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Wow! This thread don show say differents levels of people dey dis NL. Na wa o! Some people dey collect 8 gallons of oil, live chiken 13th month salary, hampers, etc, while some people have not even been paid up to 3 months salary! haba! I dey beef una o! Well, mine gave us a bag of rice and two gallons of oil. Although they could do much better than that sha. Dem pack all d beta give awon managers, snr managers, and executives. ![]() |
Occupy Nigeria protesters abegi! It was after that protest that faces and figures in corruption were made public. We started knowing WHO stole and WHAT and HOW MUCH they stole. That's a very giant step taken in our fight against bad leadership |
I will vote Jonathan. Because it is under his very watch that people like farouk bribe, steal, kill AND get away with it scott free. |
fried-rice:LMAO! |
fried-rice:My dear! Na so so billions we just dey hear since that man assumed power. @ least during other tenures we were hearing millions but since the day that man came in, na billions here and there. The thing is even rolling into trillions little by little We are in deep shit! |
Mutumdaya: It is gowon,he killed more than 3million future leaders in his so called civil warWe are talking about corrupt people here and not war mongers. It's a close call between IBB, Abacha, and Jonathan. Obj is next after them. |
Shollypopz: Where did she say everyone has called Onila fake??Leave him or any other person alone. He knows very well that I didn't generalize. He knows why he has joined the league of bashers (and I also know) I will leave him to feel free to say whatever he likes. This thread is for Onila and I will not give any attention-hungry element a drop of my attention on this thread. I'm only waiting for Onila to come and honor the thread then I'm outta here. |
Onila! Been tryn to pm you but got blocked for some reason. Also I started a thread in your honour, apologizing to you for calling you fake and sayn you try too hard in my slum. But the thread was deleted. I'm so sorry dear! So so so so sorry dear! Iv realized my mistake. #big hug |
I feel so ashamed of myself for calling you fake and accusing you of tryn too hard in my NL slum. I take back my words because I v realized that it's a million times better to be in the company of a million Onilas than to be with one average Nler. You may appear naïve @ times, but you certainly aren't venomous. And come to think of it, you really are not fake cause you ve always been consistent and true to your xter unlike some people here who are holy mary one minute and queen bit.ch the next! Or Mr. nice guy to some particlar girls but son-of-a-bit.ch to other girls. Also you hardly insult people, I v never even seen you do even when people are blasting you! Iv learned that from you so Iv decided you deserve the honour of a thread dedicated to you to show how sorry I am. I hope others will also start appreciating those things about you now. So so so sorry dear! #big hug |
flinspiero: @sweetlemon...I personally dnt like d idea of u making dis kind of thread in a public forum,wat kind of advice do u wish to get 4rm peeps.Does it mean u dnt hav gud frnds u can discuss dis wit?.Yes I understand your point, I have friends, but I just wanted more tips from anonymous people. If I hadn't gotten one or two very strong tips here, I would have regretted bringing it here. |
I just felt maybe I should REALLY explain what I meant by loaded people and the details they look into that average people over-look. Pls this piece does not in any way whatsoever belittle average people. Just trying to point out the differences. These are some examples; Some loaded guys like ladies who have organizing skills. From what I know of people like that, this is a MUST HAVE. This is because should the lady become their wife, they will need her morale support in organizing and running their often large households, (maids, drivers, cooks, gardeners, etc) also she should be able to oversee and monitor what goes on in the man's other houses and properties cos the man will be too busy to do most of these and he will not just want to leave everything in the hands of agents. Now how many properties, maids, drivers, gardeners do average people have? So you can see why that will not be top on their list when choosing a partner. Secondly, some rich people host business-related functions. Now a good party hostess will come in handy. Therefore a lady with social etiquette and graces will appeal to them. (This is also part of organizing) Now how many business-related parties does an average man host in a year?? Most Classy, loaded men like charismatic ladies. Ladies who carry themselves well, confident, intelligent, self-assured ladies who are also good (not necessarily expensive) dressers. For a man who does business, a lady with an idea of how such business runs is an added advantage cos he will like to discuss business plans with her to get either her support or advice. (Someone mentioned this earlier and Iv marked it !) Someone else also mentioned cleanliness and I have marked that down. Although poor, average, and rich men like neat ladies the same way. However, it will be an added advantage for the rich ones. |
Sybellah: @ op, I was wondering, what made you think the guy is not as happy as you areThank you so much for your insult-free advice. I really appreciate. But you seem to miss where I pointed out that I have always and will always be myself. I don't treat the guy differrently from other guys. I treat everyone same. What I'm trying to explain is that I want to make things sweeter btw us. Make him happier than he presently is. I don't know if you know very loaded people but people like that look into certain details that financially average people over look. I'm sure of it's cos iv been around diff kinds of people. Now what I want is to be able to know what these details are (maybe I already have those things and that's why the guy likes me too) but I just want to find out more so I can develop myself better. Iv tried so so so hard to explain myself and I just can't for the life of me understand why some people are not getting me! |
For all the people here who have accused me of one thing or the other. If you guys are right so be it! But if you guys are wrong, then may the God of justice who has always fought on my behalf rise up and scatter all of you. AMEN! (There is a limit to how you can push people to the wall and you guys have passed your limit) |
chronique: I neva knew u existed until u contested for miss nl. I voted u,tot u were classy n dats y I even mentioned d video thing to u. I used to respect u up until dis night. The moment u tried pullin dat fake stunt abt PMs,u lost it. It's obvious u were just tryna smear me but unfortunately,u missed. I'm on a different plateau baby. Your future is my past,I've been dere before. U only succeeded in showing me how shallow u are tonite. U're talkin abt me formin self righteous;how? Are u sure u dnt need urgent medical attention? Cos d way u talk really scares me. Are U really askin wat miss nl n ur luv life got in common? Maybe wen u explain wat my comment on ur thread has to do wit d PMs we exchanged abt d video jobs,then I myt understand. It's obvious someone's head needs to be checked here n dat person aint me. Pls take a look in d mirror nd see if u're d one.Here you go again! YOU STARTED IT! You started the insults with your very first post here. It's like sitting in your own house and someone coming in from no where to insult you? Why did you bring miss nl in your 1st post? Why? Why? Why? Can't you advice without insults How dare you now expect me not to give you back your own medine ? How dare you? |
shymexx: I've deleted the post..Excuse me, but quote the post where I mention my looks and tell me if it wasn't in response to what someone said!!!! Must you find something to critcise about someone ![]() |
Kirinwa: Sometimes I find it hard convincing myself that what we have here are people's husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles etc judging from the petty posts and comments!My dear! I'm so shocked! |
Goldieluks: Chronique be a man and put an end to this long epistle of what transpired between you both in private. Let it remain private.Chronique came in here, and lamblasted me in his post. Did you see how he insulted me? So because I decided to respond and give him back his own medicine I'm the bad one! What kind of injustice is that Did you see how freecocoa and co lamblasted me earlier just because I was trying to explain myself? THEY were the ones who didn't want to take correction. They kept going on and on even when it became so obvious that I was tryn hard to ignore them!!!!!!!! They are the I-too-know people talking about something they know nothing about. The way they were going on and on it became so obvious they were either jealous or unable to read and understand. It's just as simple as that. If you want to advice people, why do it with insults and expect your advice to be heeded? Hello? Who died and made you guys judges over people's lives ![]() |
ITbomb: SMsmallH for our young girlsI tried so hard to ignore them! I really don't like quarrels of any kind, serious! ![]() But some people here are so damn provoking, pure professionals, never met such people in my entire life!!!! Meeen! Some mothers really do have em' |
@chronique, how dare you start forming self righteous just because I gave you back your own medicine Do you have idea how hurtful your first post wouldav been if I weren't so deliriously happy Why bring up that on-line Miss NL pageant into a real life thread What is the relationship btw miss nl and my love life![]() How dare you? I remember correctly that Redmosquitoe did not vote for me but I mentioned his name almost thru out in my slum as one of my most favourite people. So what do you guys have to say about that? The next person who brings up that pageant when I post again will not find it funny @ all. I promise you that. |
duni04: Pride comes before downfall. Can't wait 2 see u fall. Hope its even a public fall so we can all seeGod knows I'm not a proud person, (if I were, I wouldn't have attracted the interest of someone like that guy) my hands are clean so that your curse no go work. No waste ya time. Back to sender |
Shollypopz: hahahahahaha....abiL, did u see the part in bold? LoL, sweetlemon is funny as hell! ![]() |
flinspiero: Dats gud...Bt make sure u hear him by 2moro ok?I'm sure I ll hear from him this week and he ll wow me again like he did 2 days ago! Was so dazed with happiness afterwards that I opened this thread! You guys won't understand the joy and peace I feel and that's why I wanna pay him back for making my heart sing. |
Babe, these people are actually just relieving their frustrations of not being able to have what they so pray for everyday of their lives. What they don't understand is that you have to work for it before you can get it. If you want money, work for it. If you want a hot babe, polish yourself! Why can't they just understand that? |
duni04: Serzly I totally give up on u. For a moment there u tot abil was d most unintelligent person on nairaland. Wish u nd ur bed guy plenty of luck, u totally deserve each odaIf you like abuse me o! So far as you don take your mouth bless me and my bed guy. You are my personal person! ![]() |
chronique: What the heckDecided not appear in your video or whatever anymore cos I noticed you are two-faced. Sorry! |
The world is truly a very wicked place. People prefer it when you come to them in tears so that they can pretend to be angels. But ordinary for someone to say he/she is happy is a big problem to them. Oma se o! I am happy! Deliriously so! Don't you guys think that's the most important thing? If I wanna make the person who makes me happy as happy, is it not a sign of selflessness? But no, some "wise" ones must come and talk their talk. Kai! Be happy for other people and one day God will give you your own. Even better! Human beings ehn! |
chronique: Am I the only one noticing something here? OP's comments sound like what Onila would post. I'm suspectin Onila hacked into Sweety's account & posted with it;sexkillz n co need to investigate this.Are you saying this cos iv not been replying your PMs? Lol! I stopped cos I noticed you are a two-faced guy. Won't be saying anything to you anymore. So don't bother yaself |
flinspiero: SWEETLEMON how is ur darling dis evening?Aww thanks! *blushes and stares into space dreamily* He hasn't spoken to me or pinged me today. Been so busy recently. That's the only problem I have with him. He's a very busy man cos he has so much obligations. But he makes it up to me whenever he has the time by spoiling me silly and making me laugh my worries away. I'm ok with it sha. Absence makes the heart grow fonder you know. And besides, I prefer to be seeing him 4 times a month and experience heaven on earth than to see him almost everyday with nothing special to talk about after. |
freecocoa: Sweetmelon bebe, just saw you modified your post so to answer your question,In case you chose to forget, THIS IS MY THREAD I started it to get advice from mature minds who can read and understand simple Essays. Now for the last time, GET THE HELL OUTTA MY THREAD!!! Unless of course you wann stay here and show the world what an envious Bi.tch you are! Na by force to stay on pesin thread? Na by force to give advice If pesin say make you commot from im house you go still siddon there If someone doesn't want me on his or her thread any more, I'd walk away, for the sake of my pride. But no, you re gonna stay here and prove to us that you ve got no sense of self worth and keep embarassing yourself in a place you are unwanted. You can stay back and entertain us if you wish. I'm done with you. Bye! |
freecocoa:Didn't you see people bringing hotness in here ![]() ? Pls quote where I first brought hotness and tell me if it was not in response to what someone said!When sexkills brought it up why didn't you correct him then?? Nonsense!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now get the hell outta my thread this minute (you ve been in here all day! Are you so jobless? Don't you have lectures or work to do?) and don't you EVER in your remaining life on NL come any where close to me again do you understand me? Or should I speak your language? |
freecocoa: You sha dullAnd to think that I actually mentioned your name among people I like on NL!!!! Why are some people always so desperate to make hot girls look dumb? How does that make you feel better about yourselves? Geez! *takes mental note to avoid freecocoa thoughout my stay on NL* |
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You said you did not know he was loaded, u just learned about it recently so I supposed though u were already into him, u treated him as a real person, you were yourself around him and that is probably this aspect of yours that dragged him toward you, this is what he is looking for, a real woman who won't treat him differently from any guy because of his heavy pocket. If he is rich like you said,don't you think his previous dates tried to impress him by overdoing and giving him special treatments all in the sake to hold his money hostage after marriage? He probably experienced "these exaggerated sweet treatments" from many. He can tell it's not genuine and that every girl behaving like that is after his money. If he is really willing to settle now, he is looking for a real chick that will treat him as a real person, not someone who will give him special treatments because of his money. He had load of "sweet treatment" in the past and is probably tired of it. So my advice, if u really like him and planing to be with him, being real to him will make him the happiest man. Try to find ways to make him happier by overdoing, will make you appear to him like fake girls he met before, so he won't take u seriously, he ll use u, and dump u when he get tired being in your movie. Remember u said it's not easy to find guys that won't hurry to get "girls like you" in their bed? Try to apply the same theory to him: it's not easy for him to find chicks that will just behave genuinely with "guys like him". So be genuine, be real and forget about the special treatments, it won't get you anywhere.


