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D-Explorer:
At this juncture, na you tire us! Elders don advise you sotey see how likes dey flow. You dey find sweet advise wey go make your head swell. Na lie, na bitter truth sure pass.

Didn't you see people giving be correct 'expo' @ the beginning? Thank God not everyone thinks like you guys! Elders ko, pastors ni!

duni04: Since the OP is so into stereotypes and cliches, lemme offer one. U know what else rich, handsome and sexy men love doing? They luv teasing and playing around with SEEMINGLY attractive but very unintelligent women, feeding and bamboozling them with senseless phrases like not having sex till he buys a bed(WTH does that mean?) and then claiming his trophy and boning the hell outa them ang going off to brag to their fellow rich, handsome and sexy friends. Chew on that

I overlooked your post earlier but decided to come back and educate you a little.
You wanna know why guys like you cannot get decent hot girlfriends or wives? Well it's because they like men who are charismatic, articulated, and know how to press the right buttons. You may not be rich but you need to be focused and a good dresser. Above all, respect her, respect her body. That way you ll get Kim K head over heels in love.
Just thought you may need the advice cos you seem so bitter that you do not have one! I can bet my next salary that if you had a hot wife/gf, you wouldn't have come here to spew that venom.
I will be ignoring you henceforth so no need to quote me.
Cheers!
P.S your venom isn't working cos I v been immunized by happiness!

abiL: Nigga please. Stop the lies, the world might end on Friday... Do you want to go to hell?!

ABIL!!!!!!!!!!!
You guys leave him jare. Someone obviously sent him

D-Explorer:
What kind of a thread is this? To think over 150 comments still don't understand this lemon sweet.

My dear the tin don tire me o!

Shollypopz: The fact that you think Ogugua is finer than sweetlemon is purely subjective and gosh, how immature and st*upid this comment makes u look *pukes!*

Sholly!!!! How sweet of you!
I wish you even more happiness in life! Thanks honey!

This world is very wicked sha!
People get so uncomfortable when they see you deliriously happy.
Na real wa!
Maybe you guys wouldav been happier if I had come here to say "I'm so heart broken, he slept with me and left me" or "he doesn't love me like I do and it's making me sad"
Sorry ehn!

Jaykizz: U r already makin him apy n dats y he's reciprocatin. Dnt over do; U dnt knw wat he has at d back of his mind.
To b honest, I tuk my patience to re-read thru dis thread again n sumtin was vry obvious in ur comments which is ur desire to mak lov n I wana bliv dat u tink dat wil b d beta way of makin him happier (I'm nt u so I myt b wrng though). Jst chill, coz so far as I'm concernd, u guyz r cool. I remembad wen u startd ur threadz bout u n dis guy. Communicatn n undastandin says it al btw u guyz dat u r cool togeda.

Lord! You gave me good advice. But you nearly made me cry in frustration by saying that you think I will want to make him happier with me by giving him my body. As in seriously! Didn't you read where Iv been stressing that the main reason why I'm so in love with him is because he's not in a hurry to have sex with me? Na wetin be all dis nau?
Lordhavemercy!!!!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Ogugua wey fine pass u never make this kain noise. . .smh. . .
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And what the hell was that s'pposed to mean?? Who was talking about beauty here?? Hello?? Excuse me?? Is somebody smoking something here?
Was that s'pposed to make me feel bad? I suspect someone sent you to do this to me. Tell that person that it did not work cos I'm too happy to care!!!
I laff in Efik!
Na wa for people here o! Is it only in romace section that it's this bad?
Na real wa!

Vinzz: Just be u and u shall triumph...

Thanks jare!
I'm ALWAYS myself no matter what

ekt_bear: Err. Things seem to be fine. You are looking for trouble where none exists. Just enjoy what you have, be yourself. This is what has made him happy up to this point, after all.

Thanks!
I just want to make him happier, as happy as he makes me! That's all!

2sexy: I get that... the bottom line is that you appreciate him for treating you that way and you want to show that you really appreciate him.

Halleluyah!
You are finally getting it!

oyb: What do hot women want?

Lol!
Most hot women will appreciate guy who can see and is more interested in what's beneath their hot bodies!
A hot lady is so used to men doing and saying anything just to have them for one night so she will definitely be touched when a man who is more interested in being her friend, knowing and loving her for who she is comes along.
I can't explain the feeling but it's like drinking cold water in a hot desert and then eating stawberry and vanilla ice cream afterwards. So refreshing!
You guys won't guys won't understand how I feel except you ve been there.

Adeniyi A.:
makin him api shud b spontanos whil he maks u api,u may nt nid to rehearc or ask us 4 sch cos u kno him beta,study him,tak notes of wat his liks n dsliks ar,b open 2 him,no secret affairs,deny him séx IF he asks 4 it(i doubt u cud do dt) wi'ut a reassurin comitmnt.kno d minin of
'buying a bed' b4 bn laid.
gdlk

Thanks so much sir!
Will keep my legs as tightly crossed as possible!

sadeiyare: Go develop yourself more, nothing a man desire more in his wife than virtues

Yes I know. can you pls give me clues on how to develop myself more. I already have some. I just want more. Thanks!

Adeniyi A.:
d more i read d post d more i find contradictory statmts,abi na luv?
he makes u happy n u wnt 2 make him happy too.if i may ask,can u make sombdy happy if d person does nt make u happy?u're already makin him happy,so dnt try addn mor salt to a delicious meal.
if u had askd 4 advc on ao to b a gud wife to him n always make him api aftwads,i wud av glady given it cos it worth it,not makin smbody who makes u api go crazy about u again,chuuu! u b oliver twist?
i kno u luv him truly,bt marry him first.
gdluck

Thank you. Now you seem to be understanding me better. I understand what you are tryn to say but you haven't understood me perfectly. But you are getting there sha

*sings in her calabar accent*
Some people yealous me,
Some people yealous me,
Some people yealous me because of my special friend.
I will not mind,
I shall not mind them,
I must not mind them because I'm too happy to care!

flinspiero: Wow!...U must be a very swit charming sexy lady,cnt just stop imaginin wat dis guy is rilly missing..Lol,Well i believe dis guy hav seen all in women,he has wat it takes to woo any gal.So u nid to be fast and cm up wit smtin

Ehn! We don dey communicate now!
That's why Iv put up this thread, hoping I ll get enough guys (and ladies) with enough experience with things like this to help me. Pls bear in mind that my main motive is just to make him as happy as he had made me so far. I want to make me feel as good as he makes me feel. And as you said, yes, he's the kind of guy that has seen it all, so I want to know those things that can make such guys wow! (That's what iv been tryn to explain to freecocoa and co. But e be like say jealousy don blind ther eyes)

Jealousy no good o! Kai!
Biko nu, make una commot for road make others enter. Me no know wetin dey pain una sef? Upon all my explanation Haba!

I really wish this thread can be moved to family section. Mods, isn't it possible?

flinspiero: @Op
D fact is dat u hav bin very unlucky wit guys,i dnt see any big deal abt dis guy.Dia are many handsome and loaded guys dat are stil caring bt u weren't fortunate to meet them until nw...So u hav every reason to feel happy

Thank you very much. But if you ve been reading well, you will notice that the main reason why I'm so crazy about him is cos it's VERY difficult for a girl like me to find a guy who's not in a hurry to bed me as fast as he can. VERY difficult!
Iv finally found one now and in addition to that, he makes me smile and laugh so much that I just wanna repay him for it. That's the essence of this thread!

freecocoa: You are welcome, you need to start treating people as the same human beings that we all are regardless of financial or societal status.

And you really need to improve your comprehension skills! I keep saying I'm always myself around him.
Whether you wanna accept this fact or not, most loaded guys have certain things that impress them which most regular guys will overlook. I'm not saying they should be worshipped, I'm just saying that they have certain tastes that are different.
Iv met diff kinds of guys so trust me I know.

Albino_Monkey: Okay thank you, but am an albino... I barely see the screen of my PC..

what do I do?

LMAO! Who is this comedian??
Abeg no derail my thread biko nu!

freecocoa: Chei smh.
Since you know supposed guys like him are super humans and should be treated differently from normal regular guys, why are you still asking for ways to please him from ordinary normal guys on here?

I believe a man is a man regardless of how much his account balance says, so a normal regular guy in your definition doesn't know "exactly" what he wants? You are only proving one thing to me which is that you are into this guy for. his money therefore you don't want to give him any reasons to see you as less than perfect, if you would treat a regular guy any different than you'd treat a supposed rich and handsome guy, then you are so not real.

I give up!
Think whatever you wanna think. (God knows and sees my heart and that's what's important) Thanks for your contribution anyway!

In summary, you know you are in a good relationship when you can call that person your best friend. When you have peace of mind deep in your heart and there's a certain glow around you that even other people can see.

freecocoa: Then just don't worry about it and enjoy your relationship, I know how you are feeling now but the truth is since he's happy with you there's no need to sweat it.

I just don't like that you think he should be treated differently cos he's loaded.

For the last time I will explain why.
Now READ CAREFULLY;
Loaded, handsome, guys are not like your regular Joes #fact
They easily get bored. Most of them (esp this one) know EXACTLY what they want and will not settle for less. There are certain things that trip guys like that, things that a not-so-loaded guy will not really pay attention to. That's what I want to find out!

freecocoa: Duh! What kind of mentality is this for feck's sake? He should be treated like God because he's rich?

Just why should he be handled with more care than a regular everyday guy? Na wa o.

Oooooooooo!
What the hell is wrong with people and their comprehension skills
Maybe I should move this thread to family section?

freecocoa: Simply be yourself, if he's with you then I guess he's already happy or is he complaining?

You could put lots of sugar in his tea sha, I hear it makes one happy.

Ehn! Better pesin! It's how to put plenty sugar in his tea that I'm looking for o! I'm always myself and he says that one of the things he appreciates in me. I just want to repay him for all the smiles and laughter he puts on my face

OCTAVO: This topic has been incredibly flogged. I was just busy liking comments especially from Mrbrownjay, olumaxi & Adeniyi A et. al
Op, if this guy should sex you untimely, he‘ll become bored of you and eventually dump you like trash.
Why the eagerness to pls this guy sef?
He should rather be the one running head over heels to please you.
Be careful, else your desperation will make you lose this guy!

Didn't you read where I said that he makes me high (as in VERY happy) So where is the desperation coming from You sound as if I'm the only one after him. This guy came after me himself and conquered my heart himself because of the way he treats me. Aand how many times will I stress that although he turns me on, I DON'T ask him for sex?? -It's just a topic that comes up when we are BOTH turned on! Dammit!!!
All I'm asking is to know how I can repay him for the way he makes me feel.

OCTAVO: This topic has been incredibly flogged. I was just busy liking comments especially from Mrbrownjay, olumaxi & Adeniyi A et. al
Op, if this guy should sex you untimely, he‘ll become bored of you and eventually dump you like trash.
Why the eagerness to pls this guy sef?
He should rather be the one running head over heels to please you.
Be careful, else your desperation will make you lose this guy!

Didn't you read where I said that he makes me high (as in VERY happy) So where is the desperation coming from You sound as if I'm the only one after him. This guy came after me himself and conquered my heart himself because of the way he treats me. All I'm asking is to know how I can make him as happy as he makes me.

flinspiero: @Op
My advice is dat u should try and figure out wat dis man wants 4rm u,dia are so many hidden tins dat most gals doesnt knw abt men.At it stands nw wat u want 4rm a man is nt friendship,dis man maybe gud to u bt stil doesnt want to get married to u dats d fact.So i wil like u to handle dis in a more matured way

Thanks!
Of course I'm aware of the fact that I may not eventually marry him @ the end. But I will always be grateful that my body was respected! That's why I'm so crazy about him.
And no, I'm not gonna disturb him with "where is this friendship leading to" questions! Hell no! All I'm gonna do is sit back and enjoy! (And also make him as happy as he makes me)

Meegadough: Op, so you are a calabar girl, then no need to worry. Cos i hear calabar girls are like the jamaican girls, the way they put it in between the sheet.

U dey hear word? We don't have sex. Till he "buys a bed" so pls give me better expo

duni04: Rich,hanndsome sexy guy? And then you're asking how to please 'such' guys? The fact that you're reducing him to cliches and describing hiim like that says a lot bout what your interests are. Pity the guy, or pity u or mayb you two deserve each other

Me I no know d tin wey dey worry you but I mentioned those so you guys can know the kind of guy he is and be able to give good advice. From what I know, guys like that are diff from the everyday guys and I just wanna know what will make him tick?
When I met him and fell for him, I had NO idea he had money. I always knew he had a decent job but I had no idea who he really was until about 7 weeks later.