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[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143835#msg3143835 date=1227740919]It's a matter of choice. . . . . . .Some men don't even want their partners to be attractive because they are scared of competition with other men.
Love can very well exist without physical attraction but trust me, physical attraction helps a lot.[/quote]mmmhh i hear you , to me that screams lack of confidence if this is their reason. But I agree love must exist without it because when we're old and grey and sagging in every place imaginable that's all that will be left.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143797#msg3143797 date=1227740540]Babes, i ma tell you how it is. . . . .
Physical comes first before LOVE.

It's the physical qualities that attract the man to you.
The face, curves, booty. . . . .[/quote]I agree, still what about the woman that has none of these is there no hope for her? of course there is because love can exist without physical attraction, though it is rare, if she has intelligence and wit or other desirable qualities.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143741#msg3143741 date=1227740016]If u agree with LOVE at no SIGHT. . . . . .U gotta have to admit with Love at first sight.[/quote]Lol, nooo, why? love without seeing someone is possible, you can fall in love with someone's personality. But to say you love their appearance without knowing them is lust it's simply physical to me.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143697#msg3143697 date=1227739437]LOVE comes with physical attraction.
Everytime u see a guy walk up to u to chat you up, he musta seen something on you.
It is just normal. . . . . .It's the same way women screw their faces when they see a short man and lick their lips when they see TDHs.[/quote]To me that's lust, it may be mild but it's still to do with physical attraction. lust comes first then the love may come after.   Admit it Sauron you can't fall inlove with someone based on appearances. But i agree with love at no sight.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143667#msg3143667 date=1227739110]Many women LOVE Usher in Nigeria. . . . . .He doesn't even know these babes exist.
That is a classic example of LOVE at no SIGHT.[/quote]Come on now, he's a celebrity of course their gonna "love" him or rather his fame. If he was a regular street cleaner they wouldn't look twice. Ok then, why don't people fall in love with people they consider to be"ugly" if love at first sight exists?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143635#msg3143635 date=1227738561]They did not. . . . .They fell in LOVE with no SIGHT.

Watch this classic LINK and tell me there's no LOVE at no SIGHT.
Get kleenex because you might shed some tears.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=qtmdGMPgU7I&feature=related[/quote]Hahahahaha That was not pretty. well i see ur point, love at no sight sure can exist, but i'm thinking of love at first sight before any words are exchanged that's still impossible to me.

chika98:
How about sex at first sight? Love ke?

my point exactly

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143610#msg3143610 date=1227738185]This is the 1st time we have actually agreed on anything.
Ya French kiss is working magic.

Yes. . . . . . .I can give u an account of 2 streakers that fell in LOVE and got married on the internet.

There was this male streaker(in Australia) who disrupts game with his nudistic mentality(he has a pet-puppy).
On the other side of the world in America, there was anutha female streaker who does the same thing in football games in America who also had a puppy.
Someone linked em up on YOUTUBE because the similarities were TOO MUCH.

They started talking to each other but no one was willing to relocate as they were too broke to afford it.
After a while, they set up a trust fund on the internet and people contributed from all over the world.
11 months later, they decided to meet in one of the football games NAKED----Male streaker and Female streaker(It was so hilarious).

In short, let me look for the link on youtube.[/quote]did they not get to know eachother first? there has to be some communication you don't fall in love with someone just by looking at them

well legally there is a limit anyway but as long as your mature enough to make that decision. Just because someone is young doesn't mean they're incapable of making a marriage work even middle aged people can't make them work, so it doesn't seem that age makes you more suitable for marriage.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=2462.msg3143542#msg3143542 date=1227737307]There is LOVE at first sight. . . .
Matter of fact, there's love at NO sight.[/quote]No there isn't you can't trully love somone without knowing them, or would you like to give an example to support your point while we sip on a glass of alize

@ topic.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. It's a lie

I agree with previous posts this question is quite juvenile, still some people do actually have a preference between their spouse and their parent/s.

how can the husband not know she's pregnant but he believed some lie she made up about an illness that made her belly swell up.

It's very likely she did it on purpose, i can't imagine a woman not being aware that she's giving birth when she knows she's pregnant. What a world

@ post

I'll prefer people who have it in moderation, they can express their views (but don't have to make a scene) and know when to hold their peace.

opuro:
lies work faster for babes
LEPA/OROBO
Start by telling her she have fine shape
ask her if she a model
tell her she is the most beautiful woman even if she woowo pass anything
ol boy
the defence is broken

and then some guys have the audacity to wonder why some women don't trust men when this is their "strategy" of approach.

@post

the main danger of teenage love is lack of experience and wisdom. It can lead one to be gullible and even vulnerable. At the same time many "grown folks" fall into the exact same traps so who's to say teenage love can't exist.

@ post

I always liked the idea of having a male child as the oldest, but as long as i have a mixture of boys and girls I don't mind which comes first.

@ topic

That's why there is no such thing as love at first sight, that's just lust or some other superficial thing like money. If you happen to fall in love with an unattractive person it's due to their character.

igwe 1:
Yeah he sincerely admitted, that reminds me of shaggy's song. It wasn't me.
this proves it right that you girls like it when we tell lies.

Who told you that

Girls/women like it when you do the right thing. Guys lie to make them believe they are doing those things.

that's really sad, it was all too much for her in the end, I guess

I don't get it, a woman shouldn't be "crying out" for it, no one ones her rights, she's entitled to do whatever she's comfortable doing, no matter the job. That includes many other aspects of her life.

[quote author=en-fuse link=topic=190532.msg3026394#msg3026394 date=1225574203]Probably to access your value in the open market when ur boo's messing with u. Sometimes for revenge but the only thing I don't understand is when u cheat on your boo when she's absolutely innocent. [/quote]You and me both. For revenge, I can understand it but can't condone it.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=188884.msg3008901#msg3008901 date=1225230645]We are the king, the boss and the lord of our castle.
Now listen, this might be the 21st century, but you had better get with the program. My great grandmums did it, my grand mum did it, my mum did it. So I see no reason why you can't.

Women of this generation are just plain lazy, and then they try to hide behind the gender equality curtain to make it look lije our fault.

It is a Man's world, If you get a "domesticated" man you are lucky, but don't expect us all to roll over and play bitch.[/quote]How does a woman working 9 to 5 and carrying the brunt of the housework when she gets home make her lazy?
The same way guys use the "it's a man's world" notion to justify their laziness right?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=187628.msg2997905#msg2997905 date=1225057395]You are not serious. . . . . . .Africans test God one too many!!!
How do u explain Arsenal fans in Nigeria "fasting n praying" for the team to win games??
To start with. . . . .The players they are fasting for are in the clubs fornicating, drinking and just living their life and some fanatics in Nigeria are on hunger strike for them. . . . .How would God answer such prayers?? [/quote]Are u serious?? Only in africa   God will not answer such prayers period.
But it's one thing to pray for a football team and another to pray for a good spouse. God actually wants us to have happy marriages.

DavidDylan:
Even men want a God fearing woman so there's nothing new. Everyone wants marital security . . . you probably don't want to marry a woman you don't see eye to eye with on spiritual matters. That one is already a recipe for failure.

atleast one guy has admitted it, i don't see what the big deal is, if it's what a woman wants.  

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=187628.msg2997682#msg2997682 date=1225054744]In other words. . . . .Feminists are NOT God fearing??[/quote]A feminist that tries to compete with men does not appreciate that God created and designed men and women differently.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=187628.msg2997427#msg2997427 date=1225050383] [/quote]Lmao, what did you do to her? I think she got offended.

Pataki:
_{Leona Lewis never saw herself as a STAR QUALITY, when she was doing secretarial jobs in the UK. Look at her today. Let me just hear you out prolly something is about to happen! What do you think?}

A God-fearing man is someone who is Obedient to God and nothing else? IMO, I think a God-fearing man has been stereotyped.

hahaha leona lewis, what a comparison Pataki. If I had half her talent, believe me I'd be signed already. No I wasn't serious about it, i'm not looking for a deal or anyhting but thanx anyway.

A God fearing man is first and foremost obedient but not limited to just that. What's the stereotype?

JJYOU:
God fearing or God users?

Can you explain your point here?

Pataki:
It was wonderful to have the rain! I loved every bit of it. _{Our musical contract.} So would you be looking for a God-fearing man?

Musical contract? I thought that was a joke, lol. I think you should set your sights on someone a lot better than me, I'm hardly star quality.

And yes i would look for a God-fearing man, that is someone who is obedient to God. I mean it wouldn't make sense to do otherwise if I am the same.

what's with all these cynical posts!!?

Pataki:
Pardon me for my manners. Now I get your point. However definitions of who is a God-fearing man is relative. So often times when ladies seek for a God-fearing man, they are often times too dazzled by what they see of the man in respect to the standards they want in him to really sit down and look deeper into what the man is all about.

Many at times, I have heard ladies say he has to be gentle and nice. I tell you, even the devil can be gentle and nice!

How are you also doing? How is your Sunday going? _{Forgotten about our contract?}

My sunday has been great thanx _{apart from the rain}   But what cantract r we talking about here?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=187628.msg2997058#msg2997058 date=1225044800]Classic

Ummmh. . . . . . . .Easy peasy lemon squeezy!!!
I think i qualify. [/quote]Easy indeed, obeying all God's laws is never easy, in this day and age people compromise way too much, which is why you have to observe their actions not their words. But still if you say so, it's not for me to judge.