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Music/Radio / Re: Davido Wins Big At AFRIMA 2018: Full List Of Winners by Swissheart(f): 5:43pm On Nov 25, 2018
SadMemories:
Save a life today. Please someone with a good heart should help me with one thousand naira and may God bless you in multiple folds. HAVE MERCY ON ME
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Family / Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway (2018 Edition) by Swissheart(f): 12:55pm On Nov 04, 2018
Best1708:
My Santa kindly help me with a sewing machine i don't mind if it's has been used.

I've chosen someone to send few baby stuffs to,she will collect the pack on Monday God's willing.
Where do you reside Ma
Family / Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway (2018 Edition) by Swissheart(f): 12:42pm On Nov 04, 2018
anayolity:
Well I need sewing machine or a Laptop .... Want to go for an I.T course next year while I register for a fashion house to brush up my sewing skills.... Maybe I may get someone who is kind enough... I've seen it happen here too many times..

I know I'll have something someone may need too as people keep posting I'll just be observing .


I'm based in Lagos!!

Where are you in Lagos and whats your sex


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Family / Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway (2018 Edition) by Swissheart(f): 12:38pm On Nov 04, 2018
SlimHan:
I need a sewing machine o. Even if it's used. I don't mind grin


I will upload what I intend giving out too later.
Where are you in Lagos
Career / Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Swissheart(f): 11:47am On Sep 26, 2018
Babez......i have been through this and I am just going to tell you exactly what I did.

My boss and I were quite close, we talk, hang out, exchange gifts blah blah then she changed over-night. She would pick offense at the slightest irrelevant instance and would even talk badly about me to people.

Same as yours abi? I simply stepped up my games, my work was top notch, when she gives me a task to do and I wasn't cleared, I sent her a mail for clarification, when it is completed I send another mail.

It was purely Work, no unnecessary familiarity or sympathy. I do my work and get out. Then I prayed for her because I love her.

Few weeks after, she came back all forming nice nice. I relaxed a little only because I wanted to know why she did that. Her relationship was the prob. She was pregnant, boyfriend issues and she didn't want me to know. Fiam.

We are good now but I have a lane that can not be crossed. Our familiarity ends at work. Period. Even when we joke, I do it with courtesy.

Don't stop respecting her, be grounded and guided in your job. Even in the middle of the silence, my boss knew she would quench if I left. When you guys were good, hope you never played into her hands sha? No shady stuffs, no gossip about others ? I avoided all that.

Best of luck dear

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Family / Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Swissheart(f): 9:05am On Aug 06, 2018
Azsalami:


Yes, I can make them very well
okay.
Family / Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Swissheart(f): 11:53pm On Aug 05, 2018
Azsalami:
Please nairalander, I need a salary or wages work, I am so frustrated right now, I am so hungry.
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I am a chef,
I can make smallchops ( Spring rolls, Samosa, puffpuff, Mosa, fish in batter, meatballs, yam balls, peppered snail, peppered meat, peppered gizzard, Asun scotch egg and many more)
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I can also make a lot of grilling BBQ( Asun, chicken BBQ, fish BBQ, chicken kebab, beef kebab, suya etc)
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I can also make cocktails and smoothie's.
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MY LOCATION: ABUJA
CONTACT: 08134875404 and 08128907522. you can also chat me up on what's app with 08134875404.
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please you can check my instagram business page @chef_salp to see some of my works and my skills.
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I don't mind working as someone house cook, Restaurant chef , Office chef . any position.
I can also teach you how to make smallchops, Grills and cocktail online and physical at a token amount,
I can handle an event and you can place your smallchops order too, it will be delivered to you anywhere in Abuja, thank
.
I am a computer literate, I am so good in coreldraw and I can design and also make banner, flyer and logo. in case you have a office to fix me in.
please help my ministry, thanks, God bless you
hello, I see you are a pastry chef, can you make pizza and sharwama

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Need A Place On The Island Where I Can Pay Monthly Or Weekly.help!!! by Swissheart(f): 7:43am On Jul 01, 2018
Google www.fibre.com . That's what they do

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Travel / Re: 'I Saw The Corpse Of Missing 3-Year-Old Boy At The Lagos Tanker Explosion Scene' by Swissheart(f): 1:32pm On Jun 29, 2018
embarassed

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Career / Re: Need Advice On Salary At My New Job by Swissheart(f): 10:01pm On Jun 22, 2018
Bros.....for a 5star hotel and with the roles attached to the position, 300k-350k is the deal. Most hotels pay in the range of 220k-250k for that position

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani Gifts Nina With A Brand New Car For Her 22nd Birthday by Swissheart(f): 12:16pm On Jun 01, 2018
Earthbound:

Wow! Thanks a million!! I just received 2k from you. God bless you dear.
Amen. God bless you too.

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani Gifts Nina With A Brand New Car For Her 22nd Birthday by Swissheart(f): 11:56am On Jun 01, 2018
Earthbound:

Yes, I am. Are you Temitope?
Yes, I am.
Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani Gifts Nina With A Brand New Car For Her 22nd Birthday by Swissheart(f): 11:08am On Jun 01, 2018
Earthbound:

Sure.
Are you Dolapo?
Romance / Re: I Broke "Boys Code" With My Friend And I'm Happy by Swissheart(f): 7:45am On May 28, 2018
CarlosTheJackal:
My fear for the lady sanity was when she was inflected by STD from the guy and she still stayed put. I told her she should tell the guy to use condom but she said the guy refuses.


I was also very angry with the girl when she terminated the pregnancy. She should have used it to know the guy real intentions because i didn't want to tell her what the guy planned to do because i wanted her to read between the lines and figure it out on her own
I just liked all your post and comments! So you'll know I like what you have done. The Okey guy does not deserve you.
Literature / Re: The 100 Stories That Shaped The World by Swissheart(f): 9:22pm On May 22, 2018
cool
Celebrities / Re: May Allah Punish Your Late Mother In The Grave – Actress Liz Anjorin Blasts Fan by Swissheart(f): 9:15pm On May 22, 2018
What's happening here?
Romance / Re: Single Mum At 39 - Finding A Man by Swissheart(f): 11:57pm On May 21, 2018
Gcpc:


Yes, if my experience can help any young lady out there, here is my take on it. This will be a long a$$ post (sorry). Forgive my syntax, English is not my first langage. So only for those interested:

IMO I made 3 major mistakes:

1- I waited too long to enter the dating scene. I thought I had to compartmentalize : finish school, get a job, than find a man. I kept pushing away suitors, probably good ones in my 20s because I didn't want any distraction from getting that big flashy degree I wanted. The truth is finding a good match is like anything else. it takes practice. you need to date, to get out there, fall in love, get your heart broken, learn how to act in a relationship, kiss a few frogs in order to find that special person. I'm not talking about sleeping around but dating.
I did not, so when I started a relationship I was clueless and awkward at an age I was not supposed to be. Plus, those college years are your best shot at finding Mr. right. You have a very good social network and the dating pool is endless. Most of my GF met their husbands in college

2- I thought being a successful career women with money, being smart, modest and reserved would land me tones of good suitors.Turns out I was wrong. Most of my GF who made "good" marriages are unemployed, dropped out of college or have low profile jobs. They are very good looking and are very feminine in their demeanor. Most of them are happily married with lot of kids. Me on the other hand, once I left college, I realized most men my age were in relationships. I was working so I didn't have much time to socialize and meet new people. The guys I met were afraid of me because of my job and the kind of money I was making. I guess they thought I had to be bossy or not submissive enough or too much to deal with...

3- I lingered in bad relationships even when I knew deep down it wasn't working.I would tell myself that "everyone has flows" and accept behaviors that I should not have accepted. I thought I would eventually change the guy (how silly right ?). Finally I allowed men to string me along.
I've been in 3 relationships.


The first one was a guy I was so much in love with. He was out of college and unemployed when we started dating. I knew from the get go that he had at least one other woman in is life. I let people convinced me that I could not find any really single guy and that the rule of the game was to get with a guy, be the best girlfriend and get chosen. So for 3 years I waited for him to choose me. I helped him financially until he got a government job and he made me believe he was about to propose. Then one day I got confronted in his house while he was out; the girl tracked us to make sure I was there alone, came and told me she was pregnant for him. I was devastated. I left and he tried to win me back, to apologized etc. He told me she was not pregnant . I was about to cave when HE ghosted me, out of the blue... I later found out that this girl and I were both side chicks. He married his long time girlfriend and had a baby with her. Mind you I was a 100% blindsided. He introduced me to his entire family. His sisters would call me "wifey"; I thought I was the "main girl" and I was OK with that. No woman should never be OK with being 1 among many.

I was still recovering from this mess when a friend set me up for a blind date. I told him I wanted to meet a christian guy with strong religious values. We hit it off at the first date. He was a bit older and mature. he seemed too good to be true. I had this little voice inside me telling me to get out. I didn't listen to my own instinct. He was so pushy and moving so fast that within 6 months we were engaged, getting married in the next month and moving in together. I moved in after our parents met and his family gave mine the traditional dowry. One day my computer just crashed; I had to borrow his. That's when I found out he had multiple accounts set in gay dating sites. I confronted him, he denied but I called of the engagement off and moved out

All this time I was friend with my baby's father. We met at an alumni reunion. We attended the same business school but not the same years.
At the time he hit on me, I told him I had someone so we became "friends". after my breakup. I was a mess and he was there for me. I was not interested in him, not attracted at all but he kept pursuing me for so long that eventually, I convinced myself that he had to be genuinely into me to be that persistent. My GF told me that sometimes you fall in love while dating so I decided to give it a shot. It was terrible. We kept fighting and arguing for everything; I knew I had to break up but I was scared to be alone and I was 33 by the time I realized it was never going to work. I wanted children so I thought it was too late for me to start over with someone new. I thought I would have to settle for this half baked relationship so I decided to cave to all his demands and be the woman he wanted so we could take it to the next level. he kept promising to do just that. He was stringing me along. eventually he told me we should start trying for a baby and that we would get married afterward. Now I know he said that just as another way of stringing me because I found out that I had fertility issues. So he probably thought I would never get pregnant anyway. So when I did he was mad, pressured me to get an abortion and finally left me when I refused.
He went Mia during my pregnancy and until the baby was 6 month. I had to take him to court before he came to see the baby and put his name on her birth certificate. It took 6 more months for him to start paying child support.
He sees her once a month and every time he comes, he tries to sleep with me. I finally told him that if he wanted us back together he had to make it right this time. He had to go to my parents and make it official.
He said he's not ready for that and told me 2 days ago he would not be arround much in the coming weeks...


So now here I am, in the sunken place, trying to get out of my pity party. lipsrsealed
it is well with you.
Health / Re: Man Taking His Bath On Lekki Epe Expressway (Photos) by Swissheart(f): 10:17pm On May 02, 2018
This is serious
Celebrities / Re: "Where Is This Stupid Girl's Mother" - Nigerian Woman Blast Davido And His Gf by Swissheart(f): 9:28am On May 02, 2018
Pierced:
people should leave this chioma girl alone na......al of a sudden she is now a celeb.....just because davido bought her a porsche.....Nigerians and busy body.....they won't allow d girl enjoy her boyfriend in peace.

Now people r bringing different theories.....criticizing her for what's none of their bussiness.

U guys don't know what she and davido mist av gone through before getting to this point....he starts pampering her and people are saying crap.

The fact that he dated....flaunted.....impregnated other women when he was dating her does not mean he never lovef her.

Most guys cheat on the girl they claim to love......so f**cking what....especially when d guy is popular....rich...famous.....young....cute(even d ugly ones still cheat on the girl they love).....it's d way guys r.

As a girl....if u r dating a rich young guy and u guys av lasted for more than 3 yrs....and u think he hasn't f**ked or even thing of another girl sexually....u r on a lonh thing.....accept it....guys don't stay faithful to a girl for a long time.

And am a very beautiful girl.....I just love facing reality.....if u r thinking of quoting to argue with me....and my self esteem is higher than urs....so don't talk shit.


Are you for real
You are being unfair to yourself to say that a guy could love you and still cheat on you even to your face. Where did you get that from? I see that you belong to the class of girls who think too lowly of themselves then console themselves by saying guys are polygamous in nature.

No good guy would hurt a girl he loves to her face. The girls who stay with those kinda guys either for money, fame, power blah blah do so while hurting inside them. I do not wish for that life for you and i.

You want a 45 Million Naira Porsche? Do you think it is worth your peace of mind? Babe you can still get a good guy who adores and respects you do that and many more for you otherwise work till you can do it yourself.

We can't dispute that you are beautiful cos we were all made in His image. Just stop being inferior

You deserve to be pampered Yes, but not without being respected!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: f by Swissheart(f): 2:16pm On Apr 28, 2018
It annoys me when people say that cleaner earns more than I do or the errand guy's pay is same as mine. It solely depends on your negotiation skill and the impact you are having on the organisation.

Lemme ask you Sincerely, do you think your boss would feel bad should you tell him you are leaving ? You are his P.A and what else? Plan his meetings? Write his papers? Make his bookings? What values have you added to him? How have you made his life easier? That's the value he was talking about Bro. It is well.

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Celebrities / Re: Patience Ozokwor, Ini Edo, Kate Henshaw, Funke Akindele, Dakore, Racheal Oniga by Swissheart(f): 6:18pm On Apr 25, 2018
The 7th lady is Shaffy Bello....

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Food / Re: Yoruba Name For Spinach? by Swissheart(f): 8:56pm On Apr 24, 2018
sallyopy:
Yoruba name for spinach is amunututu and it can be eating raw. I sell them
You sell spinach? Where are you based? I want to buy some
Celebrities / Re: Comedian Akpororo Steps Out With His Twin Babies (photo) by Swissheart(f): 5:33am On Apr 21, 2018
Where are the babies? Smh for him o. See him carrying the kids like a grocery pack about to be delivered to the owners.

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Forum Games / Re: Sexual Riddles To Test How You Think. by Swissheart(f): 10:27pm On Apr 13, 2018
Zirax:
I must say, it's quite disappointing that no one has come close to the answer to my first riddle. But all the same it's nice to see how most Nigerians think.
Wole is a twin
Travel / Re: Diary Of An Uber Driver (interactive) by Swissheart(f): 9:36pm On Mar 16, 2018
cool
Romeo is an excellent writer.
Family / Re: Pls Help A Nairalander's Baby Win Cussion's Baby Contest by Swissheart(f): 10:30am On Mar 05, 2018
Cute baby I have voted for you

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Autos / Re: Locally Used Honda CRV 2000 by Swissheart(f): 9:03pm On Feb 26, 2018
I'll call if my offer is fine by you
Autos / Re: Locally Used Honda CRV 2000 by Swissheart(f): 1:51pm On Feb 26, 2018
450k Bros?
Travel / Re: Dana Air Skids Off The Runway In Port Harcourt, Lands Inside Bush (Photos) by Swissheart(f): 9:29pm On Feb 20, 2018
Dana again?

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Religion / Re: Anja Ringgren Loven Shares Hope's Before And After Pictures (see Photos) by Swissheart(f): 9:40pm On Jan 31, 2018
This is amazing......awwwwnh

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Celebrities / Re: Gifty's Outfit To #BBNaija 2018 Opening Show (Photo) by Swissheart(f): 9:34pm On Jan 28, 2018
Like she didn't see a mirror before leaving where ever she came from.

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