waited for me the whole day, no body could reach me on the phone, all the food prepared wasted and my parents were mad. i returned home day after and asked my parents to return whatever they have collected from them, that i am not interested.

my parents forgave me when my hubby came for my introduction

There is nothing worse than living wit a stranger ι̊Ω marriage.
Its unfortunate u̶̲̅ married for the wrong reason, there is no communication ι̊Ω dat marriage,
That is one thing that is killing Ūя̲̅ marriage.
U̶̲̅ need to open open a good communication line wit Ūя̲̅ wife first,
Share everything and u̶̲̅ will see hw each of u̶̲̅ will begin to pick interest
Aπϑ even know what each one likes. Start from dat first, then ι̊Ω 3months time, ℓ̊ will let u̶̲̅ know
The next line of action.
All τђё best OP

ooopssss am in the wrong post.

abeg, only ashawo expects money from pleasure shared by both parties!!!

Second chance support abortion please, leave the MUMU guy, he will break your heart if u end up with him. he will even have several children outside ur family wit him, except u r ready to cope with all that stress? thank God u guys are not married yet for u to find how much his 3rd leg can dceive him. Mchhhhhhh

women ar the ones not happy in their marriages.


im married, i give all that marraiage requires of me, but my husband does'nt


because, he loves keeping girl friends. but its very hard for me to keep male friend. i cant
and its ssssssssooooo painful.

he is cheating on me seriously. i dont know what to do.
although , i ve told him that we need to go for court wedding, which he has refused to do over 6 years now.



Howevr, it has been my desire to serve my God, because all are varnity upon varnity.

i just want to have a good relationship with my God, but my husband attitude towards me is very very bad.

if he dies today, will i mourn for him? i dont think so, rather i will thank God for removing such A PROBLEM FOR ME.


ITS SO PAINFUUUULL

WHat i desire in my life is not what im getting in this marriage.

MY GOD IS GREATER THAN HIM

IM IN BONDAGE, GOD HELP ME

I TRY AS MUCH AS I CAN TO CONSOLE MYSELF, BUT SOMETIMES I LOOSE IT.

have you tried to go for counseling? dont you go to church? talk to someone u know he respects.

well i guess both of u married for wrong reason(s).
also it could be that you are not doing all u suppose to do, but u think u are giving in all required of ur marriage.

when did he start cheating? after ur marriage? have u changed in ur looks? well before i can go further, i am not blaming u for any reason yet, but the problem maybe with u. i dont know the details, so all is maybe this, maybe that. if u want to share with me, i can tell u what to do to win ur hubby back, a friend of mine confided in me , and today, she is enjoying her marriage. i gave her solutions that worked for her.