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Kingluqman:
Fear dey catch you

My brother,I will not lie.It hasn't been easy to process.

Privatepart00:
@ https://www.nairaland.com/sweetilicious
Why is this one pretending to care about the animal?
You are only angry he didn’t spend quality time with you ( self centered girl).
He would have left their business to hang out elsewhere with you.
You are only caring about yourself not him.
You decided to date him on 22nd December 2020?
And you are already asking him to take you out
Since the other guys didn’t come through for you.
Just wish the guy sees the kind of person you are and end things with you.
You didn’t stay awake to pray for the victims of #endsars protest# it is for an animal you are trying to deceive us about.

Please learn how to read meaningful meaning into people's complaint.Give a sound advice if you can.Thank you so much.

There is this guy am going out with lately.I just agreed to date him on the 22nd dec 2020.He has been chasing me since may 2020. I came back from Christmas holiday which was spent with my family.Excitedly,I told him I wanted us to go out and spend some quality time together. Unfortunately,the quality time was spent in the hotel he manages, actually owned by the family. I had no problem with the option because I understand the business acumen for it. We didn't even spend the quality time as he was so busy putting things in place. We left by 12.43am.I wasn't happy but I swallowed it. Going home,we saw two dogs jogging home by the side of the road,not blocking anybody nor crossing.This guy cruelly ran into them from the back.They were shouting and crying.I too was shouting.It was like a movie.He then said he thought they would run away.How could they have.The road was so spacious and empty to accommodate his car. He later stopped as soon as he found out I wasn't pleased.But moved on driving and apologizing. I have a lahsa Apso in my house.He has been nice to her all the while before now.I fear am with a strong hearted man.He is sleeping by my side now but I still can't sleep.I have been wondering the pains those dogs could be in.I wish Nigeria really valued animals except cows and chickens. Now, I don't think he is really sorry.He is pretending it. I fear he can kill without any remorse. I don't know if it's enough to opt out. Please I don't know what to do.I don't seem to believe in him again. Mod please move this to the front page.I need opinions devoid of excuses for such a misbehavior. Thank you.

So my brother will not make it for the burial?

Draslo:
This guy's achievements just continue to disgrace Tonto Dike back to back.


If I were this guy, I'd just get custody of my son

His achievement na for him and his family.Tonto has moved on likewise Churchill.Stop having headache on top another person matter

coolcharm:
Hmmm... Ladies be wise o.

The people that instigate you against men all in the name of feminism and all that rubbish are all busy booking d.ick appointments up and down.

Are you aware that people donate sperm.I know a hospital where even white men's sperm are sold in.

The thing is that some black men because of low self-esteem thinks that white women are the ones with real love for them.

I haven't recovered fully from my loss.I miss my daddy.He Left us last month

ATEAMS:
tell people how you feel about them. literally. if someone made you smile today, tell them. if a thought crosses your mind about how much someone means to you, tell them. i’m 99.9% sure the recipient will be overjoyed to know that they were thought of in such a positive light. your words and your actions make a difference.

You are right.life can be so short

The most important thing in marriage is peace.If the old woman loves him and he loves her,then good and congratulations.We don't have much time on earth.Do you and be happy

Samakus:
Lolz. Alright. Will like to send you a message but I can't access my Nairaland email. Can you help? My siggy

Am not looking for a man

Samakus:
Everyday, more reasons to be scared even the more.

Dear Lord, is any sane one remaining?

I am same.My motto is on man all the time.

Akalia:
Sad. It is hard to blackout the good memories of a dead loved one. My dad's keep flashing from time to time, sometimes I cry when the flashes happen.

Me too

Op, your cousin doesn't love the girl.Forget all those wash.You and I know that he will be getting married to a white old woman.Stop deceiving yourselves

If two people decide to forgive themselves totally and how to take a new leaf in their marriage,it should be allowed.Marriage is never easy

You and I know that you will marry a white woman for you to be able to survive once you travel.Leave and don't marry abeg.Its selfishness.

America will know

emkz:
I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity. We were not married but things had been done towards that like introduction and trad before kasala burst. I was happy kasala burst before we went farther.

For anyone who wants to get married, by all means do so...but marry for the right reasons. You first need to understand yourself and your own limitations. If your aim is to have children, perhaps a contractual arrangement suffices. Unfortunately, many marriages today are not different from service contracts: I will provide shelter, food and security while you provide pussy when I want it and how I want it, and you must not provide it to someone else. Or I am marrying you because society expects and would respect me to be married as it shows I am responsible.

The Dutch Prime Minister is single.

Or I'd marry you only because I love you. These are wrong reasons to be married. For a potential spouse, look at compatibility, companionship, communication, character and charisma. Exude these qualities yourself and you shall find it in your potential partner. Love will fade, the butterflies in your stomach shall die, your partner shall irritate you, what then would hold your marriage?

The stories of wayward men and women are told everyday on this forum. Don't let them deter you. There are very good men and women from very good homes who are responsible to be wifed or husbanded. I know this because all my sisters have been married for years and no one has come to report that they have issues with them.

Don't go looking for a wife. Develop yourself and have the values of someone husbandable, creation will link you to your spouse.

In closing, my question to you is:

Why exactly do you want to get married? Are you truly convinced of the answer you give yourself?

perfect

moscobabs:
Aburo, don't allow any motivational speaker to decieve you, just try your best to be ok bfre 30. Everybody has his/her own time,when ur time reach everything will work for you perfectly.

I built my house at 28,Married at 30 and buy my first car at 31, everything was good till I clock 35. Today things are not working well for me, no friend or family member to help,I'm just thanking God for life and the type of wife he gave me.

Tommorow is not promising, just try ur best and enjoy ur life as it come, but pls never depend on Education,get a vocational skill.God is your strength bro

exactly

I would prefer a man with whom I pray together with.Am not going to build the foundation alone dragging your coconut head everyday.Its not mY PORTION Nor my wish.Thank you

Contact me if you need genuine Land in Ebonyi state

RedPanthar:
It's your sister my spirit picked sef without knowing her portfolio

okay

RedPanthar:
I like that your elder sister with two kids. She sounds like someone who can make solid decisions when called upon. Of not her, pick someone whom you feel would make solid decisions on your behalf when called upon

The next person I had in mind travelled to UK this year for studies.My sister can but am looking at the fact that she is married.They equally have lots of investment.

I am a single lady.Been working hard since to become something.I got 2plots of Land in my name.Survey has been done.I don't have a child.With the death of my father last week which I swear is still taking a huge toll on me.I have always been lost in thought.I don't know how to move on.It really hit me so hard. I use to use my parents as my next of kin.Sometimes my elder sister.But this is my first long-term investment.Do I use our last born who is in 200level or my elder sister who is married with kids. I kept it a secret but I now want everyone to know cos life can be too short.Please I need answers.My lawyer needs my response.

TRUSTY sleeping without worries

If she gives you peace,abeg stay where you are.Age is just a number.My ex got married to an older woman and they are living in peace.Marriage is more than some things that single people don't understand till they get in. The most important thing is your peace and love being intact.Forget societal acceptance and live your life.Life is too short.

good

Yes I have.I truly liked this person.

MIRACOOD1:
Dude just made history.
Imagine the number of white pucci this niqqq will be swiffing daily

Meanwhile

Follow my signature to get 200# awoof airtime.

Except he wants to finish his reputation

LikeAking:
The best time to find a woman that will truly love you/good wife is during your secondary schools day.

I and lots of people made this big mistake. I wish I can turn back the hands of time.

Make the best out of where you are.Stop the regret

blazepascal:
your daughter is a lesbian and you are happy with that. charly boy your days are numbered.

Live and Let Live