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Young03:
Dats how gals of nowadays act.. .

I av xperncd dsam tin

You say it like she had no partner in crime

Mynd44:
You do realize it is BS right?

No offence

None taken, it is to you.

The funny thing here is that, she'll go back to him, no matter our advice, I'm saying this as a lady and from what she has posted so far. I smiled when I read her post about the feelings they have for each other and believe me, it is the fact that he didn't tell her after marriage that will make it hurt less and in time, she'll get over it. Forget all this story about advice on what we think she should do, our opposing opinions won't help and at the end of the day, it's their feelings for each other that will count.

Na wa o, how e dey do them?

Maybe that's really how it is since as far as you are concerned, there is a yellow complexion

iwatch:
you are talking about impress? In my own thoughts, it's adviceable to get to know him.

You have to impress somehow, intellectual prowess, attitude, etc. It's necessary, why do you think you don't want to get to know everyone you come across better?

Mynd44:
Is that supposed to make her feel better?

It's supposed to make it hurt less.

iwatch:
even when you barely know the content of his character?

It's not our fault that the guy didn't impress us enough to want to know the content of his character at the initial stage.

Mynd44:
Huh?

If she dumps him, it is her prerogative. I won't praise her or condemn her, what gave the man the right to lie to her for 3 years?


It is too much biko

3 years means he shouldn't have kept this from her that long but it also means they've been through quite some challenges that can make her pardon it.


At least the bright side is that he didn't break it to her after the marriage.

I think it's unfair if you dump him because of that. If he isn't from one of those tribes where the first son(if the child is a boy) is the all and all, it's not enough to cause a break up.

There is nothing there for you now that she is obligated to be with you and not because she really wants to be with you.
A side chick? You just talked about how heart broken you were and you are already creating a recipe to do same to another, hmmmm...

Reminds me of one funny YouTube short toon where the guy ended up being his own grandfather.

Name of life

For most cases, the lady don't like the guy at that time and by the time she falls for him, he has moved on, then it's better both moves on to avoid complications. We are not supposed to accept every Tom, Dic'k and Harry because of the fear of wanting him when he has moved on.

Shi*t happens... We ladies go through crap from guys also so deal with it

A mind reading game?

Equado:
mind him not...guess its his way of wooing 3 girls @ once

Lmao, I doubt he'll even get one

For most ladies, we'll wait if it's someone we actually want to be with especially since he has a defined goal and it's just four years, if we are just searching for someone appropriate, then there is no need why we'll want to wait.
So he should make sure sure she is really worth it if he is going to alter somethings for her sake.

emusmith:
Speaking from the experience of someone?

That naijasinglegirl post about what leads people to her site. The keywords reflected the gender of such searches also.

You guys only Google with details when its por*n

Enegod:
forgive him...he is still a newbie

He is forgiven

daviyjones:
Soldier gone are gone! The current soldiers keeps us alive.

My point exactly! Those ones left, you don't know them and nairaland is even thriving better.

Lol, do you know how many so called romance section legends have left? Most new comers don't even know them seff.



Soldier go, soldier come, barracks dey there o

Edusouls:
are you sure u re 19? Or are you 29...

Do I look 29?

peegirl:
I
E don you no go gree. Play victim and loose out as always. You Igbos are always d pawns in their games. Wake up!!!!!!!!!

Who said I'm Igbo?

Hmm... Two course meal

lalaboi:
Well, I always answer when a fine babe calls na. .

@Op, make e no be like say i derail.

Whats a Romance Lander?

Awwwwww

SleekyP:
Idowuogbo,iyangbali,mzmycoli,cococandy and farano

Replace cococandy with tpia abeg

femmysin:
Hmmmm she's 19... Real abi futbal age...lols

No, na modelling age

Enegod:
It Pays to be Patient. That's what I'm teaching you

Hmmmmm.. Okay o

Enegod:
the owner go pity the patient dog then later give am the best bone

Kai! So I've been reduced to pity

Enegod:
The patient dog still eats the fattest bone

Fattest? na hunger go just kill am