like i always say THE SMALLEST HANDCUFF IN THIS WORLD IS A WEDDING RING

that is why you will be very unhappy if you get married someday! wrong notion already.

in my own opinion: men that are unhappy in marriage probably married for the wrong reason and most women do not know the reason for the marriage or also married the men for the wrong reason.

partners should know WHY they are getting married in the first place, cos after the active sex life, only the companionship can sustain the marriage.

possible reasons:
1. Men that do not get sexual satisfaction from wife may be unhappy and tend to look for satisfaction outside.
reason: women believe that they help the man to release and that's all in sex and also for them to get pregnant , a lot of women do not enjoy sex, some men are also selfish not to understand their wife's sexual needs.
solution: sex is a mutual relationship. the guy if more experienced should help the woman and vice versa, if both are not experienced, they should watch films together or look for avenues to learn together so they can enjoy themselves and satisfy one another.

2. Men that are not being respected cos the woman is financially buoyant. a lot of women tend to loose their respect for their husband cos they make money to support the family, after all they do all the work for women in addition to making money for the family, so WHAT? even if the man is a bricklayer and the woman is a professor, as long as the man is treated with all due respect as the owner of the woman's head, he feels safe and his pride in tact and it makes him complete. once he makes all the decisions, then the woman has won the heart of her man.

3. Women loves being appreciated no matter how little even for doing their primary duty, if such appreciation and compliments are not coming, she feels the man is taking her for granted, and she will rebel. neglect will come in and a lot of stuff. the man starts feeling unloved.

4. physical appeal of a woman makes plays a lot of role in sexual appeal of a man. a situation where the woman after first child allows herself to be unkept, no longer take care of herself and keep herself in shape, the man gets turned off all the time, that can douse the sexual appeal of her man and the man unhappy ...

5. Children: women tend to divert a lot of attention to the children and the man will feel neglected. Very bad. The man gets the ultimate attention and will help u show love to the kids.

6. Communication: women that nag their husbands will only push them out. if they do not give you audience, be subtle in ur approach. Men that do not like to hear the side of story of the women will make the woman to nag. there is no excuse for a woman to nag. DONT NAG ur man ohhh. discuss, make jokes even nasty and crazy ones. share everything, no secret. ur wife should be able to pick ur calls and play with ur phone and vice versa so that there will be mutual trust. tell her what u feel and how u feel and what u want. take ur Place. IT UR RIGHT mr MAN. also u shld listen to what ur wife wants and is complaining about. free and constant communication makes a good home.

7. and a whole lot. don't hv enough time now to finish up, maybe later. got to prepare my hubby's delicacy, TGIF... great night coming...cant wait **winks..

over priced!

Over priced!

you just re-echoed my discussion with some of my colleagues.

well done bros.

i hope the messengers, assistants and advisers crew of Jonathan will deliver this piece to him

** crying...***

How much?

UNN: year one Ziks Flat: dilapidated and about to collapse. but lively, happenings never a dull moment< water light in abundant but u have to bike or cab to school everyday.

from 2nd - final year: Mary Slessor: the best hostel on campus. 4 in a room. very neat, proximity, water and light, nice roomies et all.

started from N2,500 per session to 5k per session as at 2005 when i graduated, dont know about now.

miss those dayssssssssssss

@Op, mine is Éçhíçhä; Ötípì. You can equaly add Okpa and coke.

you must be from Nsukka senatorial Zone heh? i schooled at UNN so i know Éçhíçhä; Ötípì and Okpa! lolZ!

thanks all for ur varied opinions, comments and suggestions.

she finally came around on sunday and we discussed. i first told her to go and talk to someone she knows the husband respects, she agreed.
secondly, i asked her if she is in pains and whether the man truly loves her, she confessed to me that love is not their problem, they really love each other. i figured out that the problem would most probably the fact that the husband is not able to meet up with his financial obligations.

The husband has been apologizing since the day after the last beating occurred, i told her to forgive him if she wants him back, but to make sure they go for counseling, she agreed. she wants her marriage to work and she confirmed that the husband is not cheating in any way.

no marriage is filled with roses my dear friends even mine, i believe that some of the challenges will make couple stronger, i real;ly do not support domestic violence, but i think the husband has temper issue which the wife confirmed.

Prayer is also key and i asked her to be more prayerful.

Hey pees, comments, sugessions pls! Let's help a sis out!

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Candid advice needed pls. She will see ♏ε̲ on sunday, ℓ̊ need suggestions on what kind of advice to give her.

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Goodluck!

Hi:

Just additional details of requirements:

(1) Accounts officer - graduate with not less than 5yrs experience and computer literate (2) Business Development executives -graduates on any field with at least 2yrs working experience (3) Supervisors - at least Diploma qualification

Goodluck!

A newly established Gaming company is recruiting graduates, ND holders in any field as
Supervisors

U must be living in Enugu as there will be no accommodation allowance for people living outside Enugu.

If you are interested, forwards your CV to:

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You can refer others who are interested. i got the info from a friend who has been recruited.

I am not sure what the pay is like so that people will not start asking, but am sure it will be a good start for a life in Enugu and also offer opportunity for u to empower urself.

Goodluck!

At least Dbanj works for his money and he does not scam ppl with fake miracles like many of these naija pastors .Whats the difference b/w a pastor and a yahoo yahoo boy

i wonder ohhhhhhhh! since when did bling become a sin? if the so called pastor sees bling as a bad thing, what abt his private jets, expensive cars and luxuries? are they not vanity as well? 419ner!

@horny4u if you read my views from a non religious point then maybe you will get my point. Am not a religious person. The church is a holy place and even if dbanj wants to perform he should abide by the rules. A smoker no fit waka enter church with cigar for hand cos his a smoker and cos the church wants to win his soul; no! Am not a fan of the pastor or the musician. We should learn to respect rules . Tell me Why do people respect the 'no smoking ' sign on planes?

Is there any sign that people should not wera bling to the so called holy place?
Abeg, the self acclaimed pastor is vague and a hypocrit. why invite D-banj?

This is indeed the sensible thing to do. Cut avenues for waste and channel funds to where they are needed. Ride on. Fashola.

Sensible post.

Fashola is the only Gov with realistic plan on measures to take to still keep up with good work while implementing the minimum wage. Even the president is clueless.

Fash 2015 (for six yrs of single term)!

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Cowbell ogbonge miliki

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will post others if possible

tnx

OK, I read this all the time and I wonder how many people have so far been prosecuted for FRAUD. Or is it just to remove dummy records? Who put them there and who had been benefiting from them?

good question!

moreso, hw has that benefited the poor masses suffering? if u remove them, the politicians will have enough to steal.
i weep for this country!

I think you are wrong, there is nothing wrong with starting from a place like this, she will have to build on any allegation made here, i don't think she is going to publish an article solely on hear-say.

People are more likely to open up in a place like this than she walking into any school in Nigeria to interview students.

she is already promising to publish on hear say.
then again it makes no impact: is she going to publish what we hv heard that exist or to make investigation and solve a problem? which of them do u think would make impact?

she is probably looking up to filling his pages by writing a lot of things and actually doing nothing.

That's not part of ethics of Journalism. u can find out abt that.

Dream without plan!
How can we give u any suggestions? answer the following questions first:
1. Are u educated? to what level?

2. Which course?
3. What do u have passion for?

4. What are ur natural talents or potentials?
5. what is ur background? (affluence, influence and the likes)

6. what r u doing presently?

after that, then we can take if frm there.

No Idea! am out of here!

Hi, Narialanders, I am a journalist that covers Education for Business Hallmark Newspapers. Do you have any kind of complain whatsover about what is going on in your school that you think the public should know about, or about the education system? If you do, just post it, I will make it public if you want.

wrong footing in journalism
how can u verify that the stories u will get here is true? it is journalist like u that seat on their desk and spread rumors and false stories around with undisclosed source.
don't be lazy, go to field (Schools) and observer happening with pictures and evidence, source for stories (happening) interview the people involved with names and evidence, then publish in ur so called newspaper.

i will try and be reading ur newspaper ans ur section, shld i see any 'fake story from u, then i will come after u.

dont sell journalist so cheap pls.

Only fake professing christian who happens not to practise islam kills. No true christian kills, but u are a fake muslim if u don't kill. The truth is that all these yoruba muslims are fake and the true muslims are the Osama bin ladens of this world. Go and read the book "Who is this Allah?" u will understand better that a muslim that does not kill is fake and christians and muslims don't serve the same God. Its all in their quoran.

u r correct, but that doesn't mean we shld not stand against Christians that kill, it is not in our doctrine or teaching or morals. that should be condemned.

@ poster:

you need to conduct a NEED ASSESSMENT SURVEY by any research agency in Nigeria. the problems of the people will be much peculiar to the state and the area and also get opinion of pple who dont have access to the internet (ABCDE socila class represented)
that is the best way to knjow what the people want and where governor shld focus and make impact.

only those wearing the shoes knows where it pinches them

some nairalanders in Enugu are giving u suggestions for Kwara state, it may not be the case.

i can suggest some research agencies if u r interested to know.

This self acclaimed man of God is one of our major problems in this county. Gosh, i feel like strangling him and his loud mouth with empty brain!.

Was this the same pastor who was attacking Tinubu?

he is the same one. loud mouth! what has he said abt the bombings by his political Godfather?

Prophet of Doom. Not even one of his millions of prophesies has come to pas.

i pity gullible Nigerians that pay tithe to him to sponsor violence in this country indirectly.

No-one expected Buhari to win in the South South or South East. No-one also expected Jonathan to score higher votes there than the total votes scored by the Governors and their competitors combined. That is where the massive rigging occurred.

Take Ohakim VS Okorocha, they both combined got a total vote of about 600,000 , whereas Jonathan scored over 1.1million he alone. How is this possible where even Ohakim alone is more popular than Jonathan in that state.

The same thing happened in all the South South and South East states.

We can keep lying to ourselves, but the truth is, we did not have an election, not to even mention free and fair.

Olodo! how many people turned out to vote on the day of Governorship election? and how many came out to vote for presidential?

do the maths on no of voters for each election day and compare the figures.

Pessimist like u will always feel cheated and never seems somefin good.

@ Poster, i think u should find out why your wife is refusing to Be Intimate with you. Maybe that will be a clue as to why she does not have respect 4 u.

the poster never mentioned anything like the bolded pls.

Divorce shouldn't be an option.Everything has a solution,first keep your extended family members out of this,find way to parcify them so that the healing process of there getting to accept your wife agian will begin. Then sit your wife down and loving have a talk with her,you may take her out to dinner or somewhere romantic,but let her know you love her,then talk to her,not accuse,let her know how she makes you feel by her behaviour and tell her you are willing to support her to change,find out about her childhood,there could be clues as to what shaped her behaviour,in talking to her find out what is frustrating her,is there something you are doing she doesn't like,please the key is not to flare up or get angry the focus is to get a solution,remember you have a son,this is your family and you are responsible to keep your family together,well and happy.

Pray before you talk to her,pray with her and pray for her,eventually she will need to apologise to your family member.

Wish you all the best.

i think i agree with these suggestions! At poster, u may consider.

he has not promised any point agenda,
meaning 'good governance' is his one point agenda! lol!

when i was still dating my husband, someone i dont even know sent me an intimate sms, i had to answer query to xplain the text & the sender.

we had to call the sender and he apologized to my husband that it was wrongly sent.

it can be very implicating though!