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Idowuogbo: Use ur common sense! Maid or no maids, clean up after urself and engage in any activities a normal cultured gal wud. Hian!!!

chess guru: reading all the advice being poured here, and all I can say is that "no wonder" some women change so much after marriage or their 1st child.
So all that perfect do good habit during courtship are premeditated. Its J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊S̤̥̈̊τ̲̣̣̥ a ruse for most women right. If this attributes truly reside in u, u won't b needing all this pointers.
Be yourself o jare. Any other thing is fakeness to the highest level.

2sexy: hmmmm... #sweetlemon

If that guy broketh ya heart, just dial 911#teamsweetlemon.

Shollypopz: I'm scared for you, you want "it" too much, and I'm not sure it's for the right reasons but who cares.

badooo :
Cheii!!! This your guy dull ooo... Are u still together?

Idowuogbo: Smh! It is well wiv ya soul..

free2ryhme: what if he ends up not marrying you....?


have u add dis to your list of thinking thots

uj_sizzle: Don't forget to compliment them...his mom's cooking esp, works like magic . Remember u want them on your side, having allies never hurts. Most importantly relax n enjoy ur stay.

Idowuogbo: How old b dis babe sef? Will u open a thread if he eventually buys a bed? b urself! Don't over do anything, don't force yourself on his folks, don't pretend, b free but at d same time reserved. Finally.... Take ur reasoning and processing brain wiv u.

cigar icon: Me don talk my owm make u bring garri for us when u come back



Five shekels

pleep: Ah that bed guy.... lol.

Well good luck ooo

pleep: What the hell is a 'bed guy'?


Someone you are sleeping with?

lola.luv:
First impression is the lasting one. Smile pleasantly as you enter the house and be graceful and courteous.

The time when the mum is in the kitchen (if she cooks) is the time you could go offer to help her. She will probably refuse your help and instead involve you in a little tete-a-tete to know you better!

Get a seperate bedroom from his own (even though some cultures advocate that intending couples spend the night together).

Ask him to tell you about his family before you embark on the trip. Also talking about his experiences as a child with his parents and siblings, will go a long way in telling you the type of people they are and the kind of person he is!

Don't just hang with him alone. Sit with the family when they're seeing a movie, when having dinner, etc.

Be yourself.

dopeJemi: ooooh! I hate commenting Late oh


Don't act Like its d first time u seeing dem

Don't wait 4 sum1 2 greet u b4 u greet d person

Be joviaL and LiveLy

ALways smiLe

Since u staying 4 d weekend, don't wake up Late

Try and heLp out wiv d chores

If he has sisters, pLay wiv dem n try 2 cook wiv dem

Don't taLk 2 much oh

Be confident, cuz dey r not going 2 eat u



Thank Me Later

Okontami: Lemon wey sweet..My Sister, please try hold body for his house o. By the time you go loose guard and he nack your toto akpako now, he could be a bit resentful.

Please I beg you my sister.

A-ZeD:
Be in charge of the tv remote
Wear short skirts and bum shorts
Eat like the "food prefect"

candygosh: Its normal to get butterflies but I'd just give little tips.

* help out with whatever u can

* don't oversleep. Its not ur home so learn to wake before D real owners

* be nice

* never overdo things. If you know
for real you won't be running around doing this n that. Just be moderate so they wud know ur limits and won't be surprised if u change.

* light make up will do d trick

* be polite in addressing other member of d family even to the youngest.

* lastly and most importantly : be yourself.


I hope this helps

Eze Promoe: [color=olive]Is the guy ready for marriage?[/color]

Dyt: @ topic
Yes I hav
Jst b ursef and don't go wit all dose show me ur boobi n waist clothes
Dress swt n responsible

Eze Promoe: [color=olive]Just be careful and be yourself. Something tells me the boy is a lil bit serious by inviting you to his family house. More comments are still coming that you wouldn't find impressive please just swallow it and don't make the thread turn to a warzone. Thanks, beauty! [/color]

lola.luv:
Aha!
So this is the Genesis that came before Revelation. Interesting!


This is the first time I'm hearing of a guy saying he wants to buy a bed before he bends a girl over o!

Even if he doesn't have one, what happened to...?

BoboYekini: sorry When I saw this I just had a vision of Sweetlemon wearing a cap and pushing those Nescafe/FanYogo-type bicycles. Lol.
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Brand_new: @bobo Yekini, I really don't think you have a full grasp of what you're saying.

@Op this is a kind of business I would love to do but for it's nature.
I know a guy who distributed light breakfast meals around Accra in a mini Van every morning. He offers a combination of snacks ,Oat meals and Koko. (The type that has Milk in it) . He got his packaging right and trust me his customers always look forward to his delivery.
I have another friend who set up a mini spot for smoothies he calls "Body fuel". He sells the Idea of a healthy fruit drink with pop corn and makes Quiet a lot of Sales.
Based on this tow guys experience, I think it's a very lucrative business which I believe a woman will excel in due to the feminine touch.
Left to me, I Wouldn't really dig serving local dishes in an office environment but would be perfect if you have a spot close to an office district. I'm pretty sure lots of people would stop by as long as the meals are good (white house in Yaba is a good example).
So I think the opportunities are boundless, all that is needed is a little bit of creativity.

kulyie: theres nobody with a monopoly of knowledge,we all learn from each other regardless of marital status and as long as the person is saying something reasonable.nigerians should stop being sterotyped,so because a lady is single it means she knows nothing when it comes to marital issues