₦airaland Forum

Jabioro:
Funny aspect of the crazy bill, if you ask them how they arrived at total. The mail man or the useless marketer would said it is coded estimate How can you been paying for you use or understand..

lol,its approved NERC methodology

Zane2point4:
Very wicked people, how can i be paying 10k every month just a 2 bedroom flat?

All dis money dem dey recover from politicians why not use am pay electricity bill for nigerians sef, atleast make citizens feel a sense of belonging.
I just give up on nigeria.

I actually feel your pains

admax:
EEDC is owned by wealthy individuals from the East and Enugu House of assembly has no power to order them out of the state.

Even though I would love fg to take over distribution companys cos my salary will skyrocket immediately,the poor management we experienced then will be joke if all those corrupt practices don't get to be stopped.Some layed off workers won't have mercy this time.

sarrki:
When you marry your friend as wife
If you marry an enemy
Then it will be hell on earth

So true

Destined2win:
Irrespective of all these discouraging news, I still strongly believe that marriage is a fantastic union and I am going to have one.

Again , I refuse to be discouraged!

I will follow you my dear

dotcomnamename:
Stop following yahoo boys, dem no go hear.
Stop partying, dem no go hear.
Stop dating married men, dem no go hear
Stop dating sugar daddy, dem no go hear
Stop clubbing, dem no go hear.
Stop joining bad gangs, dem no go hear.
Live your life codedly dem no go hear.
Don't do pass yourself, dem no go hear.
Dem go won belong.
Dem go won feel like queen slayer.
Dem go won be the latest big girl in town.
Dem won cruze with big boys wey get Bugati.
Their mates dey pursue career, doing correct business, some dey school.

Exactly.

campusflavour:
Do you know that some slay queens reading this information today will still go to a party tomorrow with some Unknown men, I wish should be found safely, but ladies please be careful and know the people u r going out with, don't want to loose u girls to ritual killers

Exactly.Met one that promised me heaven on earth,Iphone 6,only to follow him to his house lol. If only he knew contentment is my motto lol.He later called me childish and slim witch lol.

Self-esteem refers to the opinion you have for your own self. If you feel you’re competent and kind, good looking, or capable of doing things, this is a sign that you have high self-esteem.

But, if you have negative opinions about yourself and feel that you cannot do your tasks like others do or do not look good, you have low self-esteem. Sometimes, low self-esteem becomes the cause of anxiety and depression.

Therefore, self-esteem refers to how you think about your own self, how worthy you think you are and how much importance you give to yourself. It’s not about bragging about yourself, but knowing that you can do your best, even if you’re not perfect.
 
The Importance of Self-Esteem

It’s unfortunate that only a few people know the important role that self-esteem plays in their lives. The success that you have in your career depends on the effort that you invest in it. Also, the amount of effort that you invest depends on the level of trust that you have in yourself for successfully achieving your goals. Simply, if you do not believe in yourself that you will succeed, you never will. Besides, it’s next to impossible to get better business opportunities or career promotion if you lack self-esteem.

Low self esteem is often the main reason for disappointments in relationships. People with poor self-worth often experience difficulty in getting along with their partners, it as well as affects their sex life. People with negative images about their selves often feel distrust, jealousy, and problems with intimacy. Some indications of poor self-esteem include the following:

•    Feeling of extreme jealousy 

•    Loss of decision making abilities 

•    Feeling of not being respected and cherished by their loved ones 

•    Developing a sense of dependence on others even on simple things 

•    Always feel pressured while doing tasks 

•    Display of excessive anger over simple misunderstandings 

•    Too much worry 

•    Frustration 

•    Feeling helpless 

•    Poor performance at school or the workplace 

It’s extremely difficult to experience the joy of life if you have negative thoughts about yourself. If you always feel negative and have low self-esteem, you’ll never realize your success potentials and you’ll never feel happy in life. Even if things around you are perfect, you’ll never have the chance to enjoy them if you always have negative ideas about your own self.

How Self-Esteem Can Change the Life of a Person

A person with high self-esteem sees everything in a positive view and always feels confident and enjoys life. Even if hardships and difficulties come his way, he sees it challenges and never backs down. If you have high self-esteem, you’ll feel confident.

You will not allow other people to treat you in the wrong way or take advantage on you. All people experience ups and downs at some point of their life and it is ok. However, this doesn’t mean that you should back down and have low self-esteem. If you always have the feeling of not being worthy of something, you’ll never have the courage to try new things and succeed in life.
 
If you feel that you have low self-esteem, you do not need to worry too much as there are ways you can get rid of it and build self-confidence. Jot down the things that make you feel good about yourself, the things that you have done, and the compliments that others have given to you and this will make you feel good about yourself. If you’re an office person, stick notes to your computer or desk “I’m doing well” or “I can do it”.

These messages will be absorbed by your mind. Everyone is gifted with the power to do great things. Everyone is worthy and see to it that you keep these things in mind. Soon, you’ll feel confident and happy.

Happy married life.Hapiness will be in your household often

Vicyace:
No power, and you get to pay more for the epileptic supply.
You dig your borehole or buy water for consumption.
Cost of food is skyrocketing on a daily basis.
Security concerns dry there. Police will extort you and claim they are your friend.

Why won't someone think of renouncing naija citizenship for a better citizenship

You cannot keep running away from Your root.

blackberlin:
Sometimes I don't blame someone like this. A lot of people don't enjoy anything as citizens of Nigeria. But I know there's hope for Nigeria. . . The more people wake up and hold politicians and public office holders responsible for their actions, the better for us all.

We really need to spring up. . . Nigeria has great potentials with its vast population of hardworking and innovative citizens.

Just give us electricity in Naija, as in... South Africans will come and be washing plates here (no offence S/A).

You are right

Aderola15:
Ma Nigress


Sweetilicious, let no man take away your happiness and sanity... You deserve the best and only one person can give you that, YOU.

Thank you girl.

Odunharry:
Don't generalise dear.. Chances are that he's very busy and the kind of job he does do should be taking into consideration.
You also needs to check your actions in the past too.

I have always been in the relationship. Yeah his job is that kind.Bit I know how a guy tries so hard to communicate with someone he wants even in his busy schedule. I think the only answer is that he feels there is nothing new in me again.He wants someone new that he will see new things in.Things he feels will sweep him off his feet.But I know he doesn't know what drives me.I am fine now.

TheLordIsGr8:
Take heart.

Thank you

kimbra:
Aww, this touched me. Don't feel used dear!, just move on if he isn't serious with you.

How do one have positive mindset about moving on again.Pls help me. I do help others but am so helpless now.My mind is so empty.I wish I can have the strength to write down everything am feeling now.Writing down helps me to forgive immediately but I don't have strength.

No i haven't.You should forgive always cos nobody is perfect.Quick to anger maybe cos they are hurting.I will understand cos they are human.But extreme anger is dangerous.Breaking things is also dangerous

Odunharry:
4 and 7 so true..
As a lady, once a guy keeps telling you he is so busy for you,(Staying for weeks without calling )try as much as possible to talk to him.

High chance he has lost interest.

Thank you so much.My heart is at peace now. I had many questions lingering for answers.I feel so cheap and used.I feel so bad now.

Oh my!This just came at the right time.Am being called a liar for always having bad network in my room.

Congratulations

I just want to let people know that Igbos love themselves.Forget all these myth

I will not take this near my child.Wont joke with them atall

Rapsowdee01:
Everywhere i go... Bbnaija... What's all these craze ? ..... I remember when 2Baba called a protest... We were not this outspoken ooo.... Ok.. to all those wasting thousands of naira to vote for their favourite contestant..... Wetin una go gain.... Some people even craze so tey dem print Banner, do pamphlets... Do billboard.....
This country can never grow if we the youths continue like this ooo.... Instead of us to support those ones building stuffs and making us proud with their academic excellence... We dey here dey shout on top show wey no teach us shingbai.....
We these youths stupid small sha..... If person talk say he no wan go school now... Una go dey shout....
How person go wan go school when e be say people wey go school go get maths set as gift and person wey open breast wey dey give another person mouth action, wey dey drink like say he no get brain na dem we dey celebrate..... We don kill the good image of education for this naija ooooo....
Abeg make we wise up.... All of us patapata... Me sef join stupid ooo... Because i don do some irrational things wey no add to personal iQ....
Abeg...... Abeg... Make we change....
Ese, daalu, na gode, thank you, gracias.....

Where are all the likes?

Jh0wsef:
"I THOUGHT YOU WERE YOUR DOG"




THIS GIRL BAD OHH

Your shoes have funny looks like laughter

LordIsaac:
At last! A clear dearth of parental discipline and home training.

lol but true

damton:
"It does makes my ass looks great"
Na so e dey start.
From there ,you'll hear i feel like I'm in a wrong body

Lol you are funny

firstking01:
I hate ladies with big tummy

She is pregnant not big tummy

Saintsammurai:
A car for a present, do not mean she is lucky.

she can only be lucky if the husband is GOD fearing, loyal and committed to her only..

Exactly

CellTabRepairs:
Lol
Survival in life depends on you not on your pocket!

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Exactly

SuperSuave:
They both suck. As much as I dislike Yemi I must admit she's more successful compared to miss white.

You are not serious

Bumbae1:
Whatever makes them happy ! Lovely pics

I tell you.

VickyRotex:

See Marketing Strategy!
#KeepTheChange!

Yeah.

Lordkylie:
spot on dear I have never subscribed and never will to that school of thought. I mean why keep these so called boyfriend "snatchers" as friends in the first place? I'd rather not have friends than have backstabbing biatches as friends and continually hide everything good in my life from them before they destroy it.

Seriously true.I have a very good friend who is so close to my life.It surprised me the day she mentioned that she would snatch my boyfriend from me if we broke up.My eyes opened so wide.She mentioned it another day then i knew she is no good.Like saying she can get any guy she wants anytime.Those kind of girls,you just know their heart is not good at all